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Why You Don’t Get Things You Want

“Why don’t we get things right away? Why do some people give up on their goals during the pursuit? Will we ever make it? You may have questions about succeeding, happiness and your goals. Questions are important. Asking the RIGHT questions is even more important! Some people ask, ‘why do bad things always happen to me?’ or ‘how come things never work out?’ or ‘how long will this take?

Questions put your mind on a search for answers to the questions you asked. Your mind is a servant. It will look for answers to the questions you ask. “Bad things happen because… nothing works out because… it will take a long time because…” What do you really want to know? Asking the right questions to direct your mind properly is an important science and art. It requires taste and wisdom.

Learn to ask questions that direct your mind to find positive answers you can do something about. I introduced Directed Questions™ in the late 70’s, early 80’s to assist you in directing your mind, developing the right attitude and living your life happily and successfully. I want to help you send your mind in the direction that benefits you the most because most people send it in un-beneficial ways.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

It’s better to ask, ‘How quickly can I discover myself getting ahead?’ than ‘how long will it take.’ ‘How soon can I find a solution?’ ‘I wonder how delighted I’ll be when I discover things do work out for me in ways I may not, yet understand?’ ‘In how many different ways can I open myself up to all the good things life offers?’ Get the difference? When we drive, we aim the car where we want it to go.

We look in the direction we want to travel in. So, where is it you want to direct your mind to go? Into how big a problem you have or how easily can you find the solution and solve it? It’s a choice. When you understand this and have the good taste to ask for what you want instead of what you don’t, things change. Do you want to know how stupid you are, why you’re fat or how come nothing works out?

Or would you rather know how brilliant you are, how you can maintain your ideal weight, and why good always finds you and comes to you? Your choice. I teach Directed Questions™ in most of my programs. Mind Design™, The Ultimate NLP Home Study Course™ and use them in the brain in training audio, The Attitude Activator™ because it’s important to know how to direct your mind to get results.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

You’re already getting results, but they may not be wanted. Would you like to discover an easier, more fun and powerful way to direct your mind to get the results you want, intend and deserve? I’d hope you would. Still, many people know what’s the right thing to do but fail to do it. Hopefully, that’s not you. BUT if it is, there’s hope. It’s important to run your brain properly to achieve your goals and dreams.

You need to look where you want to go. See my previous blog. It’s important to look away from what you don’t want as well instead of focusing on it and attracting it. Otherwise, you get the same old results you’ve wanted to get away from. If you are looking at what you want to get away from, you’re not looking where you must look to get where you want to get. You’re missing out on moving forward.

You can’t get ahead looking behind you. You don’t escape the bear chasing you by turning and looking at the bear. You’d likely trip and that would be the end. You must look where you want to go and move to get there. All my work and these blogs are to assist you in becoming the person you want to become, to help you do what you’d like to be doing so you can get those things you want to have.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Why don’t you get what you want is because you don’t know and or haven’t developed the habit of directing your brain where it needs to go to be, do or have what you desire. You are sending it in the wrong place, looking for the wrong things, focused on the wrong stuff and hoping you’ll get your outcomes. You won’t. If I want to go to NYC but I am heading west, I’m not likely to get there.

It’s going to take a heck of a lot longer and be much more costly. I must first recognize I’m not going towards what I want. I must stop, turn around and move in the correct direction. I must keep going without getting distracted or giving up because I feel it’s taking too long, too much effort, money or willpower. Knowing what to do but not doing it is beyond stupid. Sorry, but true. It wastes time.

Join the countless thousands who’ve transformed their lives by learning how to direct their mind positively, powerfully and productively. Commit to being the best you, you can be. Stop looking in the wrong direction and begin looking in the right one. Transform yourself by the renewing of your mind. You deserve better. Even if things are pretty darn good you can enhance what you do. You can be freer to love more, feel more wonderful, be happier, healthier and wealthier. It’s up to you. Take charge of your mind and you can. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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If you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got AND doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result IS the definition of insanity. Stop the insanity!

