“In my workshops, beginning in the 80’s or 90’s to this present day, we put up signs that display this ‘No Whining’ symbol. We also have one carved in wood. I do this to remind people to use their minds only for the best. Think only the best thoughts. Think only of the good, the most optimistic and positive thoughts about yourself, others, events and circumstances. Stop wasting time whining and complaining. Drop bad habits. Cultivate good ones.
Spend your time validating yourself, your development and targeting and going after your goals and dreams. Create what you want instead of wasting time thinking on and complaining about the less-than-glorious times and situations in life. Spending time focused on the good, appreciating the good and not-so-good and feeling grateful isn’t a waste of time. Giving energy and attention to complaints, blames, reasons and excuses is!
It is a powerful way to attract exactly what you don’t want. You get more back of whatever you put out there. Positive or negative it doesn’t matter. Whatever you focus on we will get back in some fashion. Whatever we focus on the most we get back the most! Like attracts like. If you send out negative thoughts, vibes and actions that is what you get in return. If you want a positive abundant life, then you need to put that out there FIRST.
Then you will get back the positivity and the abundance you put out. You reap what you sowed! Sadly, most people can’t tell when they’re in the rabbit hole of negativity or despair. It’s a habit, so it is familiar. It is just what they do. If this is you, you need some assistance in knowing when you aren’t functioning resourcefully. It is time people stop being a victim. People need to end their helplessness.
They need to stop thinking that they aren’t responsible for their good or bad times. Many act as if they can’t do anything or make anything happen. They are absolutely wrong! Do you do this? You may say yes, and you’d be correct. You may say no and it’s likely you’re deceiving yourself. Sad, but true. We all do it. It is being human. The truth is people are ALREADY making things happen. Sadly, many are making crumby things.
It is time to stop that. Can-Do people focus on what they want, what they can do, how they want to feel and on solutions. Can-do people make the things they want happen. It is their intention to create great things. They focus on gratitude and celebration. They focus on making life as wonderful as it can be. Whenever they discover themselves thinking less than glorious thoughts or having less than glorious feelings, they make the change.
They know it is up to them to do it! They don’t blame others, nor do they expect others to do the work for them. They take 100% responsibility for whatever they create in life. Because they take responsibility they create and attract what they intend to! They get back good things because they first put good things out there for themselves and others. They know there will be obstacles, but they do not let that stop them.
They search for creative means to overcome difficulty and to continue to move forward. They are consistent in their practice and persistent in their pursuit, they follow through. They don’t quit! They decide and they act. They don’t wallow or waffle. They decide and move forward. If they make a wrong decision, they correct it. They take the bull by the horns and move ahead without fear. They desire to be flexible and creative.
They’re proactive and work to make things better. They realize that it begins and ends with THEIR mindset and how THEY feel and THEIR actions. They resolve to do the best. If you aren’t already, become a can-do person. Make your life work for you in wonderful ways. You can, you know! Realize you are always creating. Everything you have or don’t have you have created. Take 100% responsibility for everything.
When you do, change can begin to happen. If you blame the outer world, luck, circumstances or others you WILL remain the same. Change your mindset! Recognize your power as a creator! Stop putting energy into what you don’t want and put it into making what you do want. YOU can make the life you have always desired. You can Be, Do and Have anything! It’s up to you. Remember, it is first BE, and from Being comes doing.
From right doing comes Having. So, guard your thoughts, your feelings, your speech and your actions. Strive to always do that which is positive and that which heals. Do that which blesses others and helps all prosper. Create good things! When you do this, you are well on your way to having an incredible life. In an instant everything can begin to transform. It will begin the second you take 100% responsibility for everything! Claim your power! Live the life you’ve intend to live! It is up to you. DO IT. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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“I am smiling and my heart is beating a little bit faster now, Rex. We go all the way back to the last century and me finding my way in many ways at that point. You helped me during that point because I learned NLP, and some of the communication material came from you. I was sitting at your feet and learning how to apply it in my life and career.
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You sent me cassettes Rex way back in the 1990s, and these were cassettes on communication and NLP. And we had exchanged some things and we had talked and you were very kind to me and very generous with me. I religiously listened to everything I am always studying, always growing, always working on myself and maybe even more intensely back then. Thank you Rex! Joe Vitale -Author, appeared in ‘The Secret’, 2022
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“My personal development journey took a turn for the better back in 1996 when I was fortunate enough to be trained and mentored by Rex Steven Sikes. It’s been my ongoing wish that Rex would put his personal and professional development insights, his unique accelerated learning techniques, and basic to advanced mindset strategies (what he’s rightfully termed Mind Design™) into a book. He’s finally done it and he’s held nothing back. Rex equips you with everything you need to live a more empowered life… He was the first person to really challenge me with the idea that to change my life, I had to change myself first. His concept of 100% Self-responsibility has served me so much in my life, it’s now the cornerstone of all my training and coaching as well. He states, “When you accept full responsibility for everything going on, you begin to access your inner strengths and power. When you accept responsibility your mind begins to look for solutions because you are responsible.” Bottom line: I’m a better coach, trainer, entrepreneur, husband, and parent because of Rex.” Joe Soto – International Marketing Coach
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