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Stop Feeding What You Don’t Want! Start Growing What You Do

“Every habit, even the ones you wish you didn’t have, is proof you’re a capable learner. You’ve mastered it through repetition and consistency. Instead of beating yourself up for it, which has likely done you no good so far, acknowledge that skill. Know that you are learning and can learn to do anything. Then decide to put it to better use. Don’t let your past dictate what you do now and in the future. Instead, put yourself in charge!

Here’s the challenge: you can’t truly stop thinking about something by telling yourself not to think about it. If I tell you not to picture a flying purple elephant with a monkey on its back, you see it instantly. You can’t not. Your mind must first create the image in order to ‘avoid’ it, and by then, it’s already there. This is where so many people, myself once included, go wrong. We focus on what we don’t want.

‘I don’t want to be broke.’ ‘I don’t want to be overweight.’ ‘I don’t want to end up in a bad relationship.’ What are we doing when we do that AND what happens? We keep reinforcing exactly those ideas in our minds, making them feel more real and more likely. They become our daily diet of thinking negatively. Instead of becoming richer, weigh what we want and in a loving relationship, we promote the very things we don’t want.

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The key is to shift completely. Instead of framing your desires in terms of avoidance, describe them in terms of creation. Speak, think, and imagine only what you want to attract, include, and experience. Fill your thoughts with the outcomes you desire, not the ones you fear. This is how new, positive habits are born, habits that support you, strengthen you, and carry you in the direction you actually want to go. You can do this.

You already know how to learn. Now choose to learn in the service of your best life. For some people, maybe you this seems as if it is just not possible. I know, I’ve helped countless numbers of people go from, ‘I can’t’ to ‘I can.’ AND I can help you too! No matter how much you’ve struggled in the past, if you’d like me to walk you through this process and help you create the life you want, you can join me in one of my transformational programs like the Ultimate NLP Home Study Course™. When you start, everything starts changing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

To assist you immediately I’ve a fabulous tool you can get and use minutes form now that can help you think, feel and act better today! Get the Attitude Activator™ It’s an audio program you listen to with headphones, relax and make positive changes. Use this powerful process to reprogram your mind to get unstuck, create unshakable confidence and resolve, and to create more prosperity, love, and peace in your life. You will love it. It does the heavy lifting for you. Get it today and surprise yourself with how much easier it is to make the changes you’ve longed to make.

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The Hidden Power in How You Speak to Yourself

“What you consistently say to yourself, out loud or silently, becomes your truth. Your inner dialogue drives your life, steering you either toward success or struggle. So choose your words carefully. Use your mind to support and uplift yourself, not tear yourself down. Your thoughts and words are the seeds you plant; what grows depends on what you put into the soil.

Affirmations, Directed Questions™, and conscious self-talk are tools anyone can use to reshape their experience from the inside out. They’re not magic tricks. They’re the language of belief, the scripts your subconscious mind listens to day in and day out. Speak only to bless, heal, and prosper yourself and those around you.

Want to feel confident, successful, and like a true champion? Then begin thinking, speaking, and feeling like one. Align your mental images, your inner dialogue, and your emotions. When these work together, you become congruent. Congruency is when everything within you flows in one direction. There’s no inner conflict, just certainty. And when you’re congruent, the world feels it.

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It’s in your walk. It’s in your posture. It’s in the way your eyes light up and your voice resonates. You don’t have to shout to be powerful. Real presence doesn’t need to make noise. There is a calm, quiet confidence in those who are congruent, and it draws others in.

If you’re ready to live from that kind of power and presence, it begins by shifting how you speak to yourself today. If you’d like help doing that, I invite you to explore one of my transformational programs. You can work with me live or move through the material at your own pace. Just begin. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

To assist you I’ve a fabulous tool. Get the Attitude Activator™! It’s an audio program you listen to with headphones, relax and make positive changes. Use this powerful process to reprogram your mind to get unstuck, create unshakable confidence and resolve, and to create more prosperity, love, and peace in your life. You will love it. It does the heavy lifting for you. Get it today and surprise yourself with how much easier it is to make the changes you’ve longed to make.

https://www.rexsikes.com/attitude-activator-special-offer

Your Body Never Lies: What Presence Really Says About You

“The way you move, speak, breathe, and simply exist reveals everything. Your posture, your tone, the look in your eye all silently broadcast what you truly believe about yourself. You don’t need to declare your confidence for others to know it. They feel it. They see it. You radiate it. There is something unmistakable about someone who is congruent.

When everything about a person aligns, thoughts, feelings and actions, it shows. Their presence speaks louder than words ever could. You recognize it in the way they walk into a room, how they stand, how they make eye contact. They’re not seeking approval. They’re not hiding. They are simply there, fully present, grounded, calm, and alive.

This kind of presence is magnetic. The confident person doesn’t overpower. They don’t need to. Their power is quiet, steady, and deeply rooted. It’s felt in the way they speak, not with force, but with certainty. Their voice carries because there’s no doubt inside them. And that certainty invites others to listen, to trust, to follow.

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When you are aligned within yourself, your energy becomes unmistakable. You command attention without needing to demand it. It is in your smile, your stillness, your ease. And yes, it can be learned. You can cultivate it, moment by moment, breath by breath, word by word. If that kind of inner power and presence speaks to you, I encourage you to explore how deep you can go. Study with me. You can join live or move through one of my transformational programs at your own pace. Either way, the shift begins when you decide to claim it. More next time.Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

To assist you I’ve a fabulous tool. Get the Attitude Activator™ now!

You relax and make changes listening with headphones. It’s a powerful audio program. Use this positive process to reprogram your mind. Get unstuck. Create unshakable confidence and resolve. Create more prosperity, love, and peace in your life. You will love it. It does the heavy lifting for you. Get it today and surprise yourself with how much easier it is to make the changes you’ve longed to make.

https://www.rexsikes.com/attitude-activator-special-offer

Order Your Life Like You Order Coffee

“Your subconscious mind is always listening. It’s waiting for instructions. But it doesn’t respond to vague, weak signals. It takes its orders from what you consistently think, feel, imagine, and act out. So give it clear, confident direction. Show it what you want by living it from the inside out. First, feel it in your mind. Play it in your inner movie theater. See yourself having it.

Be that version of you now. The more vividly you imagine, and the more joyfully you feel it, the faster it begins to become real in your world. What you focus on most, you begin to embody. What you consistently dwell on becomes your experience. That’s how it works. Practice clarity in simple ways. Assert what you want in everyday moments. When ordering coffee, don’t shrink.

Don’t ask permission. Just state your order clearly and politely. Thank the barista with a smile. That smile tells the world you’re confident, grounded, and friendly. These little moments matter. They’re rehearsal for the bigger stage of your dreams. It’s the same with your goals. Define what you want, not what you don’t.

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If you find yourself focusing on what you want to avoid, use that to redirect. Turn ‘I don’t want to be broke’ into ‘I’m living with financial freedom.’ Turn ‘I’m tired of being unsure’ into ‘I speak and act with clarity and power.’ Feel it. Believe it. Live it, even before it fully arrives. Every moment is a cue. A nudge. A chance to reinforce the version of you that already exists inside.

That you who is ready to emerge. You teach your subconscious through repetition, emotion, and image. So speak to it with vision. Guide it with certainty. The results will amaze you. And when you want to go deeper, if you’re ready to make this way of living automatic and unstoppable, I invite you to study with me. Whether live or at your own pace, there’s a path here waiting for you. Quietly powerful. Subtly transformative. Just like you’re becoming. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

And if you’d like to take this journey further, I invite you to study with me. My transformational programs, whether you join me in a live in person training or one of my excellent go at your own pace online programs are here to support your positive evolution. You don’t need to keep hiding. The real you is already ready. More next blog. Celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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Become It Now: The Secret You Already Live

“You are already the person you want to become. The journey begins not in some far-off future, but right now, in your mind, in your body, and in your spirit. It starts by seeing yourself clearly, confident, powerful, and assured. You run that movie in your inner theater, over and over, until it becomes your reality. You imagine the scenes. You play the role, not someday, but now.

You rehearse your greatness into being. If that feels difficult at first, borrow from those who already live it. Watch how they stand, how they speak, how they breathe. Notice how they move through the world. Then, let that image become your own. You don’t need to imitate, just integrate the energy of their certainty. Make it yours in your way. Consistency is key.

A few minutes each day is all it takes. Don’t overdo it, just enough to feel good and keep going. Make it manageable, make it pleasant, and make it stick. Enjoy the feeling of being assertive, positive, clear. Walk in it. Talk in it. Breathe in it. Because when you see yourself this way, and feel it deeply, you begin to live it naturally. Thought, word, and action align.

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The outside catches up to the inside. That’s when real change begins. If you’re ready to deepen this practice and create transformation from the inside out, you’re welcome to join me in one of my live or go at your own pace programs. Together, we’ll turn your vision into your life. You are not waiting to become. You already are. Get this. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

“This is by far the most comprehensive self-help book on the market! And I’ve written 20 self-help books all on Amazon. Rex Sikes is a genius for writing it & you’d do well to get a copy if you truly want to change your life!” Dr La Verne Adams

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Speak It. Live It. Become It

“You don’t have to announce your goals to the world. In fact, sometimes it’s better if you don’t. Quiet confidence creates powerful results. Go about your business with certainty, and let your actions be your loudest voice. The outcome will speak for itself. When you assert yourself, truly assert yourself, you’re operating from a center of strength. You’re not pushing.

You’re not retreating. You’re moving in harmony with your vision. Every cell of your being agrees: this is what I want, and I will see it through. You’re aligned. You’re congruent. You are of a single mindedness. You don’t bend to circumstances. You don’t crumble because someone doubts you. You keep going, because you already decided. That kind of clarity is magnetic.

It draws the right people and experiences into your orbit. And when challenges come, and they will, you meet them with unshakable purpose. So how do you live like this? Practice. You rehearse the version of yourself who already owns that power. You start small, but you start. You become aware of how you think, how you speak, how you act, and you begin aligning all of it.

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You affirm who you are by being who you are, consistently and deliberately. This is the path to true personal transformation. And if you’d like help walking it, I’m here. Whether you prefer to explore at your own pace or join me live, there’s a place for you in one of my transformational programs. Decide who you are. Practice being it. Affirm it with your entire being. You don’t have to force it. You just live it, and the world will catch up. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

To help you I’ve a fabulous tool. The Attitude Activator™ is an audio program you listen to with headphones, relax and make positive changes. Use this powerful process to reprogram your mind to get unstuck, create unshakable confidence and resolve, and to create more prosperity, love, and peace in your life.

https://www.rexsikes.com/attitude-activator-special-offer

Unshakable: The Quiet Power Behind Getting What You Want

“To make what you want real, you must be more than hopeful. You must be assertive, grounded, clear, and committed. Not pushy. Not timid. Simply unwavering in your vision and sure of your direction. There’s no place for hesitation when it comes to living your purpose. And aggression? That burns bridges and backs you into corners. The path forward is steadiness. Calm confidence.

You know what you want, and you move toward it with quiet determination. You define your destination clearly. You don’t just wish for it, you assert it. You intend it. You own it. You claim it as yours and align your thoughts, your language, your actions. You vow, not in noise, but in certainty, that you’re making it happen. Affirming isn’t merely repeating words.

It’s declaring with your whole being: this is who I am, this is what I do, and this is where I’m going. Your certainty shapes your reality. When you fully align your inner world, the outer world follows. If you want to cultivate this kind of lasting inner power and walk confidently into the life you’ve imagined, I invite you to study with me online or in live program. Either way, the path is waiting. You don’t need to shout your goals from rooftops. You just need to decide, declare, and do. You’ve got this. Let’s go. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Power Hidden in Your Everyday Genius

“Own what’s already yours. You have talents. You have strengths. And whether you whisper them quietly to yourself or shout them out loud, they’re there, woven into the way you move through the world. You might be good with a hammer or can thread a needle or hear the rhythm in a song most people miss. Maybe your gift shows up in your hands, shaping, fixing, designing, creating.

Maybe it’s in the way you play, how you compete, how you build, how you care. Whatever it is, it’s yours. Own it. There’s no need to compare. This isn’t about being better than someone else. It’s about being in alignment with who you truly are. It’s about recognizing your skills, your voice, your unique way of expressing what matters to you. Some things you came into this life with.

Others you worked hard to learn. They’re all part of your internal treasure chest, waiting to be fully appreciated. You’ve come a long way. You’ve learned to stand, walk and talk. To solve problems, communicate, connect, navigate life. You’ve mastered complex abilities without even realizing it, because that’s how we grow. You might forget how powerful that is.

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But when you pause to take it in, you can feel it. The depth. The resourcefulness. The grit. Take stock of all that you are. Recognize what you’ve done, what you’ve built, and what you’ve become. When you do, you step into the freedom that comes with self-awareness. You stop needing approval. You stop second-guessing. You show up fully, unapologetically, and from a place of truth. That’s where your real power lives.

And if you want to take it further, if you’re ready to go deeper and unlock even more of your natural excellence, I welcome you to explore working with me. My training and programs are not cookie-cutter. They’re transformational. They’re designed to help you uncover and activate more of who you really are—so you can live with greater confidence, clarity, and joy.

When you commit to that path, everything begins to shift in your favor. You don’t just learn, you evolve. You’ve already proven you can do incredible things. Now imagine what’s possible when you fully believe in yourself and move forward with purpose. Go ahead. Turn the key. You’re the one you’ve been waiting for. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How to Claim Your Power When Life Doesn’t Go Your Way

“Life doesn’t always deliver what you ordered. Things don’t always go your way. There are lessons in all of this but few realize that is the opportunity. So when it goes askew, here’s what you can do. Sometimes, people say they’ll be there and vanish. Sometimes, the plan derails, the outcome fizzles, and things flat out don’t happen. So what? That’s the ride. That’s the real deal. That’s what is. Go with the flow. Yup!

The sooner you stop resisting it, the sooner you begin to own your experience. Most of us are addicted to control without realizing it. I mean really. We want guarantees. We want everyone to do what we expect, when we expect it. We want the world to conform to us, circumstances to bend to our will and life to be easy and work out as we hope. We want people to do what they say. We don’t want to be disappointed.

One way to think about it is the world doesn’t play by our imagined rules. People are unpredictable. Life shifts. Circumstances change. The only constant you can rely on is yourself. So claim it. Own it. Because when you do, something profound happens. You take your power back. You may not control what happens. But you can control how you respond. That’s your point of power. Reacting is the old. Responding the new.

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When something falls through, whether someone flakes, an outcome slips, or your expectations get shattered, you can crash and burn, cave in, wallow around on the floor, or you can rise. You can stew in disappointment, or you can shift your perspective. You choose to believe this very moment holds something even better. You might not see it yet, but the seed is there. It is always completely up to you what you do.

Over the years I’ve coached countless thousands through this very pivot point. I’ve watched people go from heartbreak, frustration, and rage to freedom, confidence, and clarity, not by changing the world, but by changing their mindset and how they view the world. The meaning you assign anything, whether consciously or not, tends to be the meaning you experience. Get it? What you think makes it so. Get it?

One client, Jackson, had a major business deal crash. He thought it was the end. But through our work, he rewired his mindset, stayed open, and within six months landed an opportunity far greater than the one he lost. He now calls that ‘failure’ his biggest gift. Remember, you can look back and connect the dots. It isn’t so easy doing that forward. Often times, people look back at the worst realizing it was the breakthrough.

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It was because of what was that they now are who they are. And that is true whether you realize it or not. And here’s the thing. There’s no magic wand. But there is a method. And that’s what I like to share with people ready to receive. I share real, actionable practices that transform how you think, feel, and create. You begin to lead yourself differently. You step into your power. You become resilient. Flexible. Unstoppable.

Because instead of needing the world to play your game, you learn how to win no matter the rules. So when things fall apart, don’t fall down. Fall UP. Rise UP. Step into the moment. Take a breath. And ask, ‘What’s possible now?’ You may not get the answer right away. That’s okay. Stay open. Stay curious. Stay empowered. Ask and answer will come. And when it does, you’ll be ready to run with it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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LIFE ON YOUR TERMS: CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT – book and audio book

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“Life On Your Terms by Rex Sikes — and WOW. This isn’t just a book…it’s a blueprint for total transformation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, searching for clarity, or craving more purpose and power in your day-to-day — this is your must-read. Rex doesn’t just inspire, he equips you with real tools to reclaim your mindset, your joy, and your life. This book is speaking directly to my soul, and I’m already seeing shifts in how I think, act, and feel. It’s like having a personal mentor whispering truth and possibility into every page. Read this. Live this. Own your life — on your terms.” Melodie Wolter

How to Let Go, Live Free, and Lead with Power

“Most people live tethered to invisible strings, pulling, hoping, wishing others will do, say, or deliver what they want. They expect others to follow through. They set themselves up, and when the outcome disappoints, they react. They blame. They suffer. And they keep repeating the same loop, unconsciously, again and again. People are addicted to less-than-glorious expectations about others and the self.

People can be unpredictable, or so it seems. But that’s a discussion for another day. Circumstances change. Life unfolds in its own way. Anything can happen and often does. If you’re constantly investing your emotional well-being in what others say they’ll do, you’re handing your power away like loose change. You hope. You trust. Then they drop the ball, and you’re frustrated, angry, let down.

Yet, somehow, you think it’s about them. But it never is. It’s about what you expected. If you want to live free, if you want real influence in your life, you must stop outsourcing your happiness. You must stop making others responsible for how you feel. That’s your job. That’s where your freedom begins. When you assume responsibility for everything that affects you.

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That means other people, circumstances and your own thoughts and feelings. Stop blaming others, the world and yourself. When you can manage your thoughts, your feelings, your expectations, you rise into power. You stop the inner tantrum. You stop the blame. You begin to see clearly. You shift your energy from ‘Why didn’t they follow through?’ to ‘What can I learn here?’ You take the reins back.

That shift alone can change your life. One of my students used to spiral for days when his partner forgot plans or didn’t reply right away. Through our work together, he learned to adjust his expectations and focus inward. He stopped blaming and started breathing. He discovered peace wasn’t in the outcome, it was in him. Learn to manage by letting go, getting unstuck and stop blaming. Then shift to uplift!

There’s nothing strange about this. Science backs it. Cognitive psychology teaches that our emotional responses are not caused by events themselves, but by our interpretation of them. This is called the ABC model, developed by psychologist Albert Ellis: A (the activating event), B (your belief about it), and C (the consequence). Most people jump from A to C and miss the belief, the real driver.

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The magic happens when you wake up to that middle step. That’s why people come to me. Not for tips and tricks, but total internal transformation. You don’t need another surface-level seminar or motivational boost that fades by Monday. You need guided, precise rewiring that sticks. The kind that puts you in control, not just in your head, but in your life.

Imagine waking up, knowing you can meet whatever comes your way, not by trying to control it, but by mastering your response to it. That’s real power. That’s freedom. That’s what’s waiting for you, if you’re ready. The door is open. Step through it. Discover the freedom of letting go and the joy that arises when you do. Stop perpetuating problems. Drop them. Love yourself, others and the world. Delight more. Express it more. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

Need some help? Visit rexsikes.com Look around. Let your heart choose.

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