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Life Gets So Much Better When You Do This

“Be mindful in listening. Much like meditation, focus intently on the present moment, without allowing thoughts to pull you in other directions. Let your mind be fully engaged with the speaker, resisting the urge to check out, plan your response, or judge. Meditation helps with this by training the mind to observe without attaching. When you meditate, you practice watching thoughts pass without judgment and you build mental flexibility.

You learn to steer back to the present moment instead of drifting away or get caught up in something else. You return. Eventually, you train or condition yourself and develop the habit to remain focused in the present. This translates into your listening, allowing you to witness and absorb without needing to control the conversation.

You don’t need to steer the conversation back to you, rather you steer yourself back to the conversation and the other person or persons. Being present, in this way, opens you to understand more deeply, while also freeing you from needing to impose your view. There are benefits to listening with an open, nonjudgemental mind. When you practice deep listening with an open mind, an incredible transformation begins.

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Not only do you create a more compassionate and connected life, but you also invite possibilities that you couldn’t see before. Here’s what you’ll find: You broaden your perspectives. By listening without judgment, you’re able to view life from a wider lens. Suddenly, more options appear, and your world expands. You learn more about things you knew nothing about that can add to your life and ability to live it well. You expand options.

You develop increased flexibility. Open listening practices loosen up rigid thinking, allowing you to see the countless solutions available, rather than circling around the same limited ideas. Hence you get better at problem-solving. When you aren’t confined to old habits of thought, your mind becomes better equipped to analyze situations creatively and arrive at innovative solutions. As a result, life becomes a more wonderful adventure.

An open mind enables you to go beyond your comfort zones. Maybe you’ll try new foods, explore new ideas, or connect with people you never imagined relating to. Life becomes richer, more flavorful, and full of excitement. It’s so wonderful when you begin to realize there is so much more that life offers you and the only reason you missed it was because you didn’t notice it because you were caught up in your thoughts or issues.

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Now, you have an opportunity to not only notice what you were missing but to partake in it. So, if you are ready to truly transform how you interact with the world around you, the time is now. Imagine developing the skills not just to hear, but to understand deeply, and to grow from every conversation. Join one of my programs today and learn how to apply these principles in every area of your life. Together, we’ll move beyond old habits, unlocking your potential to connect, create, and flourish with a fresh, open-minded approach to listening. Life is good. Life is great. Life is grand. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How to Stop Waiting to Speak and Start Listening to Learn

“Listening is an art, one of the most powerful tools you can develop for genuine understanding and growth. The act of listening, without immediately needing to reply, argue, or share your perspective, is transformational. When you learn to truly listen, you open up a space to appreciate, absorb, and explore ideas that may have otherwise slipped by unnoticed. This part of your journey is all about creating that space for yourself and others.

It’s about allowing a greater flow of understanding and genuine connection to emerge. Most of us fall into the habit of “listening to reply,” where our main focus is waiting for our turn to speak. True listening is listening without an agenda. It’s about giving the speaker the spotlight and absorbing their words with respect and curiosity. Listen first and foremost to understand, not to speak. Know first where they are coming from.

Ask yourself as you listen, “What can I learn here?” or “What are they really trying to convey? “This practice keeps you open and engaged, without feeling the need to challenge, judge, or counter. Instead of simply nodding along while crafting your response, aim to listen purely to understand. Seek to know more by asking open-ended questions, not to argue or counterpoint, but to dig deeper. Magic can happen when you do. Try these:

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“Can you explain what you mean by that?” “What does that mean to you?” “Could you tell me more?” By doing this, you encourage openness and build rapport, showing you value the other person’s experience and perspective. Reflect their words back to them in your own to ensure you’ve understood, then let them clarify if needed. I’ll share more next time. Meanwhile, begin putting this into action today. Great things can happen.

Sometimes, the most impactful thing you can do after someone finishes sharing is simply to pause, letting their words hang and showing they’ve been heard. So, take this step today. Embrace this journey, and watch your world open up! Imagine developing the skills not just to hear, but to understand deeply, and to grow from every conversation. As you do you’ll notice relationships growing stronger. You’ll connect deeper and in rewarding ways.

‘Be the change you want to see in the world.’ GO FIRST. Give to get! If you’re ready to transform how you interact with the world around you, I invite you to join one of my programs today and learn how to apply these principles in every area of your life. Together, we’ll move beyond old habits, unlocking your potential to connect, create, and flourish with a fresh, open-minded approach to listening. Everything changes when you do. Celebrate Everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop Letting Outside Circumstances Shape Your Inner Reality

“Stop letting outside circumstances shape your inner reality: take charge of your life. I talk and train on this a lot. Why? Because it is so important. It’s the basis of so many ancient texts and new thought leader substance. You must learn how to control and focus your attention. There are two choices. Dog crap or Diamonds. You must stay focused on diamonds even while the dog crap swirls around you. Don’t let the dog crap contaminate diamonds.

If outside facts don’t align with your vision, STOP giving them control over your mind! Instead, create your own reality. Affirm and declare the inner reality you desire! Whether or not you see it around you just yet. This is where certainty and faith are essential. This is why Napoleon Hill said you must first conceive it and then bring yourself to believe it (crucial) to be able to achieve it. Believing is a must. Faith makes the impossible possible.

Most people focus on the world of the 5 senses. This is what Hindus call Maya or the illusion. It is not reality, but it is what most think reality is. To move forward and create what we want we must IGNORE what we think and believe reality is, the 5 senses reality, and focus on the inner reality we already are and want to create. We’ve been trained to focus on the 5-sense reality. You know, ‘be realistic.’ That’s part of our societal conditioning.

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‘Stop dreaming.’ ‘Don’t be ridiculous.’ So, most of us live a life of servitude to circumstances and events thinking and believing we must because that is what is real, and the invisible world is not. That is the dilemma we find ourselves in. We want to believe in the invisible but are distracted by the visible, physical world. To create, attract, transmute and realize what we desire most, we must shift. You can’t be different doing what you always do.

We must shift attention from the 5-sense world to the world within. There you must envision it clearly, train yourself to believe in it deeply, and then you can absolutely achieve it. To live a life beyond limits, first, conceive it internally. Then, live as though it already exists. Go first. Going first IS essential. Step out of limited thinking, fear, and frustration, and step boldly into the energy of positivity and power. Be bold. Take charge. Be the cause.

Realign your mind with purpose and refuse limiting beliefs and the stories you concoct about the world of the 5 senses. Stop believing the lies, the Maya, the illusion. Do you find yourself reacting to circumstances, doubting your dreams, or constantly checking if it’s ‘realistic’? If you answered yes. It’s time to stop letting appearances and other people’s limitations dictate your future. Stop being controlled by ‘outer influences’ like a cork on water.

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Reject the confines of the five senses, what you can see, hear, and touch is just one perspective. You are far more powerful than circumstances, and you alone are the cause of your destiny. Take charge and declare: ‘I create my reality from the inside out!’ Become proactive and shift from ‘reacting’ to ‘creating.’ This is a necessary step that most leave out. Remember, you must bring yourself to believe it. You must KNOW it can and will happen.

That means you must develop the faith or certainty that things will be as you intend. You are in charge of developing certainty and in charge of making what you want happen. Get this. You can either accept things as they are, or you can decide to create what you want instead. Do you want to be in control, or will you remain a victim to your circumstances? To achieve the life you dream of, you must take ownership. Become the cause!

You must begin to proactively design your future rather than passively reacting to what’s around you. We all are born into this world, and this is our purpose. Our purpose is to discover we are, YOU are intentional creators. The universe, the circumstances reflect our inner world. There is no other way. Your brain and body are an organism with neurological filters working by electrochemical processes. We filter experience through our neurology.

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We interpret the world through energy and vibrations. Similar in ways to the alphabet. We get signals, stimuli and make sense of those. We make meaning from jumbles of letters, forming words, and sentences and paragraphs that mean something to us. We create reality this way. The reality we think and have been taught to believe and accept is NOT the important reality. The important reality is the story we tell ourselves about that reality.

Consider Steve Jobs and his ‘reality distortion field.’ He didn’t accept the facts or limitations others saw. He envisioned his own world and let that drive him. The same goes for people like Barnes, Oprah, Edison, Lady Gaga, and Ford. They didn’t let current circumstances define what was possible for them. Their unwavering focus on the reality they desired made it real. Ford said, ‘if you think you can or you can’t, you’re correct.’ It’s up to you.

He also said, ‘I never let what I can’t do prevent me from doing what I can.’ He ignored the reality others accepted and created the V8 engine when it was considered impossible. Nothing is impossible. Except for the limitations you willingly accept in your mind about you and the world around you. Realize YOU are the world around you. It is of your own making. I know, you think otherwise. Me too. But it isn’t. You are the universe.

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It’s a reflection of your thoughts, beliefs, values, limitations, hopes and disappointments. The outer reflects your inner themes and stories you deem true and real. The first step is awareness. Notice that you have bought into the notion that your circumstances cause you to think, feel, say and do things. They assist you or prevent you. It is separate from you. Truth is, it isn’t, and they do nothing to you, for you or against you.

YOU do that. You are the cause. Without your consciousness you don’t experience anything of the outer world. It disappears if you do. Get this. More follows in the next blog article. Meanwhile, if you’re ready to stop being reactive and start creating, you can break free from limits and live with confidence, success, and joy. Embrace the life-changing power of focused, positive thinking. The universe doesn’t do it to you or for you. YOU do it!

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Make today a day, not only of positive, forward change but of gratitude and celebration. When asked, Hill said, ‘I didn’t say you will achieve, because I don’t know what you’ll do.’ You can, if you will, but that is up to you. If you do nothing, nothing changes. Make the first step. Make today also a day of appreciation and celebration. Be intentional. Learn and do. Celebrate diving in, making changes and creating your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Are You Ready to Turn Negativity into Your Greatest Ally?

“I want to emphasize elements from my last blog. Let’s continue to dive in and turn negativity into a tool for powerful transformation! Remember, declare what you want with passion and conviction. AND turn negativity into feedback you can use to transform. Think of negative feelings as signals your GPS gives you to alert you when you’re off-course. Negative emotions are your mind’s way of nudging you back on track. Get this!

Instead of dwelling on them, ask, ‘is this thought helping or hindering me?’ Use this feedback to pivot back toward a productive mindset. Remember, thoughts that don’t serve you are merely temporary detours, not dead ends! So, if you find yourself dwelling on a setback, ask, ‘What lesson can I learn here? What is this frustration trying to tell me about my direction?’ It’s a sign to adjust your strategy or your focus.

Thank goodness your GPS alerts you when you’re headed in the wrong direction. It keeps sounding the alarm as you continue to travel that way. It’s a blessing and it’s attempting to get you to turn around and go in a different direction. Success in this process comes from consistency. Set aside time each day, even just a few minutes, to check in with your thoughts. Journaling can be incredibly helpful for this. You’ll be surprised.

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Write down your main thoughts or emotions and look for patterns. Are you focusing on the negative? Make a conscious effort to redirect your thoughts toward what you want instead. Over time, this check-in practice will become automatic, and you’ll naturally shift your mindset toward the positive. Every evening, jot down a quick note about your day and how you felt. Were there negative thoughts? How did you respond to them?

As this habit grows, you’ll start seeing a shift in your automatic reactions to challenges. The time you spend, Every tool or method you use, and each shift you make compounds to create a powerful, unstoppable mindset! Appreciate this and appreciate yourself. If you’re ready to dive deeper into this transformative process and see life-changing results, take the next step. If you don’t move, you stay where you are. Do new things to change.

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How To Use Negativity As A Tool For Transformation

“Continued from my recent blog. Use negativity as a tool for transformation. Declare what you want out loud, in writing, or to yourself in any way that makes it feel real. That’s where your power is. Turn ‘I can’t’ into ‘I can, and I will.’ Use positive affirmations to cement this new focus in your mind. By repeatedly affirming what you want, you’re training your brain to seek opportunities instead of obstacles. Learn to train your brain to work for you!

Each time you state what you want, you’re moving your mind and spirit closer to achieving it. Let each declaration serve as a building block toward your vision. Let’s say you’re feeling overwhelmed by a project. Instead of dwelling on the obstacles, reframe it: ‘This project is a steppingstone for my growth and success.’ And this new focus pulls you out of negativity and moves you into positive power. It helps you go from victim to victor.

Treat every negative thought as feedback. Just like a GPS, it’s showing you when you’re heading off course. Don’t dwell on it. Instead, use it as a guide, a nudge to redirect your focus toward what truly matters to you. Ask, “Is this thought moving me toward or away from my goal?” Create a daily practice. Make it a habit to check in with your thoughts regularly. Set aside a few minutes each day to notice where your mind is. Become aware. Notice.

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Are you focusing on the negative, or are you actively working toward what you want? Over time, this becomes second nature. Soon you’ll find yourself automatically shifting your focus toward the positive. Positive affirmations aren’t just feel-good phrases; they’re mental conditioning tools. When you regularly affirm what you want, you’re ‘rewiring’ your brain to seek solutions and open doors rather than seeing only hurdles. This is a good thing.

It’s like shifting gears in your mind to focus on potential instead of problems. Write down a list of affirmations that resonate with you, such as, ‘I am capable, resourceful, and successful,’ and repeat them throughout the day. Create a routine where, each morning and evening, you repeat a series of affirmations while looking at yourself in the mirror. ‘I attract positivity,’ ‘I am moving forward,’ or ‘I am grateful for new opportunities.’

Soon, you’ll start believing in your capability to manifest these ideas. Every method, tool and shift you make compounds to create a powerful, unstoppable mindset! If you’re ready to dive deeper into this transformative process and see life-changing results, take the next step. Don’t let obstacles block your path when you have the power to create what you want. I’ll share more in my next blog. Meanwhile, maximize your positivity. And…

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Explore my programs designed to equip you with proven strategies and daily guidance to fuel your journey toward success, resilience, and happiness. Make today the day you take charge of your thoughts, emotions, and life. Let’s do this together! It’s time to live a life of intention and joy! Spend more time counting your blessings and being grateful that life changes in every way. So, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Must Know This To Get What You Want

“The unconscious mind doesn’t make a distinction between wanted or unwanted, good or bad, it just goes where your energy constantly flows. It goes wherever you place your attention. Soil doesn’t care whether it is growing food or poison. Whatever is planted and nurtured will grow. What have you planted AND what are you nurturing? The results you are getting tells you the answer. Results are the fruits of our thoughts, feelings, words and actions.

If you don’t like the results you are getting, you are focused on the wrong things. You are focused on what you don’t want too much of the time. By focusing on what you don’t want, or spending time complaining about the results you stay stuck. If results are haphazard and not consistent YOU need to make some changes. You can’t keep doing the same old things. Get this! If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you always got.

If you keep trying but keep failing or something is holding you back and you feel in a holding pattern, then you are mixing positive and negative. Sometimes you are more one than the other, but you go back and forth. You have one foot on the dock and one on the boat. Either put both feet on the dock or both in the boat. You need to choose which you will focus on most of the time. Know this. If you want to move forward jump into the boat and go!

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When you are mixing positive and negative and there is no predominant thought the results are mixed and your results are inconsistent. It means you drift or are wishy washy. To get the results you want requires commitment. It requires persistent consistent action. You get what you focus on. You become what you think about most during the day and night. What you think about you bring about. What you focus on expands. That’s how habits are formed.

If you spend most of your time outdoors, in the sun, in a bathing suit, expect to tan. If you spend most of your time indoors, bundled up, out of the sun you can expect not to. The results you get are due to the predominant time you spend thinking either positive or negative thoughts. Unfortunately, most people, because of habit, because of doing it for so long, aren’t even aware of this. Most people, perhaps you, don’t realize how negative they are. Do you?

They don’t realize how much of their power they give away through worry, blaming others, the world, events and even themselves. If you are mostly filled with fear, or doubt, or complaints and blame this is what you will have in life. One thought produces another and another. Our brains work this way. We make associations, we have triggers, there are neural pathways. Here’s what you need to do. Start monitoring your self-talk. Notice what you’re doing.

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Start noticing what you say to yourself and how you say it. Start noticing the mental images you make. Notice what you say out loud. Are you predominantly positive and encouraging or negative and complaining. Begin today. Spend a day or two noticing what you habitually do. What is your first reaction? I’ll share more next time. Meanwhile, notice. Journal it. Keep a log. Begin to pay attention to what you’ve been doing that’s been outside your awareness. Awareness is the first step to making changes. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How to Shift Your Focus To Reclaim Positivity

“I’ve been discussing how to recognize signals that are less-than-glorious so you can shift from them and keep your energy and your vibe high. After becoming aware of the signals SO you can shift, the next thing you do IS shift! Once you notice these negative feelings, you have the power to redirect your focus. Here’s how: Name the negative feeling and redirect. First, acknowledge the feeling. Then take a deep breath.

Consciously choose to shift focus. Ask, ‘What do I want instead?’ For example, if you feel anxious about an upcoming deadline, shift your focus to the result you desire: a well-executed project that you’re proud of. Ramp up the positive emotion through intensity. In moments of intense frustration, sometimes pushing that feeling to its peak can lead to a breakthrough. Often, reaching a point of ‘I’ve had enough of this!’ signals a turning point.

Use this intensity as motivation to commit to focusing on solutions and positive outcomes instead. Celebrate small shifts. Every time you notice switching from a negative thought to a positive one, celebrate it! Give yourself credit for making the shift. This reinforces the habit of focusing on the positive and makes it easier to repeat. Visualize positive outcomes regularly Take a few minutes daily to imagine your ideal day, week, or life.

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Picture yourself experiencing the things you want, engaging with people positively, and achieving your goals. This practice aligns your thoughts with what you want and attracts similar experiences to you. Here’s some practices to sharpen and strengthen your positive focus. Practice gratitude. Sit quietly and take slow, deep breaths. Visualize things you’re grateful for, family, health, opportunities. This shifts your focus to the positive.

Doing this and these practices help you create a baseline or foundation of optimism. Reflect on your daily wins! Before bed, write down three positive things that happened during the day. No matter how small. Focus on what went right. Focusing on these ‘wins’ reinforces your positive outlook. Audit your self-talk to keep it positive. Start by spending one day paying close attention to your self-talk. Commit to this practice for that day.

Whenever you notice yourself thinking negatively, reframe it. Find something positive instead. Shift into something constructive. For example, change ‘I’m not good at this’ to ‘yet’ or ‘I’m learning, and I can improve.’ Practice and celebrate the shift you’ve just made. As you understand how your emotions guide your focus, start using them as a tool. Each time you notice a negative feeling, remind yourself to shift towards what you want.

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By practicing this regularly, you’ll discover yourself naturally begin to think more positively, which research links to increased resilience, creativity, and improved mental health. Isn’t that worth it? Remember: your feelings are your guideposts. Pay attention to them! Shift your focus as needed. Celebrate each small victory along the way. Over time, you’ll find it easier and more natural to focus on what you want, creating a life full of optimism and fulfillment. I think that’s worth it. If you agree, do it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Using Emotions As Your Guide To Recognize and Shift Your Focus

“Are you focused on what you want, or are you stuck on what you don’t want? Many people don’t know but there’s an easy way to tell; pay attention to your feelings. Think of your emotions as a built-in signaling system, guiding you toward what you want and away from what you don’t. Learning to recognize these signals empowers you to take control and make lasting, positive changes in your life.

How to make the shift. When you feel good; joyful, hopeful, peaceful, or inspired, it’s a clear signal that you’re aligned with what you truly desire. These positive feelings indicate you’re focusing on something you want. In contrast, when negative emotions or what I prefer to call less-than-glorious feelings arise, frustration, anxiety, anger, or fear, they serve as indicators that you’re thinking about what you don’t want.

Let’s say you’re feeling frustrated about your work situation. This frustration isn’t just discomfort; it’s your internal signal telling you that you’re dwelling on what’s not working, perhaps on your dissatisfaction or lack of progress. Instead, you could shift focus to imagining or visualizing what you want in a job, maybe a role that allows growth, creativity, or more freedom. This refocuses your attention on what you do want.

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Focus on what you do want ultimately changes how you feel about the situation. Get it? Your feelings are your internal signal system. My hope for you is that you understand the impact of your thoughts, so you do something about them, if you don’t like the results you’ve been getting. Whatever you think about most is what you tend to attract into your life. Whether you think mostly positively or negatively. Doesn’t matter.

When you continually focus on negative things, people you don’t like, events or circumstances, frustrations, fears, or complaints, those thoughts influence how you feel and perpetuate the exact circumstances you’d like to avoid. This is sometimes referred to as a “negative feedback loop.” As you think more negative thoughts, your brain reinforces neural pathways that make these patterns habitual. What goes around comes around.

Studies on ‘thought-action fusion,’ the psychological concept where we connect thoughts too closely with outcomes, show that focusing on negative thoughts increases stress and anxiety, affecting your mood and behavior. Practicing gratitude or shifting focus to solutions, on the other hand, re-wires these pathways toward positivity and resilience. Can you tell which is which? Are there common signals that you’re on a wrong track?

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Here’s a way to recognize when you’re focusing on what you don’t want. When you’re critical of yourself or others, you’re likely focused on the negative, which keeps you feeling stuck. Notice when your self talk is critical of yourself or you are doubting yourself in any way. Whenever you’re blaming or complaining whether that’s about others or yourself. Focusing on those signals you, your attention is on what you don’t like.

If you’ve persistent worries or anxiety it signals a fear-based focus, typically around things you don’t want to happen. If you’re frequently or generally irritable or frustrated know that these feelings often arise when we dwell on what’s lacking in our lives. Notice, these signals are valuable.

Recognizing them can help you shift your mindset back to what you desire. So, begin to pay attention. These signals are opportunities to shift your focus and reclaim your positivity and enhance your health, happiness, relationships, wealth and success. You can shift your focus and reclaim your life. I’ll share more on that next time. For now, develop the awareness and then set an intention to begin changing it. Again, these signals are opportunities to change so accept them and embrace them. That’s what I mean when I say Celebrate Everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop Sitting And Wishing For Things To Change: Power Up!

“You can sit around hoping, wishing, waiting for things to change, and relying on luck to turn your life around but that won’t get you anywhere! Doing nothing means staying exactly where you are, trapped in frustration, dissatisfaction, and regret. How long will you continue that? Do you want this to be your story? It’s your life, your one shot as far as we know. Are you really going to wait for some miracle of luck to save you?

Or will you finally take charge, decide what you want, and do whatever it takes to make it happen? The truth is simple: If you do nothing, nothing will change. You already know what you don’t want, don’t you? That’s why you’re feeling stuck. You hate where you are, you’re frustrated, and you’re probably even angry. Guess what? That’s the signal! That negative energy is your internal alarm clock going off.

It’s telling you to wake up and make a shift. Don’t run from those feelings. Stop allowing yourself to stay trapped in those feelings. Instead, use them as your fuel to get crystal clear on what you do want! USE your frustrated feelings to clarify your desires. Those ‘bad’ feelings you’re experiencing, whatever they are, whether it’s anxiety, sadness, or anger, serve a purpose. They’re indicators that you need to change course.

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When you’re stuck in a place you hate, you get uncomfortable. That discomfort should light a fire under you to shift your focus and act. Instead of wallowing, whining, complaining, blaming and feeling helpless and hopeless, harness those feelings. Let them clarify what you truly want. The contrast between where you are and where you want to be IS exactly what will drive you forward!

Once you’ve that clarity, you can stop spinning your wheels and start making meaningful moves toward your goals. THEN when you’re clear on what you want, the next step is to focus. That means deliberately and intentionally visualizing the life you desire as if it’s already your reality. Picture it in your mind like a vivid movie. You aren’t just thinking about it, you’re living it in your imagination! Visualize and feel the life you desire.

Say you want a new home. Close your eyes and see yourself walking from room to room. What does your dream house look like? What colors are the walls? How is the space decorated? Feel the texture of the carpet under your feet or the warmth of the sunlight streaming in through the windows. Hear the sounds, maybe it’s your family laughing in the kitchen, or birds chirping in the garden. Smell the fresh air as you step outside.

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Notice the landscaping. Really immerse yourself in this mental image, feel the feelings, the textures, hear the sounds, smell the smells and engage all your senses. Make it real. SO, don’t just see your dream home; feel it. What are you feeling emotionally as you walk through it? Are you overwhelmed with gratitude and joy? Does it bring you a sense of peace and accomplishment? Feel that now.

Don’t wait for the home to manifest to feel good. By visualizing and feeling it deeply, you bring yourself into alignment with that reality. This IS the power of visualization through feelings. It programs your subconscious mind to seek out opportunities and take actions that align with this vision. It’s not some magic trick. It’s your mind working in the background, constantly helping you find ways to achieve what you desire.

Because you’re so focused on it, because your strong feelings are the signal value needed to inform your subconscious THIS, THIS IS what I want. The more you feel strongly while you visualize, the more your brain believes it’s already happening, and it will help you get there! Think about the greats like the late Kobe Bryant. He wasn’t just a great basketball legend because of his physical talent, although yes, he had great talent.

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He was great because he trained his mind as much as his body. Kobe was known for his intense focus and his use of visualization. Before every game, he’d close his eyes and run through every move, every shot in his mind, feeling the ball in his hands, seeing the scoreboard flash with victory. He mentally rehearsed success. When game time came, it was just a natural extension of what he had already experienced in his mind.

Isn’t your life more important than the game of basketball? Are you going to keep sitting around, waiting for life to happen to you? Or are you going to take control, decide what you want, and start visualizing it every day until it becomes your reality? I say, it’s time to make the shift AND I’m here to help if you want it. Don’t settle for a life you hate when you have the power to create a life you love.

Use the feelings of dissatisfaction to fuel your journey. Focus on what you want, visualize it vividly, and act. Start today, not tomorrow. Your future self is waiting on you! Do it NOW! The life you dream of is closer than you think, but you must make the move. No one else can do it for you. Don’t let another day slip by while you sit idle. Get up, get clear, and go after it with everything you’ve got. The change begins with you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“His deep and nuanced understanding of how the mind processes information and how real transformation is accomplished is beyond words. I was privileged to invest 10 hours a day for three weeks with him over 25 years ago. That information has infused the next few decades of decision-making and career success. He is a total gem in the world of teachers and trainers. My internal dialogue, my ability to manage my states, and my ability to train and coach students were forever improved. – Bart Baggett, Speaker, Author, Forensic Document Examiner, L.A. CA