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“From within to without. The outer is only a reflection of the within. Everything that exists in the human world arises from within. It originates as thoughts and feelings and is expressed in feelings, words and actions that bring about results. The world you experience is the world of your creation whether you believe it to be or not. Gravity works whether you think it does or not. Get this. You’re responsible.

Until you realize your world is of your doing, like it or not, you will remain impotent, lacking power. Once you assume responsibility you can direct your power to create more of what you want and less of what you don’t. You’re in charge but if you’re like most, you give your power away. You don’t even know what you have. You focus on the not-so-good instead of limiting your attention to only promote the good.

“We cannot express powers that we do not possess. The only way by which we may secure possession of power is to become conscious of power, and we can never become conscious of power until we learn that all power is from within. — Harmony in the world within results in optimism and affluence; affluence within results in affluence without.” Charles Haanel

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Want things different? You must be different. Want them better? You must be better. Create what you want by focusing on what you want. Become the person whose thoughts remain positive and optimistic and not worried, fearful, depressed or distracted. Focus your energy. Energy and power flow where you put attention. Attitude is everything. If you can’t manage your thoughts, you’ll always remain a victim.

Learn to manage your thoughts and your feelings, words and behaviors fall into place and the results you get will be the results you INTEND to get. Become conscious of who you are and the power within. When you discover the power within and the abundance within your outer world will conform and reflect your inner glory. Express optimism, positivity and gratitude and stay with it because you can. Even if you don’t think you can if you will do it, you’ll learn you can. More next time. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What You Say Is What You Get

“It’s only hard if you think it is hard. Whatever you declare it to be, it will be. Whatever you say that you have, is what you will have. The idiot will say, that is not true. No one is suggesting, if you call a flower a rock it will change. This is about your thoughts around your circumstances. If you judge them and believe them to be bad, they will be bad. Your thinking and your declarations make it so.

If you decide that an experience is a learning experience, not a bad one, well, then you can learn from it. Mindset matters. What you think matters. Stop judging things as good and bad. It’s better to explore how everything can be useful. How can unwanted situations be taught of and reframed to help you make life better? That is more useful than complaining and wallowing. Develop a great attitude!

One man’s meat is another man’s poison. One woman’s ceiling is another woman’s floor. You decide what will be and what your limits are. Act as though you are limitless and you are limitless. What you believe matters and makes the difference. Frankly, it doesn’t matter if YOU believe this. If you don’t you’ll never know and you’ll continue as you did. If you adopt a different and more positive belief you’ll discover whatever you discover. Being open is an asset. Get it? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“The most powerful mindset and attitude tool I’ve ever experienced. Words can’t describe how unique and how life-changing this program is. It rewires your brain to focus on the attitude that can best serve you. In the first year of owning it, I think I listened to it over 100 times. I’m recommending it to anyone who wants an unstoppable attitude of success.” – Joe Soto, Marketing Consultant, Entrepreneur, Waterford, VA

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“Best results I’ve ever gotten on a hypnotic audio before! – Nicholas Montegna, Pennsauken, NJ

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“Attitude Activator is quite simply, the best tool for shifting your mindset and galvanizing you into action I have ever come across and I have tried most of the top tools over the years. Combine that with Mind Design™ and you really can begin to design your own life.’ – Kathy Strong, Trainer & Consultant, UK

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Your success and happiness depend on one primary factor. Get this right and everything else falls into place. The greatest predictor of success in any area of your life, be it health, wealth, happiness, love or success is Attitude! With the right attitude, the world is yours. With the wrong attitude, you continue to struggle.

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You’ll continue to perpetuate troubles. You know, if you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got. AND doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result IS the definition of insanity. Stop the insanity! Get it.

