“We’re creatures of habit and pattern. Everything we do, every reaction we have, every moment we repeat the same thought or emotion, it’s all part of a program we’ve unknowingly installed over years of living. The good news? Programs can be rewritten. They can be upgraded. You are not stuck with the way things are. In fact, you are one habit away from everything you want!

You’ve probably had days where something triggered you, an offhand remark, a tough phone call, maybe someone cut you off in traffic, and before you even realized it, you snapped. You reacted. Maybe it wasn’t your proudest moment, but it happened. And then comes the guilt, the shame, or that nagging feeling that you’re better than this. You are. What most people don’t realize is that this cycle isn’t fixed.

You can interrupt it, reshape it, and design a different way forward. It starts by becoming aware and continues through intentional practice. I’ve been sharing with you some ways to deliberately do this. That’s what transformation is. Not lightning bolts from the sky, but consistent steps in a better direction. Take enough small steps in the right direction consistently and you can reach the top of Everest.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

When you begin to notice the old response creeping in and you catch it, whether you stop it or not, you’ve already won half the battle. And the other half? That’s where the power lies. That’s where you rewrite your response and practice what you do want instead. Every slip, every misstep, is a lesson cloaked in opportunity. You simply acknowledge what happened and imagine how you would prefer to respond.

Then rehearse that moment as though you’re already living it. You do this again and again, until it becomes so natural you don’t even think about it. It just flows through you. Psychologists call this ‘mental contrasting’ and ‘implementation intention’, two powerful cognitive methods backed by studies. Researchers are always discovering what we already knew from ancient wisdom and then renaming it. But we knew it already.

Studies from NYU and University of Konstanz, showing that when people visualize both the goal and the obstacles they might face, and plan their response, they are significantly more likely to succeed (Oettingen & Gollwitzer, 2010). This isn’t fantasy. It’s brain science. And the best part? You don’t have to get it right every time. A flower doesn’t bloom overnight. It pushes through the soil.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

It leans into the sun, and it keeps growing, slowly, steadily, until one day it’s there, full and radiant. You are that flower. Your mental habits are just seeds needing daily water and light. Even if at first it takes 20 or 30 minutes a day to rehearse a better you, eventually it takes less. Then less. Until one day, in the middle of the moment, you shift without even trying. That’s when you know it’s yours.

This is exactly what we do together in my Einstein & Tesla’s Genius course. We don’t just talk about change. We rehearse it. We embody it. AND we apply it until it becomes who you are. Because knowing what to do and doing it, those are two different things. And if you’ve ever read the book but still felt stuck, you already know that. It’s like having a map but not learning how to drive.

The terrain stays out of reach until you step in and actually practice navigating it. That’s what I help you do. Not just learn the formula but live it. Embody it. Install it like a GPS in your subconscious so it guides you automatically. People often ask me what it takes to get started. I usually smile and ask them what they spent on coffee last month. Or how much they put toward things that didn’t change their life.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

The truth? You don’t need more time, or more information. You need the right guidance. And you need to take that first step. When you do, you begin to notice the subtle shift in how you feel, how you speak, how you respond. You stop being tossed around by life and start shaping it. You stop being a victim to your reactions and become the master of your responses. That’s true freedom.

I’m not offering a magic wand. I’m offering something far more powerful; yourself unlocked. The version of you who responds calmly, who speaks confidently, who navigates challenge like it’s just another stretch of road. You’re not far from that. In fact, you’re closer than you think. And the moment you say yes to learning the success formula, not later, not someday, but now, is the moment that future starts taking root. The flower blooms when it’s ready. You just have to keep tending it. More coming. Join me today! Celebrate Everything!” Rex Sikes

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