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“Do you ever feel desperate? Why do suppose desperate people seem to lose out so often? Have you thought about it? There is a saying, ‘you can’t hold a butterfly in a closed fist.’ In fact, I can’t hold your hand or put anything into it if you hold it tightly closed.
When you feel desperate or anxious; when you worry about whether or not you’ll make ends meet; or when you’re fearful about some event or person, you actually make it worse. What you resist persists. If it pushes on you and you push back, so it is. Resistance.
If you push at it and it pushes back, so it is. You end up pushing everything away. The same is true if you want something too much. If you’re desperate for something it means you are aware you don’t have it. You’re wanting and needing it so badly, keeps it at bay.
A Great Secret – I Understand That What I Want Also Wants Me
Consider this quote from the mystic poet Rumi: ‘When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety. If I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without struggle or pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great secret here for anyone who can grasp it.’
So true. When you relax you can realize what you want, wants you. Know what you want. Then let it go. Hold the butterfly in an open hand. Leave your palm open. Then more can land on it. Don’t squeeze away what you want. Instead be grateful and you allow everything good to come your way. Be grateful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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