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An Awakening: Choosing Love in a World of Conflict

Here’s an excerpt from a book I wrote a few years back but have yet to publish. It’s in the queue.

The Awakening: Choosing Love in a World of Conflict

In today’s world, realize this. More people are waking up to the profound realities of life, realities that have long been obscured by the mundane concerns of daily existence. As Albert Einstein once observed, “Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.” This statement rings truer now than ever before, as we witness a growing tension between forces of love and hate, a struggle that’s been a part of human history for centuries but is now resurfacing with renewed intensity. It’s been there all along but certain people are promoting certain disturbing practices in recent years from powerful platforms.

Those who were underground in intolerance and hate found permission to preach their views from all corners. It’s not that what they’re doing is new. It’s a part of our history. However, it’s now being modeled and endorsed from the top down. The role models are less-than-positive. They aren’t the kind of role models with behaviors you want your children to emulate. Theis group encourages discord, chaos, confusion, hate and harm. We’ve watched it unfold in the media. We see and hear the name calling, insults, calls to violence, to arms and to punch people out. Violence has been spotlit as an acceptable form of discourse. It isn’t!

This clash between love and hate is not just a social or political phenomenon; it is a spiritual battle being fought within the hearts and minds of individuals across the globe. We find ourselves at a pivotal moment in history, one where the choices we make will determine the course of our future. The noise of hatred, fear, and division is loud, but it also signals that change is on the horizon. The question before us is: What kind of change will we choose to bring about?

The Battle Between Love and Hate

Historically, humans have been engaged in a struggle between opposing forces — love and hate, inclusion and exclusion, peace and conflict. This battle is not new, but in recent times it’s become more pronounced, more visible, and more urgent. We see it in the polarized political landscapes, the rise of extremism, and the deepening divides between different cultures, races, and ideologies.

But this battle is not just happening on the global stage; it is happening within each of us. Every day, we’re faced with choices that reflect either love or hate. Do we choose to act out of compassion and understanding, or do we succumb to fear and prejudice? Do we build bridges or walls? These are the questions that define the battle we are currently facing.

Consider the rise of social media platforms where people can freely express their opinions. On the one hand, these platforms have the potential to connect people from all walks of life, fostering a sense of global community and understanding. On the other hand, they have also become breeding grounds for hatred, misinformation, and division. Every time we post, share, or comment, we are participating in this battle. Are we contributing to the spread of love, or are we fanning the flames of hate?

The Choice We Face: Love or Hate

In the face of this conflict, we each have a choice to make — a choice that will shape the future not only for ourselves but for generations to come. The choice is simple yet profound: Do we choose love, or do we choose hate?

For me, the choice is clear. I choose love. I choose inclusion, peace, understanding, acceptance, compassion, and joy. These are the values that have guided humanity’s greatest achievements and have the power to lead us into a brighter future. I believe in the power of love to heal wounds, to bridge divides, and to bring people together in a spirit of unity and cooperation.

This choice is not just a personal one; it is a collective responsibility. When we choose love, we contribute to the creation of a world where everyone is valued and respected, regardless of their background, beliefs, or circumstances. We create a world where compassion and kindness are the norms, not the exceptions.

The Example of the Good Samaritan: A Lesson in Compassion

The parable of the Good Samaritan is a powerful example of the choice to love. In this story, a man is beaten and left for dead on the side of the road. Several people pass by without offering help, but a Samaritan — a member of a group often looked down upon by society — stops to care for the injured man. He doesn’t just offer a quick fix; he goes out of his way to ensure that the man is fully cared for, paying for his lodging and recovery.

This story illustrates the essence of choosing love: it’s about seeing all others as humans, the same ‘in it together’ species, regardless of who they are or where they come from, and taking action to help them in their time of need. It IS about breaking down the barriers that divide us and recognizing that we are all part of the same human family.

The Good Samaritan did not hesitate to help a stranger, someone who might have been considered an enemy. He acted out of compassion, not obligation, and in doing so, set an example for all of us. In a world where it is easy to turn away from those who are different from us, the story of the Good Samaritan reminds us that true love knows no boundaries!

