“What causes suffering? Comparing. Making comparisons. When you compare where you are to where others are, what they have versus what you have it is possible to suffer. If you compare and come up on the short end and are envious or jealous it can hurt. If you compare where you think we should be in your career or in life to where you currently are, and you don’t like it, you create more to groan about. You create suffering.

When you create a division, a dichotomy, an incongruence and cognitive dissonance, you suffer. If you expect the Law of Attraction to save you from where they are by wishing it were different and then you keep checking to see if you’re any closer to getting what you hope for only to find the needle hasn’t moved much, you haven’t made much progress and get upset, that doesn’t help. Stop comparing and checking. It’s not helping.

That checking, that constant seeking to find out if anything is happening, causes suffering. You must understand that results can take time. You just must give it the time it takes! You must learn to trust! If you are desperate and needy you just make yourself more desperate and needy. Consider perhaps that things take time, so you have to learn to trust. More important than the result is the process of transforming yourself.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Trust, faith, and belief in yourself, and your ability to create what you want comes through a process of trial and error, feedback and adjusting. It doesn’t come from wishing and checking. It comes from changing your mindset from desperate to confident. In doing that you may learn to transform your tormented mind, from a troubled mindset, to a positive one that works to help you create and attract the results you desire. The process matters.

You move from desperate and doubtful to confident and competent. You learn along the way to think and say and do the things that help bring about the changes you desire. Becoming competent increases the likelihood of more competence. More confidence inspires more confidence. Appreciation, appreciates. The more you direct yourself to positive changes instead of doubt, worry, fear and negativity, the more swiftly and easily you transform.

Correct practice, repeated consistently for long enough brings results. Trust the process. Develop a mindset that is positive, optimistic and finds the good instead of looking at what is wrong. Expect to make positive changes in the right time instead of comparing and not liking the results you are getting. Appreciate the little changes and you’ll find yourself making many more changes. Encourage the process instead of criticizing it and yourself. Be grateful and celebrate it all. Everything transforms when you do. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes