“Realize you may be wishy washy for a while as you learn to maintain your focus. Learning HOW to stay focused IS learning how to overcome the tendency to wander and to bring yourself back to what’s important. It is a process of learning, and the learning process includes making mistakes. Get over the notion it will only be easy and effortless. It will be whatever it will be so stick with it. All will be fine.

The point is to expect the best and understand that when learning to juggle dropping balls is part of the process. You drop them less and less as you get better and better. If you get upset over dropping balls it only impedes your learning. It doesn’t accelerate your learning to get stressed or fret over skills you are in the process of acquiring. Let go. Have fun. So, you are wishy-washy for a bit. You’ll improve.

Understanding the game of life, the rules and how it’s played is half the battle. Knowing in advance that there will be rough spots, corrections needed, times of doubt, loss of focus, as well as times of ease, exhilaration and celebration help you get through it all. When you have an idea of what you face you can persist no matter what. Again, just have fun learning to improve your ability to stay focused.

While you’re going through the process, accept that you’re in the process. Accept it may take some time. Celebrate that you’re in the process and learning to make the changes you want. Celebrate and be grateful for each moment, good and bad. Celebrate and learn from hardships. The attitude to have is to celebrate everything! Your Attitude IS everything! It makes an incredible difference. Understand!

It is important. Through celebration and gratitude, you will manage your images and self-talk and will move through the process more smoothly and quickly. It WILL be quicker and easier if you understand it and don’t fight it. The point is to think and feel marvelous most of the time. That said, you may fight it anyway. REALIZE you may resist. Realize what you resist persists. Get it. You go back and forth.

Eventually, you will let go and move through it! The best and most important part to learning is learning how to get out of your own way. Stick with it. Enjoy it. In time you will. All ups and downs are PART OF the process. Life is a process. Some people have lots of difficulty because they don’t realize this. Everything changes. Everything passes. Things get worse. Things get better. It’s life. Enjoy all of it. You are alive. Conscious. Realize that it’s a gift to be alive and conscious. Best to act like it. Best and easiest way to act like it IS to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes