“After years of doing training programs for the public and businesses I found a wooden sign that I displayed in all my programs beginning in the 90’s and continuing to the present day. It is a carved ‘No Whining’ sign. I do this to remind people to best use their minds to focus on the best. People waste time whining and complaining instead of spending their time targeting and going after their goals and dreams. Whining isn’t just a major waste of time.

It is a powerful way to attract exactly what one doesn’t want. Remember, get more back of whatever we put out there. Positive or negative it doesn’t matter. Whatever we focus on we get back. Whatever we focus on the most we get back the most! Like attracts like. Birds of a feather flock together. Finely tuned strings vibrate together or resonate. If you send out negative thoughts, vibes and actions that’s what you get in return.

If you want a positive abundant life you need to put that positivity and abundance out FIRST. Then you get back the positivity and abundance you put out. You reap what you sow! Some people just never seem to get that they keep putting out negativity. We are all broadcasting and receiving stations. Most people aren’t aware of what they are predominantly transmitting most frequently. They put out crap but don’t notice it BUT see the crap that returns.

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Then they whine and complain more. If you are surrounded by crap, CHANGE YOURSELF! That’s the very first thing you need to do. LOOK at the crap and GET the message. CHANGE! It is time people stop being a victim. End helplessness. They need to stop thinking they’re not responsible for bad times. Many act as if they can’t do anything or make anything happen. They are wrong! You and I are responsible for whatever IS! Get this?

If you are surrounded by crap, crappy people, events and circumstances that don’t make you a bad person YOU are just putting your energy and attention on the wrong things. You are broadcasting and transmitting crap and getting it back. It doesn’t make you bad, but it may make you stupid if you don’t eventually wake up and notice what you are doing and how you don’t like it. Once you notice the folly, STOP IT. Stop perpetuating it.

Okay, maybe I got your attention with the stupid comment. It doesn’t even make you stupid. It means you are still unaware of what you are still unaware of. You’re doing the same things repeatedly hoping for a different result. You aren’t noticing what you don’t notice. You’re asleep at the wheel. That’s not good. You do need to wake up. However, you’ll only wake up when you wake up. Once you notice the folly, you’ll STOP IT. You’ll Stop perpetuating.

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Be different! The truth is people you’re ALREADY making things happen. Many are crumby things. It is time to stop. Can-Do people focus on what they do want, what they can do, how they want to feel and on solutions. Can-do people make the things they want to happen, happen. It’s their intention to create great things. They don’t focus on what is wrong, what they can’t do and don’t have yet. They focus on gratitude and celebration.

They focus on making life as wonderful as it can be. When they discover themselves thinking less-than-glorious thoughts or having less-than glorious feelings they make the change. They know it is up to them to do it! They don’t blame others, nor do they expect others to do the work for them. They take 100% responsibility for whatever they create in life. Because they take responsibility they create and attract what they intend to! Understand this!

They get back good things because they first put good things out there for themselves and others. They broadcast most frequently and intently genuine gratitude and positivity. They expect good and find it. They emphasize what little they have and appreciate everything. They can know there will be obstacles, but they don’t let that stop them. They search for creative means to overcome difficulty and to continue to move forward. They focus on the good!

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They’re consistent in their practice and persistent in their pursuit, they follow through. They do not quit! They decide and they act. They don’t wallow or waffle. They decide and move forward. If they make a wrong decision, they correct it. They take the bull by the horns and move ahead without fear. They understand flexibility and creativity is desirable. They are proactive and work to make things better. They walk their talk. They just do it.

They realize it begins and ends with THEIR mindset, how THEY feel and THEIR actions. They resolve to do the best. If you aren’t already, become a can-do person. Make your life work in wonderful ways. You can, you know! Realize you are always creating. Everything you have or don’t have you have created. Take 100% responsibility for all of it because when you do change can begin to happen. Recognize your power as a creator!

If you blame the outer world, luck, circumstances or others you WILL remain the same. Stop putting energy into what you don’t want and put it into making what you do want. Change your mindset! YOU can make the life you have always desired. You can Be, Do and Have anything! It’s up to you. Guard your thoughts, your feelings, your speech and your actions. Strive to always do that which is positive and that which heals.

Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want