“One of the biggest communication problems between people is assuming you know what is going on inside the mind of the other person. Instead of seeking accurate information people make erroneous attributions and cause more issues by doing so.
Even if your attributions were correct you are not allowing the other person to speak, unburden or share their thoughts and feelings you are assigning them to the person. People want to be heard. They want to be acknowledged, respected and valued above all else.
They don’t want to be told why they are doing things or hear your point of view at least NOT until they are ready to and that means they need to trust you, value you and want you to share that with them. If they aren’t there yet, don’t tell them what they are thinking.
Be Open – Honest – Available – Listen – Seek To Understand
People pretend to be mind readers. If you don’t like it when people do this to you then don’t do it to others. Treat them with respect. Don’t assume you know. Ask them. Even if you were correct that is not what is important.
What’s important is the connection and relationship, the love and regard you share for each other. Get it? You can improve your relationships by asking them if they want to say anything without assuming a problem for them.
Then for goodness sake shut up and listen without offering any advice or saying ‘I thought as much.’ Listen openly. Respect and love them even if you don’t like what you are hearing. If you want people to be honest with you be honest with them. If you want them to be open to you be open with them. If you want to be loved and respected, love and respect them. Stop reading minds if you don’t want it done to you. Create trust and rapport. Enjoy each other and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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