“Why are you frustrated? Is it because you feel like you’re not making headway fast enough? Maybe you hate it when someone tells you, “Relax. Be patient.” You don’t want to hear that, do you? What you want is for your efforts to pay off now! Right now! But that insistent wanting, that deep desire for immediate results—that is where your suffering begins. It’s like trying to push a rope—you can’t force it.

You want to make water boil faster by cranking the heat, but it won’t work. And in the process, you’re just getting more and more agitated. You know you need patience, but knowing that makes it even harder to relax, doesn’t it? You’re split. You want it to happen now, but it’s not happening. You bounce back and forth, trying to force progress, while knowing deep down that you can’t rush it. And here’s the kicker: you can’t force it.

No matter how much you want to, it won’t speed up just because you’re in a hurry. So here’s what you need to understand: You have to let go. That’s the real secret: letting go! You must learn to relax and give yourself a break. If you don’t already know how to unwind, it’s time to start. And if you do know how, you need to start using those skills regularly.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

You wouldn’t try to run a marathon without resting and refueling along the way, would you? The same applies to everyday life. Take time to decompress, whether it’s through a simple walk in the park, gardening, meditating, or even going on a short trip to clear your head. You need to pull back, hit pause, and recharge. When was the last time you really enjoyed yourself without worrying about your goals? Let go. Smile, laugh and delight much more.

Look at people who have achieved real success. They know exactly what they can control, and they know how to let go of the things they can’t. They don’t waste time stressing over things that are out of their hands. They relax, rejuvenate, and then return to their work with fresh energy. You have the same choice. You can spend your time feeling better or feeling worse, it’s up to you. But understand this point. Success doesn’t just mean wealth.

Success means knowing how to live with whatever you have. It means being grateful and happy with lots or with nothing. When I ask you to look at people who achieve real success this is the success and the examples I mean. There are plenty of empty suits, lonely, miserable, nasty, mean people who have lots of money or material things but are not at all happy or truly successful. They have things but aren’t fulfilled or enjoy loving relationships.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Which do you choose? Think about this: Just a couple of hundred years ago, people had to wait for everything. Water didn’t boil in seconds, it took time to build a fire and heat it up. If they wanted to travel, it took days, weeks, even months. They waited because they had no other choice. Can you imagine telling a farmer from back then to “relax and be patient” as he waited for his crops to grow? Of course not. He knew that.

No matter what you might say,  crops took time to harvest, and rushing the process wouldn’t make them grow faster. Patience was built into life back then. But today, we’ve been spoiled by instant gratification, microwaves, smartphones, and same-day delivery. We’ve forgotten that some things still take time, no matter how advanced our technology is. The farmer expected his crops to grow. He planted, watered, and waited with the faith.

He knew that nature would do its job and had to let it. And that’s what patience really is: waiting with faith. It’s knowing that your effort is working behind the scenes, even when you can’t see immediate results. Patience IS the key because patience isn’t just about waiting. It’s about what you do while you wait. If you’re constantly tense, frustrated, and doubting yourself, you’re only hurting your chances of success.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

But if you wait with expectation and faith, everything changes. Imagine planning a cruise across the ocean. You don’t sit there staring at the horizon, panicking over whether you’ll reach your destination. You have faith in the journey. You relax and enjoy the ride. The same principle applies to your goals. So, change your thinking! We live in a time where we expect everything to happen at lightning speed. And when it doesn’t, we lose patience.

We start doubting ourselves. But the truth is, most things that matter, the big things, still take time. You know the example of the Chinese Bamboo. I’ve shared it so many times here. Success, personal growth, deep relationships need time to develop and flourish. So how do we change our relationship with time? YOU begin by changing YOUR thoughts. Focus on what you can control: your mindset, your effort, and your persistence.

Commit to excellence, and know that what you’re working on will come to pass if you stay the course. Just like the farmer doesn’t dig up his seeds to check on their progress, resist the urge to constantly doubt and second-guess yourself. Trust the process. If you give in to fear, worry, and doubt, you’re only undoing your progress. It’s like taking one step forward and two steps back.

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You’ll get caught in a loop of frustration because you’re fixating on results instead of trusting the seeds you’ve planted! Think of it like this: the results you see today are based on the thoughts and actions you took in the past. Right now, even though you can’t see it, new results are growing and manifesting based on the work you’re doing. Stay focused. Stay committed. So, how do you live in the meantime?

How do you handle the waiting game? You celebrate. You live in the moment. You express gratitude for where you are right now. Don’t let obstacles throw you off course, instead, you overcome them by tapping into your own resourcefulness. You develop a winning attitude that doesn’t get shaken easily. You celebrate all of it. AND STOP focusing on the problem and focus on the learning and opportunity hidden within it. Celebrate it and it changes!

Live with passion, knowing that good things are coming in the future. Understand and appreciate that what you’ve set in motion will eventually become yours. Just like the farmer, you plant the seeds, tend to the garden, and trust that the flowers will bloom in time. So here’s what I want you to do: starting today, change how you approach your goals. Take a deep breath and relax. Let go of the need for immediate results.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Instead, focus on the journey. Find something that recharges you and make it a part of your daily life. Meditate, go for a walk (barefoot if possible), work on a hobby, play with a child or a pet. Take a bath or lounge in a hammock. Whatever it is, make relaxing a priority. Then, revisit your goals with fresh eyes and renewed energy. Know that you’ve done what you could, and trust that the results will come. Because they will. You’re not just planting seeds, you’re cultivating a champion mindset and the attitude of a winner. Patience, persistence, and faith. That’s the winning formula. Now, go and live it. AND CELEBRATE EVERYTHING!” Rex Sikes

 

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