“Change happens one step at a time. It’s like climbing a staircase, and the first step is simply to feel a little bit better than where you are right now. If you’re feeling deeply down or intensely angry, aiming for joy can feel like an impossible leap. But moving from anger to frustration? That’s doable, […]
“It’s easy to get caught in a cycle of frustration, anxiety, or resentment when you experience negative emotions, but what if those feelings were actually valuable signals from our internal guidance system? The idea is to reframe these negative emotions and recognize them as essential cues indicating when you’re veering off course, like a built-in […]
“If you’re filled with joy, optimism, and confidence, life tends to mirror those feelings back to you. Positive thinking isn’t about making the world magically change; it’s about developing a resilient, winner’s mindset. When you build a strong, positive outlook, you change yourself, and as a result, your experience of the world changes too. It’s […]
“The unconscious mind doesn’t make a distinction between wanted or unwanted, good or bad, it just goes where your energy constantly flows. It goes wherever you place your attention. Soil doesn’t care whether it is growing food or poison. Whatever is planted and nurtured will grow. What have you planted AND what are you nurturing? […]
“What does feeder or eater mean? Either something nourishes you and contributes to you OR it consumes you and debilitates you. Stop letting old wounds and scars dictate your present life and your future. Stop carrying baggage, whether it is moments old or decades.5. Let go, forgive and forget grievances. The energy you spend protecting yourself, surviving, and resisting what was, could be better spent living joyously and fully.
Be free. Be totally free! The way to freedom, the only way, is to drop your grudges and hurts. Let it all go. Leave it behind. Leave it in the past where it belongs. Drop it. You can’t hang onto something you dropped. So, drop it! Become present. Right now, forgive! Forgive yourself, circumstances, events and others. Stop qualifying forgiveness. Forgiving does more for you than it does for the person you forgive.
Letting go is FOR YOU more than for anyone else. Learn to live in the present free of hurt, disappointment, wounds and old baggage. Leave those in the past where they belong!! Letting go can be for others if your hurts and baggage are affecting your loved ones and their home life too. If you are affected, it can affect them. When you change, perhaps they will. It can affect them. Don’t let your ‘stuff’ interfere with the people you love most.
You can also let go for them. Resolve to make the changes you need to live free for yourself so that they too can live free. Your cares are their cares! Help them over your hurts so they can live free too! Then everyone can enjoy the feeling of that release. Become open. Become love. Become compassion. Become gratefulness. Become enthusiasm and life becomes so much more delightful. Discover how wonderful it can be.
The reason it isn’t, is because of the wounds, regrets and grievances you entertain. You suffer because of the beliefs and rules, or conditions you place on it. It is limited because of the limitations you continue to nurture. Stop the madness and everything can change. Drop the baggage. Drop the constraints you live from. Become carefree. Learn to Love, laugh, delight. Get free and be free. Celebrate others, yourself and events. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
“Rex, I love your book! I just want to say thank you for who you are and how you are showing up and particularly for ‘Life On Your Terms.’ It is a powerful book that impacted me and people I have shared it with. They call me and say, ‘thank you!’ And I say, ‘thank Rex because he is a bad dude up in here, up in here.” Les Brown – Speaker
“Rex is absolutely brilliant and transparent. My go-to book for those I mentor who want to be happy and successful with their lives as they choose.” – Fred Van Lieu ‘The Water Doctor,’ Author
“One of the most transformative books I’ve ever read. This book is amazing! Rex provides a blueprint of simple tools that anyone can use to achieve what you desire. There are so many books out that claim to show you how to create the life you desire but end up being disappointing. This book actually does what it says. No frills. No New Age jargon. Just down-to-earth methods that work when you work them. It really is a breath of fresh air!” Ron Matthews
Get the book. Change your life using the principles and practices. Check it out now. Read it, enjoy it, and transform. Transform yourself and how you think, feel and behave to get Celebrate!
“A real life changer for me. Life on Your Terms is a must read! Rex has a way of writing his story so you feel you’re actually right there with him! I love his comeback story! I am changing my thinking and putting into practice what I’ve read. I see amazing and miraculous things already happening in my life as I follow his instructions! I bought this book first for my Kindle because I can read it anywhere but quickly realized I needed a hard copy to put in my Library! Thanks, Rex, for helping me change my life!” Katherine Young
“‘Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want’ provides practical advice that you can use today to transform your life with increasing success and abundance.” John Gray – Author
“A must read if you want to improve your life. This book will teach you how to control and direct your thoughts to live the life you’ve been dreaming of.” Chris Guajardo
“When we raise our vibrations and program our subconscious we become a powerful force in making our dreams come true. It is absolutely possible that you can be, do and have anything you want in your life and career. You can make positive things happen when you align yourself congruently in a positive and powerful way.
When your heart and mind are of one accord your thoughts, feelings, words you say and the actions you take will be of one accord. When you are aligned this way you are unstoppable because you are persistent and resilient. What you see, say, feel and do is what you get. Over the next few days I will share each day one tip to help you condition your subconscious mind for success.
It is a conditioning process and unless you develop a happiness and success consciousness first you won’t experience much happiness or success. It will always be haphazard. Consistent positive results come from being consistently positive. My first tip follows.
Transform Your Mental Health!
Do each of these suggestions until they become reliable habits. That means you need to repeat correctly, consistently, over time for long enough for them to become a habit. You don’t develop a ripped body or lose lots of weight in a short time. It can take years. Understand this and commit to being in it for the long haul and it is bound to be shorter than that. Mindset is everything. I
If you don’t go in because of weak thinking or you don’t commit to the program don’t expect stellar results. BUT when you do, you will surprise and delight yourself with how easy and quickly you can positively transform.
1. Nurture your mind with positive materials, books, articles, music, pictures and audio. Fill your mind with inspiring wonderful thoughts. Spend healthy time (daily nutritious diet) for your mind reading and listening to motivational speakers.Do this daily! Do this repeatedly. Do it as often as you can during the day. Choose wisely. Not all self-help gurus actually help. You want those who lift you up.
Transform Your Mental Health!
You don’t want those who coddle you and only tell you what you want to hear, but you also don’t want those who prey on you with fear and worry. Life is too short to not enjoy it. Yes, there may be risk and sacrifice BUT only if you think of it that way. If you love what you do you do it because you love it. Then there is no risk or sacrifice. Your mindset determines what you see and find. Your beliefs shape your experience. So, don’t believe it just because some celebrity says it. It may not be valid. Look for the best thoughts and practices to apply. More next time. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
“The most powerful mindset and attitude tool I’ve ever experienced. Words can’t describe how unique and how life-changing this program is. It rewires your brain to focus on the attitude that can best serve you. In the first year of owning it, I think I listened to it over 100 times. I’m recommending it to anyone who wants an unstoppable attitude of success.” –Joe Soto,Marketing Consultant, Entrepreneur, Waterford, VA
Discover a powerful process to reprogram your mind & subconscious with a one-of-a-kind self-guided hypnotic process to create unshakable confidence & resolve, get unstuck, & create more abundance in your life! The Attitude Activator™ is the only hypnotic process you will ever need!
“Best results I’ve ever gotten on a hypnotic audio before! –Nicholas Montegna, Pennsauken, NJ
Whether you want to lose weight, make more money, quit smoking, develop confidence, create a positive mindset, cultivate mindfulness and feelings of joy, the Attitude Activator™ programs your mind. Apply it to anything you desire. Use the Attitude Activator™ to Create Your Best Life Ever! Mp3 audio, Pdf Instructions.
“Attitude Activator is quite simply, the best tool for shifting your mindset and galvanizing you into action I have ever come across and I have tried most of the top tools over the years. Combine that with Mind Design™ and you really can begin to design your own life.’ –Kathy Strong, Trainer & Consultant, UK
Your success and happiness depend on one primary factor. Get this right and everything else falls into place. The greatest predictor of success in any area of your life, be it health, wealth, happiness, love or success is Attitude! With the right attitude, the world is yours. With the wrong attitude, you continue to struggle.
“I’ll vouch that Attitude Activator is awesome! Highly recommend it.”Staley Mims, Facebook
You’ll continue to perpetuate troubles. You know, if you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got. AND doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result IS the definition of insanity. Stop the insanity! Get it.
“I’m absolutely fascinated with your attitude activator. In only 15 days of listening, it has begun to introduce changes in my life. Something that after listening to other people’s audio programs was impossible. Yours is superior and the sound is great!”Jaume Daumal, Spain
If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. The first and most important update is changing your attitude! Your attitude is comprised of your beliefs and expectations. It’s those thoughts you repeatedly think that keep you the same OR that move you forward to greater and more wonderful results.
“Powerful program! It has positively transformed my mind. I am powerful & resourceful & abundant! Click the link & Do it Now!” Sandra J. Horton, Entrepreneur, Author, Podcast Host
“Rex Sikes, awesome I love the attitude activator. ”Kamal El-Rassi, Speaker, Facebook
I created the Attitude Activator™to help you get unstuck, become resourceful to create the kind of life AND results you’re excited about and pleased with. I developed this process, a blueprint, a procedure,the method to make it easier for you!
“The Attitude Activator is something I want to share with otherpeople… I want everyone I come in contact with to experience how easy it is to change focus from negativity and unaccomplished goals to setting consistent outcomes that bring states that have long been desired… I dance through my days with a smile on my face and a humongous appetite for learning.”Gloria De Voss, ACSW, LSW, Park Forest, Illinois
“Many people support keeping their troubles, albeit unintentionally. They focus on them, talk to everyone about them and they let it consume their minds day and night. They worry, which is truly negative goal setting because it is keeping one’s mind occupied with the worst. It is planning to get what you don’t want. Stop it! They imagine things going wrong.
As a result they probably don’t feel their best, or are the healthiest. They’re stressed and feeling down. Everything they do on the inside supports and maintains keeping the outside problems the same. As above, so below. From within to without. Our thoughts determine our actions and our reality. If you want the reality to change, change your thinking.
They never seem to create an opening for themselves to feel better and enjoy life more but YOU can! All it takes is a small opening to let a lot of light in. A small flame is still a flame. Find it and fan it. Do what you can do to help the flames grow. Create more light for yourself. Thought always precedes action. Take control of your thoughts. The more you do this the more you will be able to do.
Believe in yourself and your resourcefulness to find solutions even if you don’t, yet, know how. What you expect makes the difference. Expect a better day to come along. Expect the best of yourself. Know you will make it and that better times are yours. You will see it through your troubles when you believe you can. The difference between thinking negatively and positively is what you plan for. So plan for the best. That’s why it’s important to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
“The most powerful mindset and attitude tool I’ve ever experienced. Words can’t describe how unique and how life-changing this program is. It rewires your brain to focus on the attitude that can best serve you. In the first year of owning it, I think I listened to it over 100 times. I’m recommending it to anyone who wants an unstoppable attitude of success.” –Joe Soto,Marketing Consultant, Entrepreneur, Waterford, VA
Discover a powerful process to reprogram your mind & subconscious with a one-of-a-kind self-guided hypnotic process to create unshakable confidence & resolve, get unstuck, & create more abundance in your life! The Attitude Activator™ is the only hypnotic process you will ever need!
“Best results I’ve ever gotten on a hypnotic audio before! –Nicholas Montegna, Pennsauken, NJ
Whether you want to lose weight, make more money, quit smoking, develop confidence, create a positive mindset, cultivate mindfulness and feelings of joy, the Attitude Activator™ programs your mind. Apply it to anything you desire. Use the Attitude Activator™ to Create Your Best Life Ever! Mp3 audio, Pdf Instructions.
“Attitude Activator is quite simply, the best tool for shifting your mindset and galvanizing you into action I have ever come across and I have tried most of the top tools over the years. Combine that with Mind Design™ and you really can begin to design your own life.’ –Kathy Strong, Trainer & Consultant, UK
Your success and happiness depend on one primary factor. Get this right and everything else falls into place. The greatest predictor of success in any area of your life, be it health, wealth, happiness, love or success is Attitude! With the right attitude, the world is yours. With the wrong attitude, you continue to struggle.
“I’ll vouch that Attitude Activator is awesome! Highly recommend it.”Staley Mims, Facebook
You’ll continue to perpetuate troubles. You know, if you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got. AND doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result IS the definition of insanity. Stop the insanity! Get it.
“I’m absolutely fascinated with your attitude activator. In only 15 days of listening, it has begun to introduce changes in my life. Something that after listening to other people’s audio programs was impossible. Yours is superior and the sound is great!”Jaume Daumal, Spain
If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. The first and most important update is changing your attitude! Your attitude is comprised of your beliefs and expectations. It’s those thoughts you repeatedly think that keep you the same OR that move you forward to greater and more wonderful results.
“Powerful program! It has positively transformed my mind. I am powerful & resourceful & abundant! Click the link & Do it Now!” Sandra J. Horton, Entrepreneur, Author, Podcast Host
“Rex Sikes, awesome I love the attitude activator. ”Kamal El-Rassi, Speaker, Facebook
I created the Attitude Activator™to help you get unstuck, become resourceful to create the kind of life AND results you’re excited about and pleased with. I developed this process, a blueprint, a procedure,the method to make it easier for you!
“The Attitude Activator is something I want to share with otherpeople… I want everyone I come in contact with to experience how easy it is to change focus from negativity and unaccomplished goals to setting consistent outcomes that bring states that have long been desired… I dance through my days with a smile on my face and a humongous appetite for learning.”Gloria De Voss, ACSW, LSW, Park Forest, Illinois
“I am sharing an article I just discovered that is important to read and understand. Enjoy and use what this young girl did to live the life she wanted to live.
From: Mayo Clinic News Network By: Joel Streed
‘It’s a rare teenager who puts in overtime. Kelsey O’Leary is that teen.
At age 12, Kelsey was diagnosed with scoliosis and fitted with a brace by Mayo Clinic physicians. The Rochester, Minn., girl wore the brace day and night — logging more than the recommended hours — for three years.
Kelsey, now 17, and her parents, Amaria Najem O’Leary and Patrick O’Leary, credit her perseverance with a remarkable outcome. After three years of bracing, the curvature of Kelsey’s spine was improved — an unusual result for a treatment that is designed to keep spinal curvature from worsening.
“I was really surprised and happy about that,” says Kelsey, a theater and arts aficionado. “I was always told that bracing doesn’t cure scoliosis, but it did actually improve the curvature of my spine, which is very rare.”
Rare girl, rare outcome
Without a brace, scoliosis patients learn, the curvature of their spine will continue to become more pronounced. In appropriate patients, risk of progression is reduced from 80 to 20 percent with bracing, says Anthony Stans, M.D., a Mayo Clinic orthopedist who, along with his fellow specialists, has as many as 75 patients at a time in braces. Children are typically diagnosed around the age of 11 or 12.
For Kelsey, the scoliosis warning came during elementary school. During fifth grade she was screened at school. Her spine was flagged as being “a bit off,” she recalls, and her parents took her to Mayo Clinic for an exam. At that time, physicians determined she didn’t require treatment.
Two years later, though, her spine’s curvature had gone from a measurement of 16 degrees to 24. After three years of wearing the brace, Kelsey’s measurements went from 20 to 11 at the top of her spine and from 25 to 18 at the bottom. Only about 10 percent of patients show “measurable improvement” in their spine’s curvature, according to Dr. Stans.
“Kelsey had some permanent improvement in the curve,” he says. “The usual expectation is that we prevent it from getting worse.”
Kelsey, though, fell into that rare 10 percent.
Logging the time
When children are initially outfitted with a brace, they wear it for a few hours per day. Gradually, they build up to wearing it 20 hours per day.
Most middle and high school students want to be regarded as “normal,” and walking around nearly full-time with a brace is hardly ideal. Kelsey, though, quickly decided she had to overcome any tendency to feel sorry for herself.
“I didn’t know how the brace would affect my life, and I was worried about that,” she says. “Would I not be able to do the things I want to do? I was worried in the beginning, but I realized it was for the good of my back to wear it.”
Dr. Stans says scoliosis patients who wear a brace can largely continue with their regular lives and activities — even sports. If they aren’t wearing the brace during those hours, they simply need to wear it during another time of day.
Kelsey continued with her dance classes after being outfitted with the brace. Those hours, though, accounted for her time out of the brace each day.
Wearing the brace was uncomfortable at the outset, Kelsey says. Her mother recalls that the first time Kelsey had to wear the brace she left the room. Patrick aided Kelsey instead. “It was so hard to see her strapped into this contraption,” Amaria says. “But in time it became something you didn’t even pay attention to.”
In fact, toward the end of her three-year stretch, Kelsey slept with her brace on even when it wasn’t required. She’d grown so used to wearing it that, without it, she had trouble sleeping.
An activist for treatment
Kelsey’s positive outlook on her treatment for scoliosis was shaped in part by the approach Dr. Stans took with her in discussing the brace. “He said it wasn’t my parents’ decision,” she remembers. “It was mine. He said it could affect the rest of my life, and I’ve got the choice. I liked that.”
Dr. Stans says the “it’s your choice” talk is a staple for him with kids who are diagnosed as needing to wear a brace.
“It’s empowering for them,” he says. “It’s not some adult telling them what to do. And when you explain things to them in a calm, reasonable fashion with some evidence, patients will almost always make the right decision.”
Kelsey and her mother agree it was the right choice for her. Kelsey’s spine is lovely now, Amaria says, and gives her the posture she always should have had.
Now free of wearing her brace, Kelsey says the treatment was worth any discomfort and minor lifestyle adjustments she’s made. She’s thankful her diagnosis was made early enough that her spine could be treated.
Kelsey became such a champion of scoliosis treatment that she wrote a paper for school on the subject. Scoliosis screenings are no longer performed in elementary schools, she found. That discovery unsettled Kelsey greatly, given her experience with early detection. The high school senior says screenings should be done in elementary schools, as they were when she was young.
For children diagnosed with scoliosis and told they need to wear a brace for three years, Kelsey has an encouraging response.
“Attitude is very important,” she says. “If you go in thinking, ‘I hate this, I don’t want to wear it,’ then the results won’t be as good as if you say, ‘This is good for me, I can do this, I will do this.’ I decided I’d wear it as much as I could so maybe I’ll have the same spine as when I went in.” End Article
“You know what is amazing. I discovered this article and want to share it. BUT, I also knew her mother. I knew her parents. My parents and her mother’s parents were friends. I just discovered this a day or two ago. We’ve been out of touch for many years. How marvelous for them. How wonderful for Kelsey. Attitude is everything. Let that not be lost on you. Plant that firmly on your mind. Attitude is everything. It makes all the difference in the world. Remember, the words of Henry Ford. ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right!’ Get this and your life can change into the most marveslous, magical and magnificent experience ever. Miss it, and things remain as they are. Let Kelsey inspire you to activate your attitude. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes”
“The most powerful mindset and attitude tool I’ve ever experienced. Words can’t describe how unique and how life-changing this program is. It rewires your brain to focus on the attitude that can best serve you. In the first year of owning it, I think I listened to it over 100 times. I’m recommending it to anyone who wants an unstoppable attitude of success.” –Joe Soto,Marketing Consultant, Entrepreneur, Waterford, VA
Discover a powerful process to reprogram your mind & subconscious with a one-of-a-kind self-guided hypnotic process to create unshakable confidence & resolve, get unstuck, & create more abundance in your life! The Attitude Activator™ is the only hypnotic process you will ever need!
“Best results I’ve ever gotten on a hypnotic audio before! –Nicholas Montegna, Pennsauken, NJ
Whether you want to lose weight, make more money, quit smoking, develop confidence, create a positive mindset, cultivate mindfulness and feelings of joy, the Attitude Activator™ programs your mind. Apply it to anything you desire. Use the Attitude Activator™ to Create Your Best Life Ever! Mp3 audio, Pdf Instructions.
“Attitude Activator is quite simply, the best tool for shifting your mindset and galvanizing you into action I have ever come across and I have tried most of the top tools over the years. Combine that with Mind Design™ and you really can begin to design your own life.’ –Kathy Strong, Trainer & Consultant, UK
Your success and happiness depend on one primary factor. Get this right and everything else falls into place. The greatest predictor of success in any area of your life, be it health, wealth, happiness, love or success is Attitude! With the right attitude, the world is yours. With the wrong attitude, you continue to struggle.
“I’ll vouch that Attitude Activator is awesome! Highly recommend it.”Staley Mims, Facebook
You’ll continue to perpetuate troubles. You know, if you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got. AND doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result IS the definition of insanity. Stop the insanity! Get it.
“I’m absolutely fascinated with your attitude activator. In only 15 days of listening, it has begun to introduce changes in my life. Something that after listening to other people’s audio programs was impossible. Yours is superior and the sound is great!”Jaume Daumal, Spain
If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. The first and most important update is changing your attitude! Your attitude is comprised of your beliefs and expectations. It’s those thoughts you repeatedly think that keep you the same OR that move you forward to greater and more wonderful results.
“Powerful program! It has positively transformed my mind. I am powerful & resourceful & abundant! Click the link & Do it Now!” Sandra J. Horton, Entrepreneur, Author, Podcast Host
“Rex Sikes, awesome I love the attitude activator. ”Kamal El-Rassi, Speaker, Facebook
I created the Attitude Activator™to help you get unstuck, become resourceful to create the kind of life AND results you’re excited about and pleased with. I developed this process, a blueprint, a procedure,the method to make it easier for you!