“I’m absolutely fascinated with your attitude activator. In only 15 days of listening, it has begun to introduce changes in my life. Something that after listening to other people’s audio programs was impossible. Yours is superior and the sound is great!” Jaume Daumal, Spain

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If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. The first and most important update is changing your attitude! Your attitude is comprised of your beliefs and expectations. It’s those thoughts you repeatedly think that keep you the same OR that move you forward to greater and more wonderful results.

“Powerful program! It has positively transformed my mind. I am powerful & resourceful & abundant! Click the link & Do it Now!” Sandra J. Horton, Entrepreneur, Author, Podcast Host

“Rex Sikes, awesome I love the attitude activator. ” Kamal El-Rassi, Speaker, Facebook

I created the Attitude Activator™ to help you get unstuck, become resourceful to create the kind of life AND results you’re excited about and pleased with. I developed this process, a blueprint, a procedure, the method to make it easier for you!

“The Attitude Activator is something I want to share with other people… I want everyone I come in contact with to experience how easy it is to change focus from negativity and unaccomplished goals to setting consistent outcomes that bring states that have long been desired… I dance through my days with a smile on my face and a humongous appetite for learning.” Gloria De Voss, ACSW, LSW, Park Forest, Illinois

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You Already Create All Of Your Circumstances

“You already create all of your circumstances. You have always been creating your life and circumstances albeit haphazardly or without deliberate intention. You may never even realize your role in creating your life and future. Most don’t. Most created mixed results, good and bad, because people weren’t aware of what we needed to do. This is why it is necessary to choose to be responsible.

Choosing to be responsible for whatever you have been getting brings freedom. Once you realize you have been doing it all along there are things you can stop doing and other things to start doing. Most people, perhaps you, create far more what they don’t want than what they’d like in their lives BECAUSE no one told any of the rules for creating and getting what we want. Well, they did. We didn’t realize it.

Ancients and others have known and spread the word but few listen. Fewer apply what we need to to create the good lives we want. Some happen into it luckily, while most don’t. To get what you want you must be positively focused ONLY on what you want. You must live it and breathe it. You can’t half-ass it. Once you figure it out, take charge and make your future what you want it to be.

Focus On What You Want: Stop Resisting And Allow

Once you put your attention and energy into creating good and stop resisting and attending to everything else, good things you want can come through. Once that energy and resistance is removed from what you don’t want, or transmuted to what you do want, things become better. You open up to the good. You know you deserve it. You align and are congruent. You understand abundance is yours.

You claim it instead of worrying or doubting. You learn you can be, do and have anything you want. You realize good things are possible. You stop whining and start celebrating. You stop being a victim and become a victor. You transform yourself into someone for whom manifesting goodness is reality. Once you begin to spend most of your time thinking powerfully and positively your life changes.

Your feelings change. Your self-talk and conversation with others change. Your behaviors change and you get better results and intended better results. If you don’t or things go haywire, you recognize it’s you that must adjust and continue. You take responsibility because you are responsible. It makes all the difference in the world. Good can happen because you are the author of good. Get this.

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Once you are filled with celebration and gratitude for everything, you stop resisting. This changes everything. It begins with the decision, and you bring it about with the follow through. The seeds are planted, nurtured and growing. Keep them growing by your positive thoughts and feelings. Expect the best and enjoy the best. Understand all things work together for good. Once you deeply understand.

Once you understand completely that all things work together for good IT doesn’t matter how the good things arrive or when! You allow it and accept whatever is. You celebrate it and everything happens in the right time and in the right way. YOU are in the zone! You go with the flow and life is grand! You will be delighted! Difficulties and challenges arise as lessons and opportunities to fine tune your skills.

They allow you to clarify what you want and make sure you are focused on that. The tough times can help you evolve even faster when you don’t let them get you down or distract you. This is important! When you keep your attitude and thoughts in check while going through the tough times YOU are really becoming a person of power and ability. The most important part of the journey is WHO you become along the way! All of life is an opportunity to discover WHO you are. You thought it was something else. It’s not. It’s to find your authentic self and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

I CREATED THIS FOR YOU!

