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THERAPY SUCKS!!!

“I have set the alarm. I have raised it. Let this be your wake-up call. My words are the signal, a sounding alarm to shake things up, to get you to think deeply, and to evaluate where you stand. When I say therapy sucks, I’m not saying it for shock value or to dismiss the great therapists out there who help people every day. I’m saying it to jolt you into examining your beliefs and practices. Are there terrible therapists? Absolutely.

Are there fantastic ones? Without a doubt. But this discussion isn’t really about therapy at all, it’s about you. It’s about how you live your life, where you place responsibility, and the habits and practices you cultivate every single day. What are you focused on? What are you looking for? If you search for reasons you’re broken, you’ll find them. If you look for people or circumstances to blame, they’ll appear.

But if you choose to focus on your strengths, your talents, and the opportunities to grow, you’ll find those too. Here’s the truth: whatever you focus on expands. Focus on the negative, and your world will seem dark and difficult. Focus on the positive, and life opens. Focus on blame, and you’ll feel powerless. Focus on responsibility, and you’ll take charge. This isn’t just a feel-good philosophy.

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It’s a proven psychological principle. Studies on neuroplasticity show that our brains physically adapt, and restructure based on what we think about most often. If you constantly dwell on problems, your brain becomes wired to notice more problems. But if you consistently practice gratitude and positivity, you start to see solutions and possibilities everywhere. Your beliefs shape your reality. Your beliefs act as a filter.

Your beliefs color how you perceive the world. If you believe you need to sift through every painful memory or flaw before you can heal, that will become your reality. You’ll find yourself endlessly digging through the past, trying to “fix” yourself. But here’s my point AND it’s the game-changer: you don’t have to fix what isn’t broken. Yes, you’ve faced challenges. Yes, you’ve made mistakes. Welcome to being human.

But you’re not defined by those moments unless you allow yourself to be. Instead, you can choose to see yourself as resilient, resourceful, and capable of growth. My approach, backed by science and experience is this. Take it. Spend 80% of your time focusing on what’s working, what’s good, and what’s possible. Spend the other 20% of your time addressing weaknesses or challenges if you feel it’s necessary.

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If you can bump that 80% to 90% or even 99%, you’ll find that your life begins to transform in ways you never imagined. There is power in positivity. I’ve a friend Sean who was laid off during a corporate downsizing. At first, he felt defeated. But instead of dwelling on what he’d lost, he decided to focus on his strengths and passions. Sean always loved photography but had never pursued it seriously.

With time on his hands, he started taking photos, building a portfolio, and sharing his work online. Fast forward a year, and he’s now a sought-after freelance photographer with a thriving business. Did he face challenges? Of course. But his focus determined his direction. He didn’t let his circumstances define him; he defined his circumstances. He’s just one example of what is possible if you don’t let yourself get down due to circumstances.

This is what I’m urging you to do: Take responsibility for your life. It’s your wake-up call. Be the creator, not the critic. Stop blaming external factors, your past, other people, the economy, or even the weather, and start focusing on what you can control. If this resonates with you, it’s time to act. Don’t just think about change, make it happen.

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I invite you to join me in my program: Create Your Best Life Using Einstein & Tesla’s Genius™. This is your opportunity to step into your power, harness the incredible potential of your mind, and create the life you deserve. Here’s some of what you’ll gain: Tools to master your mindset and stay focused on what truly matters. Strategies for overcoming obstacles and turning challenges into opportunities.

A proven roadmap for achieving success, inspired by the genius of Einstein and Tesla. Enroll today! Don’t wait for the “right time.” The right time is now. Neuroplasticity is a fact. I want to help you develop and be your very best. Celebrate the good and embrace the challenge. Let’s return to the alarm I’ve set.It’s ringing because I want you to wake up to your own potential. Life is too short to dwell in negativity, blame, or doubt.

Focus on what you can do, not what you can’t. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small. Remember: you become what you think about. If you fill your mind with gratitude, positivity, and possibility, your life will reflect those qualities. It’s not about being perfect, it’s about being intentional.When challenges arise, face them with courage. When victories come, celebrate them fully.

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Keep moving forward, step by step, and watch as your life transforms. Life isn’t waiting for you to get it right. It’s happening right now. When problems arise, learn to shift. Spend more time focused on what is right. Spend less time on correcting what you think isn’t. You’ll notice the difference in your results when you do. So set your alarm, wake up to your greatness, and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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From A Long Time Ago

“I decided to republish a blog from a long time ago, just because I feel someone needs to read this today. Whenever you are reading it is the right time for you. After you finish you might reflect on the message as people do when they discuss my blogs daily in Club House. There’s a reason for everything, if you assign one, whether there really is or not. The idea is to find the best, the ones that serve you, and not the worst. Get it? And now…

It turns out the universe wants me to slow down. This morning, I was exiting the house, keys in hand on my way to a meeting, focused on hitting the button on the keys to open the car when I hit an uneven spot in the walkway and was pitched headfirst into my car.

I slammed into the car, my left knee hitting the pavement, my right foot twisting and turning under me as I fell on it. I got up slowly, it was difficult, my knee was scraped and bleeding, and my right foot was sore. My wrists and forehead are worse for wear but ok. I laughed, ‘what was that?’

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I hobbled around looking for my keys. Took about 10 minutes when I noticed them about 20 feet away in the driveway in front of the car. Onto my meeting I went, sore but okay. I laughed it off at the meeting and had a most wonderful, marvelous meeting of new beginnings in many ways. Many new doors opened right then.

In olden by gone days I would have sworn, complained, wondered what I had done to cause this, or wondered why I had crappy luck. I would have been miserable. I would have poisoned the pot with negative self-talk, criticisms and negative questions.

