“You cannot NOT create. You may be creating what you want or what you don’t want. THAT is what you are doing. You create your reality. You create your reactions. You create everything good or not-so-good. YOU are doing it. Stop and for once own up to it. STOP, complaining, accusing, deflecting, distracting, whining, wallowing and giving reasons.

If you don’t like what you are getting STOP doing it! Stop creating it! Stop it! Take charge. Have enough self-respect to say, ‘If it’s to be, it is up to me.’ Instead of cursing yourself, others or the universe for why you aren’t who you want to be and aren’t doing what you want to be doing or having what you want to have. Stop sniveling. Start being a boss.

START creating what you do want! To do that YOU must change what you are currently thinking about and how you are thinking about it. If you want your life to change then you must change things in your life. You can’t do what got you where you are if you want to be somewhere different. You must think differently, speak differently, feel differently.

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Then you will behave differently and get different results. If you want to get what you desire most you must become someone who can do and have what you desire most. If it remains outside of you, over there somewhere, you ain’t going to get it. Become it. Be it. Go first. Stop hesitating, doubting, fearing, wanting and wishing AND MAKE IT HAPPEN! GO FIRST!

YOU must think predominantly, most of the time, positively, about what you DO WANT in order to get what you want! You must fill your mind with what you want to be, do and have. This must become your obsession, what you think about most of the time. Is it optimistic and positive or negative and defeating. Most people think defeating. They think negatively.

BUT they think they are positive and optimistic. They are deceived. HOW can you tell? Your results show you what you’re focused on. If you feel less-than-glorious your feelings are showing you what you’re focused on. If your self-talk is critical of yourself or others, if it is blaming and negative, your self-talk is showing you what you are focused on. Guess what

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You aren’t the positive person you may think yourself to be. If you think about what you want and are not ecstatic about it, you aren’t going to get it. WHY? Because if you don’t feel thrilled and grateful and excited because it is already yours, you are thinking about how you don’t have it and that it would be nice if you did. WHAT? YOU don’t own it yet. Get it?

If you don’t presently own it, you aren’t going to own it. The universe is eternally present. Everything exists right now. If you don’t think, feel, speak, behave, and act as an owner right now, you aren’t an owner. You are a wanter. You are a wisher. You are someone who wants but doesn’t have and most of your thoughts are on not having it. Get this.

You think you want it but you notice not having it most. That is what keeps it from showing up. If you want to grow a plant, you must plant the seeds. If you already have planted the seeds the plant can be growing. If you haven’t planted, IT AIN’T GROWING. You’re not going to get what you want because nothing is happening. To have it you must already be it.

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You must have made the change from desiring it to being the owner. The owner has it. The owner can appreciate it or not, but they already own it. Once you own it, IT’s yours. Presently, you’re wanting, begging, hoping, wishing, wondering, doubting, fearing, hoping, frustrating, wanting, doubting, begging, needing, noticing not having it, begging, fretting.

THIS must stop. Nothing will change if you keep this up. STOP IT. I show you how, but you don’t do it. I tell you but you don’t listen. I invite you and you don’t accept. Still, you think you are doing it but then wondering why it is a struggle. Well, if it is a struggle, it’s because your mindset, your vibe, your feelings aren’t right. You are out of whack.

You aren’t aligned yet. You’re not congruent. You have one foot on the dock and another on the boat. You’re not committed. You’re not all in. You are wobbly. Wobbly won’t work. Stay that way if you wish or change it. It’s up to you. It’s your decision. It’s your responsibility. ‘If it’s to be, it is up to me.’ Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes