“3. Consider ALL obstacles, hardships, challenges and mistakes as opportunities that provide life lessons. Look for the opportunity, that may be hidden, and the life lesson and learn from them. Your Reticular Activating System (RAS) will help you to notice what you might otherwise miss. It makes what you put your attention on, what you focus on, important. What’s important to you, is to it.

It makes the object of your attention important enough to look for other associations and matches within and the world outside you. If your attention is on less-than-glorious people, events and circumstances and negativity it will find similar matches for you within and without. If your attention is on the good, the beautiful, the loving, the kind, the positive, it will find those matches and associations.

Keep your attention positive and optimistic AND on your dreams as I’ve previously described. Concentrate on what you want. Any mistakes you make can provide you feedback so you can adjust what you’re doing. Be flexible. Be adaptable. The road to success is – adjust and continue. If the road is closed, find the detour. Adapt. If you get off course, get back on course. Resilience is the key.

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Reframe ALL difficulty as an opportunity to develop new skills and awareness. It doesn’t matter what it is, become a reframing champion. BE POLLYANNA. Find the good in everything. Life may hurl several things at you, but opportunity favors a prepared mind. Learn from challenges and mistakes!  It will enable you to respond more resourcefully now and in the future. Activate your learner attitude.

Activate your winning attitude. Activate your champion mindset attitude. When you do everything can change for the better and does IF you have a positive and optimistic attitude. If you succumb to the hardship and whine, complain, blame and make excuses you tend to get more problems to complain about back. SO, understand that troubles will always arise. Things you acquire can be taken from you.

Who you are, who you evolve to be, can never be stripped from you. It’s not what you have or don’t have that’s important. It’s the kind of person you are and the kind of person you come to be. HARDSHIP AND DIFFICULTY are GIFTS to shape you to be incredibly positive and unstoppable. BUT only if you know what to do to transform yourself when situations arise you don’t like or want.

Take on challenges by looking for the solutions. Aim high to find the best. Look for the silver-lining in each dark cloud. You must think it right for it to be right. You must activate your attitude for your attitude to be activated. It’s not just there for you. YOU make it work for you. When you do that, it works for you. WHO you are, your attitude, your mindset, your resourcefulness makes all the difference! Most won’t develop it. You at least have the opportunity to develop it. DO it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes