“You can control your responses but not the details. When driving you intend to get to your destination safely but you don’t control the weather. You don’t control the road conditions. You don’t control traffic. You can manage your vehicle.
But you can’t control it if it breaks down or get a flat. You can’t control if there are detours. Still, you can navigate and choose other ways to get to your destination. Whether you enjoy the ride or not is completely up to you.
Whether you attempt to control the weather, the road conditions and all else, or relax, let go and enjoy it is up to you. It is what it is. It is whatever YOU DECIDE it will be; a problem or blessing? Dog crap or diamonds? You choose. You are the chooser. Why make it bad?
It Is Always Your Choice – The Key Is To Always Choose Wisely
There’s a knack to going through tough times. First, you shouldn’t label them as tough! The trick is not to think about them or call them tough times, problems, challenges, issues or difficulties. Don’t emphasize what you think it is. Emphasize what you want it to be.
Consider it an opportunity, a surprise, a lesson, a learning, exploring your options. Maybe, call it a situation that works to your advantage; a blessing. How you view it determines how you feel about it. How you feel about it determines what you say and do. Understand?
Instead of reacting from you past previous limited conditioning learn to respond in new, positive, productive ways that can powerfully change your experiences for the better. Activate your attitude. Focus on becoming the best version of you possible. Get free.
Manage your mindset. Design it. Stop trying to control and transform life’s circumstances. Transform yourself instead. You’ll learn and grow and life will become far more delightful. Consider everything a blessing and it is. Celebrate everything! ” Rex Sikes
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Yet another great post!
This is exactly what I am practicing now.
After 12 years at work last week I got a phone call from the company to let me know that my position has been eliminated.
I am the only provider in my household. So, yes I was upset and I still have my moments but I get out of it fast and I focus on my new goals.
I am focused now on what new opportunities are for me.
I am seeing this situation as an opportunity to start a side business I have been putting off.
I am seeing as an opportunity to work on other area of practice.
I am focused on new learning opportunities
I am choosing to see the light and not the darkness.
Thank you Rex.
Claudia
Awesome, great share and yes one door closes others open. Challenges are our opportunities often disguised. Seems we need to learn some lessons before awe realize and recognize them as blessings. How wonderful. All the best wishes. Keep up the great work and keep sharing and stay in touch!!!
I will!!!!!
Thank you so much,
Claudia