“I pointed out that RAVE™, my acronym for Recognize Appreciate Validate Excellence, is a wonderfully powerful and important gift for people and yourself. When we get RAVEd we can feel important, confident, respected, liked, loved or any number of positive wonderful feelings. That moment of recognition can be a lifelong positive memory. Giving recognition can provide this special moment.

It’s an opportunity to give to others and yourself. It is a resource that re-ignites all those incredible feelings whenever remembered. That’s a good reason to make sure YOU provide this experience to people important to you in life and business. It becomes a gift that keeps on giving. It can become a highlight and cherished memory for them. You’d like to help others and yourself, don’t you?

Remember, what you put out comes back to you. Edify others and its more likely you’ll be edified. GO FIRST. It’s high vibe and goodwill. AND this is another powerful reason for giving recognition, appreciation and validation to others. Creating positive experiences for others not only benefits them but IT benefits you. What goes around comes around. You benefit from doing ‘wonderful’ for another.

Attitude Determines Your Thoughts, Feeling, Talk, Actions And The Results You Get!

What you put out there comes back to you. I do not mean that because you recognize others that others will recognize you. They might. They most probably will but that is not what’s meant. It’s like a smile. When you smile nicely at another person you are more apt to get one back. OR you just feel good for helping to make someone else feel good. OR you just feel good for smiling. Get this?

When you give positive energy out with no expectation of getting anything in return; when you commit an act of kindness simply for being kind; when you treat someone else marvelously just because you wanted to be nice you are benefiting yourself! You get to feel good about it.You feel good because you made others feel wonderful. Both parties feel good.

If there were nothing else that alone IS reason enough. This is the point of the Golden Rule. Treat others exceptionally well, shower them with positive regard, love and friendship. Validate and celebrate another person’s success without envy or resentment and you benefit. Put into motion positive thoughts and feelings. Even if they never know about it YOU transform yourself.

Attitude Determines Your Thoughts, Feeling, Talk, Actions And The Results You Get!

You become a better person. It changes you!  AND even if there is no return you STILL become a better person because of it. You become a better person because you go first. You create something wonderful. There is no waiting, no whining, no blaming, there are only great thoughts and feelings being generated. You become what you think about most of the time.

That positive energy you generate for others DOES come back to you in any variety of ways. Still, there may be something else. You improve yourself by helping others mentally in your thoughts and in reality by your actions. Both work and both are important. But again, just doing it for no reason, benefits you. If you smile or laugh at home ALONE it benefits you.

If you walk or exercise alone it benefits you. If you whistle, hum or sing a happy tune it benefits you. If you take a shower ALONE it benefits you. Get it? Fill your life with gratitude, validation, positivity, happiness, joy, feeling marvelous, and you are healthier and wealthier. From this mindset you can create anything you want. You want more love, BE MORE Loving!

Attitude Determines Your Thoughts, Feeling, Talk, Actions And The Results You Get!

You want better friendships, BE A BETTER FRIEND. You want more money, DEVELOP A RICH MINDSET. You want to feel better, THINK BETTER. Thought precedes action. Actions precede results. Want better results? Begin with how you think and feel. Put the very best positive energy to work for you and for others. Create a marvelous world to be part of! Imagine how incredible your life will be when you make this an automatic, reliable habit. Stop waiting for others. Go FIRST! Stop being stingy and lavish positive energy on yourself, others and the world. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes