“The ability to be happy and make your career and life successful boils down to two simple ingredients. When you successfully and consistently apply these principles there will be no stopping you. While other factors are important, these two ingredients make up the bottom line. Apply these and master these and it will make all the difference in the world for you. The first is TIME.

The amount of time you spend on your own personal happiness, success and development is crucial Some people want it fast because that’s what we have become conditioned to in our society through marketing, propaganda or public relations. The ‘powers that be’ deceive us into valuing quickness at the expense of our overall satisfaction. Media pitches us speedy results every day.

They promise if you spend your money now there’ll be instant gratification and satisfaction but sadly, the latter is not always forthcoming. Fast is not always good or best. For everything there is a season the saying goes. Nature is not about instant results. Nor is it about struggle, effort or hardship. Nature uses the least energy, the conservation of energy to ensure that things planted, grow, survive and replicate.

 Learn To Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want

We become what we think about most of the time. WHEN our thoughts and feelings are positive and devoted to what we want and can make happen most of the time each day we then get and become what we think about. Where do you spend most of your time? How you spend your time is crucial! If you want a new car obsessing about it to the point of making it happen is how things work.

That said, you are better served if you first seek to transform yourself into the kind of person for whom manifesting good things is easy and reliable instead of chasing the car, the boat, the watch or the home. Things pale and fade. Once we get something we don’t cherish it as much. Things don’t fulfill us as much as who we are and the experiences and relationships we can create and have.

People want money, power, prestige and things to prove they are important. Better to feel important first. Feel positive and powerful as a creator first. Become loving and compassionate and generous first if you want others to respond in kind. Respect and love yourself first. GO FIRST. BECOME IT and from this you will naturally do the right things to create and have more of what you want. Get this!

Learn To Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want

If you want someone to listen to you then first listen to them. Really listen. Not to change them but to understand them. Listen not to argue but to accept whatever they say. Be open instead of closed minded. Respect them and their thoughts and feelings and they are more apt to respect yours. What goes round comes around. What you put out there first, what you are and broadcast, comes back.

Are you thinking of yourself already as a manifestor who is positive, capable, generous and kind? Are you a person who can easily and effortlessly readily create what you intend to? Or, do you see yourself as struggling to get ahead? Live from the feeling of the intention, the wish, as already fulfilled! Are you visualizing and speaking positively to yourself in your self-talk? You either are or you aren’t.

What are you doing mostly, most of the time? It matters. You either vibrate high and are creating more high, good, vibrations or you aren’t. Are you celebrating and feeling wonderful? Are your thoughts mostly about how incredible everything is and how thankful you are? If not, they need to be. Where you spend most of your time determines the results you get. People too often miss this.

Learn To Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want

Are you spending time focused on making your dreams come true OR are you distracted, scattered, thinking about day-to-day problems and issues? Are you whining and complaining about lack and circumstances? Is your focus mostly on what you don’t have or haven’t gotten yet OR on making your dreams come true? Are you mostly positive or negative? Where do you spend most of your time?

What are you filling your mind with? Are you filled with media’s daily disturbing news and gossip or are you filling your mind with inspiring, positive motivational thoughts, ideas and materials? What are you reading and listening to? How are you enacting your positive thoughts and feelings? OR are you? Some talk a lot but don’t walk the talk. This makes all the difference in the world!

Successful people are devoted to their success. You must be MOSTLY concentrating on success and happiness to get what you want. Whether it is money, career, fame, family, love, health, relationships or things what AND HOW you are focused is critical! Most people miss this. You can’t spend 95% of your time worried, anxious, fearful, sad or feeling defeated and expect to be happy and healthy.

Learn To Live Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want

You must devote time to thinking positively and feeling wonderful. You need the preponderance of your time to be productively focused. You need positivity to be your predominate thoughts. You need your mind filled with positivity not negativity, fear and doubt. Remember, what you plant is what grows. What seeds are you planting? You need to really know whether you are mostly positive or not. It matters.

You are a broadcasting and receiving station. Are you broadcasting good news or crappy? This is why you must manage your thoughts and feelings to create and retain the goodness you desire. More next time. For now, decide to remain positive. Start thinking and filling your mind with more goodness during your day. It pays off to do this. It can pay off big time. So, be positive and optimistic and learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes