“Some people speak poorly to others. They’re careless about what they say and how they hurt others. They don’t care. Others speak poorly to themselves. They’re careless about what they say and how they hurt themselves. They don’t care. Perhaps, they speak poorly to themselves and to others. It would make sense they’d do both. But not all people do both. Do you?
Some people treat others horribly but not themself. Others, treat themselves horribly but not others. Do you do one or the other or both? There are different possibilities. How about this? How about you attempt this? Especially if you speak poorly to yourself. Try this first. Consider YOURSELF the other person you talk to. When you speak to yourself imagine you’re talking to someone else.
You know that person. You say ‘you’ to, as in, ‘ how can you be so…’ or ‘you really are…’ You know those less-than-glorious-things you have said to yourself in the past. Some people use words like fat, ugly, loser, dumb and worse. They call themselves names. It’s very negative and harmful. Think about what you’re attracting and creating. Consider how you vibe when you do that. I say, stop it.
If you say you are broke, or that life sucks, what do you think IS reflected in your life? If you say, ‘well, I’m only commenting on what already is,’ then remember this, YOU always WILL have what you say you have! You certainly won’t have more than what you state. This is important.
Whether you speak to yourself, others or circumstances your words reflect YOU, your thoughts, feelings, energy, vibrations, frequency, and your conditions. AND ALL OF THOSE words, thoughts, feelings, energy, vibrations, frequency and conditions WILL create and attract what you experience. Nothing changes since you’re commenting and reinforcing what you don’t like.
You aren’t creating anything different. You ARE keeping it the same. Your comment does nothing to bless, heal or prosper, inspire, uplift, edify or transform. Whomever and whatever you criticize is criticizing yourself. Energy flows where your attention goes. You can’t escape the consequences. You are responsible for maintaining what you’d rather change. Get this! You’re doing it. YOU are doing it.
Your words do nothing to create a different present or future for yourself. You are perpetuating the same. You are keeping it the same. You are attracting the same. You are bringing about the very thing you don’t like or want or hope to exclude by your thoughts and words. What you think about you bring about. You cannot escape the consequences of your thoughts, words and actions.
This is precisely why you need to change your thinking and speaking. Energy flows where your attention goes. Start thinking highly of yourself. Treat yourself with respect. Think the best of yourself. Love yourself. Be kind. Supportive. Caring. Nurturing. Only speak words that bless, heal and prosper YOU. Thoughts precede words and actions. Learn to speak only the best. Get it?
Place a guard before your thoughts and on your lips before you speak. Your words are either a blessing or a curse. Guard for your actions. Make it a point to ONLY think, speak and act with the highest, most positive intentions. Love yourself AND others. What you say about yourself makes it so. What you say about others you bring about for yourself. The same is true of circumstances.
As Buddha said, ‘it’s like drinking poison but thinking it will harm someone else.’ It doesn’t. It harms you. What you say is what you get! Treat yourself AND ALL others as you would an innocent child. You would hurt or harm a precious young one. It’s important to love, care and nurture a child and help move them in positive directions. It is important to be open, caring and sensitive.
You want the best for the child OR at least you should! I have no difficulty stating that. Bless, heal and prosper our children. When you do this for yourself and others, when you treat everyone, including yourself exceptionally well, things open and become magically different. When you hold all in the most positive, high-esteem and regard your world delightfully transforms.
You will become freer. You’ll be happier, healthier and have less stress. Things get easier! You’ll experience more peace and joy. More of everything will open to you because YOU are opening and inviting good things into your life. What you focus on you get back. Birds of a feather flock together. Like attracts like. You create and attract people and circumstances into your life. Know this.
When you seek to live from the position of blessing, healing and prospering yourself and others, you are helping create a wonderful world for all. Remember this. Whether it is yourself, others, events and circumstances, seek the very best. Only put your attention on the very best. Do not curse yourself, them or it. Consider it all a blessing. Find the good in all. Delight in it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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