“Now don’t y’all go getting your panties in a bunch… wake up. You are dreaming. I don’t have a monopoly on truth but for over 40 years have been helping people make better decisions and discovering what they think and believe and how that shapes their ability to make informed decisions and their behaviors. I’ve helped people go from broke and broken to back together and better off. Have watched how people think and get stuck.

I’ve helped them get unstuck by thinking differently. The world is our laboratory. Watching how people think and what they think is amazing. What they value and use as evidence is intriguing. It’s a matter of perception, like the glass half full or empty. People demonstrate WHO they are by what they pay attention to, emphasize and complain about. Actions speak louder than words. To help someone you must not get caught up in it. Get this!

You must remain neutral and as objective as possible. If you side with the person you may be of little value. Why? Because you endorse the issue. You don’t jump into quicksand to rescue someone. Remaining apart from their thinking and being able to notice their process is both science and art. Like a detective you must ask the right questions and notice the answers, how they answer and what they don’t. You must be able to go where it goes.

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What you believe, expect and your emotions about that determine what you can see and entertain and what you miss completely. It’s true of all of us. That we think we know what is right, and this goes for me too, is the issue. We can’t see our own blind spots. We need someone or others to help us to notice. It’s like having something on your face without a mirror. Someone is necessary to point it out to you. Yet, some refuse to listen.

People flock together with people who share their opinions because it’s comfortable and they feel safe. It doesn’t make them correct. It’s just misery that loves company. People feel validated if someone else agrees. They feel right. Feeling right can be a wonderful thing, or it can be a nightmare. Some think they are right when they’re very wrong. We have all known someone like that or been involved in a discussion with one.

Strength in numbers makes people feel safe or comfortable. They tout their numbers as if that is meaningful. Some who are right have stood against the masses. So have those who’ve been wrong. Those who have stood against anything have had masses who have been right opposing them or masses who have been wrong opposing them. Oftentimes those most wrong are the experts, the pundits, the doctors and the talking heads.

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Somehow, the more people who believe one way than another feel they have the truth while others do not. Might in numbers doesn’t make right. They just think it does. People can’t see their blind spots or know what to correct. It’s why there are performance coaches and thinking coaches. Even the best baseball players or golfers have been wrong telling others how they do what they do so well. They don’t know. They’re unconsciously competent.

They’ve done so well for so long it’s a habit. So is their explanation. Many times, their explanation is at odds with video evidence of what they actually do. Until it is pointed out to them, they continue to insist that their description matches what they do. Once it is brought to their attention that their description is inaccurate, they are bewildered. They thought that was how they were performing so well. The description didn’t match behavior.

Meanwhile, they have been instructing others incorrectly. Some get better results, and some don’t. Why? Because what they have been telling people isn’t how they are doing it. Thinking about thinking and how it affects people and what they say and do is an amazing study. People don’t realize HOW they think. They think they think well. Thinking should be taught, and it isn’t. It’s not about logic and all the university study. It’s how to get free?

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How do you get free from the biases and contradictions you live with that limit what you are able to notice and do” How do you get free to see what is there, instead of what you think is there? Perception is everything. What you think shapes your ability to notice and interact with what is called reality. The results you get are determined by your thinking. Yet, most people don’t think so. They think it is something else. Understand? Have you ever been wrong about something, someone or yourself… hmmmmm you might be right now too. Consider what might be possible. Let’s explore together if you’re willing. Meanwhile, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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