The Miracle of the Loaves and Fishes: Abundance Through Sharing

Another powerful example of the choice to love is the story of the feeding of the five thousand, where Jesus miraculously fed a crowd with just five loaves of bread and two fish. This miracle is not just about the multiplication of food; it is a profound lesson in the power of sharing and the abundance that comes from generosity.

In a time when resources are often seen as scarce and people are driven by the fear of not having enough, this story teaches us that when we choose to share what we have, even if it seems small, there is more than enough to go around. Love is not a finite resource; the more we give, the more we receive!

This principle can be applied in many areas of life. For example, in times of crisis, such as natural disasters or pandemics, we often see communities coming together to help one another. People donate their time, money, and resources to ensure that those in need are cared for. This is the spirit of the loaves and fishes in action — choosing love and generosity over fear and scarcity.

The Power of Love to Create a Better Future

As we navigate the challenges of our time, we must remember that the choices we make today shape the world of tomorrow. By choosing love, we are actively contributing to the creation of a better, more just, and more compassionate world.

Imagine a world where love is the driving force behind our actions. In such a world, conflicts are resolved through dialogue and understanding rather than violence. Injustice is met with a collective demand for fairness and equality. People of different backgrounds come together to celebrate their diversity rather than allowing it to divide them.

In this world, the values of the Good Samaritan and the miracle of the loaves and fishes would be the guiding principles. We would prioritize helping those in need, sharing our resources, and treating everyone with the dignity and respect they deserve!

The Choice Is Ours: Be Careful What You Choose

As we move forward, it’s essential to be mindful of the choices we make. Every action we take, every word we speak, and every thought we entertain contributes to the world we are creating. If we choose hate, we perpetuate the cycle of violence and division. If we choose love, we pave the way for a future filled with peace, understanding, and joy.

The world is at a crossroads, and each of us has a role to play in determining the direction we take. The path of love is not always the easiest, but it is the one that leads to the most meaningful and lasting change. In choosing love, we are choosing to believe in the goodness. We are choosing to see the potential for growth, healing, and transformation in every person and every situation. We are choosing to build a world where everyone has the opportunity to thrive.

Looking Forward: Better Days Ahead

Despite the challenges we face, I believe there are better days ahead. I believe that love has the power to overcome hate, that understanding can triumph over ignorance, and that compassion will ultimately prevail over indifference. But this will only happen if we choose to make it so. I believe that great spirits ARE contenting with other forces. I believe many are waking up to a new reality of loving by seeing so many examples of hating and choosing not to participate in hate any longer.

The future is not predetermined; it is shaped by the choices we make today! By choosing love, we are choosing to create a future where everyone is included, where peace is the norm, and where joy is abundant. We are choosing to build a world where the values of compassion, understanding, and generosity are at the forefront. The battle between love and hate is real, and it is happening now.

But we have the power to influence the outcome. Choose love and help create a better world for yourself, others and for future generations. Let’s be inspired by the examples of the Good Samaritan and the miracle of the loaves and fishes. Let us choose love, inclusion, peace, understanding, acceptance, compassion, and joy. The future is ours to shape. Shape it with love.” excepted from “The battle for…”

Get it? I hope so. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Foundation of Genuine Love

“The foundation of genuine love IS loving yourself first. Loving, accepting, and appreciating yourself is the cornerstone of building meaningful and lasting relationships with others. If you don’t fully embrace who you are, there’s little chance you can genuinely love, accept, and appreciate another person. The relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship in your life. Genuinely love yourself. This isn’t egotistical.

Without self-love, relationships can become a search for someone else to fill the void, heal the wounds, or provide the validation you’ve not given yourself. This dynamic is unsustainable. It leads to disappointment and heartache. When you don’t love yourself, you likely unconsciously seek someone else to save you or fix what you perceive to be broken. Anything broken is broken. Why offer a broken person to another for a relationship?

You might hope that their love will heal your insecurities and fill the emptiness inside. However, this rarely works. Relationships founded on the need for someone else to complete or heal you tend to fall apart because they lack balance. In these situations, only one person is doing the loving, and that love is often conditional and dependent on receiving something in return. Out of balance is out of balance. If two people are broken it’s just as broken.

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The imbalance creates a fragile foundation, unable to support the weight of two individuals seeking wholeness in each other. This is why broken people usually attract other broken people. When you’re not whole, you’re more likely to draw others who are also not whole. These relationships can become a cycle of mutual neediness rather than mutual support, leading to further hurt and disappointment. If you want true love, learn to love yourself.

