“Opportunities for kindness abound. Help ease other’s burdens just by being pleasant and nice. Hold a door open for someone. Make pleasant eye contact. Chat with a stranger. Smile. Listen. Say hello. There are plenty of times a day when a smile, a kind word, a note, a message, a small act of caring may be all that’s needed to uplift a person. Do this with family, friends and co-workers. Do it with and for everyone! Smile more. Be kind.

Uplift. Edify. Be friendly in thought, word and deed. Be positive. Wish people well. Send them energy. Feel good about others. Celebrate their wins. Help them with their losses. Encourage them. Understand them. Recognize and validate the people you pass daily without giving a thought to. The person who annoys you; the person begging at the corner; the disenfranchised citizens, the homeless, the needy, the hospitalized.

Acknowledge them as you go about your day! Notice and greet them. Recognize them. Smile, say hello. Wish them well. Act like they do more than take up space and exist. They are people after all. They may be cut off from family, friends and society. They may need medical care, or a meal or a bed. They may need just a moment of contact or a friend. They’re human. They have needs.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Some just don’t have the money or station in life you and others do. So what? Treat all people with care and kindness! If you can’t do anything YOU can always wish them well. You can think highly of them and for them. You can say a little prayer or shower that person with positive thoughts, feelings of peace, love, joy and positive warm loving energy. People can tell. People feel it. Attitude is everything!

The world is filled with people posing as strangers Take moments throughout the day to validate the people who walk the earth around you. They get on elevators with you, walk the streets, pass you by in hallways. The world is filled with people, with those who could be friends, posing as strangers. We are one species. We’re one family seemingly separated. We have differences. That makes us richer than if we’re all the same.

Still there’s an aspect of us that IS all the same. We’re human! We want and need to be noticed and loved. We need to feel that others know we’re here and that we can be heard. We all want to make some form of positive impact and be valuable to another. We want to leave a mark on the world. There is nothing sadder than a lonely person in a crowd. To be lonely when surrounded by others should never happen. We’re all in it together.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

We are one great human network. Networking shouldn’t only be to gain in business for ourselves, but to get others the help they need. Some people have fallen out of the ‘everyday’ life network and can use help getting re-connected. Help others connect to resources. Help them find and connect to their own resources and those available around them. Help each other bless, heal and prosper! Help them to be uplifted, edified and significant.

We are ONE organism with different cells. In a healthy body, these different cells work together and support each other so the organism can thrive. They are different. They have different functions, but their goal IS to keep the organism alive. We should do no less when it comes to people. For the species to survive we need to cooperate more. Recognize and validate. Help and heal! We need to listen, understand and act.

We need to manage our thoughts and focus our attention on the positive. We need to speak and act positively. What makes the world a beautiful place? When people are there for each other. When they reach out and uplift each other. When they cooperate, collaborate and work, play and live together in harmony. There are so many kind, generous, and wonderful people in the world. Focus on that.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Spend a moment smiling with someone new today! Celebrate what is good! Recognize it! Celebrate it! Appreciate it! Validate it! Make it a point to create more of it. We can if we believe we can! We will when we decide we will. Join me. Let’s begin right now. Help each other to celebrate each other AND celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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