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How You Love Someone Is Important: Doing This Makes A Difference!

“People use the phrase, ‘I love you’ and mean it. Some people say it but what it means is questionable. ‘I love you’ can mean anything one wants it to, AND it may mean something completely different to the recipient. We define what love is and what love means for us.

The word love is the issue. In English it’s used in many ways. ‘I love when they do that’, ‘I love how they say they will but never do’. ‘I love candy.’ ‘I love you’. How do you love that person? Do you love the person similarly to how you love candy? How do you define love?

I suggest replacing the word LOVE with the word LOVING. I recommend we replace saying ‘I love you’ with loving acts. Since, one can love a hamburger as well as a person words are cheap. Actions speak louder than words. Still, we want to convey our feelings.

Think Lovingly – Speak Lovingly – Act Lovingly – Be Loving Always

We feel the need to say something. Okay, try this on. It can make an incredible difference for you! One ought to behave lovingly toward the person one claims to LOVE. Instead of saying ‘I love you’, say. ‘ I always want to behave towards you in loving ways.’ Get it! Do you?

NOW you have set a standard you can compare your efforts against. Are you truly behaving in a loving way or not? Is the other person responding in loving ways? How does the other person want to be treated? How does s/he, or what does s/he, consider loving ways?

ASK! You will learn how you ought to behave in loving ways so the other person/s feel loved. Get it? Stop declaring undying love. Start behaving in loving ways. You know when you are behaving in a positive, supportive, loving way and when you aren’t. You know!

Your Behaviors Either Support Or Contradict Your Claims

You know when someone is behaving toward you in loving ways and when the person isn’t. Get it? Either you are or you aren’t. Either they are or aren’t. Stop claiming to love and start loving! Act and behave lovingly. Say loving things. Be kind and compassionate.

Be sweet and tender. Be a shoulder to lean on. Be a great listener. Be a positive presence. ‘I always want to behave in loving ways.’ THEN, make a larger commit, ‘I WILL always behave in loving ways moment to moment.’ If you don’t behave in loving ways make amends!

If you truly love the person/s you claim to, commit to treating them the in the best, most loving ways, moment to moment. If you slip up correct it and ask forgiveness. Then don’t make the same mistake again! If the other person is important to you, adjust your behavior to act lovingly. If that is your promise, keep it. Remember, ACTIONS speak louder than words. It is up to each of us. It is up to you! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Learn To Do This For Yourself And Here’s Why!

‘Self-love is not so vile as self-neglect’, said Shakespeare. Learn to love yourself. Learn to seek higher power. Learn to take care of yourself. Learn to take care of your neighbor. Be compassionate to yourself and others. You won’t be selfish if you are devoted to higher power.

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.’ Matt: 22:37-40

Notice, you’re to love others as you love yourself. You’re encouraged to love yourself. Love god first. AND love yourself! If your heart is in the right place you’ll be fine. Consider god, you, and others the points on a triangle. All are equal and equally important. Get it?

Love The Person In The Mirror Who Through It All Still Stands

Seek higher power, source. Whatever that means to you. Love yourself. Love one another. Love is transforming. Love is forgiving. Love doesn’t seek to crush another. Love seeks to uplift. Love yourself means be compassionate, understanding and forgiving.

When you seek a higher source, love yourself and treat yourself like you do; and you love others and treat them with that same care and respect, you, and the world of people around you transforms. You uplift yourself, people, events and circumstances. You create it!

So let things go. Stop being critical of yourself. Be patient. Learn from your mistakes. Nurture yourself. Encourage yourself forward. Do things that uplift you and help you to think, feel and behave right so you can get the results you want in your life. Live fully! Do the same for others. Delight in all. Consider all a blessing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Spread Peace Love And Joy This Day!

It is Christmas somewhere in the world today. Not everyone celebrates Christmas. Every holiday could be an excuse for family to come together, friends to assemble, and unite in a spirit of fellowship and thanksgiving worldwide, whether you celebrate or not.

Be thankful. Stop and be friendly for a few moments. Forgive anyone and everyone. Stop fighting and look for common ground. If we can agree on what unites us; if we can agree on how we are the same in mind, body and spirit, we can transcend differences and hate.

Look to give love. Look to spread peace. Give, be as generous as you are able. Practice compassion and gratitude. Look for the good in each other and all circumstances. Let’s use every holiday for this purpose. Then maybe we can extend it to other days. Eventually, if we keep spreading, peace, love and compassion to other days we will fill the year with goodness. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

Merry Christmas. Happy Happy Kwanzaa, Happy Past Hanukkah, Happy New Year! Happy Holidays! Season’s Greetings, Happy Festivus! Happy Day – fill it with peace, love and joy to all!

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Do This For Yourself And Someone Else Today!

“Today, make your day count for you and for someone else. There is enough going on around us to distract us from the fact that there are very good people in the world and that most days are very good days. We get distracted by events and we can get caught up.

That is not to say the events don’t deserve attention and correction. They do. They and people involved need love, peace, kindness, compassion, understanding, and assistance in so many ways. If you can help and do something nice to comfort and air please do so.

It is important. I also want to remind you to do that anyway. Do that daily. Be loving, kind and thoughtful. Do something nice for someone. Help someone out. Go the extra mile and do something without expecting anything in return. Simply, be thoughtful and kind.

Live Love Laugh Learn – Peace Love Understanding Compassion

Gift someone. Say a positive and encouraging word. Demonstrate support. Be enthusiastic with them. Help understand their troubles without becoming coming troubled. Offer them a way up and out. Heal, feed, nurture and care. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper.

Give today. While you are at it, consider making it a daily practice. Pay it forward in some way. It need not be extravagant, but it is okay if it is. Simple, genuine acts of graciousness, kindness, positivity and love often have a profound lasting effect. Look for people to uplift. Spread some of the good around now, when times are turbulent and when they aren’t. Be a beacon of light. Help everyone celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Namaste’ What It Means And Why You Want To Do It

“Namaste’ is a practice. Namaste’ means ‘the inner god in me recognizes and bows to the inner god in you’. Bring your hands up to your forehead in the prayer gesture, then slightly bow as you move them to your heart looking another person in the eyes and say it.

I always begin and end my live seminars with this greeting. Each week, where I live, we practice this to ‘remember’ as a group. It’s wonderful to remember to love, honor, and respect others. It is important to recall we are all divine and live as such. Try it.

If you can recognize the god in all, or the love in all; if you can realize we are all the same energy, the same stardust, in different bags of skin and bones; if you can see through the deception of ego that we are different, and remember we are all one and the same, then…

Live Love Laugh Learn – Celebrate Everything – You Are Divine

… you and your day is transformed. Then the other person’s day is transformed. Instead of distractions, hostilities, resentments, anger, frustration and ‘whatever’ you spread love, respect, blessings and peace. You aim high. You vibe high. You love. You inspire. Get it?

In the early 1980s I, and many others, rose early and went to meditate in the desert. We sat on the ground and for one hour laughed. It was called ‘laughing meditation’. You deliberately start it. You push it. You laugh without feeling it. You fake it. You persist.

Believe me, at 5am on cold desert earthen floor, you don’t want to laugh. You want to cry or complain. Instead, we laughed. After, minutes, sometimes few, sometimes many, the internal laughter mechanism takes over and we roared for the rest of the hour.

Speak Only To Bless Heal Prosper Inspire Motivate And Transform

It’s a beautiful practice, and way, to begin the day. How you start the day matters. What you focus on matters. If you look for smiles you will find them. Set your heart and sights on what you want. Move into the world with joy and be in love with life. Laugh. Smile.

You will find frowns if you look for those. So you must decide first what you want to find and what you want to spread. What you put out comes back. What you seek you can discover. Pay it forward. You are an active creator of your experience. You’re not passive.

Spread love! Spread respect in whatever you do, Because whether you believe it or not, YOU, are always spreading something. If it isn’t good or what you want, then you are spreading something less than glorious. Get it? Spread the best. High vibe! Live, love, laugh. Do it!

The More We Do The More We Can Do – Drop By Drop Tub Fills

It is really only a cosmic game you, me, and all of us are playing. Choose how you want to play it. Choose how you want to live your life. Choose what you prefer to instigate and spread. When you consider everything as a blessing, you find more blessings. So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Those Darn Fake Christians!

“In a previous blog I mentioned Thich and masters and miracles. A FB reader got upset about ‘Christians’ who profess faith but their actions aren’t congruent. It seems true presently, and perhaps it has always been so, there are Christians in name only, but not in deed.

Christianity has been co-opted and has infiltrated politics. Many use it for gathering votes but don’t adhere to the faith or tenants. There is no shortage of news items whereby a professed christian is caught in a questionable or criminal sex act or money scam.

There are also truly good christians who stumble and fall. After all, remember this, ‘he who is without sin cast the first stone’. Many things are possible. I’d like to point out a few things given that tempers ran hot in that discussion. Not everything is as it appears.

By Their Actions You Will Know Them

The gentleman accused christians of being fakes, liars who attacked and harmed others instead of turning the other cheek. There is a faction of ‘militant’, so-called, self-righteous ‘christians’ who hurl insults and insist all do as they say. They don’t, but insist others do.

In my bible it says or suggests that christians are supposed to turn the other cheek. They are to forgive. They are to let their light shine. They are to take care of the little ones, and the poor and sick. They are to love god first and then their neighbor as themselves.

It did not say love and care for ‘only those who look like you and think and act like you. It said ‘neighbors’. They are to give. Jesus pointed this out, when he spoke of the widow not having much to give, but giving much of what she did have, as an example to follow.

Love One Another As I Have Loved You

That not everyone does these things shouldn’t be an indictment against Jesus or the movement that sprang up around, or because of him, but it should help us recognize who is true to the teaching and who isn’t. We have a standard to recognize ‘christians’ in name only.

Remember, the bible says beware of those coming in ‘his’ name. Beware of false prophets (of course, some of these people, we are discussing, like to point the finger at other faiths. Personally, I believe he meant ‘his’ faith not other faiths). Beware of the false!

‘Beware of wolves in sheep’s clothing’. That means his flock not buddhists, atheists, hindus, muslims or jews. It meant the ‘christians’. Remember scripture says ‘by their works you shall know them’. We can clearly see people aren’t walking the walk, but claiming to be.

Action Is The Proper Fruit Of Knowledge

What should we do? Don’t blame christianity. Just notice there are those who adopt the name, but don’t walk the walk. They talk, accuse, blame and act righteous. They even quote scriptures. When caught, they make excuses and blame others or the devil.

These are the wolves. Be thankful we can tell the real from the false! Now what should we do? If you are an actual follower of Jesus you forgive, you accept, you turn the other cheek, if necessary, and you help them get instruction in righteousness. You love and accept.

You live and let your light shine. You DO WHAT JESUS WOULD HAVE DONE! He healed people and said, ‘Go and sin no more.’ He healed them and sent them on their way. You don’t see him chasing after them and accusing them of being bad. Love them. Heal them!

Live To A Higher Standard – Love – Embrace – Accept – Give – Heal

Yes, it is tough to love without conditions until you get so used to doing it that it is natural. I think that is what Jesus was hoping for the rest of us. Live so exemplary and so lovingly that nothing gets you ruffled. Live giving. Live in peace. Live abundantly and help others to do the same. Seems for the most part, Jesus really did celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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There Is Nothing To Fear: Trust In This!

“There seem to be a lot of ‘in name only’ Christians these day. People who spout scripture but whose lives don’t follow scripture. Some ‘cherry pick’ passages to put others down, show others the error of their ways, without realizing they, themselves, come up way short!

I will make a bold statement. If you are a true Christian or Jew, if you believe the Bible or Torah is the inspired word of god, THEN you would be well served to act on it. Claim it. Stand on the promises there within. Live as if you have that word in your heart. Act like it.

If nothing else the 23rd Psalm tells you how the true Christian or Jew lives, believes and acts. Take comfort and stand on the words attributed to David, the king and the other authors of the Psalms. I share this incredible promise with you. Take it to heart. Apply it.

Some won’t like what I say next. Others will love it.

You may or may not believe in god, nor must you to read this blog. There are many ways to describe the mysteries of the universe, source, infinite intelligence, divine mind, and more. I am for you deciding on your own, for I will not tell you what you must believe.

