“If someone talks to another person and tells them about their illness, the rude person in the store, the bad weather, or complains, whines, makes excuses, rationalizes things, gives reasons for why things suck, gossips, belittles or otherwise shares ho-hum or bad news it is a bet they don’t just do that with others. YOU can bet that is what the inside of their head is like. Why? Because it is from within to without. We say what we think. Get this!

If you constantly are finding what’s wrong with the world, the people around you, your circumstances, the environment, the government, the religions, etc. it is a sure and safe bet you do the same about yourself and your life. Unless you are simply a narcissist and think nothing is as good as you, so you put down all else and all others. ‘By their actions you shall know them.’ Guess what? Thoughts and words are actions too.

If you are talking about your woes and what’s wrong from day to day with others that is what is filling your heart and your mind. If you want to change you must stop this habit. Put a guard before your lips and say and think only to bless, heal, inspire, prosper, uplift, edify, transform yourself and others. You can’t be complaining to others without first thinking about it. It’s a subconscious habit. Unless you change it you’ll keep getting the same results.

Your Attitude Habit Determines What You Think, Feel, Say, Do And The Results You Can Get!

What frequently fills your mind creates your inner and outer reality. From within to without. AND what you allow in from without can contaminate the inside. That’s why you place a guard before your mind and lips. Thoughts lead to feelings which lead to like thoughts. Feelings lead to words and actions which lead to results. What you continuously repeat becomes a habit. Your habits determine what you can and can’t do. You are your habits.

Change your habitual ways of thinking, feeling, speaking and behaving and create new positive what’s to be, do and have what you want in life. Use this as feedback to take an honest look at yourself unless you’re a narcissist. Because if you are a narcissist, you will think you are right, even when you aren’t. You don’t assess yourself properly. You really need outside help, if you will listen to it, so you can adjust and change.

I never give up hope for anyone. You can learn to be positive, optimistic, vibe-high, productive and create the life you want. IF and it’s a big if. IF you are willing to do things differently. IF you are willing to learn. One must ‘become like a little child’… curious, open, coachable, teachable, willing to learn, liking learning, willing to do, and then actually do. Be willing to experiment. Adjust and continue. Develop playfulness and fascination. Learn to vibe high and expect the best. Then, anything becomes possible. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes