“What holds people back? A thought. Their thinking. You’re thinking. People, maybe you think, ‘Someday.’ Someday thinking never comes. There is NO someday. They think, ‘When things change then everything will be better.’ ‘When I have money then I’ll give money, but I can’t now.’ ‘When I have enough time then I’ll do it.’ ‘If I had a better job that paid more then I could…’ ‘Once I get a new car then I’ll take that job driving.’
They look at their circumstances, their present and past and then think, ‘when things are different then things will be better.’ They think, ‘If only she hadn’t left me’ or ‘If he’d only…’ It is If something happens or if there is a change in my present circumstances THEN and only then will things get better or be better. When you put things off in your mind you put things off in the future. Nothing changes when you wait for it to change.
You affirm the present as the issue and that not until it changes sometime in the future will things be different. In other words, what holds you back is your mindset. It is the very thinking you currently do. When circumstances improve then you will improve. When things, IF things, change to what you want and become better then you’ll think, feel, speak and act better BUT not until things change. NOT until means unlikely ever.
Then they say, maybe you have, I have tried everything, but nothing works. The Law of Attraction is bogus. You read the books. You’ve fire walked or broke boards. You have done workshops but still nothing changes. THIS IS THE REASON! If you always do what you have always done and you keep doing it in the present and hope the future changes you are deceiving yourself. You will remain the same. To change things, YOU must change.
Only when you transform your mindset will everything else begin to change. It is FROM WITHIN to WITHOUT! When you start thinking and feeling more positive and optimistic, when you feel better and think better now that everything starts to become different and better. If you don’t, nothing changes. People THINK they’re doing all the right things but keep themselves stuck by affirming right where they are. Get this?
Most people can’t see what they are doing even if I point it out to them. They miss because they are living from less-than-glorious thinking, feeling and behaving habits. People do what they do and continue to do it until they stop and do something different. Then you must do that new different thing enough times, correctly, consistently, repeatedly for long enough to make it a new, positive habit. Get this!
If you keep thinking IF or When THEN things will change you will stay exactly as you are. You put it off. You remain the same. WHY? Because you keep doing that same thing. When I point this out most people make rationalizations, excuses and provide reasons for why they are the way they are and will be UNTIL something comes along and changes it for them. They give reasons, complaints, blames and accusations.
Change your thoughts and You transform your life. It begins by deciding to do things differently. CUZ here’s the truth. You think you know what will make you happy. Right? You think,’ if only this happens… or when… or if I had.. or when I get THEN everything will be different.’ BUT here’s the rub. plenty of people get those things, the new romance, car, house, watch, dream job and are excited BUT for a little while. Soon it wears off.
Then they need something else to replace the things they got but now don’t excite them. They’ve lost meaning and as a result the person loses interest and looks for something else to fulfill them or that. THINGS don’t make you permanently happy. They rust in reality and in your mind and heart. You don’t think so now but plenty of people amassed great cash, homes, luxury items only to be disappointed and turn to drugs or worse.
Change your internal being, your state, your mindset and feelings and the outside will start improving. Change is from within to without as I said. If you are waiting for the right time or trying to put it all together or find the right person or set up the exact conditions nothing will change. You’ll continue to wait. You’ll continue to look for the method, strategy, hack, tip or person to help and none of it will. You’ll be the same.
If you are waiting for something to BE DIFFERENT before YOU ARE DIFFERENT, you got it backwards. YOU must GO FIRST (one of Rex’s Rules) for things to change. From within to without! If you don’t, you’ll get the new romance and become critical of it. Something won’t be right. You’ll find problems with the new home or car. The new boss will be a jerk. Soon enough the newness will wear off and you won’t like it as much.
People win the lottery only to become more in debt than before winning it. Some people gain more weight back than they lost. People keep switching partners to end up with the same one in a different body with a different name but. Yes, sometimes things or people come along, and you will feel good for a little while but eventually you go right back to how you were. You may love your family, right? How often do you find fault with them?
You must GO FIRST. You must be the change you want to see in the world. You must become it! How? Activate your attitude. Change your thinking. Develop a champion’s mindset. Cultivate a winner’s attitude. You know what winners do, right? They win? Why? Because they expect too. They think, feel, speak and behave as a winner does. If they lose, they learn from it and continue. They don’t let difficulty prevent them. They win!
They win because they win! They have become a winner within. They don’t let circumstances, events, conditions, situations and people prevent them or get them down. Because they ARE winners within, they win most often. They consider themselves winners. They expect to win. They know the outcomes. They believe in themselves. They don’t run when not chased. They don’t blame others. They seek to improve themselves.
They don’t blame themselves but do what is positive and necessary to be better next time. They keep improving. They don’t make excuses. They don’t give reason or voice to complaints and blames. They are champions. They are victors. They make it happen because the power and positivity are within them not outside them. They are the cause. That means they cause things to happen. GOOD things. They are not victims.
They aren’t victims of their circumstances. They navigate as a sailor does in the turbulent seas of change. They keep doing it until they legally get what they want. They don’t fight circumstances, events or others; they focus on what they want to create, not on what or who might prevent them. The Wright Brothers kept working on building a flying machine even when family, friends, experts were against them.
Even though they ‘failed’ countless times they adjusted, made corrections and improvements until they flew. They didn’t spend their time fighting what opposed them but in creating what they wanted. They focus on what they wanted to create, not on those who said they couldn’t or the ‘failures’ they experienced. If they had, you could expect that they’d have quit. They didn’t and history recounts 1000s of others who made a difference in the world BECAUSE of their mindset. THINKING right makes it so. Become unstoppable. JOIN Me and dive deep and make your life better than you can presently imagine it could be. Or keep missing out. The choice is yours. Stop finding excuses and start finding blessings. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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