“The Attitude Activator is something I want to share with otherpeople… I want everyone I come in contact with to experience how easy it is to change focus from negativity and unaccomplished goals to setting consistent outcomes that bring states that have long been desired… I dance through my days with a smile on my face and a humongous appetite for learning.”Gloria De Voss, ACSW, LSW, Park Forest, Illinois
“Any time you want to you can imagine and have more energy and delight, more confidence and passion, more determination and enjoyment. You can use your body and mind to serve you anytime. Make It A Habit And You Will Always Have It Available! You already have habits that serve you to be, do and have what you want and those that keep you from it. Get this.
Learn to promote old and NEW habits that allow you to be, do and have what you want. Learn to let go of and release old habits that keep you from it. Recondition yourself. Reprogram yourself. Reeducate yourself. Rewrite over the old programs so instead of doing the old limiting beliefs, feelings, thoughts, self-talk, speech, actions and behaviors you transform into the new.
If you do nothing but what you have already done, nothing changes. You are busy promoting the same old same old. To be new you must think, feel, speak and behave new. Fortunately, you have a mind and body that serves you well ESPECIALLY when you know how to use them to be who you want to become, do what you want to be doing and have what you desire.
Again, you can imagine and have more energy and delight, more confidence and passion, more determination and enjoyment. You can use your body and mind to serve you anytime. Stand in one spot and shake your entire body quickly for 30 seconds or a minute. That will charge you up. Put your arms over your head and wave them rapidly.
Dance, skip, sing, and laugh to get more energy whenever you want it or require it. All you have to do is start it. If you do nothing, you get nothing. Learn to take right actions and you can transform and transcend limitations, difficulties and get free to enjoy more of all the good life has to offer AND that YOU are capable of. If it’s something you want to do, it’s up to you.
You can sit behind the steering wheel of a car and go nowhere, doing nothing, or you can start the engine and be on your way. If you want something to happen, it is always be up to you. Think better thoughts and you will feel better. Feel better and you will think better. Do both and you will live with more passion and enjoyment and life will be more grand. Delight in it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
“The most powerful mindset and attitude tool I’ve ever experienced. Words can’t describe how unique and how life-changing this program is. It rewires your brain to focus on the attitude that can best serve you. In the first year of owning it, I think I listened to it over 100 times. I’m recommending it to anyone who wants an unstoppable attitude of success.” –Joe Soto,Marketing Consultant, Entrepreneur, Waterford, VA
Discover a powerful process to reprogram your mind & subconscious with a one-of-a-kind self-guided hypnotic process to create unshakable confidence & resolve, get unstuck, & create more abundance in your life! The Attitude Activator™ is the only hypnotic process you will ever need!
“Best results I’ve ever gotten on a hypnotic audio before! –Nicholas Montegna, Pennsauken, NJ
Whether you want to lose weight, make more money, quit smoking, develop confidence, create a positive mindset, cultivate mindfulness and feelings of joy, the Attitude Activator™ programs your mind. Apply it to anything you desire. Use the Attitude Activator™ to Create Your Best Life Ever! Mp3 audio, Pdf Instructions.
“Attitude Activator is quite simply, the best tool for shifting your mindset and galvanizing you into action I have ever come across and I have tried most of the top tools over the years. Combine that with Mind Design™ and you really can begin to design your own life.’ –Kathy Strong, Trainer & Consultant, UK
Your success and happiness depend on one primary factor. Get this right and everything else falls into place. The greatest predictor of success in any area of your life, be it health, wealth, happiness, love or success is Attitude! With the right attitude, the world is yours. With the wrong attitude, you continue to struggle.
“I’ll vouch that Attitude Activator is awesome! Highly recommend it.”Staley Mims, Facebook
You’ll continue to perpetuate troubles. You know, if you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got. AND doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result IS the definition of insanity. Stop the insanity! Get it.
“I’m absolutely fascinated with your attitude activator. In only 15 days of listening, it has begun to introduce changes in my life. Something that after listening to other people’s audio programs was impossible. Yours is superior and the sound is great!”Jaume Daumal, Spain
If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. The first and most important update is changing your attitude! Your attitude is comprised of your beliefs and expectations. It’s those thoughts you repeatedly think that keep you the same OR that move you forward to greater and more wonderful results.
“Powerful program! It has positively transformed my mind. I am powerful & resourceful & abundant! Click the link & Do it Now!” Sandra J. Horton, Entrepreneur, Author, Podcast Host
“Rex Sikes, awesome I love the attitude activator. ”Kamal El-Rassi, Speaker, Facebook
I created the Attitude Activator™to help you get unstuck, become resourceful to create the kind of life AND results you’re excited about and pleased with. I developed this process, a blueprint, a procedure,the method to make it easier for you!
“The Attitude Activator is something I want to share with otherpeople… I want everyone I come in contact with to experience how easy it is to change focus from negativity and unaccomplished goals to setting consistent outcomes that bring states that have long been desired… I dance through my days with a smile on my face and a humongous appetite for learning.”Gloria De Voss, ACSW, LSW, Park Forest, Illinois
“While it may take some time to get the hang of this, or for you to see or feel the results, the longer you put off doing this the longer you remain the same. If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. You can’t do the same things and expect things to be different.
When you absolutely decide to take charge and be responsible for what you think and do everything in your life can change for the better. Repeat positive thoughts, Directed Questions™ and affirmations throughout each day. Fill your mind with positive, optimistic, good thoughts and feelings. Program your subconscious with exhilarating feelings.
More to come! In my blog posts I have shared with you examples of Directed Questions™ and powerful affirmative statements you can utilize to change how you feel and how you think. Re-read previous posts! Search the blog site. I invite you to enroll in one of my programs so you can experience power and positivity.
It’s important to take hold of the mechanisms within you that allow you to excel and accomplish your goals and dreams. One of the easiest and simplest ways to initiate change for yourself is using Directed Questions™. As I previously mentioned these direct your mind without encountering resistance.
After all, when it is something you are wondering about, you aren’t creating any conflict. Directed Questions™ grease the wheel and are an excellent way to begin. Again, you must do it to notice the change. The Attitude Activator™ does much of this for you. It teaches you the process while you transform. Develop positive, powerful mental and behavioral habits you can rely on. Develop the confidence to get what you want. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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“Mr. Sikes, You have demonstrated once again your wisdom, maturity and WHY you are considered to be one of the most, if not THE most respected NLP trainer in the field today.” — Carl Matus, Rockford, IL
“I’ll be blunt: I’m very disappointed that these secrets are available. I think buying this material should be treated like buying hand guns: You should have to fill out forms and get checked out first to see if you’ll use this wisdom for good or evil. I’ve NEVER seen such powerful techniques or insights. The average psychologist, cold reader, magician, or mentalist doesn’t know these “beyond secret” methods. You could start a cult with this! Far too powerful to be released publicly. Please take your NLP Home Study Program package off the market—especially now that I own it.” — Joe Vitale, Author, “There’s A Customer Born Every Minute” & “The Secret”
“I am beyond happy to call Rex Sikes my mentor and friend. I’m so happy to have invested into his NLP home study course. Which he has taught many successful people in the past 40 years. Here’s a testimony from Joe Vitale from the movie the secret. If anyone is interested in joining the course. Feel free to reach out to me.” Lynn Serrano – TV host, 2022
“I have very much enjoyed–and benefited from–Rex’s Ultimate NLP Home Study Course™. They are, by far, the best presentation of NLP material that I have ever listened to. Top notch stuff. Thanks for producing, and making available on audio, this excellent program.” — Bryan O’Conner, Chicago, IL
“Rex, we go all the way back to the last century and me finding my way in many ways at that point. You helped me during that point because I learned NLP, and some of the communication material came from you. I was sitting at your feet and learning how to apply it in my life and career. I am always studying, always growing, always working on myself. Thank you Rex! Joe Vitale -Author, appeared in ‘The Secret’, 2022
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“I give this course a massive thumbs up! And to put it into perspective I was already an NLP trainer when I came across this course some years back and I was blown away by the content in it and the way it is taught. Rex really knows his stuff and the content is amazing. Buy it! I mean every word.” Barry Neale – NLP trainer 2021
“My personal development journey took a turn for the better back in 1996 when I was fortunate enough to be trained and mentored by Rex Steven Sikes.” Joe Soto – Entrepreneur, Marketing Consultant, VA 2020
“In order to get what you want you must be able to see it in your mind, sense it, feel it, hear it call you. You represent it as if it is already there. If you imagine a friend in your mind, you see the friend. If you imagine your house, you see it in your mind. Imagine your front door. How do you know it is your front door? Because you know it. You know what it looks like.
You recognize it. You don’t fantasize about it. You aren’t creating it. You are remembering it. If you want to build a house, you have never built yet you must see it as already complete so you can draw the plans. You imagine where things are, the doors, windows, rooms, outlets, fixtures and more. You imagine it as an already completed house to be lived in.
If you want the world to be different than it is, you must recall it differently. You must imaginethe world you want to experience as if it is already that way. You recognize that world. You see it, feel it, hear it. It is complete as you want it. You don’t imagine what you don’t want. You imagine what you do want. Get this. It is important.
Trust this process. Imagine what you want as though it already is as you want it. Focus on it. Focus on the goal. You don’t have to know how it will be that way or what to do. Don’t get caught up in the details of how it is going to happen. Imagine being in a vacation spot. Imagine the fun. Don’t get caught up in how you get there. Imagine enjoying being there.
To bring about what you want you must see it as completed. For the first spoon to be made the person who made it or carved it first imagined it in his or her mind. Then the item was made according to internal design. What you want in the world, of the world and from the world must already exist in your mind, your heart and your being first. Get this.
It doesn’t come from nowhere. It doesn’t come from seeing everything wrong and all the problems. It doesn’t come from worrying, being afraid or hoping things don’t happen. Remember Job said that which I fear I brought upon myself. Your job is to be able to say gladly, that which I enjoyed I brought upon myself. This is how we create a better world.
See what is delightful. Focus on. Stay focused on it. Keep your attention and hence your energy on the good you want to bring about. Stick with it. No worries. Celebrate it. Be glad. See the good. Nurture the good. Energy flows where your attention goes. Create the world you want by putting positive energy into it.
Remember, energy can’t be created or destroyed. It can be transformed, and this is how we transform the world. Stop focusing on the bad news. Stop believing the lies and putting energy into the negative, the divide, the hateful and hurtful. Put energy into delight, peace, fun, gratitude, love, compassion, abundance, generosity, confidence, support, goodness, kindness, honesty, trust, family, friends, cooperation, and all the goodness. Celebrate these. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
“Rex is absolutely brilliant and transparent. My go-to book for those I mentor who want to be happy and successful with their lives as they choose.” – Fred Van Lieu ‘The Water Doctor,’ Author
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“Rex’s background as change agent, actor, magician, mentalist, communicator, performer, and survivor, makes him well practiced in the art of knowing the inner landscape of the human mind. In this book, he hands you the keys to unlock the magical kingdom within you. Not only do you receive the keys, codes, and passwords, you also get the full behind-the-scenes tour to know how to use them. You can now take charge of your own thinking and enjoy the abundant riches you are uniquely qualified to produce as you live life on your own terms.” – Paul R. Scheele, Ph.D
“Apply The 100% Test. If something isn’t true 100% of the time why limit yourself? If you don’t have a monopoly on the truth, why act as if you do? Let these things go. Learn something new. If you aren’t god, why act like it? Broaden your horizons. Educate yourself in new ways of thinking and being. Examine things from different perspectives.
