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Dare To Be Yourself

“Be true to yourself. Be authentic. That doesn’t mean screw everyone else. I am who I am, like it or leave it. That’s not what I am suggesting. I am inviting you to be who you were prior to all of society’s conditioning. Before caregivers, educators, politicians, religious promoters, media and marketers got you and me. Discover who you are without the facade we grew up with. Be the child you were born to be.

Let go of the conditioning that prevents you from discovering how incredible you are. How incredible we all are. Look at children how they play, laugh, love and have until they’re taught hate, hurt, and more. They are naturally curious, open and accepting. They aren’t prejudiced about anything until they get those messages and instructions from others. Become loving, accepting, compassionate, understanding, caring.

Listen. Learn. Laugh. Celebrate everyone and everything. Yes, even your hardships and people you might like. You are alive to experience everything, so stop making things more difficult by disliking, refusing, dividing, excluding. Every moment of life is worthwhile. Celebrate all of it BECAUSE you can. You are alive. Live fully and allow others to do the same. Discover openness, willingness, cooperation and collaboration.

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Discover the power that comes in unity. Unite your head and your heart. Unite the inner with the outer. Let the inner light shine and light the path. Unite with others. Like minded and not. Those who are different, have different values, opinions, gender, nationality, size, politics, and religion are gifts to help you awaken and see outside of the box. Everyone is a gift and can be our teacher if we’re willing to learn.

The question is are you open and willing to change and learn? Many are not. They are entrenched in the same conditioning. Getting out of our conditioning means being willing to become aware. It means being willing to think and act differently. It means novelty. It means not doing the same thing repeatedly while expecting results to be different. If you aren’t willing to explore being different, you won’t be.

All people, whether seekers of light or not, are valuable. It’s not up to us to decide who is or who isn’t. Obviously, you’re somewhat free to choose who to fraternize with. My point is to be willing. Be open. Be available. Be teachable. Be coachable. Be flexible. Be resilient. Be devoted to love, peace and harmony. ‘Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven’

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Matthew 18:3 AND where is the kingdom of heaven? It’s within you. ‘The kingdom of heaven is within you.’ Luke 17:21 ‘And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Transform yourself by the renewing of your mind.’ Romans 12: 2 is clear. Live in the world but don’t be of the world.

Don’t let the world, others, events or circumstances prevent you from being your true self. Rise above. Be real and raw, be authentic. If you care for yourself, others and the world you can advocate for positive choices and changes. You can be a voice for transformation. No need to fight or resist others, or change, simply advocate for the good and be the change you want to see in the world.

Talk is meaningless and cheap. Promises broken help no-one. Keep your word. Walk your talk. Always be demonstrating. Always be proving the universe and yourself as a positive, powerful, manifesting agent for good. When you do, not everyone may like it or like you. You may lose friends or followers. You may gain some. Be the light and those who can see it will come your way. Those that can’t most likely leave.

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If you aren’t bothered by resistance, nothing can bother you. You suffer nothing because you are free of it. Gaining or losing followers because you are true to yourself or remaining quiet is a choice. Being yourself no matter what or remaining as you are no matter what is a choice There are always risks. Both have risks if you think about it. Risk of saying too much and the risk of saying too little.

Some play it safe and do nothing. Others dive in and go wherever it takes them. Be yourself. Be authentically you. Walk your talk and talk your walk and you’ll attract those who value your honesty and integrity. If you are honest, self-loving and accepting you can love and accept others. If you are acting from integrity others will see it. Let your light shine. Become a positive beacon for hope and change.

Remember, ‘Oh what a tangled web we weave when at first we start to deceive,’ said Walter Scott. Be authentic. Let those who resist, resist. Become free. Release and let go. Find the peace within ‘that passes all understanding’ will keep your hearts and minds. Be a light and discover what life becomes for you. Live in peace, harmony, love, laughter, compassion, understanding and acceptance and everything transforms within and around you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Open Your Mind to New Possibilities

“You’ve heard it countless times: Keep an open mind! It sounds simple, right? But ask yourself, are you genuinely open to new ideas, or do you find yourself jumping to conclusions, locking into one ‘right answer,’ and dismissing anything that challenges your existing beliefs? If so, it might be time for a mental reset! Learn to Stop having a closed mind. Open your mind to new possibilities because the rewards are endless when you do.

A closed mind is like living in a locked room with the blinds drawn. It’s easy to shut out anything unfamiliar or uncomfortable and cling to the familiar. The signs of a closed mind are straightforward. People, or perhaps you, make snap judgments or rush to conclusions before fully understanding a concept. They don’t listen to listen. They listen to object and correct. They miss out on having higher quality relationships and communicating well.

They live from fixed options believing there is only one correct solution or perspective to any situation, often your own. They take a defensive stance by feeling that others are “wrong” if they disagree with you and refusing to consider their point of view. It’s why they don’t listen. They dismiss or reject new or different ideas without serious thought simply because they don’t fit their worldview. If you do, notice when you do.

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This is a natural human tendency, but one that we can and should work to overcome. As I often say, ‘Contempt for a new idea before examination is a sign of a closed mind.’ My more popular quote is ‘Exploration is the doorway to adventure. Curiosity is the key.’ A favorite of mine is attributed to Oliver Wendall Holmes ‘A mind stretched to a new idea, can never go back to its original dimension.’ We benefit greatly by staying open.

Living with a closed mind keeps you boxed into the same experiences, perspectives, and limitations, robbing you of the opportunity for growth. When you shut down any idea or point of view that doesn’t align with yours, you miss out on discovering innovative solutions, connecting with others on a deeper level, and, most importantly, learning and expanding. It’s like putting a cap on your own potential. A closed mind costs you plenty.

