“When you RAVE and create positive experiences for others. That benefits them but it also benefits you. What goes around comes around. What you put out, comes back. You benefit whenever you do something wonderful for another person. This doesn’t mean because you recognize others, others automatically recognize you. They might. They most probably will but that’s not what’s meant.

It’s like a smile. When you smile nicely at another person, you’re more apt to get one back OR you just feel good making someone else feel good. When you give out positive energy without expectations of getting anything in return; when you commit an act of kindness simply for being kind; when you treat someone else marvelously just because you are being nice, you’re benefiting yourself. It returns to you.

You get to feel good about it. You feel great because you made others feel great. Both parties feel great. If nothing else, that alone IS enough. Still, there may be something more. There may be that positive energy you generate for others DOES come back to you in any variety of ways. This is the point of the Golden Rule. Treat others exceptionally well. And the Law of Cause and Effect combined.

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Shower them with positive regard, love and friendship. Validate and celebrate another person’s success without envy or resentment and you benefit. Put into motion positive thoughts and feelings. Even if they never know about it YOU transform yourself. You become a better person. It changes you! When you are the cause of good, the effects of your good return to you. Cause and effect. Get it? I hope so.

Even if there is no return you STILL become a better person because of it. You become a better person because you went first. You initiated it. That’s Rex’s Rule, GO FIRST! You create something wonderful. There is no waiting, no whining, no blaming, there are only great thoughts and feelings which you generate and share. You put good into motion. That’s awesome. Expect to find more good as a result.

When you don’t do it to get back but to give without conditions everything works much better. And since you become what you think about most of the time, you can improve yourself by helping others mentally in your thoughts and by your actions. Both work and both are important. Fill your life with gratitude, validation, positivity, happiness, joy, feeling marvelous, and you are healthier and wealthier.

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From this mindset you can create anything you want. Do you want more love? BE MORE Loving! Do you want better friendships? BE A BETTER FRIEND. Do you want more money? DEVELOP A RICH MINDSET. Do you want to feel better? THINK BETTER. Thoughts precede actions and actions precede results. Do you want better results? Begin with how you think and feel. Put the very best positive energy to work for you and for others. Create a marvelous world to be part of! Imagine how incredible your life will be when you make this an automatic, reliable habit. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes