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“You will make your dreams and your goals come about much more swiftly when all of you co-operates to bring them about. When you are congruent in your quest and your thoughts, feelings, talents, abilities: all your resources are aligned. Become one mind.

You can expect to win and still lose but at least you will have tried your best. Focusing on ‘I am going to lose, we are going to lose’ insures the inevitable. Focusing on what you need to do to win, knowing you are able to, makes it much more likely that you will.

When you expect things to happen – strangely enough – they do happen. J.P. Morgan

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Go as far as you can see; when you get there, you’ll be able to see farther. J.P. Morgan

If you know you can win and if you never quit you will. Get it?

When you are of one powerful mindset, one determined attitude, you are unstoppable. Keep going until you have what you want. The more you do, the further you go. The more you are able to do and the more you can keep on going, The easier it becomes because the better you get at it. EVOLVE yourself. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“Expect to win! Might you still lose? Sure, but at least you will have tried your best. People say don’t provide or have false hope. First, there is only hope or no hope. It’s better to hope and be disappointed than do nothing and stay stuck or die anyway.

If you focus on the problems or that you might lose ensures the inevitable. Focusing on what you need to do to win, knowing you are able to, makes it much more likely that you will. Get this! Know this. If you know you can win and you don’t quit you most likely will.

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How You Begin Winning? Make positive mental movies and pictures in your head. See yourself looking, feeling and doing what you want to be doing. Imagine the outcome you want as though you already have it. See, hear, feel everything you’re doing.

Notice and exaggerate how are you feeling when you ‘got it’. Really feel the great feelings! Review the movies and feelings at least 2 times daily. Learn to manage your mindset and emotions and you’ll behave in much more rewarding ways. Enjoy this process. Accentuate the positive and you’ll move forward faster. When you change your thoughts you can transform your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

Why You Should Expect To Win

“Your mindset consists of beliefs you think possible. Your attitude, whether positive or negative, is shaped by your thoughts. Whether you think something is easy or hard is determined by your focus, what you pay attention to, and believe. You determine it all.

Positive thinking helps you feel better. The higher quality thoughts the better you feel. The better you feel the more you can accomplish. The more you can accomplish the better results you get. It starts with thoughts. So, learn to manage your mindset.

In maintaining a positive mindset you expect or anticipate the positive outcomes you imagine already happening as you’d like them. You imagine the goal as already done. Completed. You have it! You see yourself winning. You see yourself as having won. Get this!

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Your brain works to makes your desired outcome happen when you repeatedly give it the same strong message and images over and over. That’s why positively charged emotional repetition works. Your brain accepts these as real and goes to work to do it.

It assembles and aligns your inner resources to feel good to do your best. Your aligned thoughts, feelings and behaviors work together to manifest your desired outcome. There’s no worry, doubt, fear, or split in your attention. You are of one winning mind. Congruent!

It’s easier to win if you expect to win. WHEN you EXPECT to win you KNOW you’re going to win. You don’t worry if you will, but celebrate the victory and feel how great that is. Because you feel certain you ‘have won’ your attitude/mindset helps make it true.

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You carry out the behaviors necessary to make happen what you expect. Your brain serves you and does what you want once you have trained it. Could you not win? Of course, but you’re much more likely to win when you align your thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Get this! Learn to manage your mindset. Everything gets better when you do. When you change your thoughts you really do transform your life. Celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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You Will Find What You Expect To Find Which Might Just Be Horrible

“When you get up in the morning do you expect it to be a good or not so good day? Do expect to find smiles mostly or frowns? What do you think and believe before going into your day? Do you plan to be delighted or disappointed? What you expect sets the frame.

When you play a game do you expect to win or to lose? What do you think and believe before going into it? What do you anticipate? Do you expect traffic to be a bear or do you expect to enjoy the drive regardless? Expectations determine what you most readily find.

Do you think of the world as a friendly wonderful place or a hard, cold, cruel one? Do you expect to encounter friendly people and co-workers or ones who aggravate? Will you profit during a bad economy or lose money? Perception is everything. You set the tone.

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Are you going to book the role in that play or movie or will someone else? Are you going to do your best or not? Much of what happens is due to what we expect to happen. What we believe, think or expect shapes how we react or respond to that ‘reality’ out there. Get it?

Research suggests your beliefs create reality and that much of that outer reality is actually a reflection of what you do inside your mind. Your perceptions create reality but you think reality is somehow separate from you. Research suggests it’s not. It’s your doing.

In other words, what you expect to find you may find. What you don’t expect to find you most likely won’t. Yes, there may always be some surprises. There will always be some counter-examples. But for the most part, you manufacture the reality you experience.

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When you feel positive and expect that you are going to win you are much more likely to. When you feel positive and expect to have a great day it makes all the difference in how you experience the day. Attitude, our thoughts, beliefs and feelings run the show.

When you are positive you will accomplish your goal; you know in your heart and mind it is possible to do so and you anticipate making it happen, you are much more likely to. That is how ‘reality’ works. You make it so in your minds. It is an ongoing process of creation.

Sometimes, your conscious and subconscious thoughts differ, seemingly complete, and it can be confusing or disappointing. This is the reason you want to learn to manage your thoughts. It makes a big difference. Okay, more next time. Meanwhile, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Your Subconscious Doesn’t Care About This!

“Your subconscious mind (the servant mechanism) does not distinguish between good or bad, right or wrong, wanted or unwanted. It just goes wherever you place your attention. Whatever you focus on, it works to create, manifest or attract, good or bad.

It doesn’t care. It is simply blindly obedient. Whatever you think about most of the time and feel strong emotion about you end up getting more of in your life. Our thoughts and feelings govern us. This is why we should learn to manage our thoughts and feelings.

We pay attention to experience differently depending on what we think it will be. If you expect tomorrow to be a bear of a day, while you may be unexpectedly surprised that it isn’t, or wasn’t as bad as you fear, in all likelihood, it will be a pretty tough day. Why?

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Because you expect it to be. Your fears and dread set your frame of mind. Your worst thoughts of what bad may happen is what you are anticipating. You expect it to suck and it does. Then guess what you were right after all. What you think about you tend to bring about.

And by golly people always like to be right. No one ever wants to be proven wrong. SO we think something will be the case. It turns out that it is the case. Then we exclaim ‘I knew it!’ because we are oddly proud we knew in advance the day would suck. Geeesh.

The same thing works in reverse. If you expect the day to go well, though you may be unexpectedly surprised by upsetting moments, typically the day goes pretty darn well. Because you are expecting it to be fun, easy and to go well that’s what you focus on. Get it

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Whatever we focus on expands. Whatever we think about we find our brain sends us other examples, memories and associations to consider. Like tends to attract like. Birds of a feather, you know. So expect the best and enjoy your days.

If the worst is going to happen it is going to happen. No reason to add fuel to that fire. Create the best by deliberately choosing your thoughts and emotions and enjoy life so much more. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Get What You Expect To Get No Matter What

“We pay attention to experience differently depending on what we think it will be. If you expect tomorrow to be a bear of a day, while you may be unexpectedly surprised that it isn’t, or wasn’t as bad as you feared, in all likelihood, it will be a pretty tough day. Why?

Because you expect it to be. Your fears and dread set your frame of mind. Your worst thoughts of what bad may happen is what you’re anticipating. You expect it to suck and it does. You create or attract what you anticipate. Then guess what? You were right, after all!

By golly people always like to be right. No one ever wants to be proven wrong. We think something will be the case, it turns out that it is the case and we exclaim ‘I knew it!’ Because in some odd way we’re proud that we knew in advance the day would be a bad one.

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It’s true! BUT the same thing works in reverse. If you expect the day to go well, though you may be unexpectedly surprised by upsetting moments, typically the day goes pretty darn well. Because you’re expecting it to be fun, easy and go well. That’s what you focus on.

Whatever you focus on expands. When you focus on something your brain can also find, and serve up, other similar examples, memories and associations to reinforce the first idea. Like attracts like. So ‘sucky’ thoughts bring up more ‘sucky’ thoughts! It works this way.

If you ask yourself why you’re stupid or why things never work out, you’re bound to get numerous examples. Few people ask the opposite,’ why am I so talented, or smart or how come things always work out well for me?’ We’re indoctrinated to ask bad questions!

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So we’re used to getting less than glorious answers routinely. What you focus on expands. Your beliefs, attitude and expectations filter your experience and color or shade it. Thinking it makes it so. Henry Ford said, ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right’.

Want to make some changes? Expect the best. Expect miracles. Expect good to come your way. Plan for it. Then, also make it happen. Put a smile on your face. Help someone else. Uplift someone. Say a kind word. What you put out there comes back to you! Be willing to discover that it returns. Expect the best and enjoy all of it. Then you’ll discover things can be so good. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right. If you think it will be hard, it will be. If you think it will be easy, it will be. Whatever you focus on expands. Whether good or not good. Thoughts become things. You get what you focus on. Get it?

Your beliefs prove themselves. What you expect to see, you will. What you look for, you will find. What you think determines your reality. This is the law. This IS how it works. Understand what the law is. Use it to make your dreams come true. Aim. Focus on the good!

Stop thinking negative. You can’t travel uphill thinking downhill thoughts. You won’t live a positive life thinking negatively. But you can pretend it and master it. Visualize it, believe it and achieve it. You can rehearse having what you want as if you already have it.

Feel it. Be grateful. Imagine having it and how good it feels. You got it. It is yours. HOW incredible does this feel? Feel it. Be grateful. Think thank you, thank you, thank you. As you feel it, you’ll find it. As you see it, you’ll get it. Imagine it as already yours and celebrate.

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You already do this now with troubles. You live as if your worst fears could be realized. As a result, you get what you worry about. Your current circumstances are a reflection of what you believe and don’t believe is possible. Stop that! Switch it. Change it.

Imagine you already have the good you want. Focus on the good. Live in that reality instead. It’s a far better and wiser choice. Wouldn’t you agree? You create your best life ever by putting your focus on it and letting go of the rest. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Stop Being A Crap Magnet When Things Suck

“Every so often poo hits the propellor. Whether in your personal and professional life or the world in general. Sometimes things suck. Life throws a curveball and you have to deal. Actually, it’s a good thing. Though we don’t like it. Challenges help us to grow and to reset.

Challenges help us set new directions. Sometimes, we end up thinking, ‘never again!’ At other times we continue on in new ways. Sometimes, beaten up a bit, but overall it’s all good. We need to learn how to deal with ‘bad’ times but not succumb to difficulty.

Too many live as victims complaining about and dragging around past wounds and disappointment; or terrified about the present and future. When we learn how to transform ourselves so we consider it all good, everything a blessing, we get further, faster and enjoy more.

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Here are some suggestions for when the poo flies everywhere. Never expect things to be perfect. Some say, expect the worst but plan for the best. It’s helpful if you have a great attitude and a backup plan when things go awry. Then, nothing can throw you.

If nothing throws you, you win. You’re ahead of it all. Keep in mind that no one and nothing can upset you or rattle you if you refuse to allow it. Decide to be bigger than the problem. Decide you’re in charge. Not the difficulty. Develop a champion’s mindset.

Stop being a victim. Stop thinking you can’t do it or that things are overwhelming. Chunk problems down. Develop the resources you have to handle anything life presents you. Think of it as a present. It’s a gift not a problem. It is there for your ultimate good.

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Even the good in life is never as you think it may be. It surprises you. Stop attempting to control things. Let go and accept the flow of life. Learn to be resilient. Be flexible. Be like water and flow around. If you don’t let yourself be thrown, you win. Grow strong through it.

The more flexible and adaptable to changes the better off you’ll always be. Troubles benefits you in many ways. When you maintain a positive mindset, and your attitude and outlook are good no matter what, your brain and you grow and change in positive ways.

I’ve been sharing how you actively encourage neuroplasticity. These suggestions are what you need to do. Things won’t, and don’t, always go as planned. The sooner you accept this and act resourcefully the easier everything will be. It is always, all up to you. Learn this!

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I’ll share another important suggestion next time. Understand that how you do one thing is how you do everything. Your mindset and beliefs determine whether something is a problem or not. Just labeling it a problem is a problem. This is very important. Get it?

Your attitude determines your altitude. Remember, plans change. Things almost never go as you plan. That’s why you make a plan and work the plan, but are prepared to adjust and continue as things change along the way. Understanding this puts you ahead of it all.

It’s said the happiest people don’t always have the best of everything but they always make the best of everything. They transform though transforming their mindset. Attitude is that little thing that makes a big difference. Everything is a blessing when you decide that EVERYTHING is a blessing. That’s how it works. That’s the law. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Surprises Are Good But Some People Fear Them: Do You?

“Life is full of surprises. It is good to be surprised. We like to be pleasantly pleased but many people worry about surprises they can’t control. If you can control it, it isn’t a surprise. You have to let go and live a little. There are always risks. Live courageously.

When things change it’s an opportunity to learn something new, utilize your resources, change direction, recognize patterns, and discover that things do change. So understand changing is an opportunity even when it seems to change for the worst. Get it?

We don’t want the good to go away or the bad to appear but it happens so it’s best to learn how to be resourceful to handle whatever changes occur. It’s also wisest to not live in constant expectation of disappointment, worry or fear. Stop it. Let it go.

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Change is constant. Embrace it. Embrace whatever comes your way with the understanding that you can handle it and do quite well if you will allow yourself to. Seek your best responses. Take the higher road. Let go of fear and loathing. Stop worrying about it.

Aim at the target you want to hit and then attempt to hit it. If you don’t, correct and attempt it again. Keep doing it until you accomplish what you are attempting to accomplish. If you are going to be successful you have to stick with it. Don’t give up or give in.

Start expecting the best. Look for the best. Yes, you still may be surprised with something less than glorious, but as you take charge of your mindset, you’ll find it throws you less and less. Eventually, you get good at overcoming difficulty and making good happen.

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Use troubles to get better and stronger. That’s what they’re useful for. They help shape you and strengthen you. Trees grow strong because of high winds not in the absence of them. You grow strong because everything isn’t perfect so celebrate that it isn’t. It’s good for you no matter what the circumstances when you really think about it. Then, you absolutely can celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Read my book Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want for lots more powerful practices and ideas to live happily and successfully. It’s an especially important book during tough times. Read it in advance of difficult times to be prepared or during tough times to know what to do and what not to do to get better results!

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THIS IS ONE GIGANTIC OPPORTUNITY: Don’t Miss It This Time!

“As we wring (and ring) in the new year let’s keep in mind it isn’t the year that determines whether you struggle or thrive. It’s your mindset, feelings, the beliefs you hold, the habits you act from and your overall attitude and expectations. The year does nothing.

How you respond to whatever is presented to you is what matters the most. You either react out of old automatic habits or you free yourself up to respond differently. What you fear most you attract most. Get it? Energy flows where your attention goes. Focus.

This is a great lesson for all of us. How to manage your mindset in the face of difficulty. 2021 could be better or worse than 2020, but you alone decide whether it is better for you or not. I hope it is. I wish you the very best. I wish the best New Year for everyone.

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Consider this: perhaps 2020, as with all time, circumstances and events, is the universe’s way of saying WAKE UP to what is actually important. That ain’t money. It ain’t power over others. It ain’t a shiny new car. All these may be good but they aren’t important.

Money is marvelous but good health is true wealth. It’s time we wake up and realize our attitude determines how we go through everything. How you choose to go through this is in your hands. As I’ve said before economies collapse and can be rebuilt BUT…

Dead people remain dead. Will people suffer if the economy buckles? Sure. They would anyway. It isn’t pretty that’s for sure. People would struggle. Right now we still have a major health threat that needs to be addressed so the economy can get back on track.

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IF we ARE really smart we’ll improve the economy and not return to what we had. THIS IS ONE GIGANTIC OPPORTUNITY to wake up and evolve higher that some will embrace and others will miss. Will you miss it or embrace it? This is your opportune time. Be alert.

This is when you adjust and continue. You exercise your mental and behavioral flexibility. It is when you prepare and make changes for your future. It’s the time to wire in new positive neural connections for thinking, feeling, speaking and behaving better and better.

Use this time to evolve and improve your attitude, your mental, emotional, physical, spiritual and financial health. Learn how to make the important changes you need to end struggle and begin to thrive. Use the new year to make a positive difference for you and yours.

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Only after we get though this will we begin to understand what worked and what didn’t. Meanwhile, we are experimenting with success for both health and the economy. Continue to move forward in positive ways. As the Wright Brothers did when trying to fly.

They didn’t know how to fly until after they flew. Prior to that they were experimenting. They were attempting things, getting feedback, making adjustments and trying again, Once they flew, then they knew what worked. That is why hindsight is 2020. Get it?

As we say good bye to 2020, a year some consider a bad year, realize all sorts of good came with it too. It always does. What you focus on matters the most in determining your experience and how you get through troubling times. Remember, this when saying hello to 2021.

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Focus on the best. Learn from the bad or the worst and let it go. Extract the lesson, apply it and leave the yucky in the past. Expect the best and look for the best. Celebrate the good. If you find things you don’t like adjust and continue. Manage your mindset. Get it!

Manage your feelings and behaviors and you will thrive as never before even if you have failed in the past. Learn how to count everything as a blessing and everything will be a blessing. Happy New Year to you and yours. May it be filled with love and light.

May it delight and surprise you in ways you may not be able to imagine yet. May you experience all manner of good things and may you transform yourself in positive and powerful ways. I hope you will use the time you have, which we all have, to create your best life to live life on your terms. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

PS I share so much more in Life On Your Terms and upcoming blogs

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