Ready to make a change? Let’s look at ways to open to new ideas and experiences. Be willing to embrace exploration. Remember, ‘Exploration is the doorway to adventure.’ Start exploring ideas you’re not initially drawn to. That doesn’t mean you have to adopt every new concept you encounter but let yourself investigate it without judgment. Read up on it, research it, or even just think about it with an open mind.

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Like a traveler setting out to explore new lands, decide to approach each idea with curiosity rather than resistance. While it can be beneficial to be surrounded by likeminded people, you don’t want all likeminded people. If they all think like you, you are limited. If you think the way they do, that might be good but that depends. What you do want is people who challenge you so you notice blind spots and things you wouldn’t.

If you always do what you always did, nothing changes. Things remain the same and if you don’t like them, that’s being stuck. To move forward you must move. Having people with different points of view, different beliefs and experiences to have in your life ONLY makes your life richer. Especially, if you can listen with an open mind and not prevent them from expressing their perspectives. LISTEN TO LEARN not to discuss or refute. Get it?

Pause before you judge. When that knee-jerk reaction to dismiss something as ‘wrong’ or ‘stupid’ pops up, catch yourself. Pause. Take a breath and let that initial reaction subside. Let it go and be different. Tell yourself, ‘I’m going to see this through before forming an opinion.’ This single pause can make all the difference. It’s a choice. Dog crap or diamonds and diverse experiences and ideas are diamonds. If you want your life to change…

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You must change things in your life. Stay curious. It’s the key to adventure. Ask yourself questions about your own judgments. ‘Where did I get this opinion? Why do I believe it so strongly? Look around and consider others’ views. Who else thinks this way, and why? When you develop the habit of asking questions, you open up pathways to understanding that weren’t there before. You can ask the other person too, just to learn from them.

Curiosity is the antidote to closed-mindedness. Close-mindedness has another name. Dickheadedness. Instead of challenging others to win your point, ask questions to learn why they hold their beliefs, values, opinions and judgements. What led them to those conclusions. By knowing how they chose to think you understand them better and can communicate in more positive ways. You can even predict how they” think and act in the future.

When we challenge our own beliefs, we free ourselves to see from new angles. Start questioning your assumptions regularly. Recognize when you’re holding onto an idea out of habit. It may be great to continue to do so. It may be that it’s useful sometimes but not others. Open up. Develop flexibility in your thinking and you’ll become far more creative and a better problem solver. Try seeing the world from the opposite perspective.

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You may not ultimately change your view, but you will stretch your mind to new possibilities. Good attorneys and debaters can speak on the other side. They can argue for the opposite position in addition to their own. When you can embrace multiple perspectives you have more choices, possibilities and opportunities. You can see what you otherwise couldn’t. You reduce your blind spots and open your ability to see new things.

Becoming aware of when you’re shutting down or closing off is the first step toward real change. Notice when you feel frustration or anger arising. Notice when you are feeling constricted, or you just must really make this person understand their folly or your brilliance. NOTICE and stop. THEN celebrate those moments of self-awareness! When you recognize a closed-minded response, see it as an opportunity to grow rather than a flaw.

Celebrate noticing to encourage future noticing. Stop criticizing yourself and others if you make a mistake and become grateful you noticed. Making mistakes is fine, it helps you move forward to learn to recognize, correct, adjust and continue. Making the same mistake is what people call stupid or futile. It means you’re not paying attention or caring enough. So, whenever you realize you goofed, be thankful you don’t have to goof again.

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Get it? I encourage people instead of living a lack-luster, half assed life, of low energy, lack of investment and no worthy returns to stop being dickheaded or stubborn and to step into their full potential. People miss out because they don’t make changes. Instead, they defend their position and give reasons why they can’t. They look for loopholes to not do things in their own best interests instead of all they reasons why they should.

If you know you should and you don’t, what does that tell you? If you could do it but don’t know what is going on? How about putting an end to those cycles and moving forward in productive and meaningful ways that delight and excite you about your life and relationships? Notice when you could be moving forward but aren’t. Celebrate that awareness and then choose to move forward. Knowing but not doing, is not really knowing.

Act in your own best interests.

So, I ask you, isn’t it time to break free from the limitations of a closed mind? In my programs, you’ll learn how to cultivate curiosity, challenge your perspectives, and create a mindset that’s not only open but also endlessly expansive. Imagine a life where every new idea feels like a chance to grow, where you’re not held back by rigid beliefs but are free to create, connect, and live with purpose. Join my program today to transform your thinking.

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You’ll expand your horizons and unlock the power of an open mind. Together, we’ll explore practices and principles to help you recognize and overcome closed-mindedness, build habits that open your mind to success, and create a more joyful, fulfilling life. This is your chance. Don’t let it pass by! Open your mind, embrace new possibilities, and step into the life you’re capable of creating. Make today the day you begin your transformation. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Life Gets So Much Better When You Do This

“Be mindful in listening. Much like meditation, focus intently on the present moment, without allowing thoughts to pull you in other directions. Let your mind be fully engaged with the speaker, resisting the urge to check out, plan your response, or judge. Meditation helps with this by training the mind to observe without attaching. When you meditate, you practice watching thoughts pass without judgment and you build mental flexibility.

You learn to steer back to the present moment instead of drifting away or get caught up in something else. You return. Eventually, you train or condition yourself and develop the habit to remain focused in the present. This translates into your listening, allowing you to witness and absorb without needing to control the conversation.

You don’t need to steer the conversation back to you, rather you steer yourself back to the conversation and the other person or persons. Being present, in this way, opens you to understand more deeply, while also freeing you from needing to impose your view. There are benefits to listening with an open, nonjudgemental mind. When you practice deep listening with an open mind, an incredible transformation begins.

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Not only do you create a more compassionate and connected life, but you also invite possibilities that you couldn’t see before. Here’s what you’ll find: You broaden your perspectives. By listening without judgment, you’re able to view life from a wider lens. Suddenly, more options appear, and your world expands. You learn more about things you knew nothing about that can add to your life and ability to live it well. You expand options.

