
“It all happens in a flash, doesn’t it? That tiny moment when someone says or does something and, before you know it, you’re hooked. Your body tenses, your breath shortens, your voice sharpens, and boom… you’re off. You’ve taken the bait. Now you’re in it. But what if that moment, that moment, could become your greatest teacher? The truth is it can.
When you recognize the spark that ignites your reaction, you begin to reclaim your power. You don’t have to take the bait. You don’t have to bite. There is always a moment before the storm, and in that pause, you can choose. Choice comes from awareness. You begin by noticing. What happens inside you right before the reaction spills out? Do your shoulders rise?
Does your jaw tighten? Do you feel heat in your neck or a buzzing in your head? The negative internal critic ramps up the negative commenting. You feel it in your chest or gut. That first signal is gold, it’s your cue, your red flag, your gateway to freedom. At that moment, NOTICE and breathe. Deeply. Not just in, but all the way out. Let the breath be a sigh, soft and releasing.
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One breath, then another. Give yourself a beat. Two beats. And in that quiet, you will feel the wave of the old habit beginning to lose strength. This is the secret! This is the sacred pause. When you feel it, you don’t have to fight the feeling. Notice it. Let it be. Release it. AND redirect it. You move the energy into something better, something useful. If you must, walk. Shake it out.
Stop letting it run you. You run it. Over time, with the right inner training, this becomes second nature. One client of mine, Matt, was known for blowing up at work. His reactions cost him projects, and nearly his job. Through our time together, he learned to notice the sequence of his reactions. He could catch the moment just as his hands clenched and breath held.
He practiced the breath, the pause, the redirection. A few months later, he led a team through a high-stress negotiation without raising his voice once. He told me afterward, ‘I felt like I was watching my old self from a distance.’ This shift is not magic or fanciful. it’s mastery. Mastery is built through conscious, repeated, guided effort.
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If you’re tired of being run by your impulses, and ready to rise into your power, there’s an open door. What we do in training isn’t about fixing broken things, it’s about uncovering the incredible self already within you. Others offer temporary relief. Together, we’ll create lasting transformation. Working together is a powerful advantage.
I don’t just offer you tools, I walk with you while you integrate them. I show you how to reprogram your internal responses, so you live from choice, not compulsion. You become the person who blesses instead of blames, who acts instead of reacts, who owns every moment fully. So, the next time you feel the heat rising, remember: you are not your reaction. You are the space before it. And in that space, your freedom lives. Stop reacting. Respond. Choose it. Breathe it. Become it. Let’s begin. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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