Today, I could only think, ‘This is a blessing! Wow, something good is going to come of this. I wonder what it might be. I have no clue. Surprise me.’ It was automatic.

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As we were leaving the meeting I took my foot out of my shoe to see if it had swollen and stepped down onto the pavement and that was it. WOW! The pain was unbelievable. Up until then everything was fine, pretty much. I still had errands to run but now I was seriously hobbled and in a lot of pain.

I did them. I limped around doing errands, the pain increasing all the while! I drove home. I barely made it into the house and into a recliner. Eventually, I called my daughter and asked if she could take me to urgent care. She came by and she did. What an angel. We got to urgent care about 4 hours after the injury.

At Urgent Care I passed out twice. I don’t recall it but so I am told. I nearly puked. I was hot and sweating. Apparently, I had spent too much time on the injury.

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They x-rayed my foot eventually and gave me a diagnosis. The pain grew and grew. They wheeled me from room to room. They were very caring. Finally, they left my daughter and I alone in a room together.

I looked at my daughter and realized I was exhibiting pain in front of her all the while. She was watching Dad suffer. This isn’t a bad thing we all can hurt. Pain is a natural response.

However, recently I have been trying to tell her you can handle tough times, you can get through the pain, it too will pass and here I am passing out from it. I was not the example I hoped I would be. She, of course, already does know everything I am trying to ‘teach’ her. That’s the kind of person she is! Amazing.

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I looked at her and focused on her. Inside I thought, ‘it is only pain’. I focused on my daughter; I kept that thought in mind and looked at her and my heart filled with love. Within minutes I knew I could handle the pain. We were smiling. It was wonderful.

During all this time, from the accident onward, I kept thinking inside, ‘Wow, something good is coming my way, I have no idea what but something incredible is coming’.

I believe it too. I know it is. I began to say it out loud so she would know what I was thinking. ‘There is a blessing in all of this! Something good will come of this.’ ‘I don’t know what yet, but it is a blessing.’

Speaking it out loud has its own power. It makes it more real too. AND I wasn’t lecturing, I was just Dad talking to himself. I was affirming what I knew to be true, and she was hearing me and seeing me. Even in a crisis any of us can be resourceful. Everything can be a blessing if we only choose to see it that way!

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If ever there is a strong, incredibly resilient person it is my daughter. She truly is my teacher as is my son. From the moment they were each born I committed to being the best guide I could be on our journey together.

I promised to love them no matter what. I also knew deep in my soul they would teach me more about parenting than I could ever teach them about growing up. I am the luckiest guy on earth with such incredible children.

Okay, so I know something about pain management and have practiced it for decades. I have taught pain control in workshops and seminars in various locations around the world. People have flown thousands of miles to spend days, weeks and months with me in seminars and live training.

Yet, in the heat of the moment I was caught up in the hurt.

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I closed my eyes, put my head back and began to think and ask myself, ‘what part of my body feels the very best?’ ‘In how many different ways can I discover myself feeling wonderful?’ ‘What is the best feeling I can find right now?’

‘Where does it feel wonderful? In how many ways can I discover all the places in my body that feel good?’ I sent my brain on a search by asking questions and it was delivered.

I used Directed Questions™ to direct my mind to what the best feelings were I could find. I found them and began feeling those! I began to experience relief. I was beginning to pay attention to what felt good instead of what felt bad. I was looking for what was right instead of what was wrong. I was finding it too.

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My mind was attending to what felt the best. It was searching for the ways in which this incident was a blessing right now, in this moment, AND in the future with many good things coming my way. My daughter was here, we were together, she was helping me. This moment IS a perfect moment.

We were blessed in this way right at this moment! The moment was unfolding. It wasn’t just a blessing and an opportunity for the future, it was a blessing right now. How lucky we were to be sharing this moment! An accident brought us this realization. How marvelous is that?

I had steered away from the pain back into the positive. You have read this or heard this from me before if you follow my blog or the materials I have shared for decades. I navigated to the more productive. I didn’t resist the pain or try to stop it. I looked for what was better. I dropped the pain and enjoyed feeling wonderful.

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Yes, it really hurt but it began to subside. It became manageable. Yes, it was very painful when they manipulated my foot on the x-ray bed or tried on various braces but as I realized ‘it’s only pain’ and allowed myself to be filled with wonder and enjoyed my awesome daughter I could handle it. Hours went by.

I told my daughter that looking at her helped me. I enjoyed and loved her and was feeling relief. Eventually, they found a brace that fit and gave me a prescription for an MRI. Surgery may be required. Okay, so now some focus on healing swiftly may be the order of the coming days.

Right now, she is out running errands for us. Picking up food, etc. I am at home with my leg elevated and ice on it. I am fine. Does it hurt, sure but I am at ease with it. I have let go of the hurting and am focused on the miracles in life.

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Everything is grand. I decided to share my thoughts while I had time during the day rather than my early morning writing schedule.

Another lesson I learned is I should pay attention when I walk. Not be caught up in things. I used to practice ‘Zen Walking’, when walking just walk, the basis of Zen – be the activity and nothing more.

If you are going to wash the dish, wash the dish. If you are going to eat, just eat. No distractions, no TV, no phone or reading, just eat. Be one with the moment!

I had much on my mind. Slow down. One thing at a time. It may not need to be a rule, but it can certainly be a lesson. I was inattentive walking to the car. Perhaps, I can use this lesson to remember to be more aware and alert when doing any number of things. A reminder to be aware! How marvelous is that?

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I certainly remembered I didn’t have to be a victim to the pain. My first thoughts of pain added to what I was feeling. It made it worse. Once, I changed my thinking, the pain lessened. I mean it really lessened!

I am not surprised because I teach this stuff. I know it works. I emphasize this because I was caught up in the hurting at first. Once I realized that, during everything that was going on, and I utilized what I know works. It did. It worked! It worked quickly and powerfully. I could share other examples from my past, but I won’t at this time.

On top of it my daughter is a marvelous nurse. She picked up delicious ‘OH SO GOOD’ authentic East Indian food from a friend who makes great dishes from her native land. We are having a feast. I am sampling while typing. Yes, very marvelous indeed!

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I would never have received this delicious Indian dinner today. PLUS, as a result, I learned about a fantastic Indian Restaurant in my neighborhood I didn’t know existed!!! Blessings come in all shapes and sizes.

I feel loved, cared for and grateful to have had this experience and to have such an incredible daughter. Thanks, my darling! I’m a lucky Daddy!

I will have to slow down and take it easy for a while. I have crutches and a brace and have been told to see the follow up doctors as soon as possible. Okay, I can do that. Tonight, I will relax, read some inspiring material and chill out feeling grateful.

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All in all, the events of the day, while not something I would have picked for myself, have been amazing. I have learned much and feel so loved and grateful. Something incredible has already come my way and I know more is on the horizon. Lucky Me.”

Well, there it is. How many blessings will you discover today? I wonder?! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Unlocking Your Power to Transform Obstacles into Opportunities

“To unlock your power to transform obstacles into opportunities you must learn to look at them differently. Life throws challenge our way, and how we perceive those challenges determines whether we’re stopped in our tracks or propelled toward growth. The truth is most of what we consider ‘facts’ are shaped by our past experiences, beliefs, and environment. But here’s the good news: you have the power to change your lens.

Imagine a photographer holding their camera. The same scene can look dark and dreary, or it can look vibrant and alive, depending on how they adjust the focus. What if you could do the same with your life? By changing your perspective, you can see opportunities where there once seemed to be none. You must not only learn to do this, but really do it. Every moment you face a challenge is an opportunity to transform it by reframing it.

Melissa was a single mother juggling a full-time job, raising two kids, and managing household responsibilities. She came to one of my live training events, exhausted and on the verge of giving up. Her mindset was stuck in a loop of, ‘I’ll never catch up. There’s too much to handle. This is impossible.’ Through the exercises we practiced together, Melissa began to shift her perspective. It is always so beautiful to see this occur and be a part of it.

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I introduced her to the idea that her challenges were opportunities to grow stronger, more resilient, and resourceful. She started asking herself questions like, ‘How can I make this manageable?’ and ‘What strengths am I developing through these challenges?’ Within months, Melissa’s life transformed. She went from lacking confidence, worried and fearful to confident, self-reliant and powerful to steer her life as she wanted to.

By seeing her daily struggles as opportunities to get creative, she streamlined her schedule, set boundaries, and even started a side business to improve her financial situation. Today, she describes her life as ‘busy, but fulfilling,’ and she credits this shift in perspective for helping her thrive. The good news is if it is possible for her, it is possible for you. It is possible for anyone willing to develop their mindset and put it to work for them. Will you?

Think about how an artist approaches a blank canvas, not as empty space, but as potential waiting to be realized. This mindset can be applied to any challenge in life. Consider the statue of David within the rock waiting to be released by the chisel. You can find opportunity within setbacks and problems. David, one of my coaching clients, faced an unexpected layoff after 15 years in his industry. His perspective was, ‘This is the end of my career.’

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He felt devastated, convinced his age and specialized skills would make it impossible to find new work. Together, we worked on reframing the situation. I asked him, ‘What new possibilities are now open to you that weren’t before?’ and encouraged him to view the layoff as a blank canvas. Over time, Dave discovered a passion for consulting, which allowed him to use his expertise in a more flexible and rewarding way.

Today, he owns a thriving consulting business, helping others navigate the very challenges he once faced. I am so pleased and happy for Melissa and David and for all my students and coaching clients who make positive changes and reclaim their power to live life on their terms. You can too. Also, I am pleased to share examples and stories of people who change their thoughts and behaviors to live as they’d like to be free from stress and worry.

My approach works and is practical and simple. Pause and reflect. Remember the Attitude Activator™ ‘stop and be different.’ When faced with a challenge, take a moment to breathe and ask yourself: ‘Am I seeing the whole picture?’ Often, your initial reaction is clouded by fear or frustration. A pause allows you to approach the situation with clarity. Direct your mind. Use Directed Questions™ Instead of asking, ‘Why is this happening to me?’

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Ask ‘What can I learn from this?’ or ‘How can this make me stronger?’ These questions guide your mind toward solutions and growth. While those aren’t the full Directed Questions™ they are questions you can use to direct your attention positively and productively. Visualize the possibilities. Imagine the best possible outcome of your situation. What would it look like? How would it feel? Then feel it fully. Live from the wish already fulfilled.

Visualization primes your brain to focus on opportunities rather than obstacles. Seek the silver lining. Even in tough situations, there’s often something positive to be gained, a lesson, a new connection, or a chance to grow. Make it a habit to find that silver lining. Now it is your term to transform your perspective today. What challenges are you facing right now? What would change if you viewed them not as roadblocks but as steppingstones?

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Melissa and David aren’t exceptions, they’re proof of what’s possible when you adjust your focus and act. What could you achieve with the right tools, mindset, and guidance? I share these stories of real people getting real results. You could start your transformation now. Are you ready to unlock your creative potential, become a master problem-solver, and live with greater joy, ease, and enthusiasm?

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Live each day with purpose, enthusiasm, and clarity. Develop a resilient, stress-free mindset that keeps you calm and focused. Build enthusiasm and energy that fuels your goals and dreams. Through easy-to-follow exercises, including visualization, Directed Questions™, and awareness and mediation practices and using theta, you’ll rewire your thinking and unlock abilities you never knew you had.