Whether or not you are Christian or Jew this Psalm attributed to David is amazing.

‘The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.’ The author says god is our unfailing and abundant supply. We shall not want for anything. He will take good care of us as a shepherd does his sheep. All our needs can and will be met. I will not want for anything. Pretty darn cool!

‘He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.’ God, or the universe, source whatever you choose, takes care of us in all ways; in every way!

‘Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.’ There is nothing to fear. Fear no evil for god is with us. He protects, keeps safe, and comforts us. Nothing can harm us in god. Fear not!

‘Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.’ Again, god meets all our needs. Even in the presence of enemies we are safe; abundantly all our needs our met. A banquet in presence of enemies. WOW!

‘Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.’ God’s goodness will always follow me. So think about this. There is nothing to fear. We can come to no harm. Every need is taken care of. We are comforted and loved.

So, what is it with name only christians who are afraid of others, who claim other’s sin is responsible for downfall? Who blame and accuse and deprive others from living happy, healthy lives, and attempt to prevent them from following their dreams. They hate and are afraid.

Why is it that they take money from them, prevent them from having the care and access to resources they need? These same name only christians allocate money to themselves, health benefits for themselves all while depriving others. They don’t live the Word.

There is nothing to fear, hate, or harm. God takes care of us. Rest in god’s word. Claim the promises and live as god intended you to live. Follow Matthew 22:36-40 When a disciple asked Jesus, ‘Master what is the greatest commandment in the law?’

Jesus said unto him, ‘Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.’ Seems fairly direct. Love god. Love your neighbor.

Do you not get this? If you claim to be a Christian it seems you have your work cut out for you. The rest of us would benefit if we followed these words as well. Love and love some more. Stop the hate. Be filled with love. You are safe with nothing to fear. You are well provided for. There is plenty for all. Love god and love others as you love yourself. Treat everyone well. Be kind. Be generous as god is to you. Celebrate everything!”

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Stop Doing This! just Stop It! Stop It! Your Life Will Be Much Better!

“Stop trying to control everything! Stop trying to control the people in your life. Stop insisting they be different. Stop insisting they agree with you. If there is one thing you should have learned in life it’s that it’s impossible to change others! So give it a rest. Allow them to be.

Letting loved ones and friends be who they are, in all their glory and in all their imperfections, is a great way to love and respect them. Each of us is who we are. Love yourself for who you are with all the good and not so good. Do the same for those around you. Let go!

‘The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves and not to twist them to fit our own image.’ – Thomas Merton. It is foolish and folly to try. It is futile. If you want changes, change yourself. You are the only one you can truly control. Improve yourself and let others be. Love, delight and be grateful they’re in your life. Be glad! Be happy! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Do This Without Fail. You Will Be Glad You Do!

“Be sure to spend time with high vibe, positive friends and family. Savor the relationships with people you can uplift, and whom can uplift you. Do not neglect the people who surround you. People are the greatest resources we have. Not things. Not events. People!

Love people. Enjoy those who are important to you. Make people around you feel important. Treat them well. Help them smile more. Inspire and encourage them. What goes around comes around. Go the extra mile and others will do the same for you. Enjoy all. Your relationships are important. Love, forgive, allow, accept! Nurture them. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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If You Would Be Loved

“Benjamin Franklin wrote, ‘If you would be loved, love and be lovable.’ These are pretty profound words. These words exemplify the concept of ‘Go First!’ If you want love, be loving first. If you want kindness, be kind first. If you want peace, be peaceful first. Get it?

It should go without saying, this is the ancient principle of Cause and Effect. It is the principle of Reciprocity. It is the principle of The Law of Attraction. If you want something, be it first. The mirror reflects back a smiling person. Birds of a feather flock together. Get it?

If you want attention, give your attention first. If you want to be heard, listen well first. If you want abundance, feel abundance and give first. Stop expecting the other to go first. YOU go first. You get back what you put out. The world loves a cheerful giver. Get it?

Celebrate all. Consider everyone and every circumstance a blessing. Decide how you want it. If you want to be loved, love and be lovable. Live intentionally, not haphazardly. Create your love, peace, happiness, and good fortune. Go first. Be the change you want to see in the world. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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