“This quote from Napoleon Hill, says pretty much what you need to know regarding people you may encounter during your lifetime. You meet, develop relationships and part ways with others for a variety of reasons. This statement by Hill may address a main reason you want to investigate to discover how you are responsible for the people coming and exiting your life.

‘You are a human magnet, and you are constantly attracting to you people whose characters harmonize with your own.’ Napoleon Hill. Notice he didn’t say who like you, or whom you like or that they are good for you. He said you attract people whose character harmonizes with your character. In other words, birds of a feather flock together. Do you understand this?

You attract like a magnet those people who’re similar to you, your energy, vibe, mindset, feelings, values, beliefs, attitude, your character. People who are like you. If you don’t get along with these people, consider first the source of why they are in your life, given this quote. You attracted them. Whoever you are, whatever you’re doing brought them to you.

Your Attitude Determines What You Think, Feel, Say, Do And The Results You Get!

The same can be said about events and circumstances. You attract all of this. If you don’t like what and who you are bringing into your life the first order of business is to change yourself and not blame them. Blame them, cutting them off, running from troubling times won’t change anything. Change your vibe, energy, attitude, feelings and things can change.

Stop being a crap magnet. You’ll start attracting people and circumstances other than crappy ones. It isn’t that they are crappy people and events, they just aren’t the comfortable fit you’d like. They’re lessons. They’re signals for you to transform. They are opportunities and feedback for you to become a magnet for good stuff, not the crap you keep getting.

The operative word is ‘keep’. If you don’t like who shows up, the circumstances or the results you are getting YOU must change yourself to vibe and broadcast different energy from what you have been attracting to get something other than what you’ve been attracting! Get this. Take responsibility. No excuses, complaints, whining or blaming. Be responsible and change!

Your Attitude Determines What You Think, Feel, Say, Do And The Results You Get!

Elevate your vibe. Think positive and optimistically. Vibe high. Feel wonderful. Be enthusiastic. Laugh more. Love more. Complain less. Seek the good more, not the not-so-good. Be grateful. Smile and expect the best in people and circumstances to come your way. If it doesn’t know there is feedback and lessons for you. Apply the feedback. Learn the lesson. Things are better when you take 100% responsibility and not shift the responsibility. Get this and start to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes