“Dickheadedness is a global problem! It is true. It has been said you can’t save a fool from oneself. That doesn’t mean one not ought not try. Compassion and understanding can go a long way to help someone who suffers from being a dickhead. Even you and me.
Labels are ways of dividing the world. We classify and categorize, They are mental shortcuts. We stereotype in positive and not so positive ways. That is what naming and labeling does. It can be beneficial and is. It can be negative and harmful.
It all depends on the purpose. It depends on whether we are aware of what we are doing or if we are unaware. We may harm ourselves and others unintentionally by acting without awareness. It would be best to seek to be compassionate, understanding and respectful.
What You Focus On Expands – You Get What You Focus On
Words can be used to unite by people who seek to unite and they may use them to divide and harm. It may be true there’s no shortage of puffed up people. They can be full of themselves, hurtful and mis-informed. It doesn’t do much to fight at the same level with them.
Winning an argument over word choices is not as important as helping another out when help is needed. Acting wisely with empathy and compassion by trying to understand why they hold their ‘ridiculous viewpoint’ can assist others even help save lives.
Best to not label another’s viewpoint as anything. It’s just something they maintain for whatever reason. Stop thinking they’re being a dickhead intentionally even it that seems to be the only explanation. Seek to genuinely understand where they’re coming from.
The Thing Named Is Not The Thing – It’s More Than Its Label
Instead feed the poor. Care for the sick. Love one another. Win more bears with honey. Administer kindness and acceptance. Stay open to others instead of closing off. It is possible they are maintaining their position because they are hurting or don’t know any better.
If someone misses the point they, miss it. That’s okay. Love them anyway. Better to attempt to help each other than split hairs over politics, religion and personal differences. Help each other out.
Listen. Seek to understand. Go first, Be respectful. Chances are they will respond more in kind if they really feel understood. If they don’t feel you are belittling them. Act in positive and kind ways because actions speak louder than words. We are known by our fruits, our actions. Anyone can say anything. Talk is cheap. Love and accept instead. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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