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Unlock Your Potential and Transform Challenges into Triumphs

“Challenges are the gateway to your greatest breakthroughs. Few are brought up to know and appreciate this. Most people avoid problems and complain when things aren’t working out as they hope. So, life has a way of throwing challenges our way, unexpected roadblocks, difficult people, overwhelming circumstances. We all face them. But some rise stronger, turning adversity into triumph, while others remain stuck.

Some replay the same struggles repeatedly. The secret isn’t avoiding challenges, it’s in learning how to transform them. The greatest triumphs in life often begin with a shift in how we approach our struggles. By changing your mindset, you can turn obstacles into opportunities and limitations into steppingstones for success. If you’re ready to move past fear, frustration, or self-doubt, here are four principles to help you unlock your potential.

Put things in perspective. Reframe your struggles. What if your biggest problem was actually your greatest gift in disguise? Imagine viewing challenges as opportunities to grow, rather than obstacles to dread. Think of a seed buried in soil, it appears trapped, but in truth, it’s being positioned to grow into a towering tree. By changing the way you perceive difficulty, you open yourself to solutions you never saw before.

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Challenges aren’t here to break you. They’re here to build you! Begin by getting honest. Confront your inner story. Transformation starts when you stop running from the truth. What beliefs are holding you back? What stories are you telling yourself about what’s possible? I’ve worked with people who convinced themselves they’d never succeed because of past failures. Like them, do you live from less-than-glorious things you tell yourself?

The moment they confronted those limiting beliefs and stories and replaced them with empowering truths, their lives shifted dramatically. Be honest about what you want, and let that clarity fuel your actions. So can you. Here are some of my students and clients who used my principles and practices through live and online courses, training and consulting with me to go from setbacks and failures to thriving and living joyously. You can too!

Emily, a corporate executive, felt trapped in her job. She believed she had no options, thinking, ‘I’m too old to start over, and I don’t have the skills for anything else.’ During one of my live workshops, Emily realized her inner story was the only thing holding her back. She applied Directed Questions™ to reframe her thinking, asking, ‘What unique strengths can I bring to a new role?’ Emily began and continued a journey to fulfillment.

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Through visualization, affirmations and other practices I taught her, she built confidence, ultimately transitioning into a role in a new industry where her skills thrived. Today, Emily is happier, more fulfilled, and thriving professionally in ways she never imagined. Rafael otherwise known as Rafi, is a small business owner, who struggled with constant self-doubt. He attended my online program and learned to identify his limiting beliefs.

His inner narrative said, ‘I can’t compete with bigger businesses. I’m too small to matter.’ By learning to shift his focus to the unique value his business provided, he started seeing opportunities instead of obstacles. Using techniques from the program, he learned to harness his energy toward growth instead of fear. Within a year, Jason doubled his client base and grew his revenue by 50%.

More importantly, he now approaches challenges with confidence and optimism. He used my Ultimate NLP Home Study Course™ to great success. Amanda had a history of rocky relationships and blamed herself, thinking, ‘I’m not lovable. I’ll never have a happy relationship.” She attended my coaching sessions, where we focused on rewriting her inner story. She transformed through daily gratitude exercises and self-love affirmations.

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As a result, Amanda began to see herself as worthy of love and connection. She shifted her focus from dwelling on past failures to visualizing the healthy relationship she desired. Today, Amanda is in a joyful, supportive partnership and shares that her entire outlook on life has improved, not just in her relationships but in her personal and professional interactions as well. I’m so thrilled for Amanda and to be a part of her transformation.

Mario came to me during a live training, burdened by years of poor health choices. His inner dialogue was filled with excuses: “I don’t have time to take care of myself,” and “It’s too late to get healthy.” By confronting these beliefs, he realized they were just stories he was telling himself. Through practices like visualization and Directed Questions™, Mark shifted his perspective to focus on small, consistent actions.

He began asking himself, “What’s one thing I can do today to feel healthier?” Over the course of a year, Mark lost 50 pounds, gained energy, and developed habits that keep him feeling vibrant and alive. These stories aren’t just exceptions, they’re proof of what’s possible when you take charge of your thoughts and rewrite your inner story. Whether you’re seeking success in your career, relationships, or health, the principles I teach can help you.

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Together we’ll unlock your potential, and you will create the life you deserve. You too can have incredible happiness, wealth and success. Just take the first step. Join my Create Your Best Life Using Einstein and Tesla’s Genius™ program to experience these life-changing strategies for yourself. Whether through live workshops, online courses, or one-on-one coaching, I’ll guide you to: Overcome self-doubt and limiting beliefs.

You’ll develop a winner’s mindset for personal and professional success and cultivate habits that lead to greater happiness, health, and wealth. Visit www.rexsikes.com/Einstein today. Enroll and begin your transformation. Don’t wait for life to happen. Take charge now and create your best life. Your breakthrough is waiting. Let’s make it happen, together! Say yes to change. Growth demands that you step into the unknown.

Being open to new ways of thinking, feeling, and acting is the key to leaving old patterns behind. Yes, it’s uncomfortable, but discomfort is the birthplace of transformation. Picture a caterpillar, confined to its cocoon, pushing against the walls to emerge as a butterfly. That struggle isn’t optional, it’s necessary. When you embrace change, you’re preparing for your own transformation.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

To transform you must be open to changing and willing to learn. Many people claim they want change but don’t. They say they will do anything, but they do not. To be different you must BE different. Then you must do different. If you always do what you always did you will continue to get whatever you got. To get something different you must do something different. Sadly, the most dangerous words in any language are ‘I know that.’

Those come from a closed mind. If you already know it but aren’t living as you desire, then you don’t truly know it. You only think you do. You are deciding yourself and avoiding changing. To change you must be willing and open to changing. The way to get yourself to go there is to rediscover the wonder you had as a child. ‘Unless you become as a little child…’ Curiosity isn’t just for kids. It’s a method for unlocking your potential.

When you approach life with a sense of wonder, you discover opportunities hiding in plain sight. Ask yourself, ‘What can this situation teach me? or What strengths am I developing right now? ‘Curiosity turns challenges into adventures and setbacks into steppingstones. Remember, every challenge you face is an invitation to grow. But growth doesn’t happen by chance. It happens by choice.

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Stop Complaining And Start Getting Better Results

“Think of this as building muscle: every time you direct your thoughts positively, you’re strengthening this new way of thinking. Start with self-talk, affirmations, and visualizing your goals. Replace critical self-talk with powerful, positive, optimistic statements, and ask questions like ‘What’s the next best step I can take?’ or ‘What can I learn from this experience?’ which are a part of the process of asking Directed Questions™.

There’s more to it than just asking questions. Directed Questions™ is a process I developed in the late 70’s to guide your mind toward what you want rather than what you fear. You’ve a choice how and where you want to direct your attention, your focus, your mind and it matters what you choose. What you choose gives you different outcomes. So, stop complaining and start directing your mind. Realize this, you can’t not choose.

Consciously or not, you are always choosing. Even not choosing is a choice. Therefore, think of your mind as a muscle. Just as you would train your body to grow stronger, you must train your thoughts to be positive and solution focused. Every time you choose to redirect a negative thought, you’re building mental strength. The more you practice, the more natural it becomes. How do you start? By paying attention to your self-talk.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Replace unwanted less-than-glorious or negative statements and images using affirmations and visualizing your goals. If you catch yourself spiraling into doubt or frustration, replace that inner voice with positive statements. Instead of thinking, ‘Why does this always happen to me?’ ask questions like: ‘What’s the next best step I can take?’ ‘What lesson is hidden in this experience?’ These are component questions of Directed Questions™.

Directed Questions™ is a simple but powerful technique to guide your thoughts away from fear and frustration and toward solutions and success. The process is designed to help you take control of your life. Sarah, a marketing professional, was drowning in deadlines. Her inner dialogue was filled with complaints like, ‘I’ll never get this done.’ One day, she decided to try something new. Just as you can too.

Whenever negative thoughts popped up, she replaced them with affirmations like, ‘I’m capable of handling challenges with ease.’ She directed her mind by asking, ‘What’s one thing I can accomplish right now to make progress?’ These shifts helped her tackle her workload one step at a time. Before long, she was meeting deadlines with confidence and calm. She went from overwhelmed to productive by making a choice.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

John was devastated when his startup didn’t take off. He found himself stuck in a loop of ‘What if I’m just not cut out for this?’ Recognizing the negativity, John shifted into a positive mindset by asking, ‘What can I learn from this experience to improve my next venture?’ By focusing on the lessons and embracing a mindset of growth, John eventually launched a second business that thrived, fueled by his newfound resilience.

John found opportunity in what he first viewed as setbacks. Emma struggled with self-doubt when considering a career change. Her inner critic kept saying, ‘You’re too old to start over.’ But Emma began visualizing her ideal role and affirming, ‘Every step I take leads me closer to my dream.’ She broke the process into manageable steps, asking, ‘What’s one action I can take today to move forward?’

That small mental shift allowed her to build momentum and transition to a fulfilling new career. She shifted from self-doubt to self-belief. You can too and you can learn how to start directing your mind today. Here are some actionable steps you can use to redirect your mind and build a habit of positive thinking: Practice Gratitude: Start each morning by listing three things you’re grateful for.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

This primes your mind to focus on abundance. I encourage you to do at least 25 but if nothing else, begin with 3. Use Affirmations: Replace limiting beliefs with positive assertions or statements like, ‘I am capable,’ or ‘I create opportunities.’ Visualize your success: Spend a few minutes each day picturing your goals as already achieved. Feel the excitement and joy as though it’s real now. Live from the feeling of the wish fulfilled.

Ask Questions: Reframe your thinking with questions that guide your focus. Instead of ‘Why can’t I do this?’ ask, ‘What’s one thing I can do right now to succeed?’ Also, learn the Directed Question™ process as it’s more than just asking a question. Master your mind to transform your life. Your thoughts shape your reality. When you stop complaining and start directing your mind, you unleash the power to create the life you desire.

Complaints keep you stuck, but focusing on solutions propels you forward. If my coaching clients, Sarah, John, and Emma can turn their lives around by redirecting their thoughts, imagine what’s possible for you.Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure about your next step, the key lies in mastering your mindset. Take the first step toward your best life. Are you ready to stop complaining and start creating?

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How to Move Beyond It

“It’s useful to know what you don’t want, negative feelings can serve as essential markers of what needs to change. But don’t stay there! Once you know what you’re avoiding, redirect your energy toward what you do want. Use these negative emotions as fuel to get to that ‘enough is enough,’ fed up, ‘no more’ mindset. When you feel frustrated or fed up, use that as the springboard to fully commit to the positive change you desire.

Notice when you feel a negative emotion, like frustration or worry. Identify them. Take a moment to identify and name it. Ask, ‘What’s causing this feeling?’ Discover the thought. Then decide on the positive opposite of this feeling. If you’re frustrated about a work project, focus instead on feeling productive and creative. Shift away from the negative thought and to the positive thought. Focus on the positive. Stay positive.

Remain with it. Spend a few minutes visualizing what success would look and feel like. The more you practice redirecting your focus this way, the stronger and more automatic this habit will become. Life is too precious to spend it stuck in frustration, doubt, or negativity. Keep in mind negative feelings are valuable signals, they tell you what you don’t want and where change is needed. But staying in that place won’t serve you.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

True transformation happens when you take those emotions and use them as a springboard to commit to the life you do want. It’s your first step to taking charge. It’s simple, effective, and will help you shift from being reactive to proactive. With consistent practice, this technique can reshape your thoughts, feelings, and actions, empowering you to build a life filled with joy, purpose, and success. But don’t stop there! Move. Keep going.

If you’re ready to go beyond small shifts and achieve extraordinary results, now is the time to take a leap forward. Imagine waking up each day feeling confident, inspired, and in control of your destiny. Imagine breaking free from the limitations that have held you back and creating a life of abundance, happiness, and purpose. This isn’t just a dream, it’s a reality waiting for you. Life can be so much more marvelous.

In my Create Your Best Life Using Einstein and Tesla’s Genius™ program, I’ll guide you step by step to: Master your mindset and harness the power of positive thinking. Develop proven strategies to overcome challenges and achieve your goals. Unlock your full potential and create lasting change in every area of your life. Emily joined the program feeling stuck in a dead-end job and weighed down by self-doubt.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Through the techniques we practiced, she flipped her script, built unshakable confidence, and launched her own thriving business in less than a year. Mark struggled with a lifelong fear of failure that kept him from pursuing his passions. After embracing the program’s mindset strategies, he not only overcame his fears but achieved his dream of writing a best-selling book! If Emily and Mark can do it, so can you. Create incredible momentum!

The only difference between where you are now and the life you desire is the decision to act. Take control of your future today by enrolling in Create Your Best Life Using Einstein and Tesla’s Genius™. This is your chance to work with me directly, uncover your true potential, and start living the extraordinary life you deserve. Visit www.rexsikes.com/Einstein right now to secure your spot. Don’t wait—opportunities like this are rare, and your transformation starts the moment you commit. The life of your dreams is closer than you think. Let’s make it happen together! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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I Don’t Want This… I Want THIS Instead!

“I Don’t Want This… I Want THIS Instead! NOW is the moment to make an extraordinary shift. When you recognize what you don’t want, you gain laser-sharp clarity about what you do want. This clarity, this decision, becomes the map that points you toward the life you truly want to live. BUT YOU MUST SHIFT your attention from what is unwanted and focus instead on what you want with certainty you can and will accomplish it.

If all you do is notice what you don’t want and attend to that, you end up stuck and creating more problems. What you focus on expands. Thoughts become things. What you think about, you bring about. SO, notice. Stop and shift! It’s time to declare, ‘I don’t want this. I WANT THIS INSTEAD!’ As soon as you say it, you’re paving the road toward your goal, and you’ve set your sights on a new destination.

You’ve locked in your focus on something inspiring, something worth every ounce of your energy and attention. AWARENESS is the first step to becoming free. Understand, all of your journey always begins with and includes awareness all along the way. When you catch yourself focusing on what you don’t want, feeling negative or drained, THIS is a powerful moment! Right here, you can stop feeding the fire of what you don’t desire.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Stop attracting it. Stop energizing it. STOP letting it control your mind. Awareness allows you to pivot away from all that’s holding you back and to intentionally move toward what you truly want. Think of your mind as a magnet. What you focus on, you attract. Like attracts like. If you’re focused on negativity, doubt, or frustration, then your mind will continue to seek out more of the same. Birds of a feather flock together. Get this. SHIFT!

But the moment you flip the switch and direct your focus to what you do want, you’ll begin pulling that into your life instead. Let go of the negative! Shift your energy, and watch your focus transform your life. I’ve written about her a lot recently but again consider Oprah Winfrey. She grew up in circumstances filled with limitation, but she didn’t dwell there. She declared she wanted a life of purpose and influence.

She envisioned herself making an impact, and she didn’t let obstacles or negativity steer her off course. Her success today is rooted in her ability to say, “I don’t want this, I want THIS!” Her life changed because she stayed true to her vision and took consistent action toward it. There is power in declaring what you want and developing the faith and certainty that you can and will make it happen. If it is to come true, it is up to you.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Here’s another concept I frequently speak and write about. When you’re driving down the road, you constantly make tiny adjustments to stay within the lines. Just as a driver keeps their car centered, so must you keep your mind centered on the positive. Notice when you’re drifting into negative thoughts, complaints, or fear, and immediately steer yourself back to a place of possibility, gratitude, and excitement for what’s to come.

Each time you catch yourself and correct, you’re reinforcing the habit of positive focus. Take control. Shift back to center. The Wright Brothers faced countless failures, doubts, and ridicule in their pursuit of flight. Did they focus on the setbacks? No. They stayed locked on the vision of making the impossible a reality. Each challenge was simply feedback, a nudge back on course. That mindset led them to one of history’s greatest breakthroughs.

Imagine what you could do with that same focus and commitment! Your subconscious mind, when consistently fed positive images and affirmations, starts to make this new reality feel as natural as breathing. Declare what you want. Write it down, say it, see it, and feel it. When you do this daily, you’re teaching your mind to make what you want as real and automatic as your heartbeat. You condition your mind with and through intention.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Write down your dream, desire or goal in detail, such as ‘I am a successful entrepreneur inspiring others.’ Read it out loud every morning. Affirm it. Visualize it. As you focus more and more on this image, you’ll start to believe it, and your subconscious will begin to find ways to make it real. See it, imagine it as already the case. You already are a successful entrepreneur inspiring others. See and hear what you’d be doing and saying and experiencing.

If you want to master your life and live life on your terms you must master your mind. That’s really the only work you must do. Master your mind and everything else falls into place. SO, today is the day to make the decision to be the master of your thoughts, the captain of your soul. Say, ‘I don’t want this. I WANT THIS INSTEAD!’ and make it the declaration that changes everything. Be committed. Be passionate. Be convinced.

