“We could and should decide to not label, not judge, and just let things be. This is difficult for most. We weren’t brought up to be judgement free. We’re attached to possessions and expressions. We’re attached to ideas and beliefs. We label and judge liberally. It’s a utilitarian skill but we’ve let it get out of control. It’s useful for survival purposes and little else.
Life just is. We cut it up, divide it, label and categorize it and then act as if our descriptions are the reality. No, they are not. They are descriptions. Useful in some cases. Debilitating in other cases. Few of us have the wisdom to know the difference. This is an area of great freedom and growth for us when we learn the difference and free ourselves of self-imposed constraints. We can let go.
Once, we realize that it IS whatever we call it. Whatever we call it determines how we feel, think and act. Because of this we should realize that WE make it so. We create our experiences by the meaning we attach to them. We create our experience by the importance we put on it. When you pick up a stick you pick up both ends. There are contrasts point of view, always.
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Things come along that may be unexpected and may seem to be negative. In reality, nothing is negative or positive except for electrical charges. A battery has both poles but we don’t label one better or one worse because both are necessary. Life has its share of disappointments. BUT we are only disappointed because we EXPECT OR HOPE for something different. Get this. We do it!
If we can stop judging so much, we can be free to enjoy everything in new ways. When we let go asserting ‘bad things’ we free up our mind to look for the seeds of positivity within. The negative in life, since we understand how these terms are used, is as necessary as the positive. It’s there as all things are there. It just is. From it we can grow and learn and move forward.
Since judgements arise from us, it is better, more positive, more opportune to declare less-than-glorious situations and people as challenges or opportunities than as bad things. I prefer opportunities over the word challenges because of the more positive useful frame. Challenges are typically perceived as problems and they need not be.
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It’s whatever you say it is! It’s whatever you assert or declare it to be. As a result, you will think and feel however you label it. Whether you declare it good or bad, AND that is what we have been doing all along, your feelings will be determined by how you think about it or label it. SO here’s the change I propose. Do you think you could try this on for a while to have the experience of this?
Imagine how much more wonderful life would be IF EVERYTHING that ever happened was an opportunity? Wouldn’t that be incredible. Every situation, person, event, that ever occurs is an opportunity. Imagine that! Even if that isn’t true imagine how your life would be different if you had that frame of mind and looked for the good in all things, instead of being victim to the bad.
Certainly, you can recognize a tough time. You don’t have to lie or ignore. You can say, ‘I have some challenges now. I’m not yet sure how it will resolve but things always have a way of working out for me. I’ll be surprised. I am sure because there’re opportunities in this situation I’ve not yet discovered, but I am looking to find them. I know ultimately this will work out for the best’.
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Or say something to that effect. All is good. All will work out. In actuality it really all does somehow work out. You could say you are exploring your options. You are discovering new things, you didn’t know is a particular situation. Jose Silva suggested the term ‘project.’ Project carries no positive or negative connotation. Take the judgement out of your thinking and your descriptions. Be free.
Keep in mind, YOU become what YOU think about most frequently. You’re either mostly positive or mostly negative, but never 100%. As with all processes, things change. We must accept this and continue to move forward in positive ways. Find the good in all. Look for it and you will find it. It may be hidden and you may have to search but you will find. Seek and you shall find.
If you did nothing else but find the good in everything, your life would already be radically better. Our mindset is incredibly powerful. Our attitude does determine our altitude! Attitude is the number one predictor of success in all areas of your life. That’s why I’ve been researching it and the Placebo Effect for over 40 years. That’s why I developed Mind Design™ and the Attitude Activator™
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When we keep our focus on what we want, when we appreciate and notice and emphasize the thoughts and positive actions that make us feel good, we get more of it back. We live in a more permanent positive condition, and whatever comes our way, that is otherwise, we are better equipped to handle. Keep the faith. Relax. Let go. Drop everything else. Keep at it. Enjoy and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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