“Rex is an incredible coach, author, speaker, and world-renowned. I use his book weekly and highly recommend it. If you are looking for a master coach and NLP top-notch instructor, Rex is your guy.” —Kamal el-Rassi, MBA, CEO El-Rassi Enterprise, Cincinnati, OH

“Rex possesses a remarkable ability to engage and captivate an audience, drawing on his deep well of knowledge and expertise to deliver transformative experiences. His brilliance lies in his unique capacity to extract core issues from complex situations and address them in ways that are understandable and actionable. Rex’s sessions are a masterclass in empowerment; he guides his audience through their challenges with empathy and insight, helping them achieve the breakthroughs they’ve long sought.” —Carlos Siqueira, CEO Disruptors LLC, San Francisco

“What truly sets Rex apart is his unrivaled knowledge on personal development. He possesses a wealth of insights and strategies that will blow you away. Rex’s teaching style is powerful, effective, and unique. He has a remarkable ability to simplify complex concepts, making them easy to understand and, most importantly, actionable. Spending time with Rex is an investment well worth making. Not only will you gain invaluable wisdom and guidance, but you’ll also witness the profound impact it has on your life. Rex’s teachings have the potential to transform your mindset, unlock your potential, and propel you towards unparalleled success.” Rita Montalto, CEO 4 Pillars of Wealth, AU

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The Power In Asking This

“Questions can change your life because they can change the direction of your thinking. There is immense power in asking questions. The Socratic Method has been around for a long time. I didn’t invent questions, but I revolutionized their use when I introduced Directed Questions™ to the world in the early 80s. Many have attempted to recreate this process and have greatly missed. Still, there’s great power in asking questions.

One question to ask that’s become popular is the question ‘why.’ It has the power to change your life. It’s a small word, yet it opens the door to deep insights, personal transformation, and success. However, early in the NLP days we attempted to ask other questions to provide far more flexibility and direction. Historically, therapists asked ‘why’ almost exclusively. The goal in NLP was to provide more flexibility and direction than they had.

‘Why’ is great and I encourage you to ask it but it’s not the only question to ask. When you learn Directed Questions™ a whole new world opens for you. But, for not, let’s explore ‘why.’ When you ask yourself ‘why’ about your goals, desires, and actions, you unlock the reasons behind what drives you. Understanding this can shape your path forward with more clarity, purpose, and motivation.

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Knowing what’s important and why it’s important can turn vague ambitions into specific, actionable steps, guiding you to what you truly value. Asking ‘why’ is powerful and can change the way you approach your goals and life. Consider; Why do you want to achieve a certain goal? It may seem like a simple question, but the answer reveals a lot. Remember, questions direct your thinking. They direct what you find, discover and can then utilize.

When you ask yourself why you want something, whether it’s career success, financial freedom, or personal happiness, you start to uncover the motivations and emotions driving you. If you ask yourself, ‘Why do I want financial independence?’ You might answer, “Because I want freedom.” Dig deeper: ‘Why do I want freedom?’ Your answer might be, ‘So I can spend more time with my family, pursue my passions, and live stress free.’

You’ve uncovered the deeper meaning behind your desire for wealth AND it’s not just money. It’s about a lifestyle filled with purpose and connection. Your family relationship, your passions and how you feel is more important than just making more money. This clarity helps you focus your energy on what matters most and not just on superficial desires. It’s not about the money or the status; it’s about the life you want to create with it!

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Asking ‘why’ helps you tap into your inner drive. It clarifies the emotional reasons behind your goals, providing you with the fuel you need to stay motivated. Once you understand your true motives, you gain a powerful source of energy that will keep you moving forward, even when challenges arise. When you understand your ‘why,’ you unlock a reservoir of strength that can help you persevere when the going gets tough. Get this. It adds to you!

Asking ‘why’ helps you see the bigger picture and how everything is connected. You begin to understand the cause-and-effect relationship between your actions and their outcomes. When you know the reasons behind your desires, you can create a roadmap to achieving them. You can ask, ‘why is this important to me’ and discover deeper answers. If your goal is to be in better health, ask yourself why that matters to you.

Is it to feel more energetic, live longer for your family, or achieve personal mastery? When you understand the real reason behind your desire for health, it becomes easier to stay committed to exercising, eating right, and avoiding unhealthy habits. Asking ‘why’ helps you see beyond the immediate gratification of achieving a goal. You begin to grasp how this goal fits into the larger picture of your life, relationships, and long-term happiness.

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One of the most important aspects of asking ‘why’ is to get into the present moment. Many people think of their ‘whys’ as future goals. Goals somewhere off in the distance. They might say, ‘I want to be successful so that one day I can be happy.’ But this keeps your happiness and success perpetually out of your reach. Instead, ask yourself, ‘Why can I be happy now? Why can I be successful today?’ Focus on your present. Get to here and now.

By focusing on now, you realize the conditions for your desires can be found in your current situation. You just didn’t notice them because you thought they might be available at another time, so you missed out. Now, right this moment there are infinite possibilities, opportunities and resources available to you but you miss them because of your current mindset. That’s why, WHY and asking Directed Questions™ makes such a difference.

For example, if you want more confidence, instead of waiting until you achieve something big, ask yourself why you can be confident now. You might find that you already possess skills, experiences, or traits that make you capable and deserving of confidence today. This shift in mindset helps you to start living the life you want now, rather than constantly chasing a distant future. In fact, most of what you want is always available right now.

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Some notable people have used the power of ‘why’ to shape their success: Simon Sinek’s famous TED Talk, “Start With Why,” emphasizes the importance of understanding your deeper purpose. He argues that great leaders and successful organizations are driven by a strong sense of ‘why’ – a clear understanding of their purpose or cause. Companies like Apple don’t just sell products; they’re driven by the desire to inspire innovation.

Steve Jobs didn’t just want to make money or build a company. He wanted to revolutionize the way people interacted with technology, to change the world by creating beautiful, intuitive products. That ‘why’ drove him to build Apple, through countless failures and setbacks. His motivation was not just profit, it was about impact and innovation, and that’s what kept him pushing the boundaries. Notice profit came from wanting to help others.

Malala Yousafzai is the youngest Nobel Prize laureate. She knew exactly why she fought for girls’ education. Her ‘why’ was simple but powerful. She believed every girl should have the right to education, and her personal experiences drove her mission. Her understanding of ‘why gave her the strength to stand up to the Taliban, even after being targeted and attacked, because she knew her cause was bigger than herself.

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I sure wish more people fought for the rights of girls, boys and people all over the world. Don’t you? I’ve proved a few examples of people who used their ‘why’ to change their lives and the lives of others. Now it’s your turn. What do you want? More importantly, why do you want it? Take time today to ask yourself these questions. Write down your answers and keep digging deeper until you uncover the true motivation behind your goals.

Don’t stop at the first answer. Each answer is a steppingstone to that most important value, the big why, your deepest motivation. Remember, when you ask yourself ‘why,’ you gain clarity, motivation, and focus. You connect with the bigger picture and align yourself with your true desires. Most importantly, you begin to see opportunities in the present moment, rather than placing your happiness off in the distant future. Also understand this.

Why is a powerful question. It also has its limitations. As I mentioned, early therapists were limited by only having one predominant question to ask. Flexibility is key. More than that, it’s important not to ask questions by rote. I refused to put out a list of questions for people to ask because it is about asking YOU OWN questions and discovering how to craft them. Directed Questions™ is powerful because it’s not a list but a powerful process.

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You have the power to create the life you want. Start today by asking yourself ‘why.’ Then start acting on those answers. That’s where transformation begins. It begins there but doesn’t end there. Use this question today to begin making changes and know there is so much more than this first step. It can open the door, but you want to and must step through it to get through it. Questions direct your mind.

You can discover so much that is positive and wonderful when you understand this. Ask. Another important, very important point is the answer is not the only thing that is important. Learning the process is superior to the answer. The answer frequently is a stopping point. What’s the capital of your state? When you have the answer, you are done. That is ask and answer. Not a big deal. The inquiry is what is important, so you want to learn how to ask to most directly, efficiently and powerfully direct your mind. That’s why I developed Directed Questions™. Celebrate everything!!” Rex Sikes

Positively program your mind for health, wealth, happiness, love and success! The Attitude Activator™ Is a powerful tool to move you steadily in the direction of your dreams with more ease, joy, positivity and delight. Stop negativity, unwanted habits and old programming. Activate your attitude. I’ve designed the Attitude Activator™ to help you do this right now. Make meaningful changes in your life. Take control of your mindset.

I invite you to take two powerful actions today: Get the Attitude Activator™.

Join me in the Outwitting The Devil Book Study and These programs are designed to help you achieve more than you can on your own. You’ll be proud of the progress you make!

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“You run the best book clubs, Rex! So wonderfully insightful! Total truth!” —Joy Cooper Willet, NLP Trainer, Vancouver

“Beyond grateful for you, Rex Sikes, and the transformational teachings and reminders I’ve received.” —Ava Manuel, Las Vegas

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