Adopt a different point of view. Try to understand from someone else’s understanding. Try on the opposite argument. Take the opposition’s side. Look at it from a different viewpoint. Can you feel differently about what you think is correct? Must you insist on being correct? How tightly do you hold your belief? Your position? Are the others wrong? OR are you?
If it isn’t true for all time and all people in all places, there are things to learn. Learn about different cultures and practices in different places and times. Expose yourself to new thoughts and new ways to think and be. Reflect on how it is possible for people to believe and think different things. Understand, people can be correct in thinking and valuing differently than you.
Listen! Listen to listen. Listen to understand. Listen to learn. Listen to hear. Listen to get along. Listen without speaking or challenging or arguing. Listen for no reason at all except to better understand and appreciate the speaker and their point of view. Too many people just wait their turn to speak instead of listening. Stop waiting to speak.
Stop waiting to speak and make your points, rather than to reflect on and understand the other person’s points. Stop rushing to make your point or win. Ask questions to understand, not to counter argue. Ask for clarification. Can you say back their words what you understand the person to have said? Can you listen to the other person clarify it for you?
Can you even determine if you understood what they meant? We often think we understand the other person and what they meant only to discover we do not. We think we do but we don’t. Listen. Hear it. Pay attention. Seek understanding. Be active in the process. Attempt to be accepting and open and available and interested in their point of view.
Sometimes when listening this way, do nothing but accept it. Don’t provide your views. Sit with it. Let them be heard. Appreciate the other person and their point of view without making your points. Silence IS golden at times. At other times, share and contribute. Learn when to share and when not to. Not everything requires a response or a debate.
Let the other person say what they feel without correcting them. Can you do this? Few are able. Try it. Make a concerted effort to listen to learn and understand and not change the other person. Let them be who they are with their thoughts, beliefs, mistakes. Let them be perfectly imperfect. Stop trying to fix them or convince them to think differently. Love and accept them completely as they are. Allow them freedom to express without censure. Get it? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
“Rex is absolutely brilliant and transparent. My go-to book for those I mentor who want to be happy and successful with their lives as they choose.” – Fred Van Lieu ‘The Water Doctor,’ Author
Get the book. Change your life using the principles and practices. Check it out now if you like. Read it, enjoy it, and transform. Celebrate!
“Rex’s background as change agent, actor, magician, mentalist, communicator, performer, and survivor, makes him well practiced in the art of knowing the inner landscape of the human mind. In this book, he hands you the keys to unlock the magical kingdom within you. Not only do you receive the keys, codes, and passwords, you also get the full behind-the-scenes tour to know how to use them. You can now take charge of your own thinking and enjoy the abundant riches you are uniquely qualified to produce as you live life on your own terms.” – Paul R. Scheele, Ph.D
“The way the ‘powers that be keep’ you powerless is to make you think you’re a victim of circumstances, education or the lack of it, the weather, finances, the economy, your parents, etc. etc. This works because when outside events, circumstances and others SEEM to cause you to be, do or feel a certain way, it is not your power, but their power over you. Get it. Things happen. You react.
You and I have been conditioned to blame ‘things’. We blame everything other than ourselves, and we blame ourselves! We say, ‘this is the cause’ or ‘that is the cause’. ‘It’s not my fault. It’s not my responsibility.’ We think and exclaim it was for this reason or that reason. We blame this and that. Oddly, in most cases we don’t have a clue what the reasons are or what is to blame. We don’t.
We think we do but tracing the cause is complex because multiple points of intersection mean any number of things may be a cause or may not be. What do we do? We assign blame and a cause to what we think makes the most sense. We fill in the blanks and appoint the case. It may have nothing to do with anything, but we think it does. YES, some people will argue this. Instead consider this.
We don’t know what we don’t know. What we do know is so very tiny. The subconscious mind processes billions of bits every second. The conscious mind about 40 bits every second. Understand this and you’ll start becoming aware that we rely on the smaller of our two powers to decide what to think and believe about what’s going on. We ought to trust our subconscious far more but…
WE were not trained to do this. SO, We STRUGGLE and fret, mis-assign responsibility and find things far more difficult than they need to be or are. In assigning blame, providing reasons and making excuses we miss so very much. We are held hostages and limited by our own reasoning. We can continue this way, or we can explore a different way if we are open and willing. Few are.
Are you? Because, interestingly, ancient meditation approaches suggest there is a way to begin to understand and appreciate this that can create greater awareness and freedom. That instead of assigning reasons we notice ‘It is neither, this nor that.’ It is not what we ‘think’ it is. It is beyond the words and thoughts we use to describe it and understand it. It is so much more.
It IS so much more that it is NOT this and it is NOT That. The meditative approach of ‘net neti’ is precisely this. Neti Neti means neither this, nor that. Whenever a thought arises you think ‘neti neti.’ It is not this and it is not that. You stop assigning and hold it open. You don’t truly know what it is or not so stop thinking you do. Allow yourself to not succumb to the need to define it as good or bad.
It is whatever it is but whatever you think about it is NOT it. It is something beyond comprehension. It is unknown and a mystery. A mystery is not something to be understood but to be enjoyed. It is about wonder and awe not about claiming to know what you do not and can’t possibly know. Be open to the miraculous. The point of the practice is to discover you don’t know and not knowing is okay.
