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Don’t Don’t Work BUT Here’s What Does

“Negatives don’t register the way we think they do. Your brain doesn’t process ‘don’t.’ It sees and feels the image of the thing you’re trying to avoid. The moment you tell a child, ‘Don’t spill,’ what happens? In order to understand what you mean, the child has to recall what spilling is. And right there, that image, spilling juice, water flying, the mess is front and center in their mind. A few moments later the glass tips. It’s spilt.

And, without missing a beat, you find yourself saying, ‘I TOLD you NOT to spill!’ BUT YOU DIDN’T. You instructed the child to spill. Eventually, we learn to somewhat override this but it is still operational. To understand ‘don’t spill’ you must still imagine spilling. Keep what I said in mind, Negatives DO NOT register the way we think they do. If you say, ‘Don’t think of failure,’ guess what shows up? YUP! — failure. It’s wired in.

This is why so often, what you resist just digs in deeper. You can’t push it away. You can’t fight it off. You can’t win by opposition. What you resist, persists. Quick story. Doing a workshop we were cleaning up and a friend of mine told my then girlfriend, ‘don’t forget your watch’ which was next to the sink. We finished up. Got to the hotel and you guessed it. She forgot it by the sink. We had to go back to retrieve it.

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SO you can’t stop or prevent it But you CAN shift. You CAN direct. You CAN replace the old pattern by bringing in something new. Something better. Something that moves you forward instead of keeping you stuck. So, if you catch yourself saying ‘Don’t forget your…’ ADD ‘Remember to take it.’ Instead of just saying, ‘don’t be late.’ You add ‘please get there on time.’ Get it? Much of my work is redirecting how people are thinking.

You want to shift from problems to successes. When persistent thoughts try to rule you, thoughts of fear, doubt, or anything unwanted, you may have to redirect your focus over and over. That’s okay. That’s how it works. You’re learning. You’re building the muscle. If you practice this, gently and consistently you’ll gain control. You begin to steer. Like driving down the center of a lane, you’re constantly making micro-adjustments.

A little to the left. A little to the right. These small shifts keep you moving straight. Trying to not think something is a losing battle. But choosing to focus on something else is the way through. And when you start doing it regularly and on purpose, you’ll begin to feel how powerful and free you really are. This is what I guide people through every day. If you’re curious, you’re welcome to study with me.

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Own Your Power: Let Every Fiber of You Speak It

“When your thoughts, words, and body align, something remarkable happens. You move differently. You breathe with purpose. You speak and act from a place of certainty. You become magnetic, not because you’re trying to impress, but by embodying your message. There’s no doubt, no hesitation. You are congruent, and it shows. Everything in you begins working together like a finely tuned instrument.

Your mind is focused. Your body follows. Your words carry weight. And when you move from this kind of alignment, you are no longer pushing to make things happen. You’re allowing them to unfold. You’re flowing with clarity, strength, and purpose. This is where your true power lives. It’s because you’re congruent. You are aligned with who you are inside and how you present yourself to the world.

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When your internal dialogue is aligned with your posture, your tone, your presence, the world listens. People take notice. Opportunities appear where they didn’t before.It’s not because they weren’t there, but because now you’re attuned to them. You won’t need to pretend or posture. You’ll already know you’re enough. You’ll attract people and possibilities effortlessly, simply by being fully, unapologetically you.

Not louder. Not bolder. Just powerfully present. So begin now. Don’t wait. Breathe deeper. Stand taller. Think clearer. Move with intention. It doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be practiced. That’s how real transformation happens. If you’re ready to go further, I’m here for you. Explore with me. Join me in one of my online go at your own pace program and discover how far you can go when your life is in true alignment. Jump into Mind Design™ or get the Attitude Activator™ but take a bold step and notice how the world responds. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Talk Like It’s Yours Because It Already Is

“What you say to yourself, and how you say it, matters more than you may realize. The words you repeat silently, or aloud, shape your identity, influence your emotions, and instruct your subconscious mind what to deliver. So choose them carefully. Choose words that serve you, support you, and uplift you. Make it a habit to affirm the reality you are creating.

Not in the future but now. Say it as though it’s already yours. Declare it with quiet certainty. I know what I want. I get what I want. I always find a way to make it happen. Or, say your name aloud, yes, your own name, because hearing it carries weight. You can even phrase it as “You will do this” when talking to yourself. All of it works. Just do it regularly.

Here’s a secret I teach, ask questions. Not just any questions, but Directed Questions™. These are crafted to open up your inner resources and focus them like a laser beam. I wonder how good it will feel to step into my power even more today? How fun will it be to notice myself speaking with certainty, clarity, and ease?

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How thrilled will I be when I see how much progress I’ve made? These questions aren’t about answers. They’re about directing your inner world toward what you want more of. Your subconscious listens. It gets the message. Affirmations and questions help you visualize. Visualization, in turn, helps you feel. And feeling is the language of your subconscious.

When you feel it real, you signal your system that this is who you are now. It listens. It responds. And you begin to live more fully into who you truly are and what you’re capable of becoming. Practice this consistently, and gently. Let it be enjoyable. Let it unfold naturally. And if you want to go deeper, if you feel that nudge to truly embody this transformation, you’re always welcome to join me. Whether it’s live or on your own time, my programs are here to support the powerful, authentic you that’s already waiting to emerge. You speak it, you feel it, and you live it, because it’s already yours. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

And if you’d like to take this journey further, I invite you to study with me. My transformational programs, whether you join me in a live in person training or one of my excellent go at your own pace online programs are here to support your positive evolution. You don’t need to keep hiding. The real you is already ready. More next blog. Celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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The 8th Great Law: Giving And Hospitality

“There are two ways to live and two choices. Selfishly or selflessly. The Law of Giving and Hospitality is about how you walk your talk. It is what puts the power of your beliefs and words into action. You demonstrate that it isn’t all talk but it is how you walk. The Law of Giving helps you realize how important your actions are. They reflect your deeper beliefs. If you say you want peace then you first must believe in peace, practice peace and promote it.

You give to the things you believe in your heart. If you are hurtful, you produce more hurt. If you are loving, you produce more love. You commit to your beliefs. You walk your talk. You aren’t just talk without action. You aren’t just false words or fluff. You do what you say you will. You keep your promises. Your inner convictions, words and actions are aligned. You are not divided but are one. You are congruent. Your actions speak your words.

Many people say things but then act differently in private. In secret everything is a different matter. You see this at times in the media when someone doesn’t realize their mic is on and says something, or they don’t realize they are being filmed. They say something to the public but what they really mean or say when the mic and camera are off, or inadvertently catch them is different. They wear a false face. The 8th law means you must prove what you say.

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You must demonstrate that you walk your talk and aren’t just making false statements and promises. It is where the rubber meets the road. Are you genuine or disingenuous? Are you authentic, the real thing or a fake? Are you a shiny object or an empty suit? Are you just marketing hype or the real deal? For most people this is a lifelong process of learning to be authentic and true to their beliefs and words. Many people make false promises.

The fool themselves and others. They don’t keep their word to themselves or to others. It is as simple as being on time if you say you will. It’s as simple as saying, ‘nice dress and meaning it.’ The more important your words, the more important the meaning, the more important your promises are. What you do in life reveals who you are and what you believe. We are known by our actions. Our actions are a record of the kind of person we are.

So what kind are you? Inside you can be quite negative and harmful. You can also be quite positive and caring. The good news is if you are the former you can change it. You can transform and that is why it’s a process. We aren’t locked in stone. We can change. We can release and let go. We can add in, practice and improve. We are a work in progress. Practice being the change you want to see in the world.

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Follow the laws and Be, Do and have a wonderful life. Help others too. If you want to help the world to be more peaceful, it ought to come from you being peaceful first. Get this. The rule is to first do no harm. Then do what is right, good and helpful. If you want to help the homeless it should come from your inner conviction to help them and not just to get accolades from others.

You do it because it is the right thing to do, not because it gets you attention and praise. You do it because you are generous. You do it to give not for what you can get. You do it selflessly. You aren’t expecting pay back or fame and fortune. You take meaningful action because it is meaningful in and of itself. You are selflessly providing aid and comfort. You practice what you preach. This law tells us about belief and practice.

You must prove your faith in things you believe in practicing. Donating money to the poor must come from your inner belief in helping them and not just getting some words of appreciation from people around you. Your intentions are authentic and pure. Consider what hospitality means. You make others feel valued. You uplift and edify because of who they are not because of what you get from it.

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Hospitality is defined as ‘The act or practice of one who is hospitable; reception and entertainment of strangers or guests without reward, or with kind and generous liberality.’ Hospitable is defined as ‘Disposed to treat guests with warmth and generosity. Indicative of cordiality toward guests.’ Pretty much this law says, give and be hospitable to all. It’s not enough to just have good intentions but take meaningful action. Treat all people as guests.

Make others feel valued, cherished. Make them feel good. Provide for them as you can. Act with integrity and generosity. Treat others with integrity. See all others as valued, worth caring for and care for them. Love them. Be loving, kind, compassionate, caring and helpful. Stop hating, hurting, judging, labeling and dividing. Don’t wish and want but help. Don’t aspire to having things better without making things better.

Integrity comes from and is demonstrated from aligning your intentions and your actions. Be a person of positive, helpful action. It will return to you in some form but that isn’t why you are doing it. You are doing it even if it never comes back. Get this? It’s my number one Rex’s Rule: Go FIRST. Doing good is its own reward. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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If You Say This Stop It Right Now

“What does my meme mean? It’s a response to all those who claim ‘it is easier said than done.’ That is a thought. If you let a thought stop you it will. It’s why Ford said, ‘if you think you can or you think you can’t’ you are right.’ Expectations make it so. What you say you have IS what you have. What you see is what you get. It’s why I say, if you consider something a problem it’s a problem.’

‘If you consider something blessing it’s a blessing.’ Get this and your whole world can change. If you think and say you’ve problems and difficulties you are affirming that is the case. When you say ‘easier said…’ you are affirming what you don’t want. So, many people affirm what they don’t want because they aren’t aware that’s what they are doing. That is why awareness is the key to change. Stop speaking into existence the very things you’d prefer to avoid or want to eliminate. Instead, Celebrate Everything!” Rex Sikes

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Some Bad News That Might Hurt

“If someone talks to another person and tells them about their illness, the rude person in the store, the bad weather, or complains, whines, makes excuses, rationalizes things, gives reasons for why things suck, gossips, belittles or otherwise shares ho-hum or bad news it is a bet they don’t just do that with others. YOU can bet that is what the inside of their head is like. Why? Because it is from within to without. We say what we think. Get this!

If you constantly are finding what’s wrong with the world, the people around you, your circumstances, the environment, the government, the religions, etc. it is a sure and safe bet you do the same about yourself and your life. Unless you are simply a narcissist and think nothing is as good as you, so you put down all else and all others. ‘By their actions you shall know them.’ Guess what? Thoughts and words are actions too.

If you are talking about your woes and what’s wrong from day to day with others that is what is filling your heart and your mind. If you want to change you must stop this habit. Put a guard before your lips and say and think only to bless, heal, inspire, prosper, uplift, edify, transform yourself and others. You can’t be complaining to others without first thinking about it. It’s a subconscious habit. Unless you change it you’ll keep getting the same results.

Your Attitude Habit Determines What You Think, Feel, Say, Do And The Results You Can Get!

What frequently fills your mind creates your inner and outer reality. From within to without. AND what you allow in from without can contaminate the inside. That’s why you place a guard before your mind and lips. Thoughts lead to feelings which lead to like thoughts. Feelings lead to words and actions which lead to results. What you continuously repeat becomes a habit. Your habits determine what you can and can’t do. You are your habits.

Change your habitual ways of thinking, feeling, speaking and behaving and create new positive what’s to be, do and have what you want in life. Use this as feedback to take an honest look at yourself unless you’re a narcissist. Because if you are a narcissist, you will think you are right, even when you aren’t. You don’t assess yourself properly. You really need outside help, if you will listen to it, so you can adjust and change.

I never give up hope for anyone. You can learn to be positive, optimistic, vibe-high, productive and create the life you want. IF and it’s a big if. IF you are willing to do things differently. IF you are willing to learn. One must ‘become like a little child’… curious, open, coachable, teachable, willing to learn, liking learning, willing to do, and then actually do. Be willing to experiment. Adjust and continue. Develop playfulness and fascination. Learn to vibe high and expect the best. Then, anything becomes possible. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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