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“Best results I’ve ever gotten on a hypnotic audio before! – Nicholas Montegna, Pennsauken, NJ

Use The Attitude Activator™ to transform you and your business!

“I’ll vouch that Attitude Activator is awesome! Highly recommend it.” Staley Mims, Facebook

Use The Attitude Activator™ to transform you, your life and your business!

If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. The first and most important update is changing your attitude! Your attitude is comprised of your beliefs and expectations. It’s those thoughts you repeatedly think that keep you the same OR that move you forward to greater and more wonderful results.

“Powerful program! It has positively transformed my mind. I am powerful & resourceful & abundant! Click the link & Do it Now!” Sandra J. Horton, Entrepreneur, Author, Podcast Host

“Rex Sikes, awesome I love the attitude activator. ” Kamal El-Rassi, Speaker, Facebook

Get the Attitude Activator™ TODAY to transform your life!

You Must Ask More Questions!

“Ask questions. Become curious! Examine your own judgments and try to determine from where they arise. Do you base your opinions on something you saw or heard, are these from your past? Did you learn them from someone? Who else specifically that you know thinks or believes as you do? Who is it that believes these ideas to be true?

Ask Yourself Directed Questions™ Direct your mind to positive things you can think about. Wonder in your mind how it might be better. Look for how you might enjoy the different possibilities. Ask questions that lead you into the behaviors you want to acquire or do more reliably. It is not about answers!! Get this. It’s about the directions you travel. Get this!

How delighted will I be to discover I am able to entertain new ideas that I otherwise might have resisted? In how many ways am I easily and naturally able to stay open and enjoy new ideas? How soon can I begin to enjoy the benefits of keeping an open mind and entertaining new viewpoints? How much fun can I have exploring new ideas?

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Challenge your own thoughts. Why do this? Because so often we are wrong about what we think and what we think we think. We’re so used to our habitual repetitive thinking we don’t even notice when we are off base or repeating the very patterns and habits that hold us back or keep us down. If you can’t tell, if you can’t notice, You’re held hostage by yourself.

You can boot strap it and challenge your own thoughts. You can ask questions such as who specifically says this is true? What makes it true? How is that possible? How might it be otherwise? Who holds other contrary views? What realistic reasons may they have for holding their point of view?

What might I be missing? Do I know everything about everything? Who died and left me god? In other words, be willing to look for and find other authorities who may have very valid reasons for holding these new ideas. The ideas may be ancient. They may only be new to you OR they may be brand new ideas. Challenge your own infallibility.

LIVE LIFE ON YOUR TERMS: LEARN TO CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT

This is important. Be willing to be wrong about yourself, others and the world. Also, be willing to be correct. Understand it’s not about right or wrong, it’s about your ability to become aware and transcend that notion. Stop perpetuating the problems to keep you stuck. What is the biggest problem? You repeat the same thought habits without realizing it.

Others can tell but you can’t. Until you discover this you will always have difficulty. Manage your thinking or it manages you. Manage your emotions or they manage you. Renew yourself by the transforming of your mind. Become as a little child. Get curious? Get open. Understand none of us have a monopoly on truth. Stop acting as if you know everything.

Be willing to not know. Become fascinated. Become captivated. Become curious. Delight in the unknown. Realize sometimes your prison is what you think the solution to your problem is. The problem is you think you know what will fix things. Instead of being obstinate about things, realize life is a mystery and it’s okay to not know everything. Let the mystery be a mystery. Let it unfold. Stop forcing. Stop insisting. Instead, be open and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“Rex’s background as change agent, actor, magician, mentalist, communicator, performer, and survivor, makes him well practiced in the art of knowing the inner landscape of the human mind. In this book, he hands you the keys to unlock the magical kingdom within you. Not only do you receive the keys, codes, and passwords, you also get the full behind-the-scenes tour to know how to use them. You can now take charge of your own thinking and enjoy the abundant riches you are uniquely qualified to produce as you live life on your own terms.” – Paul R. Scheele, Ph.D

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