On the other hand, those who love themselves, who are whole and secure in their own identity, attract others who are similarly secure and loving. This should serve as a powerful sign and guide for what you need to work on within yourself. The message is clear: love yourself first. Before you can genuinely love, accept, and appreciate someone else, you must cultivate these qualities within yourself. Self-love is not about being selfish.

True self-love is not self-centered. It’s about recognizing your own worth and treating yourself with the kindness, respect, and compassion that you deserve. It’s about understanding that you are enough as you are and that you do not need someone else to complete you. When you love yourself, you set the standard for how others should treat you. You no longer seek validation from external sources because you have found it within.

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This inner security allows you to enter relationships from a place of strength rather than need. You are able to give love freely without expecting anything in return because your sense of self-worth is not dependent on another person’s approval or affection. This is the foundation of a healthy, balanced, and enduring relationship. Loving yourself also means taking responsibility for your own happiness.

It means understanding that no one else can make you happy if you are not happy with yourself. By focusing on your own personal growth, healing, and self-acceptance, you become the kind of person who naturally attracts others who are also whole and loving. Relationships then become a beautiful exchange of love between two complete individuals. Wouldn’t you want that instead of a desperate attempt to fill each other’s voids.

If you want to experience true love with another person, you must first cultivate it within yourself. The relationship you have with yourself is the foundation upon which all other relationships are built. By loving, accepting, and appreciating who you are, you create the conditions for genuine, lasting love to flourish in your life. Remember, loving people attract other loving people. So, make the commitment to love yourself, and watch as it transforms your relationships and your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Let’s Start Doing This! All For One And One For All

“Let’s put this meme’s message into practice. Let’s make our world a better place. Together we can stop the insanity. We can bring some love, kindness, understanding, peace and compassion to our world. Let’s stop excluding, fearing and hating others and seek to understand, accept and include others. Let’s make them feel welcome, valued, loved and appreciated. How about joining together to uplift and edify each other.

The greatest asset and resources we have are our relationships. We are ONE species on a rock hurtling around the sun. We won’t be here together forever. Let’s enjoy each other and the ride while we can. How about we begin to understand life is more wonderful than our petty differences and that we are more similar than different. We’re all people after all. Let’s look for ways to get along. Stop the division and unite ourselves.

Let’s make the world so wonderful we all celebrate. When the tide rises it floats the boat and everyone in it! Let’s make it a point of being kinder, gentler, more loving and delightful. Help put a smile on someone’s face today. Help someone see through a problem to find a solution. Give someone a compliment or a hug. Affirm them. Tell someone you love them. Make a new friend. Play with a child or a pet. Spread some joy around. Life is far too short for madness but long enough for love, light, laughter, joy and celebration. Celebrate each other. Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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Stop Doing This To Become Happier, Healthier And Wealthier

“I’m going to tell you what you must stop doing to end suffering. I am also going to share with you what you to do to be happier, healthier and wealthier. What is holding you back, I’ve told you before, is your thinking. It’s what you are doing. It’s what some call stinking thinking. If your focus is on what’s wrong instead of what’s right, you create and attract more of what’s wrong. You must stop it. Let it go and shift.

You must think positively. You must imagine joyfully and delightfully what you want as if you are already experiencing it. You aim your flashlight on what you want to see. Stop aiming it at what you don’t want and don’t like. It may seem hard, but it gets easier the more you do it. But more than just shifting I want you to embrace a concept of what you’re doing and why. Have you ever met or been around a bully?

What does a bully do? The bully taunts, criticizes, mocks, and pushes people around. The bully isn’t there to help you. The bully makes life tough. Consider times when you have bullied yourself. Perhaps, you’ve an inner bully who makes life difficult for you instead of joyful. Most of us have. You can attempt to fight the bully, but the bully is an inner habit. It’s learned to do this and has for as many years as it’s been going on.

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Now, think about a best friend who is loving and kind and is supportive and uplifts you. This friend encourages you, is patient and happy to be with you. This friend is there for you when times are hard and helps to lighten the load you carry. This friend cares that you are happy, healthy, wealthy and successful. You rely on your friend. Your friend is always there for you. Now realize you must be your own best friend.

