“A person demonstrates their values whenever they open their mouth. Values are apparent by what they speak about most often. You could say people wear their values on their sleeve. What’s important to a person? Money, love, power, cooperation, peace?
What do they speak of most of the time? What do they spend their time, money and energy pursuing? You can tell. It’s no mystery. Listen and observe. What do they talk about most? Actions speak louder than words. What do they do? Get this! It’s important.
Do their actions and words align? Are they congruent? Do they walk their talk or only talk their talk? How do they treat you and others? How do they treat those who serve them? Who do they surround themselves with? How self-important do they act? How humble?
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Do they actually listen? Do they listen to understand or to correct? What is their prime directive? You get a sense observing, listening, interacting near them or even from afar. Are they fair? Do they speak truth? Do they do what they say? Is their word their bond?
Do they follow through? Do they make amends? Do they adjust with feedback or remain the same? What is their reputation and track record? Are they feared or friends? Are they friends or foes? How do they argue? Do they want to crush others or win/win? Well?
Some think about money and acquiring it for themselves. Others think about improving the world. Some talk primarily about themselves and their accomplishments. Others talk about others or about the important work at hand. Are they a Feeder or Eater?
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Get this. It’s important. By their fruits, you’ll know them. Are they helping you because they want to help you? Are they taking from you because they’re able to? Be not deceived by power, money, personality or shiny objects. It’s easy to be gullible.
Do they demonstrate integrity, honesty, loyalty, understanding, compassion, friendship, honor, trust, kindness, love, peace, dedication, commitment, persistence, openness, willingness, accountability, responsibility, flexibility, passion, joy, respect?
Do they feed you or do they eat your food? Do they serve you or expect to be served? Do they go first or expect you to go first? You can tell. It’s no secret. What is important to people is obvious. Do you want to be overwhelmingly successful? Then do this.
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Serve. Go first. Give unconditionally. Elevate, edify and uplift others. Share the spotlight. Make them shine. You’ll discover you can live really well by adding value to others. You’ll be a marvelous success if you act with heart and follow through on your commitments and promises. Remember, the scripture, ‘many who are first will be last; and the last, first.’ Demonstrate you are a person of worth by treating all others as if they are too. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James
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