In fact, by not claiming to be an authority when you aren’t is freeing and can free you up to more incredible, miraculous, magical, memorable and magnificent moments. Simply sit in meditation and as thoughts arise repeat silently, ‘net, net’ or ‘not this, not that.’ Whenever thoughts wander off, return to the practice. Some spend a lifetime with this mediation. Certainly, you could practice it for some months or… who knows, it is ‘neti neti.’ Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James
“I’ll be blunt: I’m very disappointed that these secrets are available. I think buying this material should be treated like buying hand guns: You should have to fill out forms and get checked out first to see if you’ll use this wisdom for good or evil. I’ve NEVER seen such powerful techniques or insights. The average psychologist, cold reader, magician, or mentalist doesn’t know these “beyond secret” methods. You could start a cult with this! Far too powerful to be released publicly. Please take your Ultimate NLP Home Study Program package off the market—especially now that I own it.” –Joe Vitale – Author, 2000
“I am smiling and my heart is beating a little bit faster now, Rex. We go all the way back to the last century and me finding my way in many ways at that point. You helped me during that point because I learned NLP, and some of the communication material came from you. I was sitting at your feet and learning how to apply it in my life and career.
You sent me cassettes Rex way back in the 1990s, and these were cassettes on communication and NLP. And we had exchanged some things and we had talked and you were very kind to me and very generous with me. I religiously listened to everything I am always studying, always growing, always working on myself and maybe even more intensely back then. Thank you Rex!Joe Vitale -Author, appeared in ‘The Secret’, 2022
“I give this course a massive thumbs up! And to put it into perspective I was already an NLP trainer when I came across this course some years back and I was blown away by the content in it and the way it is taught. Rex really knows his stuff and the content is amazing. But it! I mean every word.” Barry Neale – NLP trainer 2021
“My personal development journey took a turn for the better back in 1996 when I was fortunate enough to be trained and mentored by Rex Steven Sikes. It’s been my ongoing wish that Rex would put his personal and professional development insights, his unique accelerated learning techniques, and basic to advanced mindset strategies (what he’s rightfully termed Mind Design™) into a book. He’s finally done it and he’s held nothing back. Rex equips you with everything you need to live a more empowered life… He was the first person to really challenge me with the idea that to change my life, I had to change myself first. His concept of 100% Self-responsibility has served me so much in my life, it’s now the cornerstone of all my training and coaching as well. He states, “When you accept full responsibility for everything going on, you begin to access your inner strengths and power. When you accept responsibility your mind begins to look for solutions because you are responsible.” Bottom line: I’m a better coach, trainer, entrepreneur, husband, and parent because of Rex.”Joe Soto – International Marketing Coach
“I am beyond happy to call Rex Sikes my mentor and friend. (Yesterday he was was kind enough to be my Valentine’s too lol) seriously though. I’m so happy to have invested into his NLP home study course. Which he has taught many successful people in the past 40 years. Here’s a testimony from Joe Vitale from the movie the secret. If anyone is interested in joining the course. Please feel free to reach out to me.” Lynn Serrano – TV host, 2022
‘…any idea that frequents the human mind but seldom is not as welcome as that which frequents it often.’ Napoleon Hill. Illustrates why positive thinking unless it becomes a habit seems not to work. If most of your thoughts are less-than-glorious they are your default. They are status quo. That is your comfort zone. They are welcome so much you hardly notice them. When you attempt to think positively, those thoughts seem foreign.
It’s uncomfortable. It’s unnatural. It seems harder. Why? Because they aren’t a habit. They haven’t frequented your mind enough to be welcome. If you want to change your life you first must manage your thoughts. You must shift from your thoughts being mostly negative, or about problems, events, other people, distractions, whines, blames, excuses and reasons. All of them together make up the bulk of your thinking. You repeat them over again.
Why? They are the habits of thought. They are welcome. They are familiar. It is your default. Your comfort zone. It is what is most familiar. ‘Merely to discontinue an undesirable habit is not enough, as such habits have a tendency to reappear unless the place, they formerly occupied in the mind is filled by some other habit of a different nature.’Napoleon Hill. Learning to positively manifest IS a science. The rules are so simple anyone may follow them.
However, you must be willing to exchange the less-than-glorious habit for a more positive, optimistic and productive habit. If you keep doing the same thing repeatedly that isn’t working, it will continue to not work. You must discontinue the old and fill the absence with the new. You must correctly, consistently, repeatedly, perform the new habit for long enough for it to take hold and become the new reliable automatic positive beneficial habit.
It’s unlikely you will do it on your own. Developing a champion mindset that works favorable for you is like becoming a champion athlete. Champions understand the immense value of the proper coach. They don’t do it alone. They rely on expert guidance. They do what is necessary to become the person of their dreams. They invest in themselves. They become coachable and teachable. They follow the instructions a coach gives them. Get this.
It isn’t willy-nilly, haphazard training, it is conscientious, deliberate, intentional, focused positive conditioning through guidance. Without it champions don’t become champions. Ask anyone who is. Together, one can form a mastermind but what is presented as masterminds in the marketplace is not a mastermind. It is a group collective. That said, it is better than nothing.
Still, you want to get together with the appropriate qualified coach to help you make your dreams come true. You want to learn how to get into an authentic mastermind. It’s about developing the mindset and positive habits that serve you to make manifesting easy. Since, no one succeeds alone you also want to attract those people who can help you in getting what you want. Get this and you get so much. Join me when you are ready for proper coaching and guidance. Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes
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