“Most people blame others. They blame their parents, teachers, authority figures for what they did OR didn’t do. They blame their siblings, friends and strangers, their upbringing and personal history. They think events, circumstances, and anything or anyone external to them has caused their problems. They put the cause outside of themselves instead of where it belongs. The cause resides in us.

When you or anyone blames others and circumstances you remain stuck. You don’t become a victor but live as a victim. You can’t move forward looking backwards. You don’t succeed by pointing fingers. Those who get ahead know where they’re headed and aim in that direction. They do what it takes to get there even if it means hardship and detours. They persist and prevail. They make it happen.

You either make it happen or you blame but not both. To move to the floor you want to go in an elevator you get in and push the button. If it is to come true it is up to you. If others push the buttons then you go wherever they go. You must be responsible and accountable for your progress. If you are stuck, get unstuck. Stop blaming. Blaming is a distraction and wastes time.

You do it because you’ve done it. Get over it. Make a positive change now. Take charge. Bad things can happen. When they do use them to your advantage. Think of it as a gift to get you moving into a new place. If you don’t like what is going on, change it for the better. You must learn this is your power. It’ s true some people may have begun certain advantages you didn’t. So what? Stop comparing.

There are people who started with nothing and have triumphed powerfully. Stop blaming, making excuses, comparing and shifting the attention away from you. Some people have overcome incredible odds once or multiple times to make their dreams come true. Some have started off well, lost everything and gained it all back.

Some have had it far worse than you and me and do what they can to live happily and successfully. Everyone has a choice how to respond to life events. People either sink or swim. What you do is up to you. Yes, you can work cooperatively with others. That is a good thing. Each person is still responsible for themselves and how they work together as a team. Work in harmony.

It’s great if you can share a vision or mission with others. Successful people live the kind of lives they want and enjoy having positive relationships. Work together. Don’t blame. Others do well. So can you. If it is possible for one, it is possible for many. It is possible for you. If you want good health, lots of wealth, great relationships and enjoyable experiences take COMPLETE responsibility for your thoughts.

Own your thoughts, feelings, the words you say to yourself and others and your actions. OWN THEM. Make them the best to get the best. What you think about you become. Take charge of YOUR mind. Learn to transform yourself by the renewing of your mind. Stop being resentful and become grateful. You become whatever predominantly occupies your mind. Successful people know this. Do you? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“Rex, I love your book! I just want to say thank you for who you are and how you are showing up and particularly for ‘Life On Your Terms.’ It is a powerful book that impacted me and people I have shared it with. They call me and say, ‘thank you!’ And I say, ‘thank Rex because he is a bad dude up in here, up in here.” Les Brown – Speaker

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“One of the most transformative books I’ve ever read. This book is amazing! Rex provides a blueprint of simple tools that anyone can use to achieve what you desire. There are so many books out that claim to show you how to create the life you desire but end up being disappointing. This book actually does what it says. No frills. No New Age jargon. Just down-to-earth methods that work when you work them. It really is a breath of fresh air!” Ron Matthews

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“A real life changer for me. Life on Your Terms is a must read! Rex has a way of writing his story so you feel you’re actually right there with him! I love his comeback story! I am changing my thinking and putting into practice what I’ve read. I see amazing and miraculous things already happening in my life as I follow his instructions! I bought this book first for my Kindle because I can read it anywhere but quickly realized I needed a hard copy to put in my Library! Thanks, Rex, for helping me change my life!” Katherine Young

“‘Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want’ provides practical advice that you can use today to transform your life with increasing success and abundance.” John Gray – Author

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