“A meme is going around that sounds better than it actually is. “If you’ve fallen off one of your goals, don’t beat yourself up for being human. Instead show your grit by working even harder and building your resolve so it won’t happen again. “It makes sense because it’s what you most likely have heard since birth. Perhaps, you didn’t hear the first part but certainly you’ve heard the second part.

It’s familiar so you think, ‘right.’ ‘I need to work harder.’ That’s where you’d be mistaken. I’m not saying hard work is not useful, but it isn’t the cure for everything. If the door you are trying to open doesn’t open just keep trying harder. It still may not open. Perhaps, you need to do something different that you haven’t done before. Instead of repeating the same things over and over. Get it?

If you always do what you’ve always done you get the same results. Doing the same thing only harder doesn’t guarantee success. You can spin your tires faster when stuck in the mud or snow and still not get anywhere. If you are near drowning struggling and flailing about isn’t going to help. Instead, you ought to relax and float on your back. Remaining vertical in water will sink you. Get this.

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You need to change your position and what you are doing. So, the meme, the notion of working even harder is almost helpful but off point.  It’s true, don’t beat yourself up. Instead learn from your mistake or misstep. Accept that you did the best with what you knew at the time. Become aware that it’s okay to be human. Become aware there are other ways that work better. Learning is important.

Learn from it but don’t repeat the same things. Don’t work harder trying to make it different. Become different first and the rest will change. Work harder is the way of the world, the capitalist, but not the way of the enlightened and not the way of the well-informed. You want to take the road less traveled, not the road that doesn’t work for most people. Shift your awareness and thinking.

It’s easy to be deceived because it sounds logical. Why? BECAUSE that’s what society tells you all during your lifetime. Work harder. Try harder. However, this is not the way of the wizard, the manifestor, the mystic, the person who walks the talk or the person who thinks and grows rich.  Become aware and wake up to a better way. There’s the way that works. Few know it. Fewer do it.

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2 out of 100 people are aware enough to understand this and make things work for themselves. 98 out of a hundred live haphazard lives drifting as a cork drifts, bobbing in the water. This statistic remains unchanged since Napoleon Hill wrote about it in the 20s and 30s. What does this tell us? Anyone can change and transform, yet few will. Few will take charge and make their lives count!

If it is to be it is up to me is the famous saying and it is accurate. If you want it you can make it happen. It doesn’t come from wishing and wanting but by thinking, planning and following through. ‘If one wants to enjoy enduring success, one must travel a little in advance of the world.’ That means plan to succeed. Make the plan and do the plan. Yes, it will change. It won’t be perfect but do it.

You must think and act the world to conform to your desire not tacitly accept conditions as they are. It does not mean you fight them or resist them. What you resist, persist. Energy flows where your attention goes. If your attention goes into fighting that’s where your energy goes. Your energy must go into creating and managing the life you want and not the one you don’t. Get this!

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It doesn’t mean you have to work harder. It means work smarter. Imagine what you want and then do what is legally and safely necessary to bring it about. Plan and work the plan but in smart ways. If things get you down or throw you off course, adjust your mindset to think and feel the very best so you know you can navigate whatever life brings you. Think your way to keep going and do it.

Resolve your mind, your feelings, speech and behaviors can fall into alignment. Take control of the engine that runs everything and steer it positively and positively. Some will tell you positive thinking and affirmations don’t work BUT that is how you develop your mind. To build a compelling future is to build it in your mind first and then make it happen. Put your subconscious powerhouse to work.

You consciously don’t do it. You consciously decide. Your subconscious, your patterns, your habits is what you use to make good things happen. If you don’t take charge of your own neural pathways your neural pathways and habits are in charge of you. It’s why you do things you don’t want to do. You haven’t trained your mind to deliver to you what you really do want instead. There is a method to this. If you don’t know it and aren’t doing it, you’re one of the 98. Want life to be different, be different. Let me show you how. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes