“What most people fail to realize is they are already living the thoughts they are thinking about. If the outside world sucks you can bet the inside one does as well, AND vice versa. People, maybe you, simply don’t realize that their lives reflect what’s going on in their head. Your present reality is always preceded by the thoughts you think. Your outer reality is only a mirror of your inner creativity. Good or bad. From within to without. Get this!

As above, so below! Thought precedes action. If you have bills and debt and are worried about making payments, you ARE living your dreams. Except, these dreams may be nightmares. It’s not the dream you want to be living. It could be any issue. It may be problems with your family, health, wealth and well-being. It could be your job or career related disappointments. It could be anything at all that is less than fulfilling.

People live sad, lonely, fearful lives instead of living joyfully and victoriously. These people, it could be you, it certainly was me, think it’s hard to make changes. They’re told and they believe, and it could be you that they’ll have to take massive action. They’ll have to struggle, sacrifice, risk and work really, really hard to change. They think they will have to overhaul their entire life to change. Some think it’s not worth it. Perhaps you?

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The people who have told them this are wrong! You and others have been deceived. You’ve been misled and have gone astray. Here’s the truth. Since you are ALREADY creating their present world by your thoughts YOU don’t have to do anything extra special at all! It doesn’t take any more effort to succeed than it does to fail. However, what you believe will determine what you do. It already does! You think it is too hard to change? Do you? Guess what.

You’re completely off base. Here’s why. You’ve already been using your mind powerfully. You have! You may not realize it, but you’ve been using it the way it works best. You’ve been using it aimed in the wrong direction. You don’t realize it but when you imagine difficulties, talk about problems and they fear the worst you are programming yourself. You arementally rehearsing the worst. You’re perpetuating your problems, not solving them.

Worry is negative goal setting. Thinking about what you don’t want and fearing the worst brings you more of the same. Like attracts like whether it’s positive or negative. It doesn’t matter whether it’s good or bad, birds of a feather still flock together. You ARE where your thoughts brought you. You will be where your thoughts take you. Get this! You cannot escape the power of your thoughts! You are ALWAYS creating your present and future reality!

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You are ALREADY affirming but it’s EVERYTHING you don’t want. You’ve been using positive affirmations in reverse. You’ve been getting what you do not want! You’ve used ‘negative suggestions’ against yourself to affirm and create and support the VERY issues you’d prefer to get rid of. Your present IS precisely due to how you have used and are using your minds! Your present IS always a reflection of what you are thinking inside! It need not be this way!

Life doesn’t have to suck. It doesn’t have to be this way, it just is, at least temporarily. Would you like to learn how to change it? Because you can. You don’t have to START positive thinking or start using affirmations. Nope, not at all. You just must CHANGE the DIRECTION of your thinking. You will use the same creative energy, but you will aim it in a different way. You’ll aim it in a powerful, positive and productive way. You’ll do what you do differently.

If life isn’t working out, then all you really have to do is switch what they are doing. Switch from the negative, the less than glorious, or destructive, unhealthy thoughts to positive healthy ones. Instead of spending your time worrying, in fear, anger and sadness, spend it in positivity, hope, joy and determination. Don’t be like those who think affirmations don’t work and fail to realize that they are already affirming their failing lives. Stop it. Let it go.

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Those people, and perhaps you, are upset, poor, unhealthy, and disenchanted.  When they speak, they talk about their worries, fears, problems. They blame the universe, the economy, others and even themselves. They focus on what’s wrong more of the time than on what is right. Can you see it? Yes, they are already affirming. Negatively affirming. They get what they don’t want. They’re good at getting what they do not want. I certainly was.

AND STILL, they keep promoting what they don’t want. They reinforce it by their words and actions each day because they don’t realize what they’re doing. They don’t notice. If you don’t notice you can’t and won’t change something. BUT once you realize and take 100% responsibility for creating and attracting and maintaining what you don’t want, you can begin to turn it around and get what you do want. So, what to do? How to change?

Shut the door on old ways. Turn away from them. Let them go. Drop the old. Stop them. Release it all and open the door to adventure and a wonderful new life. Let go of problems and shift your attention. Instead of focusing on what’s wrong, focus on what’s right. Instead of focusing on problems, put your attention on solutions. Stop thinking, talking about and reinforcing what you don’t want. Start thinking about and talking about what you do.

Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want

Think about the good, what you are grateful for and can become most of the time. Then that is what you will get and become. The outer reality will begin to mirror this inner positive reality. What you think about most often is what you become. What you focus on you get. Energy flows where attention goes. Like attracts like. Birds of a feather flock together. The inner becomes the outer. From within to without. Understand YOU ARE responsible!

If you don’t like where you are at, you can change it! What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for it to magically get better? Are you hoping you won’t have to do anything at all and that somehow, you’ll be saved? OR are you waiting for it to get so bad you must do something. If you wait ALL, you will have done is spend more time waiting. Instead, begin today and start living the dreams you want. If you want your life to change you must change things.

You can’t keep doing what you’ve always done and expect it to be different. It won’t be. BUT redirect your thoughts. Shift. Pivot. Change the direction of your thoughts and feelings. Focus on the good. Look for and find the good. Feel grateful for all you can find to appreciate. Spend time counting your blessings. Reinforce the positive! Do this repeatedly, intensely, consistently for long enough and you’ll create a new positive automatic, reliable habit!

Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want

The ‘Placebo effect’ demonstrates that if you believe something is helpful, even if there is nothing about it that works, it IS still helpful more often than not. Most of the time. Just believing it helps, helps. It’s using your imagination to feel better. Our minds are creative. Your beliefs determine what you experience. It IS because we believe we help ourselves. It’s not because the pill or amulet has any special property. This is important. Get it?

The ‘Nocebo effect’ states that if you believe nothing will help you, even if it IS beneficial, then more often than not it won’t work. These powerful effects work or don’t depending on what you believe. Your mind is powerful. You are a creator. You have already created. The only question is is it helpful or not? Is it positive or not? What direction are you sending it in? You are already doing it anyway. Is it serving you or not? You decide. Aim it!

You are responsible for what you create. From within to without. What you think determines your reality. Don’t like it? Change what you focus on. Like it? Enhance it. Get it? What it is, is up to you. What it will be is up to you. YOU are the determining factor. You are responsible. Make what you want it to be, happen. Put your attention where it serves you the way you want to be served. If you want some powerful assistance, I’m here to help you.

Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want

Reading my blog will help you. Go back and read through my posts. Get my book. Get the Attitude Activator™. Enroll in a program. Begin making your life more and more what you WANT it to be. If you do nothing, nothing changes. Take charge. Be in charge and it can be wonderful! You can do it. Do it now. Look for the good and accentuate it. Find the positive. Express your gratitude. Feel the best feelings you can. Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes