“Circumstances and events happen for us. People happen for us too. We learn through interacting with others during those times and with those people who are difficult and don’t seem worth it. We learn more through ‘failure’ and falling down than success. We do!
When times and people are trying our patience, instead of blaming and complaining if we reflect on ourselves and seek to discover why or how we are getting ruffled in order to release it, let it go or shift from it, then we learn and transform. We don’t if we blame.
We may temporarily feel better or justified by accusing or whining but we don’t learn, nor do we transform. Transformation comes from insight, awareness and thinking, feeling and doing something new. If we always do what we’ve done we’ll always get what we got.
Change Your Thoughts And You Transform Your Life
Transformation happens when we get stuck or heated. It doesn’t happen when we are alright or comfortable. Why is that? Because we don’t notice what needs to change. We are good with everything. But when things get turned upside down we notice. It’s awareness.
To realize we need to change we need to become aware that we need to change. When we realize finally something is uncomfortable we can do something about it. We don’t notice the shoe when it fits, BUT when it is too tight we sure do. Get this. Pain is a signal.
If there is a pebble in your shoe what do you do? You take it out and throw it away. You most likely don’t yell at the pebble. Feel emotion hurt and complain you are scarred for life and will always be a survivor of the pebble. You release it. Rid yourself of it and resume.
Change Your Thoughts And You Transform Your Life
You are capable of removing the pebble because you became aware due to the pain and you are resourceful enough to take it from your show and get rid of it. Yes, it’s an analogy, and some reader will complain it doesn’t fit all situations but consider it. You can change!
When you notice something hurts, is frustrating, angering, scary, and uncomfortable it’s a signal to look within and remove the source or the less than glorious feeling. Transform yourself by the renewing of your mind and heart. Stop doing the old and begin doing the new.
You don’t put new wine in old wineskins. Get it. Difficult situations and people ARE the opportunity to do something new and different. It is the opportunity to learn how resourceful you are and that you can handle difficulty with ease and positivity. That when you change everything else can change and even if ‘it’ doesn’t you can. That is an incredible opportunity in and of itself. If you get this, you know it is an incredible blessing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James
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