You must let go of the bully. Let the bully go. Release the bully. Become your best friend. Be your best friend. Realize YOU think. You are not your thoughts, but you have thought habits. You have bully thoughts. Guess what? They’re only thoughts. A thought can be changed. You can choose to think differently. If you think a bullying thought, you can quickly replace it with a loving, kind and positive one.

Power IS choosing in the present moment. What you believe becomes true for you. Stop bullying yourself. Stop letting bully thoughts bully you. Release them. Let them go. Stop fighting them. That puts attention on them, and they resist leaving. Let them go. Allow them to go. They’re only thoughts. Decide to think thoughts of joy, love and ease and your life will begin to reflect these. Become your own best friend.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

The worst things you can imagine in life are only thoughts. You can change your thoughts. Refuse to put yourself through that. Stop frightening yourself. Stop worrying yourself. Stop putting yourself down. You want your thoughts to be your best friends. Think thoughts that comfort you, loving thoughts, wise, friendly, kind, peaceful, happy, laughing, joyful thoughts that shape you and your world positively.

Make your thoughts your best friends. Make your thoughts best friend thoughts. Allow these thoughts to fill you. They’re just thoughts. You choose which habits you want in your life. You switch from one to another. Befriend your thoughts. Treat them as a loving friend. Let them treat you the same. Love them. When you share love, you get more back. When you hate things, you find more to hate. Stop fighting and love!

It is said your past does not equal your future. Unless you allow it. You aren’t limited by the past. Instead, choose your thoughts with care. Be wise about it. Uplift and edify yourself. Be willing to change and you’ll discover new insights. You’ll find that new, delightful opportunities abound. Fill your mind with good and you’ll discover so much more good. Your world will look different and be different. Be willing to change!

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Spread love through your inner and outer life. As you do, you’ll notice a peace coming up or arising from within you. When you love yourself, your thoughts and your life, your thoughts, yourself and your life loves you back. Fall in love with yourself. If you don’t like yourself, your life will reflect it. Bless yourself. Love yourself. Like yourself. Befriend your thinking and it can befriend you. Stop fighting and start loving.

As you do you’ll find more love, light and goodness within and without. Encourage it. Release the past. Release present issues. Release future concerns and your present moment becomes fuller and richer. Let it all go. Your power is loving yourself in the present moment. No matter how long you’ve had a problem, you can change at this moment. Discover this! Love and trust the process. You’ve unlimited choices to consider.

You can choose to think anything you want. Think loving, kind, gentle, accepting, caring thoughts. Create a present and a future filled with love, joy, peace and delight. If you want a wonderful world, think it so. Put your thoughts to work for you. Create yourself the way you want to be, do and have. If you stray, bring yourself lovingly back on track. If you notice yourself getting down on yourself. Replace it with kind and loving thoughts. Discover how wonderful it is. Celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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“How To Make This World A Beautiful Place

“What makes this world a beautiful place? Thoughts. Yours and mine. It can also make it a less-than-desirable place. Your thinking determines your experience. It is how you evaluate, judge, label, reject or accept things. When right thinking, the world is delightful. If we are positive and optimistic it’s beautiful. If we are negative and pessimistic it’s not so good.

Thinking makes it so. Yet, some think that is not the case. Get that? They think that is not true. Hmmm. When we manage our thoughts and think the very best of ourselves, others and circumstances the world is wonderful. We paint this world as we want it to be by our thoughts and attitude. If it isn’t what you want it to be, then you must change your thoughts. Get it.

Our beliefs determine what we see and what we find. Our experience is shaped first within and then realized without. Perception IS everything. Everything in the universe we experience through neurological filters, our five senses and more internal processes. We don’t experience the world directly, although it seems we do. We experience the world through our brain and nervous system.

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When we think the best of everything, we experience the best of everything. When we hold others in our hearts and wish them love, peace, blessings, and abundance, AND when we support this through compassion, understanding, acceptance and kindness, our world becomes amazing. Go First: Bless, Heal And Prosper We can give first even without others knowing we are giving.

We can care and make a difference! It begins with our thinking, but it must be manifested through our words and actions. We think it in our heads but move through the world by our feet. Therefore, only think, say and do those things that bless, edify, heal, inspire, prosper, transform and uplift another person and yourself. Live well by thinking, speaking and doing well.

