“You’ve likely heard the phrase, use it or lose it. Most people think of that when it comes to physical strength, flexibility, or brain power. But it applies even more deeply to your habits of thought, your emotional responses, your daily mindset. You’re always rehearsing something. The only question is: what? All of us are walking stories. Stories we tell about ourselves, about others, about how the world works.

Stories based not on what’s truly possible, but on what we’ve practiced, often unknowingly, for years. We know really, mostly only what we’ve repeated so far. We are creatures of habit. BUT the beautiful truth is, you can choose to rewrite the script. And you begin by rehearsing what you want to create, instead of replaying what you fear, regret, or resist. IMAGINE for a moment an actor preparing for a role.

They don’t just read lines once and show up on stage. They rehearse. Over and over. They walk, breathe, and think like their character. Athletes do the same. A quarterback doesn’t hope the play will go well, he visualizes it again and again until his body responds automatically. The mind can’t always distinguish between real and vividly imagined experience, as studies show (Kosslyn, Ganis & Thompson, 2001).

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That’s the magic. You have that same power. You’ve had it all along. I’ve worked with people across the globe who’ve faced all manner of difficulty, relationship struggles, job loss, family tension, old wounds. And yet, again and again, those who practiced rehearsing what they wanted instead of what they didn’t, those are the ones who grew! Those are the ones who transformed. Here is why this is true.

You are not your past patterns. You are not your reactions. You are not the thoughts that drift through like clouds on a windy day. You are the sky. Vast. Capable. Steady. AND when you begin to shift your focus, when you mentally rehearse peace instead of panic, confidence instead of self-doubt, gratitude instead of anger, you don’t just feel better. You become different.

One woman I mentored had spent years reacting to criticism with shame and defensiveness. We worked together, practicing a new internal response. At first it felt artificial, like a script she didn’t quite believe. It almost always does at first for everyone. BUT in spite of it feeling awkward, she rehearsed it daily. She imagined staying calm, breathing deeply, responding with curiosity instead of fear.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

One day, it happened in real life, effortlessly. And she wept. Not because it was hard, but because she finally realized she wasn’t broken. She had simply been rehearsing the wrong thing. So, if you stumble. If old patterns creep back in. That’s okay. Truly. Celebrate the awareness. Catching it is a sign of growth. Then gently, without judgment, return to the vision of who you want to be.

Rehearse that moment the way you wish it had gone. You’re creating the grooves in your mind for next time and next time is always coming. This is what we do together, step by step, in my Einstein/Tesla course. I help you install these transformational patterns so deeply they become your new normal. We don’t just learn concepts, together we rewire your life. We don’t just think differently. We become different.

And while most people spend endlessly on things that fade, this kind of investment pays dividends every single day of your life. Imagine carrying calm into chaos. Imagine meeting criticism with confidence. That’s the result of this work. And it’s yours, if you want it. You don’t need to be perfect. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to start. To decide that your old story doesn’t get the final word.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Because the mind is always listening. Always responding. What you rehearse expands. What you dwell on deepens. If you’re not using your creative power deliberately, you’re still using it—you’re just reinforcing the default story. The one that tells you change is hard, or not for you, or maybe someday. Let’s not wait for someday. You are more powerful than you’ve been told. You are more capable than you believe.

And the tools to change, real change, lasting change, are already within you. All you need is the right guidance to unlock them. AND practice joy. Rehearse peace. Make your mind your greatest ally. And if you’re ready to step into the role you were born to play, one where you direct the story, not just survive it, join me. I’ll meet you at the doorway of transformation, and we’ll walk it together. You have the pen. You’ve always had the pen. Now let’s write something extraordinary. Click the link for access to this program to transform your life below. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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