Be certain. Be it! No more living by default, reacting to the past or to circumstances. Shift your focus and move toward your vision with unshakable confidence. Let’s do this together. Embrace the power within you to create a life that excites and inspires you. Keep your eyes forward, and let’s start today, living on purpose, driven by a vision, and empowered by a mindset that knows no limits. Make today magnificent!

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Make the decision to believe in yourself beyond your current circumstances. Define the future you want, visualize it daily, and take action to create it. Refuse to let the present dictate your potential. Embrace the powerful tools of intentional thinking, proactive action, and the unwavering belief in yourself. Dive into my programs designed to guide you through reprogramming your mind, tapping into your inner strength, and building a life that fulfills you deeply. Get it? AND celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Live Like It! Celebrate everything!

“Live like it! Celebrate everything!”

“When I say “celebrate everything,” I mean it with every fiber of my being. Life isn’t about waiting for the perfect moment, the big win, or the finish line. It’s about embracing every single step of the journey, knowing that each moment, each small victory, and yes, even each setback, is part of the grand tapestry that leads you to your inevitable success. So, celebrate everything, good, bad, right, wrong it is all part of the journey.

All of it gets you there. The easy times. Especially the difficult times. The hardship gets you moving. It helps you define what you want and need by discovering sometimes through potent egregious experiences what you absolutely don’t want. It gets you to move away from the bad towards the good. You know, ‘out with the bad, in with the good.’ It gets you to act from necessity. It makes you leap out of your comfort zone. It is good for you.

Even when it truly doesn’t appear that way. Hardship shapes us and helps us win if we will ONLY but learn from it instead of resisting it and complaining about it. USE IT! Stop being abused by it. TAKE CHARGE! Bad times help create momentum. NOT just momentum but propulsion to skyrocket way from what you don’t want and into what you do. Stop resisting and turn that resistance into assistance. Learn from bad times to become a better you!

Develop a Positive Attitude, Mindset, and Beliefs to Transform Yourself

Think of it this way: If you knew you were going to succeed, if you knew without a doubt that your dreams were going to come true, wouldn’t you enjoy the ride more? Wouldn’t you savor each twist and turn, knowing that it’s all leading somewhere amazing? Of course, you would! You’d live with a sense of joy, purpose, and excitement that nothing could shake. And that’s the mindset you need to adopt right now. Not tomorrow, not next week!

Right now. Start celebrating every little thing. Celebrate waking up in the morning, because that’s another day closer to your dream. Celebrate the challenges, because they’re making you stronger, smarter, and more resilient. Celebrate the people in your life, because they’re part of your journey. Celebrate every breath, every heartbeat, every step, because it all matters. When you live in celebration, you attract more reasons to celebrate.

That’s the law of attraction at work. Like attracts like. If you’re constantly focused on what’s wrong, what’s missing, or what’s not working, you’ll attract more of that negativity into your life. But if you focus on what’s good, what’s right, and what’s working, you’ll attract more positivity, more success, and more reasons to be joyful. This isn’t just some feel-good philosophy; it’s a way of life that works. Try it and you’ll discover it works.

Develop a Positive Attitude, Mindset, and Beliefs to Transform Yourself

It’s the mindset that has propelled countless people to greatness. It’s the mindset that will propel you to greatness if you let it. So, ask yourself: What can you celebrate today? What can you be grateful for right now, in this very moment? It doesn’t have to be something big. Maybe it’s the fact that you have food on the table, a roof over your head, or people who care about you. Maybe it’s the fact that you’re alive and breathing. You’re alive!

Maybe it’s because you have the ability to chase your dreams. Whatever it is, find it, focus on it, and celebrate it. And then, keep going. Keep pushing forward with that same sense of joy and determination. Because when you live like a winner, when you think and act like someone who knows they’re going to succeed, you set yourself up for victory. You create the conditions for your dreams to come true. I repeat, YOU CREATE the conditions …

Success isn’t just about achieving a goal; it’s about who you become in the process. It’s about living every day with purpose, passion, and joy, knowing that you’re on the path to something extraordinary. So don’t wait. Start living like the winner you are. Celebrate everything, because everything is leading you to the success that’s already yours. Attitude is everything! Activate your attitude. I say this every day. I’ll share more on the topic of living from the wish already fulfilled and how to celebrate in upcoming blogs. Keep reading and sharing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Have You Storm Clouds Following You?

“When I was a young teen, struggling through some tough times, my father said something that stuck with me: “You’ve got a black cloud following you.” It hit me like a ton of bricks. I believed it. I carried that thought with me, letting it shape my story. Whenever life threw me a curveball, I’d think, “Well, of course, I’ve got that damn black cloud hanging over me.” It was my excuse, my go-to explanation for every failure, every setback.

That cloud became my curse. BUT, let me tell you something: I knew better. I was reading Napoleon Hill and other greats who preached the power of positive thinking. But all that knowledge didn’t seem to stand a chance against the story I’d already written for myself. I was cursed, plain and simple. But then something clicked. I had this realization, a moment of clarity, that changed everything. I realized that not all clouds are the same.

Sure, there are storm clouds, the dark, menacing ones that block out the sun. But there are also beautiful clouds, the kind that light up the sky and make everything seem a little brighter. And here’s the kicker – I realized I could choose. Just like I could choose my thoughts, I could choose my clouds. So I started to visualize, really focus, on two clouds. One dark, one bright. I’d see the dark cloud shrinking while the bright one grew bigger and bigger.

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This wasn’t just some mental exercise. It was a game-changer. It was a lynch pin. I had a positive energy cloud. I knew that where I put my attention mattered. I could feed the dark cloud or the bright one. And guess what? Whichever cloud I fed grew bigger. It was as simple as that. I had to train myself, day in and day out, to think positively, to feed that bright cloud until it became the dominant force in my life. But I didn’t stop there.