Live well by doing kindness to yourself and others. There are people who suffer but somehow manage to find bright spots in the darkness. They live in the light while facing incredible odds and still find it within themselves to love, care for and encourage others. In spite of great personal difficulty, they act and help to encourage. They inspire. You and I can do more of this.

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We ought to do more of this. Love and the world loves back. Some will say not everyone will love back. Okay, so what are you going to focus on? The positive or the negative. The solution or the problem. It is a choice you must make. What are you going to pay attention to? Remember, energy flows where your attention goes. You create. What are you creating? What are you attracting?

What makes this world a beautiful place? People do! Without our awareness this place just is. It’s a rock hurtling through space at high speed. People give it color, texture, love and life. People care. They help and they inspire. They uplift and celebrate. This is wonderful! People rally and support and nurture each other. In pleasant times and in difficult times.

People reach out and are there for one another. Know this and embrace this. There is good in this world. Love One Another It’s worth it to think the best of all people. Hold everyone in the highest esteem. Love and accept each other as Jesus encouraged us to do. I am not favoring Jesus here. Many have spoken on this, but his message was simple. ‘Love one another as I have loved you.’

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His examples from the scripture are clear. He gave. He healed. He forgave. He fed. He nourished others. He taught, uplifted and inspired others. He walked his talk. He was a living example. Those he chastised were greedy know-it-alls. They had ego but no remorse. According to his story, he gave his life for them too. He forgave his captors and killers.

If he could do this, how can we not do a little something for one another when in need? How can we not give to help feed, clothe, minister and care for others. How can we not forgive and love and accept those who hurt us? He said, what you do for the least or the most lowly of all people you do for and to him. That’s straightforward. Pretty darn clear, don’t you think.

I don’t care whether Jesus existed or did not. The example set forth is worth emulating. Let’s love and focus on the goodness we find and the goodness we can create and not on hate, harm and division. Let’s seek harmony and uniting. Let’s seek cooperation and collaboration. We ought to help each other more. Not judge. We ought to help without prejudice.

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We should be open and accepting. Give and then give some more. As we do the world changes BECAUSE we change. When we transform ourselves, even if a situation or other person doesn’t, WE DO! This is important to understand. You change the world by changing yourself! Stop trying to change others and events but heal yourself and you’ll help heal and transform events and circumstances. Get it? It’s a problem if you think it is. OR it’s a blessing if you think it is. Whatever it is is up to you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Help Heal

“Napoleon Hill asked his audience, ‘Do you have any idea why it is if I can have all of the religions, the followers of all religions in my classes and get along well with all of them. The Catholics and Protestants, Jews and Gentiles, all the races, all the priests. Do you know why it is?’ The audience shouts out: ‘You love them all.’ Hill says: ‘That’s right. To me, they’re all one brand. …’

‘They’re my fellow beings. They’re my brothers and sisters. That’s why I get along with them. I never think of anybody in terms of what he believes politically or religiously or economically. I think of him in terms of what he’s trying to do to better himself and to better somebody else. That’s the terms that I think of people in and that’s why I get along so well with them.’

I love this. ‘To me they are all one brand’. Politicians, religious leaders, and media divide us and segregate us into as many possible factions as possible to control and manipulate us and our interests. We are not our skin color, our religion, our economics, our nationality, our politics, our gender, or our preferences. We are all one brand! We are one species. We are human.

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Tolerance is the ability to allow those unlike you to co-exist. Acceptance is to embrace without distinction. Our colors, our religions, our economics, our politics and nationalities, whom we love, make us richer not poorer. We ARE diverse and not cut from the same swatch. That is what is wonderful about our world. We are one species, and we need to understand that.

Classifications divide us and are used for control. That’s wrong. Stop hating. We can help end hate. Not by focusing on what’s wrong but by focusing on what IS right. We don’t need to declare another ‘war on’ something to end it. All the wars we’ve declared on anything go on and on and on and proliferate the very things we want to eradicate. We need to love and give, forgive and forget.

