“People are using affirmations and getting what they don’t want. They use affirmations but don’t get what they want. Why is that? Because they are affirming the negative, the depressed, the anxious, the doubts, the fears, the circumstances, the events and people they don’t like and don’t want. How? By talking about it. By conversing about it. By thinking about it. By reliving it. By focusing on it. Yes, people are already affirming.

They get what they don’t want. They’re good at getting what they don’t want. I certainly was. On top of that they continue promoting what they don’t want. They reinforce it by their words, and actions each day. They show up in Clubhouse and ask questions about it or discuss it or inform others about it. They go to seminars and tell others all about it. They have coffee and dine with friends and relatives and complain and commiserate. Get it.

They keep attracting and creating and getting crap because they are crap magnets in everything they think, say, feel and do. Once they realize the folly and the harm and decide to take 100% responsibility for creating, attracting and maintaining what they don’t want they can stop it and begin to turn it around to get what they do want. Shut the door on the old ways, turn away from them, let them go, and open the new door to new ways.

“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James

It’s in a different direction! They can stop the problems and begin a new adventurous and a wonderful new life. How? Let go of the problems and shift your attention. Stop focusing on what’s wrong and focus on what is right. Even if what is right is very tiny, focus on this instead. Look for the good. Look for what you appreciate and are grateful for. Express it. Eliminate the negative and accentuate the positive.

Stop thinking and talking about and thereby reinforcing what you don’t want. Start thinking about and talking about what is good and new, wonderful and delightful so you get more of those. What we think about most of the time is what we become. What we focus on we get. Do you want dog crap or diamonds? Which you focus on most is what you become and what you create and what you get. If you don’t like where you are at, change it!

What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for it to magically get better? Are you hoping you won’t have to do anything at all and that somehow you will be saved? OR are you waiting for it to get so bad you must do something. If you wait ALL you will have done is spend more time waiting. Instead, begin today and start living the dreams you want. If you want your life to change you must change things in your life.

“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James

Change the direction of your thoughts and feelings. Reinforce the positive! If you want some assistance reading my blog will help you. Go back and read through my posts. Each of them contains the ways and means you can most easily make positive changes. If you want to really powerhouse your results join me in one of my incredible programs. I’ve designed these to be maximally useful and transformative.

If you never do one of my programs, you will never know the power and the positivity that could be yours. Find a way to join with me and others. As you do this you will begin making your life more what you WANT it to be. It could be so wonderful! You can do it. As Ford said, ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are correct! So, what’s it going to be? I say, do it now. Join us and begin taking responsibility and start making positive changes that will delight and thrill you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James

“I’ll be blunt: I’m very disappointed that these secrets are available. I think buying this material should be treated like buying hand guns: You should have to fill out forms and get checked out first to see if you’ll use this wisdom for good or evil. I’ve NEVER seen such powerful techniques or insights. The average psychologist, cold reader, magician, or mentalist doesn’t know these “beyond secret” methods. You could start a cult with this! Far too powerful to be released publicly. Please take your Ultimate NLP Home Study Program package off the market—especially now that I own it.” – Joe Vitale –  Author, 2000

“I am smiling and my heart is beating a little bit faster now, Rex. We go all the way back to the last century and me finding my way in many ways at that point. You helped me during that point because I learned NLP, and some of the communication material came from you. I was sitting at your feet and learning how to apply it in my life and career.

Freedom can be yours BUT if you do nothing, nothing changes!

You sent me cassettes Rex way back in the 1990s, and these were cassettes on communication and NLP. And we had exchanged some things and we had talked and you were very kind to me and very generous with me. I religiously listened to everything I am always studying, always growing, always working on myself and maybe even more intensely back then. Thank you Rex! Joe Vitale -Author, appeared in ‘The Secret’, 2022