“Why do people lose out, struggle and have such difficult times? Because they get lost in their doubts, worries and fears. They doubt themselves and that things will change for the better. They worry about and fear the future. They succumb to a negative mindset.

What you focus on you get. If you’re worried, sad, angry, fearful or doubt things will improve, you don’t feel very good, do you? Right, you don’t! If you don’t feel well what you say to self and others isn’t very good either. You speak mostly blames, excuses and complaints.

If your thinking, feeling and speaking sucks you’re not going to make the best decisions or take the right actions. You just aren’t going to feel like it. Your entire system is depressed and suppressed. You miss opportunities. You end up frustrated and desperate. It really sucks!

Transform Your Thoughts & Create Your Best Life Ever

It sucks most of all because you don’t need to go through any of that. That’s what you learned growing up. It’s what you’re conditioned to do. It’s your default habits that run the show. Get it? If you’re lost in negativity you’re not going to live a positive life! Get this! Now!!

Learn to look to your inner resources. Find outer resources. Seek the positive. Seek the inspirational. Seek coaches and mentors who walk their talk and are examples of the kind of person you want to be and who live the kind of life you want. Fill your mind with positivity!

You can’t travel uphill thinking downhill thoughts. Take charge of your thoughts, feelings, words and actions and you’ll create a different, better, more positive life. If you really want to. Commit and persist and you will! Doubt, dabble and ignore, and you won’t.

Change Your Thoughts & Transform Your Life Today

Discover your optimism. Use it to guide you to a better day. Expect the best even if you prepare for the worst. Don’t ignore problems, Notice them, but then turn your attention to solutions and results. Stop worrying about the problem. Fix it and move on. Let go and go!

Focus on the good, not the bad. Discover your love of life and the gratitude for what you already have. Feel it and express it. Exude it and it will guide you in the choices you make. You’ll think and feel better. Think and feel better and you’ll become more aware of opportunities. You’ll make better choices. If you do nothing, nothing changes. Manage your mindset. Celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

PS I share much more in Life On Your Terms 

“This may be the wisest, more realistic, and most helpful book I’ve come across. I’ve been a self-help book addict for at least five decades, and I’ve read many of the greats. This is up there with the greats and maybe beyond. Besides extraordinary insights, the style is accessible and compelling. I loved LIFE ON YOUR TERMS. Buy it!” Mitzi Perdue, Author, Entrepreneur (Frank Perdue Chicken)

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