Allow and accept. We ought to enjoy and embrace all people. The Golden Rule is wonderful in this regard. Treat others the way you wish to be treated. Make them feel as comfortable and loved as you want to be. Help them be as rich and successful as you can be. Accept and allow them to thrive as you wish to. Celebrate and assist each other. We’re in it together.

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We are one species on a globe hurtling through space at high speed. We ought to figure out how to peacefully exist together, delighting in one another, instead of fighting. Most people fight more over ideology than they do over resources. They fight over religion and who loves whom, or the physical characteristics of their neighbors. It’s Simply insane. How about we stop the insanity?

‘Love one another as I have loved you’, said Jesus. That’s pretty darn straight forward. It starts with each of us. You cannot expect the other person to go first. You must go first! Begin with your neighbors, the people you meet, greet or see each day. Accept those who cross your path. Practice patience, kindness, love, generosity, acceptance! THAT IS THE POINT of the Golden Rule.

GO FIRST! Put it into practice FIRST! DO it before anyone else does it. Do it whether anyone else does it. Don’t wait for others. BE the change you want in the world. Pay it forward. Of course, you must have an open mind and an open heart in order to do this. You must be flexible and accepting. You must like people and want to get along. If you love people, this is perfect for you. Do it now.

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If enough people did this, we could reach the Tipping Point and we’d make our world a better place. Each of us needs to be responsible for making our world a little bit better. We each must do what we can to make it better for others and to improve conditions. If each of us did this IT WOULD BE better. If you and I decided to start making a difference, things will be different.

Focus on what you can positively do. Practice becoming a living solution! Begin today if you haven’t already! Commit to making our world the garden paradise it was meant to be. Be the examples others can follow. Shine your light for all to see. Spread the love around. Don’t wait. Start now. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Love And Romance; Upset And Difficulty: A Valentine Message

“On holidays and special occasions there are those who are alone. There are also those alone in a crowd or in committed relationships. Feeling alone is something most of us have experienced. It comes from the thoughts you have about yourself and about others. If you don’t feel worthy to be loved, it’s difficult to find it. Why? Because the energy you put out comes back the same multiplied.

If instead, you were to love and joyously accept yourself, that love, joy and acceptance would be returned multiplied. What you put out comes back. If you feel alone, I promise you it’s not because you are thinking, ‘I am loved and worthy of love.’ You may not be horribly negative about yourself, but you aren’t uplifting, edifying and feeling marvelous about yourself. You can change that.

The same is true in a relationship, whether it’s kids for their parents or parents for kids, life-partners, spouses or significant others. If you’re in a relationship you don’t like, or a difficult one because you do want it but it’s not working out, or fulfilling, I PROMISE YOU, you aren’t thinking, ‘How lucky I am this person is in my life. I am so grateful to know and love this incredible person.’ Am I right?’

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If you are truly grateful for the other person or persons and for yourself, life and relationships can be wonderfully different. You can’t control the other person, nor should you want to or attempt to. Who wants someone they can control? Robots are coming. You’d be better off with a robot. A real person hopefully chooses to stay with you, and you with them, because you both want to. You agree to it.

If you are having difficulty I assure you, most likely neither of you are expressing gratitude and appreciation for each other silently or out loud. If you’re focused on what is wrong with them, you or the relationship, you create and attract more of the same. Research tells us we have mirror neurons. What do you suppose that is? Why do you think they called these ‘mirror’ neurons? They reflect.

We experience what another is experiencing. We mirror each other unconsciously. It is the basis for empathy. If we harbor a secret grudge they can tell. Perhaps, not consciously. You know, ‘like I can’t put my finger on it but…’ They also experience feeling loved if you deeply love and appreciate them. We respond similarly to each other. We reflect each other, but not necessarily consciously. Get this.

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What’s known as the Rosenthal or Pygmalion Effect is that people rise or fall to the level of your expectations about them. I’m not going into the research, you can look it up. Researcher Rosenthal argued that biased expectations can affect reality and create self-fulfilling prophecies. Sounds somewhat like the law of attraction. You get back what you put out. You find what you expect to.

Self-fulling. Our thoughts, beliefs, biases, expectations shape our reality and what we find. That’s why the term ‘you’ll see it when you believe it.’ Our brains find for us those things with importance or high signal value. What we obsess about we find most frequently. If we worry someone may be dishonest or cheat on us, we in fact may find that because we helped to create it. Our thoughts create reality.

Their mirror neurons. Get this? I’ll say it again, if you harbor a grudge or a negative feeling, thought, belief or expectation about someone you might just find it manifesting. It’s a dance. You harbor it and they pick it up subliminally and respond to it, not really knowing why, but something is off. Then they discover the reasons. THEN, they find you, ‘cold, resentful, not the same, no fun anymore,’ etc.

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The Reticular Activating System (RAS) finds in your outer world examples of what you hold on the inside. Get this. It could be they pick up on you first or you pick up on them first. GET THIS! It doesn’t matter which came first, the chicken or the egg, what matters is what you do if the relationship is important to you. If you want a loving relationship you have to focus on being loving and lovable.

What attracted you to each other? What was it that you enjoy and love most about the other person? Remember, how you felt in their presence and longed for them when you were apart. Remember all the things that made you feel loving and feel loved. Discover that appreciation and gratitude for them again. Cuz, if you don’t appreciate them now, consider what you.re doing. You’re not creating loving.

Notice what you ARE creating and attracting. Once you felt and thought a certain way and now it is different. If you want to recapture the original magic you must let go of grievances, biases and expectations that they’re not the same person. Let go, release, forgive and discover again all the reasons you fell in love. If you want them to love you, behave in loving ways towards them.

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Hold that person in the highest possible esteem. As Rosenthal demonstrated, ‘The Pygmalion effect is a psychological phenomenon in which high expectations lead to improved performance in a given area and low expectations lead to worse.’ Yes, it wasn’t about loving relationships but about performance by students. Those who performed best were thought to be best by the teacher. Get this! Do you?

If you want to be loved, be loving. If you want to be appreciated, appreciate others. If you want more friends, be a friend first. Be open, kind, caring, attentive, respectful and a good listener. What you put out, your vibe, comes back to you. Your energy attracts similar energy the same way finely tuned instruments resonate together when a string is plucked. You resonate with others according to energy.

You can’t change or control the other. Nor should you want to. You can change and control your output to maximize the likelihood you’ll get a good return on your investment. That doesn’t mean Susie or Bill will reciprocate just because you got your eye on them. It could, but don’t think like that. Think, ‘I’ll attract the right person for me.’ Open yourself up to greater possibilities. World = Oyster!!

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In a committed or family relationship what you do can serve to help repair damage and overcome difficulty and create greater rapport, understanding, and improved feelings. You can overcome familial distance by generating warmth, caring and respect. If you want someone to feel better, GO FIRST. Apologize. If they don’t accept it, don’t get mad. Take it slow. Demonstrate though time you mean it.

Some people must repair trust slowly. Allow them the time they need. Let them see by your actions you mean it. Anything less, is bound to disappoint you both. Same is true in partner relationships. Time helps heal but being true to your word and demonstrating gentle loving kindness can make a difference. In both cases it helps to mentally shower the other person/s with love and good will.

Imagine them radiating love and goodness. See them happy and joyful. See them successful and delighted. Wish the best for them. Celebrate them. The energy you put out comes back to you even if it isn’t returned from that person or persons. If you harbor anger or resentment or wish them poorly that is returned to you too. What do you want for yourself and for them? The best! That’s what works.

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Love begets love when it’s given without expectation it must be returned in a particular way. Appreciate the other. Find the reasons you love them, whether a romance partner or family member or friend. Hold them in the highest esteem in your mind, heart and soul. Be willing for it to take time. Expect the best but don’t insist on how it should be. Don’t bother or intimidate. Don’t pester.

Be positive and optimistic without putting demands or conditions on the other or the universe. Be willing to love them from a far if necessary because you love them whether they return it or not. If you only love them because they love you that is conditional and not giving freely. The prodigal son’s father celebrated because his lost son returned. He loved his son through everything the son did.

If you truly love, then love. Accept and allow the other person free reign to come, stay or go. How do you hold a butterfly? In an open hand. Remember, you can’t hold water in your fist. Be loving and be open to having them respond or not. Just silently, gently broadcast subliminally that you appreciate and care for them. You love them as they are without no strings. That’s a more wonderful love.