You develop increased flexibility. Open listening practices loosen up rigid thinking, allowing you to see the countless solutions available, rather than circling around the same limited ideas. Hence you get better at problem-solving. When you aren’t confined to old habits of thought, your mind becomes better equipped to analyze situations creatively and arrive at innovative solutions. As a result, life becomes a more wonderful adventure.

An open mind enables you to go beyond your comfort zones. Maybe you’ll try new foods, explore new ideas, or connect with people you never imagined relating to. Life becomes richer, more flavorful, and full of excitement. It’s so wonderful when you begin to realize there is so much more that life offers you and the only reason you missed it was because you didn’t notice it because you were caught up in your thoughts or issues.

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Now, you have an opportunity to not only notice what you were missing but to partake in it. So, if you are ready to truly transform how you interact with the world around you, the time is now. Imagine developing the skills not just to hear, but to understand deeply, and to grow from every conversation. Join one of my programs today and learn how to apply these principles in every area of your life. Together, we’ll move beyond old habits, unlocking your potential to connect, create, and flourish with a fresh, open-minded approach to listening. Life is good. Life is great. Life is grand. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How to Stop Waiting to Speak and Start Listening to Learn

“Listening is an art, one of the most powerful tools you can develop for genuine understanding and growth. The act of listening, without immediately needing to reply, argue, or share your perspective, is transformational. When you learn to truly listen, you open up a space to appreciate, absorb, and explore ideas that may have otherwise slipped by unnoticed. This part of your journey is all about creating that space for yourself and others.

It’s about allowing a greater flow of understanding and genuine connection to emerge. Most of us fall into the habit of “listening to reply,” where our main focus is waiting for our turn to speak. True listening is listening without an agenda. It’s about giving the speaker the spotlight and absorbing their words with respect and curiosity. Listen first and foremost to understand, not to speak. Know first where they are coming from.

Ask yourself as you listen, “What can I learn here?” or “What are they really trying to convey? “This practice keeps you open and engaged, without feeling the need to challenge, judge, or counter. Instead of simply nodding along while crafting your response, aim to listen purely to understand. Seek to know more by asking open-ended questions, not to argue or counterpoint, but to dig deeper. Magic can happen when you do. Try these:

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“Can you explain what you mean by that?” “What does that mean to you?” “Could you tell me more?” By doing this, you encourage openness and build rapport, showing you value the other person’s experience and perspective. Reflect their words back to them in your own to ensure you’ve understood, then let them clarify if needed. I’ll share more next time. Meanwhile, begin putting this into action today. Great things can happen.

Sometimes, the most impactful thing you can do after someone finishes sharing is simply to pause, letting their words hang and showing they’ve been heard. So, take this step today. Embrace this journey, and watch your world open up! Imagine developing the skills not just to hear, but to understand deeply, and to grow from every conversation. As you do you’ll notice relationships growing stronger. You’ll connect deeper and in rewarding ways.

‘Be the change you want to see in the world.’ GO FIRST. Give to get! If you’re ready to transform how you interact with the world around you, I invite you to join one of my programs today and learn how to apply these principles in every area of your life. Together, we’ll move beyond old habits, unlocking your potential to connect, create, and flourish with a fresh, open-minded approach to listening. Everything changes when you do. Celebrate Everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Power of Accepting Others as They Are

“We all know someone who’s firmly stuck in their views, resistant to anything outside of their comfort zone. Don’t be like that person! When you open your heart to others, you encourage a similar openness in yourself. By accepting people as they are, without trying to change them, you foster a sense of freedom within yourself as well. If you’ve been hoping for someone to “come around” to your way of thinking, ask yourself this:

What’s the worst that could happen if they don’t? Can you love and accept them anyway? Practice acceptance with the people around you. You’ll find it easier to accept yourself, flaws and all. Acceptance is transformative. When you open your heart and mind to others as they are, something remarkable happens; you invite openness into your own life. It’s not just about tolerating differences; it’s about embracing and celebrating them.

People are unique for a reason, each carries their own perspectives, experiences, and beliefs. Instead of approaching others with the aim to change them, imagine the freedom that comes with releasing that burden entirely. By accepting people for who they truly are, you foster a sense of freedom within yourself as well, and this openness to others deepens your own growth. I will say this again and again in slightly different ways.

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Acceptance creates space for growth and connection. When you let go of the need to have others agree with you, you create space for genuine connection. People feel it when you respect them as they are, without judgment or an agenda. This openness invites them to share more deeply and authentically. And you might be surprised by how much you, too, grow from this practice of acceptance. Each person becomes a source of learning.

Each has a unique perspective you can consider and appreciate. Just as we hope for others to accept us, we extend that same kindness when we meet others without judgment. Accepting others IS a path to self-acceptance. The beauty of acceptance lies in how it shapes us internally. By practicing acceptance toward others, you’ll discover it’s easier to accept yourself, flaws and all.

When you no longer cling to the idea of “fixing” others, you ease up on yourself as well. You begin to see that imperfections don’t define anyone, including you. Learning to accept and love others in their entirety can be the first step toward a more compassionate, kinder self-perception. Rather than expending energy on trying to change or control people, imagine channeling that energy into understanding and growth.

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The relief is almost immediate: you no longer carry the weight of “what they should believe” or “how they should act.” Instead, you find yourself in a position to appreciate differences and move through life with more lightness and ease. This shift allows you to focus on your own growth, which ultimately makes you a more effective, understanding, and joyful person.

Diversity of thought, perspective, and belief expands your own worldview. Rather than feeling frustrated or opposed to ideas different from yours, you can view them as enriching opportunities. Learning about others’ viewpoints, without judgment, teaches us resilience, flexibility, and empathy. By allowing ourselves to learn from contrasts, we build a life that’s richer and far more interesting.

Imagine how wonderful today can be with this fresh approach. Picture a life filled with freedom, openness, and genuine joy! If you’re ready to experience deeper connections, more energy, and the peace that comes from having an open mind, take the first step by joining one of my transformative programs. You’ll learn powerful practices to cultivate a flexible, growth-oriented mindset, and with each day, you’ll feel yourself transforming in ways you never thought possible. Take control of your change, start today, and watch your world transform! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Go Where the Fish Are Biting: Success Comes to Those Who Adapt

“If you want to be successful in business, or in life, there’s one rule that holds true: Go where the fish are biting. You need to be where the opportunities are, where people are hungry for what you offer. If they’re not taking the bait, it’s time to switch your approach and find out what they want. This is the key to not just surviving but thriving in any market. The marketplace is constantly evolving, and those who adapt will rise above the rest.

You’ve probably heard that success is about offering value. Well, value is relative, and it’s determined by the desires and needs of your audience at any given moment. So, you need to get into their heads and hearts. What’s keeping them up at night? What problems are they desperate to solve? The answer to that will guide you to where the fish are biting. Understand the market AND your market and be flexible. This is a must!

You must be flexible enough to adjust to changing circumstances. Too often, people stick to what worked in the past, expecting the same results in a new situation. But the world doesn’t stay static. Market trends shift. Buyer behaviors evolve. Needs change. If you’re not paying attention to these signals, you’ll miss out. Take a lesson from the greats. Companies that dominate their industries don’t just sit back and watch. They are proactive.

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They actively look for new trends, analyze data, listen to their customers, and adapt to meet their changing desires. Amazon didn’t become a giant by sticking to just selling books online. They saw the future of e-commerce and adapted. Tesla disrupted the auto industry by not just selling cars but creating a movement toward sustainable energy. Be a leader in your field by discovering what you can do to improve the field.

If your bait isn’t working, change the bait. The key is to listen to your audience. Ask them what they want and need. Conduct surveys, pay attention to feedback, engage with them on social media—do whatever it takes to understand what is driving them. Once you know, you can tailor your product, service, or approach to meet those needs. It’s easy to get caught in a rut, doing the same things over and over because they worked in the past.

But, if you keep doing the same thing and the fish stop biting, you’ll starve. You have to be willing to shake things up and make changes as the world around you evolves. You must be able to adjust and continue. Don’t get stuck. Keep moving forward. Look at Blockbuster vs. Netflix. Blockbuster had the market locked down, but they got stuck in their ways. When the fish started biting somewhere else, streaming, they didn’t follow.

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Netflix, on the other hand, kept an eye on where the market was heading, pivoted, and now they’re the ones dominating. Blockbuster? Gone. I’ve done the same thing. When the internet began, I wasn’t interested. I preferred the contact of real humans and seminar rooms. Marketing was direct mail. I adapted to email marketing but had no desire to jump on board the internet when my colleagues did. I learned this lesson from experience.

Here’s the takeaway: Don’t get locked into one place or one strategy. Adapt. The more you adjust to the changing tides, the more resilient and successful you’ll be. Your value isn’t just in what you offer today but in how you respond to the future. Seek opportunities! Fish where the fish are biting. If you want to succeed, find out where the real demand is. Be like a fisherman who moves to the part of the lake where fish are jumping.

Go. Move. You need to be where the action is. If your current method or location isn’t yielding results, move. Seek out new opportunities. Look for untapped markets or underserved communities. The best part? New opportunities are always out there, but you must look for them. Keep your ears open, stay flexible, and move quickly when you spot a chance. Don’t be afraid to take risks, but make sure they’re calculated.

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Be the one who goes to where the fish are biting, not the one standing on the dock wondering why they’re not catching anything. Act and you reap rewards. Continuing to use bait the fish aren’t eating won’t help you. If you do nothing, nothing changes. If you do the same old things repeatedly expecting different results, you’ll just end up disappointed. Don’t just think about these strategies. Act on them! The marketplace rewards those who do.

Prove your value by being proactive, adaptable, and deeply tuned into your audience’s needs. If you take the time to find out where the fish are biting and what bait they want, you’ll find that you’re reeling in more success than ever before. It’s time to make things happen. The fish are out there. Are you ready to go to them? Give them what they desire and then even more of that. Add value. Seek to serve. Go beyond and you’ll find fish.

Take this moment right now and decide to be flexible. Decide to look for opportunities, to adapt to changes, and to go where the fish are biting. Start by evaluating your current strategies. Are they working? If not, it’s time to shift gears. Discover what your audience wants and provide it. Be the person who’s always ahead of the curve, not stuck behind it. I got stuck behind it and learned lessons the hard way. You don’t have to. GO FIRST! Act.

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Don’t wait for success to come to you. Go out and catch it. Keep adjusting. Keep evolving! Stay connected and alert to what’s happening around you. Know the market and you’ll discover you can accomplish more than you ever thought possible. So, check your bait. Do you have the right bait for those fish? If not, change, adapt, and get it. If you’ve got it. Put it out there. Understand me? Get out there and fish. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Whether you’re stuck in a rut or reaching for that next level of greatness, this course will take you there.

What Will You Learn?

In this course, you will go beyond ordinary knowledge. You will master the Theta State—the key to accessing genius-level insights. This is where Einstein solved his most complex problems and where Tesladreamed up his revolutionary inventions.

Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll unlock:

Enhanced Creativity:
Imagine unlocking your brain’s limitless creativity! Whether you’re solving problems in your business, creating art, or brainstorming the next big idea, you will think like a genius. Picture this: The next time you’re faced with a challenge, instead of feeling blocked, you’ll feel excited, ready to tackle it with new creative tools.
Improved Intuition:
Ever had that gut feeling but didn’t follow it? This program will sharpen your intuition so you can make decisions with confidence. Just like Einstein trusted his instincts, you will learn to trust and act on yours.
Master Problem-Solving Abilities:
Life is full of obstacles but imagine having the mental toolkit to solve any problemeffortlessly. Whether it’s a personal challenge, a work dilemma, or something unexpected, you will see solutions where others see only issues.
Stress Reduction and Mental Clarity:
With our meditation and visualization techniques, you’ll step into a state of calm and clarity. Imagine starting your day with a clear mind and ending it without feeling drained.
Increased Self-Awareness:
True genius isn’t just about solving problems; it’s about understanding yourself. With greater self-awareness, you’ll improve your relationships, make better life choices, and understand the strengths that make you, you.
Optimized Learning & Memory Retention:
Are you a student or professional wanting to retain more of what you learn? The Theta Stateis where your brain thrives. You’ll not only absorb knowledge faster but also retain it longer, giving you a competitive edge.
A Positive, Unstoppable Mindset:
What you believe, you achieve. Rex Sikes will teach you the art of positive affirmations to rewire your brain for success. Imagine walking into any situation with unshakable confidence, knowing you’re equipped for whatever life throws your way.

Real Life Application—Create Your Best Life Now!

This course isn’t just theory—it’s about real transformation. Imagine applying these techniques to your daily life:

You’re in a meeting, and while everyone is stumped by a problem, you calmly offer the solution no one else could see.
You wake up each morning feeling calm, focused, and driven, even in the face of challenges.
Your creative projects, once stagnant, are now overflowing with new ideas, new energy, and new results.

This is your one-of-a-kind opportunity to bring your dreams to life. Whether it’s improving your career, deepening your relationships, or mastering your mindset, this course will guide you.

Why Rex Sikes’ Program?

Rex Sikes has been transforming lives for over 40 years. He’s helped thousands of students, entrepreneurs, and creatives just like you step into their full potential. His unique approach combines science, mindset, and practical strategies to fast-track your success.

This isn’t another course that just gives you information. It’s a journey that rewires how you think, create, and live.

Why Wait? The Clock Is Ticking…

You’ve read the books, taken other courses, and watched endless videos—but have they worked? If you’re still feeling stuck, it’s time to try something different. Einstein said it best: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”

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Want To Connect And Inspire Others?

“I’ve been immersed in studying persuasion and influence for over 40 years, and here’s what I’ve learned: People respond best when they know you genuinely care about them. Nothing beats authentic compassion. You want to make a lasting impact? Then be the first to care. When you truly show people you’re interested in what matters to them, you’re opening the doors to real, meaningful influence. Set the tone yourself. Demonstrate your care.

Want to connect and inspire others? Don’t wait for someone else to make the first move. Be an example. Help them, serve them, and they will come to you willingly. Stop focusing on selling your ideas, services, or products. Instead, focus on helping them solve their problems and reach their goals. When they see you’re invested in their success, they’ll be more open to what you offer. Remember, people don’t want to be sold; they want to buy.

They’ll choose to follow you when they see you’re authentic and aligned with what you stand for. Walk your talk. Leadership and influence come down to this: If you want to lead, care deeply, without expecting anything in return. When people realize you have their best interests at heart, they will follow you more easily and with greater trust. Serve them selflessly, and they will naturally care about you in return.

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Influence isn’t about manipulating or convincing, it’s about caring enough to make a difference in someone else’s life. You can test this in your own life. Try it with your kids. Don’t just tell them what to do, love them, accept them as they are, and they’ll be far more likely to listen to you. Influence is built on knowing, liking, and trusting. If people aren’t saying “yes,” it’s because one of those elements is missing.

Here’s the truth: Winning people over doesn’t mean controlling them. It means demonstrating that you understand, care, and support them, without strings attached. Don’t tell people what’s good for them; show them by being a living example. Walk alongside them. Help them achieve their goals without needing them to do it your way, and they’ll be much more willing to accept what you propose.

In all these years what I’ve learned and have shared is the relationship matters more than the close. Long term matters more than short term. Get this and you’ll discover the incredible difference it makes for you AND for them. If you’re serious about making a positive impact in this world, then start by making a positive impact in the lives of others. Lift them up, encourage them, and celebrate their successes.

When you lead with love, authenticity, and understanding, people will gravitate toward you. Now, act. Be the person who makes a difference. Commit to caring first and you’ll start seeing amazing results. People respond to authenticity. Focus on relationship building by what I’ve just shared, and your life will change through helping others change their lives for the better. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution.”
— Albert Einstein

What if you could step into the minds of the greatest geniuses who ever lived?

This isn’t just a dream—this is your reality waiting to happen.

The Journey to Your Genius Starts Here:

This program is one-of-a-kind. There’s nothing else like it because it’s designed to not just teach you but to transform you—mind, body, and soul.

Who Is This For?

This isn’t for the faint-hearted. It’s for the visionaries, the doers, the curious. If you’ve ever wanted to:

Enhance your creativity, intuition, and problem-solving skills, whether you’re a business owner, student, or artist…
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Whether you’re stuck in a rut or reaching for that next level of greatness, this course will take you there.

What Will You Learn?

Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll unlock:

Enhanced Creativity:
Imagine unlocking your brain’s limitless creativity! Whether you’re solving problems in your business, creating art, or brainstorming the next big idea, you will think like a genius. Picture this: The next time you’re faced with a challenge, instead of feeling blocked, you’ll feel excited, ready to tackle it with new creative tools.
Improved Intuition:
Ever had that gut feeling but didn’t follow it? This program will sharpen your intuition so you can make decisions with confidence. Just like Einstein trusted his instincts, you will learn to trust and act on yours.
Master Problem-Solving Abilities:
Life is full of obstacles but imagine having the mental toolkit to solve any problem effortlessly. Whether it’s a personal challenge, a work dilemma, or something unexpected, you will see solutions where others see only issues.
Stress Reduction and Mental Clarity:
With our meditation and visualization techniques, you’ll step into a state of calm and clarity. Imagine starting your day with a clear mind and ending it without feeling drained.
Increased Self-Awareness:
True genius isn’t just about solving problems; it’s about understanding yourself. With greater self-awareness, you’ll improve your relationships, make better life choices, and understand the strengths that make you, you.
Optimized Learning & Memory Retention:
Are you a student or professional wanting to retain more of what you learn? The Theta State is where your brain thrives. You’ll not only absorb knowledge faster but also retain it longer, giving you a competitive edge.
A Positive, Unstoppable Mindset:
What you believe, you achieve. Rex Sikes will teach you the art of positive affirmations to rewire your brain for success. Imagine walking into any situation with unshakable confidence, knowing you’re equipped for whatever life throws your way.

AND MORE1

Real Life Application—Create Your Best Life Now!

This course isn’t just theory—it’s about real transformation. Imagine applying these techniques to your daily life:

You’re in a meeting, and while everyone is stumped by a problem, you calmly offer the solution no one else could see.
You wake up each morning feeling calm, focused, and driven, even in the face of challenges.
Your creative projects, once stagnant, are now overflowing with new ideas, new energy, and new results.

This is your one-of-a-kind opportunity to bring your dreams to life. Whether it’s improving your career, deepening your relationships, or mastering your mindset, this course will guide you.

Why Rex Sikes’ Program?

This isn’t another course that just gives you information. It’s a journey that rewires how you think, create, and live.

Why Wait? The Clock Is Ticking…

For a limited time, the course is available for just $497!

How Soon Can You Start?

Act Now!

Don’t spend another day feeling stuck, wishing for more, or wondering why others seem to have it figured out while you’re still trying. You deserve this transformation.

Click the link below and take the first step toward unleashing your full potential. Time is limited, so secure your spot now for just $497 before the price goes up.

Your genius awaits.

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How To Steps: Be the Tortoise And Win Your Race

“I’ve been sharing with you the necessity to eliminate overwhelm and distractions to focus on what you want. In this fast-paced world, it’s easy to feel pressure to achieve instant success. But as the classic fable teaches us, the tortoise, slow and steady, won the race. Adopt this mindset for your own journey. It can lead to lasting success. Here’s how you can embrace the tortoise’s approach and commit to successful long-term achievements.

Set A Clear Long-Term Goal: Know Your Purpose

The first step to embodying the tortoise is knowing exactly what you’re working toward. Clarity matters. Whether it’s financial independence, career advancement, or personal growth, a clear vision helps you stay focused. Define your ultimate goal. Think big. Understand it may take time. The tortoise never wavered because it had a clear path in mind. Know what you’re working toward. Have a clear vision of where you want to go then step by step.

Action: Write down your goals and visualize the result. This will serve as a compass to guide your daily efforts.

Break It Down into Small, Manageable Steps

A large goal can seem intimidating if viewed as a whole. The tortoise didn’t win by focusing on the entire race but by taking one step at a time. Similarly, break your goals into smaller, actionable tasks. Complete these daily or weekly and you’ll build momentum over time. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by the big picture, break your goals down into smaller tasks. Focus on making steady progress every day, just as the tortoise took one step at a time.

Action: Take your big goal and divide it into smaller milestones. Focus on achieving these incremental wins instead of worrying about the destination. Make sure you win along the way by following through on each.

Eliminate Distractions

Distractions can easily throw you off course. It was the hare’s overconfidence and lack of focus that led to his downfall. Identify what is stealing your attention, whether it’s social media, procrastination, or negative influences, and minimize or eliminate them. Identify the distractions in your life, whether they’re bad habits, time-wasting activities, or negative influences, and take steps to reduce or eliminate them.

THEN focus on what you want to accomplish letting nothing prevent you. Get this. You say no to what you don’t want. You don’t fight it, you release it. You let go of the distractions and things that prevent you from moving ahead and you put your focus on the daily steps you can take, and you take them. Bite by bite you eat the elephant. Focus on what you want, not what you don’t want. Simplify. Bite sized bits make winning easy.

Action: Create a distraction-free environment by setting boundaries with your time and energy. This could mean scheduling specific times for focused work or limiting non-essential activities. Get this. Don’t fight the distractions. Set yourself up to win by setting up a distraction free environment and limiting non-essential activities!

4. Focus On Consistency, Not Speed

One of the biggest mistakes people make is trying to rush the process. Your success will come from persistence, not speed, just like the tortoise. Consistency in effort, even when progress feels slow, is key to long-term success. Stop worrying about how fast you’re moving. Stop seeking short-cuts and hacks. Success is about staying on course, even when progress seems slow. Trust that consistency will get you there in the long run.

Action: Develop routines that support steady progress. Set aside time each day for tasks that move you closer to your goals, and don’t worry about how fast you’re moving. You’ll be a better you in the long-term. Grow yourself.

Stay Committed to The Fulfillment Of The Goal

Challenges will arise, and distractions will tempt you to stray from your path. However, like the tortoise, dedicate yourself. Unwavering commitment to your goal is crucial. Remind yourself why you started. Keep your eyes on the finish line, your purpose or ‘big why’ no matter what obstacles come your way. No matter what challenges come your way, stay focused on the finish line. Don’t let short-term obstacles throw you off track.

Action: When faced with setbacks, pause and reaffirm your commitment to your goal. Understand that hurdles are part of the journey, not reasons to give up.

Become A Better Person Because Of Your Journey

Set your long-term goals. Break them down into smaller steps. Stay committed and trust the process. Keep moving forward, and success will be yours! Remember, it is who you become along the way that is most important. Like a fine wine, you improve with age. YOU improve with experience. If you seek shortcuts, you rob yourself of the wisdom that comes from experience and opportunity.

There’s no substitute for experience. While on your path to success remember to live, love and laugh while learning. An important point which may seem contradictory but isn’t is this verse Mark 8:36 ‘For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?’ Don’t sacrifice your relationships for money and things. Don’t get to the end of your life with regret. Live well. Love others and be loved all along the way.

Action: How you journey to success is important so keep that in mind. Become more understanding, tolerant and compassionate. Be willing to be wrong. Adjust and continue. Remember to live a life worth living.

Slow And Stead Wins The Race

The lesson of the tortoise and the hare is clear: speed and shortcuts may seem appealing, but lasting success comes from consistent effort and focus! Take control of your time, energy, and attention, just like the tortoise, and you can achieve your goals, no matter how long it takes. Be the tortoise. Stay committed, stay focused, and keep moving forward, one step at a time. The race is yours to win – slow and steady.

Decide today to eliminate distractions, set clear goals, and step forward. Start now—commit to the long-term journey. Lasting success isn’t achieved through shortcuts or bursts of speed, but through steady, consistent effort. By setting clear goals, eliminating distractions, and focusing on progress, you can ensure that you will eventually cross the finish line victorious. It isn’t a sprint. It’s a marathon. Start Today! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“His deep and nuanced understanding of how the mind processes information and how real transformation is accomplished is beyond words. I was privileged to invest 10 hours a day for three weeks with him over 25 years ago. That information has infused the next few decades of decision-making and career success. He is a total gem in the world of teachers and trainers. My internal dialogue, my ability to manage my states, and my ability to train and coach students were forever improved. – Bart Baggett, Speaker, Author, Forensic Document Examiner, L.A. CA

“Rex is an incredible coach, author, speaker, and world-renowned. I use his book weekly and highly recommend it. If you are looking for a master coach and NLP top-notch instructor, Rex is your guy.” —Kamal el-Rassi, MBA, CEO El-Rassi Enterprise, Cincinnati, OH

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“What truly sets Rex apart is his unrivaled knowledge on personal development. He possesses a wealth of insights and strategies that will blow you away. Rex’s teaching style is powerful, effective, and unique. He has a remarkable ability to simplify complex concepts, making them easy to understand and, most importantly, actionable. Spending time with Rex is an investment well worth making. Not only will you gain invaluable wisdom and guidance, but you’ll also witness the profound impact it has on your life. Rex’s teachings have the potential to transform your mindset, unlock your potential, and propel you towards unparalleled success.” Rita Montalto, CEO 4 Pillars of Wealth, AU

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Simplify and Reclaim Your Focus

“Do you find yourself sitting at home watching television, scrolling on your phone, while munching on a snack and playing a game on your computer, all at the same time? Maybe you’re the type to text while walking or even attempt to juggle work while chatting on social media? Guess what? You’re not alone. We’ve all been there! Multitasking has become a badge of honor in today’s fast-paced world.

Many of us believe that doing more than one thing at a time makes us more productive. However, the reality is quite the opposite. Research shows that multitasking can increase stress, reduce mental clarity, and harm both our physical and emotional well-being. Too much is just too much. When we try to juggle multiple activities at once, we tend to do none of them well. We communicate poorly, make mistakes, and often feel overwhelmed.

Busyness gives the illusion of productivity, but often, we’re just running on a treadmill, not truly getting anywhere. Instead, we are far more effective, and feel more fulfilled, when we give our full attention to one task, finishing it before moving on to the next. There’s a lesson to be learned from Zen practices and meditation: the power of singular focus. Are you truly present? Most likely not if distracted. So, simplify and reclaim your focus

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Zen encourages us to be fully present with what we’re doing, to concentrate on the moment, and to connect deeply with whatever task is at hand. This concept of “becoming one with the task” is liberating because it frees us from distractions and the mental clutter that weighs us down. By learning to control the “monkey mind” that jumps from thought to thought, from one task to another, we can truly experience life in the moment.

It’s a lesson most of us need to internalize in today’s hectic world: Slow down. Not only will you be more productive, but you’ll also find yourself feeling calmer and more centered. You don’t need to become a Zen master or meditate for hours each day to reap the benefits of singularity. The practice can be as simple as doing fewer things at once. For example, when you eat, just eat. Savor your food. Chew slowly and focus on each bite.

Don’t check your phone, don’t watch TV, don’t try to work while eating. Simply be present with your meal and appreciate the nourishment it provides. Sure, we often socialize over meals, and there’s great value in that. But when you’re alone, whether at home, on a park bench, or in a quiet restaurant, give yourself the gift of fully immersing in the experience of eating. You may find that food tastes better. Your digestion improves.

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You leave the table feeling more satisfied. The same principle applies to everything else in life. When you’re driving, just drive. Don’t eat, don’t text, and don’t apply makeup. Focus on the road and what’s around you. Not only will you be a safer driver, but you’ll also experience a greater sense of calm and control over your surroundings. Simplify to enhance your happiness. You might not meditate, but you should slow down!

When you walk, focus on the act of walking. Notice how your body feels as your feet touch the ground. Pay attention to your surroundings—nature, the city streets, the people passing by. Be fully engaged in the simple joy of moving through the world. Turn off your phone, step away from distractions, and allow yourself to be truly present in real-time, without feeling the urge to snap a photo or post about it online.

Practice being in the moment. Watch how it enhances your awareness and appreciation of life. When you disconnect from constant distractions and reconnect with the present, you will naturally feel happier and more at peace. Take a bath and just be in the bath. Feel the water on your skin. Sip your evening drink, whether it’s a glass of wine or a cup of tea and savor every sip. Let go of the need to do anything else at that moment.

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Enjoy the act of relaxation for what it is. Close your eyes and listen to music—not as background noise, but as the sole focus of your attention. Let yourself be absorbed in the sound and notice how different it feels to fully experience it. When you read, just read. Avoid the background hum of television or the constant ping of notifications. Allow yourself to be fully engrossed in the words and the story. One thing at a time. It’s simpler.

