“You can more easily move forward into success by keeping certain principles in mind. In recent posts and previous ones, I provide successful ways to counteract defeat. For each of the reasons for failure there are means and methods to continue on and be successful. You don’t have to fail. People give up or fail because they haven’t learned to control their thoughts and feelings. Understand this!

Another reason is they fail to realize things take time. They don’t realize they’re in a process and that defeat is momentary. They’re in a rush and when things aren’t working fast enough, they quit and try something else. Seeds take time to grow! Some get distracted by current circumstances and lose their focus. They give in to negative thoughts, self-talk and doubt. They lose faith in their abilities.

They’ve not yet developed the winner’s attitude. Everything works together. It is not a sequence. It’s simultaneous. It’s not a procedure or a strategy that helps. It all works synergistically. Understand this. It is everything all at once. Just as energy cannot be created or destroyed and is equally present, distributed here, there, past, present and future. It’s all one. Everything affects everything!

Attitude Determines What You Think, Feel, Say, Do And The Results You Can Get!

Maintain positive, optimistic thoughts, feelings, words and behaviors and you get further faster. You get more bang for your buck. You receive more from your effort. To LEARN to stay focused you must STAY focused. If you want to learn to cook you have got to cook. If you want to build muscle, you have to do the exercise. Consistent, repeated, correct action for LONG enough brings results. Get it!

Focus on the powerful and positive. Focus on your definite chief aim, your goal and maintain your focus. Stay focused! Hopefully, your first goal is to become a powerful, positive, optimistic manifestor for whom manifesting is easy. It is Be it. Then you Do It, by taking the RIGHT actions that flow from your being, from who you are. Then, Have It is the result of correct thinking, feeling, and doing.

If you doubt, fear, worry, hate, get frustrated, angry or depressed you end up wishy washy, going back and forth so it takes longer. You must understand this IS part of learning how to do something. You get off course, make mistakes and correct them. You bring your focus back each time you realize you’ve gone astray. This IS the correction process! It’s a necessary and natural part of the process.

Attitude Determines What You Think, Feel, Say, Do And The Results You Can Get!

Accept it and you move further ahead. What you resist, persists. Love yourself and the process. Delight in it and you move forward faster and easier. Fight it and you slow yourself down. As you continue to make corrections you educate yourself where to keep your attention. Self-correction teaches you where to put your attention. Energy flows where your attention goes. You learn to focus.

As you make focusing a habit, you make self-correction a habit. Get it? It is a cybernetic loop. This is necessary. A rocket has a correction mechanism to keep it on course. So does a GPS. Learning to be successful means you hone your inner GPS for success. Realize that you will be wishy washy for a while as you learn to maintain your focus. I repeat, it’s a natural, normal part of the process.

You go through it to tame it. Learning HOW to stay focused IS learning how to overcome the tendency to wander and to bring yourself back to what’s important. The learning process includes making mistakes. Get over the notion that it’ll only be easy and effortless. It will be whatever it will be. So, stick with it. Understanding the game of life, the rules and how it is played, is half the battle.

Attitude Determines What You Think, Feel, Say, Do And The Results You Can Get!

Knowing in advance that there will be rough spots, corrections needed, times of doubt, loss of focus, as well as times of ease, exhilaration and celebration helps you get through it. When you have an idea of what you may face, you can persist no matter what. While you’re going through the process, accept that you’re IN the process. Accept it will take some time. Celebrate it! Celebrate all of it.

Celebrate that you’re in the process and learning to make the changes you want. Celebrate. Be grateful for each moment, good and bad. Celebrate. Learn from the hardships. The attitude is to celebrate everything! Your Attitude IS everything! It makes an incredible difference. It WILL be quicker and easier if you understand it and don’t fight it. Think and feel marvelous more often.

Think and feel marvelous most of the time. Through celebration and gratitude, you’ll manage your images and self-talk more easily and you’ll move through the process more smoothly and quickly.  And know this; you will fight it anyway. It’s your conditioning. What you resist, persists BUT if you keep in the process and celebrate all of it eventually you will let go and move through it!

Attitude Determines What You Think, Feel, Say, Do And The Results You Can Get!

Much of the learning is learning how to get out of your own way! In time you will. All of this IS PART OF the process. There will be ups and downs. That’s our nature. Few of us can completely dive in and do it 100% BUT if you are persistent and consistent in dedication you will make it. Learn how to manage yourself! Take 100% responsibility for everything including your conditioning and resistance.

Control your thoughts and feelings and you will develop a winning attitude. This is crucial! Attitude IS everything! A great attitude produces your good feelings and high vibrations. It IS why activating your attitude to work for you is crucial! Without a powerful, positive, optimistic, activated attitude you won’t keep going! MORE NEXT TIME. Understand these things and you will change easier than not. I’m here to help you. I’m here to provide you the experience or transformation if you’ll join me. Meanwhile, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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