“Some people ‘don’t know’ what they want. If you don’t you can get better clarity by first determining what you don’t want. If you know what you absolutely don’t want, or want to eliminate, and/or will not tolerate, that can help you clarify what you do want in your life.
To assist yourself make a list of what you do not want. Write it down. Then write the opposite. For example, I don’t want to be fat. I want to weight X and be more muscular. OR I want more energy. OR I want to fit into my college clothes. OR I want to feel wonderful.
Or I accept myself no matter what I weigh. OR I want to get in better shape, walk an hour a day and stick to eating well. Get it? List what you do want and can do. By listing what you don’t want you can discover what you do want instead. It gives you needed contrast.
You Are Today Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You
Then list what you do want, want to include or enjoy more of. This process will help you clarify. You might eventually ask which is the most important to be, do, or have? Or what area of change you will work on first? Prioritize so you can work on them in order.
You can number them or list them in most important order. Take your time. There is no rush to complete it. Think about it. Be honest with yourself. Taking action this way to clarify your dreams and goals can help you move toward them step by step. Helps you get results.
Knowing what you want is important. If you don’t know what your destination is, what city you want to end up in, how would you ever get there? Creating clarity for yourself greases the wheel and makes it easier. You know what to leave behind and what to move toward.
You Will Be Tomorrow Where Your Thoughts Take You
Of course, you could ask ‘how delighted might I feel by discovering those areas in my life that are truly important for me to work on and how thrilled will I be to find myself having more and more clarity with each passing day? Or something to that effect. You can ask morning night and whenever you think to. Meanwhile, take some time to specify what you desire most, be grateful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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My wife, Dee Dee has a special perspective being right next to me and watching one dream after another of mine come true. One day it all solidified in her mind and she realized something intriguing: I got, everything I wanted when I wanted it.
After being married to me for thirty years my sweetheart walked up to me and asked me the question she had been thinking about. “How come you get everything you want when you want it?”
So being wise, ‘sometimes’, I did not answer her question. I did not tell her I used the secrets in the book
Think and Grow Rich.
This is how I helped her get clear:
Instead, I asked her another question in return. “I asked her what do you want sweetheart?”
She said, “I don’t know.” She asked, “How can I know what I want?” I said, “Imagine I have a real magic wand crackling with real magical energy and I can just wave it and make any dream or goal you want to come true.” She said, “OK”. I said, “Write down several things you really want on a piece of paper.”
She returned a few minutes later with a list of several things. I read it and said, “Now put numbers beside each item according to their importance to you.” She left and came back with them listed in the order of importance to her. I read the most important one and said; now list every exact detail you want for this most important item.
A few minutes later she came back with a detailed list of everything she wanted for this one thing. I read it and said ok.
Her description of what she wanted was this.
I want a job a few blocks from our home; we lived in a residential area, so fairly unlikely. Next, she wrote that she wanted more money than she had ever made before, challenging. Next, she wrote that she wanted a job in bookkeeping which she had one class in High School and no work experience; that is impossible. She wanted to have her own private office which she had never had that, maybe, but not the norm. She wanted to be in an office with no other women. Usually, everywhere she worked was full of women and just a few men.
I did not contact anyone in any way about these things she wanted. At the end of the week, she got a call from an old employer, Jeff. Jeff said his new boss, Bob, needed key man insurance. My wife was an insurance agent so Jeff wanted her to write up the application for the policy of his boss. We went to Bob’s, new office and my wife finished writing up his application.
We were standing outside of his new office a few blocks from our home. Bob said to Jeff, “Our bookkeeper has decided not to come with us to this new location. Wish I knew where we could find someone to take her place.” I smiled and looked into my wife’s eyes and she looked back into my eyes.
I could personally feel the real magic (E.S.P.) starting to resonate like it always does when I get what I want.
I said, “My wife might be interested in this position.” Her ex-boss, Jeff immediately said to Bob, “She is fantastic and can handle this bookkeeping with ease!” My wife added, “It is only a couple of blocks from my home so it would be perfect for traveling.”
She asked, “Where would I work?” He showed her the private office which would be the first private office she ever had. My wife asked, “What kind of staff would I be working with?” He said, “We are all men here, you would be the only woman.”
My wife asked, “What kind of salary would you be starting the person at?” It was the highest salary she would have ever had. He said, “Can you start after giving notice where you are currently working?” My wife looked at me with sparkling eyes, and then said, “Yes that will be fine.”
Now, remember what I told you. I contacted no one in any way. I did not write or talk to anyone about her grand detailed dream. How did I do it? I promise you, I used the sixth sense also known as Extra Sensory Perception (E.S.P.).
Go to chapter 14 How to get ten million dollars if you want to immediately see how to develop your sixth sense. This will let you get what you want by using the sixth sense and explains in detail how the sixth sense works.
For many years I have been blessed with the fantastic real magic gift of personal power to get what I want when I want it on my terms. I have shied away from sharing this with others because I just felt from past experience that it would be a waste of my time to share this wonderful reality.
In chapter four I will share some of these past experiences and it will become clearer why I had some hesitancy to share these facts. See, Chapter Four: How to get a “free” $420,000 education using a magic trick.
We now live in very magical times. People are seeing wonders happening all around them. So perhaps now is the time to share “the truth once” with you.
By the way, many years later, my wife said she wanted to have her own business in her home. This time because of many magical experiences of getting what she wanted over and over again; she said to me, “Work your voodoo!” She has been working in her own business now for many years.