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If you want a friend, remember to be a friend first. Give first what you’d like in return FROM THE UNIVERSE. If it’s not to be this person, then it can be another. Be open to the universe. How do you do this? It begins with the thoughts you think. Think, you are deserving. You are loving. Think you love and accept yourself. Think you love others and accept them. Be grateful for yourself and others.

If the relationship is important to you to preserve it, then commit to making all of your moments magical, memorable, magnificent and miraculous. AND find those past moments in your relationships, recall them, emphasize and enhance them and hold them in your heart. Let go of the hurts. Forgive and heal. Speak only to bless, edify, heal, inspire, prosper, transform and uplift. Anchor in the good!

Start with positive, loving, kind, gentle accepting thoughts. Affirm the best in you and them. Keep at it and you’ll soon discover changes occurring in yourself and the world around you. As you uplift and edify your energy and vibe high those people who vibe the same can come your way. Remember, you are worth it. You are a good person. Love yourself and others. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What To Do About The World

“Some want to ban books. Some want to ban words. Same person, different wardrobe. Become aware. Learn how to edify and uplift others. The answer is to include, accept and allow instead of rejecting and excluding. Love is and has always been the answer. Hate never solved anything. Worry doesn’t solve it either. Neither do reasons, excuses, complaining or blaming. Crap attracts more crap.

Live with higher purpose, compassion, kindness, peace and integrity. Let all else fall away. Release and let go of things which do not contribute to the wellbeing of others. Seek to serve, not to condemn. If you consider something a problem, it’s a problem. If you consider something a blessing, it is a blessing. It’s up to what you believe and consider. What you think is true, is true for you.

It may not be true for anyone else. You make your own heaven or hell. Most people don’t realize this. They think heaven or hell is made by others, circumstances and events. That’s why they hate, fear and blame. They are busy looking for others to hold responsible. The only one responsible is the one reading these words and the one who wrote these words. We are responsible for our creation.

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You and I, no one else. Stop blaming. Accept responsibility and decide, if you want goodness and kindness in the world, then be the change in the world you desire. Be a demonstration of the good you want to enjoy instead of being the hurt you might want to put on others. Be accountable for doing good or for doing harm. Get it? If you want a better world, don’t accuse or excuse but make it so. Make it good for all, not just a few. Stop hating. Start loving. Be grateful for all. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Love Your Negativity And Here’s Why!

“Love your negativity. Remember, a battery has both positive and negative poles. They’re both part of the human experience and serve different purposes just as night and day do. They’re part of your experience to move from discomfort and from comfort zones to learn, grow, get ahead and delight. Both provide contrast. Both are important and necessary. Remember, I say celebrate everything.

Learn to use them wisely and not judge or criticize them or yourself. Existence, which we are, doesn’t judge us, or hate us because we falter, make mistakes or are slow to learn something. Instead, we get the same lesson again and again from different experiences and people. Love yourself. Accept yourself. Understand you have positive and not positive thoughts and feelings. Understand how they work.

They’re signals. They alert us when we are on and off track. It’s all our inner guidance system. Embrace how much of a miracle we are. get excited instead of resentful. Live in awe instead of aw shucks. Stop punishing yourself for the choices you make. Stop disliking them and yourself. Love and accept and celebrate all of it. If you consider something a problem, then it IS a problem.

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If you consider something a blessing, then it IS a blessing. If you spend your time fighting, resisting, angry and frustrated, hating yourself, your choices, your life and the events, people and circumstances in it then you won’t discover a whole lot of good coming into it. What you put out comes back to you. Your energy flows where your attention goes. Stop putting it into resisting, hating and criticizing.

Put it into loving kindness, gentle acceptance, delight, joy, curiosity, fascination, love, peace, laughter and goodness. Create more joy, love and peace within and you’ll discover more of it without too. Put an end to the habits that don’t serve you by loving, releasing, forgiving and letting go. Use the alerts to guide you in positive and wonderful ways to enjoy each step along the journey instead of fighting each step. The more delighted you are, the more delight you’ll discover. Get it. Celebrate EVERYTHING!” Rex Sikes

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If you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got AND doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result IS the definition of insanity. Stop the insanity!

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If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. The first and most important update is changing your attitude! Your attitude is comprised of your beliefs and expectations. It’s those thoughts you repeatedly think that keep you the same OR that move you forward to greater and more wonderful results.

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