“Have you been conditioned for failure? Sadly, the answer is yes. You were not born to fail but you learned it from well-meaning people around you as you grew up. You learned and were programmed to fail. However, there is something you can do about it today!
When learning to walk, you fell many times. You didn’t stop trying. Nothing prevented you. You kept doing, until you mastered it. You did this rolling over, crawling, sitting up, feeding yourself and so many other things. You learned to read, write, do math and more.
As a child, you learned what success or failure meant from others. You adopted their definition. You learned right and wrong, good and bad. You learned evaluation and judgement from ‘them’. You learned about winning and losing. You absorbed it. Failure became an event.
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During this period in your development, if something didn’t work out as hoped, it was judged and labeled as wrong. It was a ‘failure’ and ‘bad.’ Judgements were imposed on your efforts from the others. You learned to adopt and internalize these. You made them yours.
Before long, you too made these assessments and labeled attempts as not fruitful. You began to try once, twice, or three times and then quit. Worse, before long, you may have labeled yourself based on these trials. You may have thought yourself a failure. It’s sad, right?
Neurons that fire together, wire together. The more you judged, the easier judgements became. The more you quit, the easier it became because you developed the neural pathways for quitting. The more you succeed, the more you develop winning neural pathways.
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These neural pathways became your habits for winning or losing, for feeling good or bad about yourself, others and the world. Your brain doesn’t care which you choose. Your brain will do whatever it was conditioned to do. It will continue to run the habits you learned.
If you prefer to be a winner, when all your life you felt otherwise, you now need to consciously train your brain to be a winner. You must condition and reprogram your mind similarly to how you condition the body through exercise. Get this! Otherwise, what’s your option?
You were born a winner. Don’t stop being one because you’ve learned to feel bad and quit. Learn to win again. Learn to feel good. Learn how to persist. Stop thinking of yourself as anything other than a winner. Start developing this mindset and attitude habit.
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Your mindset, your attitude, how you feel about yourself, determines how much you ‘go for it’. Persistence separates winners from the losers. If the goal is to cross the finish line, the only one who fails is the one who quits and never crosses it. Just keep moving.
As an infant, you encountered temporary defeat but kept on doing until you succeeded. You didn’t give up. It’s within you! All ‘failure’ IS only temporary unless you quit. Then, it’s permanent. If you want to attain your positive goals and dreams you must keep going.
When it gets tough adjust your plans, attempt another way, but keep going. You can do it. Become the champion you were born to be. Be that victor and you’ll triumph over circumstances. You can uplift yourself to feel and do so much better. Now, you just learn how.
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It won’t happen if you don’t take charge and condition your mindset to be a winner and a champion. Program your mind to create successes. I show you how to do this in my books, audio programs and courses. Change your thoughts and transform your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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“Rex’s understanding of how the mind works and mindset is second to none. He wrote a book called Life On Your Terms. It’s a newer book. He jumps around a lot in the book with mindset topics; creating the life you want and developing a champion mindset. He’s really good. You can’t read this book and not think better, not think more productively, not think more efficiently, and not think with a lot more directed happiness in your life because he shows you how to do it in the book. I’m really glad he put out this book. I encourage you to buy it. It’s really good!’ Joe Soto International Marketing Specialist
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