I turned these clouds into a tool, a way to measure where I was mentally and emotionally. If the dark cloud was bigger, I knew I had work to do. I needed to pour more energy into the bright cloud, more positive thoughts, more focus. It was my personal weather report, telling me what kind of storm, or sunshine, I was brewing inside. Think about it. Whichever cloud is bigger is where you’re spending most of your time mentally.

For years, I lived under that dark cloud because that’s the story I told myself. When I decided to rewrite that story, to shift my focus, everything changed. Now, my goal, every single day is to make sure the bright cloud is the biggest one in my sky. You can do this too. Close your eyes and imagine two clouds above you. Which one is bigger? This is more than just a visualization exercise. It’s a way of life.

Develop a Positive Attitude, Mindset, and Beliefs to Transform Yourself

The larger something is, the more mass, the more momentum it has. Picture a giant snowball rolling down a mountain, gathering speed and power as it goes. That’s what I want my positive energy to be like – a force that can’t be stopped. But it starts with choosing the right cloud to feed. Complaining, whining and blaming feeds the dark cloud. It zaps your energy, drains your mood, and leaves you feeling stuck. Fear and worry do too.

They drag you down, piling on the weight until that dark cloud is all you can see. Yes, fear can serve as a warning, a signal of what you don’t want. But here’s the deal: if you want to feel better, if you want to live under a bright, expansive sky, you can’t wallow in negativity. You can’t afford to. You’ve must shift your focus. Take 100% responsibility for your thoughts and feelings. No one else can do this for you. You must take charge!

That’s why I keep hammering the importance of managing your mind. When you take control, when you focus on what you want instead of what you don’t want, you start to build that massive, positive energy cloud. It gains momentum, becomes unstoppable. And that’s when you start creating, attracting, and living the life you truly desire. The bottom line: you choose. It is YOUR choice! Every single day, you choose which cloud to feed. Choose wisely. Feed that bright cloud, let it grow, and watch how your life transforms. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“Beyond grateful for you, Rex Sikes, and the transformational teachings and reminders I’ve received.” —Ava Manuel, Las Vegas

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Harness the Power of Positive Visualization: Your Most Potent Resource

“Recently in my blog I shared how to more easily visualize to get better results and some of the issues I had when I stared. It can be helpful to become aware that you can significantly improve the results you’re getting when you notice what is going on. We’re constantly shaping our reality, whether we realize it or not. So, if you find that life isn’t giving you what you desire, it’s time to change your approach. I absolutely had to learn this lesson myself.

The first step toward achieving the life I wanted was acknowledging that I was already quite skilled at creating the things I didn’t want. This was daunting but oddly enough, this revelation also filled me with hope. Yes, life wasn’t great at that moment, but when I recognized I was the one generating unwanted outcomes, I realized I held the power to change everything! Wow, what seemed like bad news was truly great news. I could change it. Me!

So can you! I began to understand that if I could create the things I didn’t want so effectively, I could just as powerfully create the things I did want. Hello?!?! The only thing required was shifting my focus. I had to shift from dwelling on what I didn’t want to consciously, intentionally focusing on what I desired. This realization was incredibly freeing. It was the moment when everything began to change. This shift didn’t happen overnight.

Develop a Positive Attitude, Mindset, and Beliefs to Transform Yourself

Many times throughout each day, I had to catch myself slipping back into old habits of thinking about what I didn’t want. Then, intentionally redirect my focus toward what I wanted instead. I had to do this repeatedly, day after day, sometimes moment by moment. However, with consistent practice, something amazing happened. The process became easier and more natural. As things start improving it got exciting and the momentum increased.

Over time, this deliberate focus on positive outcomes became a habit. I was replacing the old pattern of negative thinking. The more I practiced, the more automatic it became. Change becomes far easier when you reach a point where you decide you’ve had enough of the old way and are truly ready for something new. There are many exercises and techniques that can accelerate this transformation, and I’ll share more of them in future posts.

Stay tuned. Subscribe and enjoy the articles. But the key takeaway is this: through correct, repeated practice, you can develop any skill, including the ability to focus your mind on positive outcomes. You have the potential to be, do, and have anything you want once you understand how to harness this power! It’s easier and more accessible than you might think AND it is your most potent resource. Start by practicing the art of visualizing what you want.

Develop a Positive Attitude, Mindset, and Beliefs to Transform Yourself

Become conscious of your thoughts and the images you hold in your mind. As you learn to consistently focus on what you desire, your life will begin to reflect the positive intentions. Remember, what you think about, you bring about. By mastering the skill of positively visualizing, you can transform your life in ways you never imagined possible. Enjoy the journey of creating the life you truly want. More later. Celebrate Everything!” Rex Sikes

**PS: To make meaningful changes in your life, you need to take control of your mindset. I invite you to take two powerful actions today: join me in the Outwitting The Devil Book Study and get the Attitude Activator™. These programs are designed to help you achieve more than you can on your own. You’ll be proud of the progress you make!

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In this powerful, book study intensive, you’ll discover essential principles and practices to transform your life. I share insights on Napoleon Hill’s work, along with exclusive material no one else has discussed. This experience is designed to benefit you in countless ways.

What People Are Saying:

“Rex, you speak the truth. So few will, but you speak the truth.” —Satish Verma, CEO Think and Grow Rich Institute, Toronto

“You run the best book clubs, Rex! So wonderfully insightful! Total truth!” —Joy Cooper Willet, NLP Trainer, Vancouver

“Beyond grateful for you, Rex Sikes, and the transformational teachings and reminders I’ve received.” —Ava Manuel, Las Vegas

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