It’s healthier. In today’s hyper-connected world, it might not be practical to live like this all the time. However, you can choose moments—whether big or small—throughout your day to simplify. The more you practice doing one thing at a time, the easier it becomes to make those moments count. Over time, you’ll start to crave these focused experiences, because they’ll leave you feeling lighter, clearer, and more grounded.

When you simplify, you’ll notice your mind feels sharper, your body feels more relaxed, and your emotional well-being improves. You’ll experience clarity of thought and peace of mind that is often missing in a life filled with multitasking. Even better, you’ll be more present in your relationships, leading to richer, more rewarding connections with the people you care about. Be present with others and be present with yourself.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

When you’re with your partner, your children, or your friends, be with them fully. Give them your undivided attention. In today’s world of constant distractions, the simple act of truly being present with someone is a rare gift—both for you and for them. By limiting distractions, you’re showing the people around you that they are valued, that their presence is enough. You’ll communicate more effectively. You’ll strengthen your relationships.

You’ll cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections. The same applies to being present with yourself. The more you practice focusing on one task, one moment, one experience, the more you’ll develop a deeper connection with who you are and how you feel. You’ll start to trust your inner voice more, listen to your body’s signals, and honor the quiet moments that help you recharge. Just simplify. Reconnect with the moment. Become present.

Make time for yourself today. Start small by picking one activity and focusing on it fully. Whether it’s enjoying a meal, going for a walk, or simply listening to music, commit to doing just one thing at a time. Allow yourself to slow down and savor the experience. The more you practice this, the more you’ll see the benefits. When you eat, just eat.Focus on every bite. When you walk, just walk. Take in the beauty of your surroundings.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

When you’re with others, be fully present. Listen deeply, engage fully. When you relax, just relax. Enjoy the sensation of rest and peace. By making these simple but powerful shifts in your life, you’ll find more joy, peace, and clarity in everything you do. So, make today the day you start practicing singular focus. Keep it simple and see how your world transforms. Enjoy this moment, it’s all you truly have. Make the choice to slow down and embrace life, one moment at a time! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

Want to positively program your mind for health, wealth, happiness, love and success? The Attitude Activator™ Is a powerful tool to move you steadily in the direction of your dreams with more ease, joy, positivity and delight. Stop negativity, unwanted habits and old programming. Activate your attitude. I’ve designed the Attitude Activator™ to help you do this right now. Make meaningful changes in your life. Take control of your mindset.

I invite you to take two powerful actions today: Get the Attitude Activator™.

And also join me in the Outwitting The Devil Book Study and These programs are designed to help you achieve more than you can on your own. You’ll be proud of the progress you make!

Get and Start Using the Attitude Activator™ Today!

What People Are Saying:

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What People Are Saying:

“Rex, you speak the truth. So few will, but you speak the truth.” —Satish Verma, CEO Think and Grow Rich Institute, Toronto

“You run the best book clubs, Rex! So wonderfully insightful! Total truth!” —Joy Cooper Willet, NLP Trainer, Vancouver

“Beyond grateful for you, Rex Sikes, and the transformational teachings and reminders I’ve received.” —Ava Manuel, Las Vegas

Transform your life with the tools and insights you need to succeed. Don’t miss this opportunity to take charge and live your best life!

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What You Feed On Matters

“You’d never think to put the wrong fuel in your car, right? So why do we often treat ourselves worse than our cars, boats, or planes? What we put into our bodies and minds is crucial to our success, health, and happiness. Just like your car needs the right fuel, you need to feed yourself the right thoughts, emotions, and habits to live a fulfilled life. The food you eat either nourishes and strengthens you, or it doesn’t.

The same applies to your mental, emotional, and spiritual health. When you feed your body and mind properly, you think better, feel better, and perform better. But if you fill yourself with junk, whether unhealthy food or negative thoughts, don’t be surprised when you feel stuck or frustrated. What you feed yourself matters! Your life reflects what you focus on most.

If you’re not where you want to be, it’s likely because you’re feeding your mind with the wrong fuel. You can’t become wealthy while constantly thinking about scarcity, and you won’t find happiness if your mind is preoccupied with worry. Want an extraordinary life? Then it’s time to focus on what nourishes your mind and spirit. What you focus on grows! Here’s what you need to do to transform your life:

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Spend time daily consuming positive material. It’s not about how much you read, but the quality and consistency. Read a few pages of something uplifting or inspiring. If you think you don’t have time, at least read a page or two each day. Feed your mind positively every single day. Listen or read inspirational, positive speakers. While driving, exercising, or cooking, fill your mind with audio programs from thought leaders who inspire you.

Use your time wisely and immerse yourself in positive messages that uplift you. Listen and read from those who can encourage you. Surround yourself with positive people who make things happen. Who you spend time with matters. Surround yourself with people who lift you up, challenge you, and move you forward. Cut down on interactions with negative influences, whether that’s media or people who complain, gossip, or pull you down.

Take a moment and evaluate your life. Get choosy. Evaluate your choices. Who do you listen to? What do you read? Not everyone who may be inspirational is worth paying attention to. Know the source and the value they offer. Just because they’re popular doesn’t mean they are right or good. It may just mean they’re great at marketing. Not all products do what they claim. If you’re gonna follow, follow someone worth it.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Are you building positive relationships, improving your health, and growing your wealth? Or are you filling your time with distractions, negativity, and excuses? You become what you think about and do repeatedly, so ask yourself: are your habits bringing you closer to success or further away? Success doesn’t just happen. It’s conditioned through repetition and intentional action. I repeat, success is conditioned. Train yourself to win.

Just as animals are trained through positive reinforcement, you can train yourself for success by focusing on what you want and ignoring what you don’t. Stop reinforcing negative habits. Instead, reward the behaviors that bring you closer to your goals. Break free from negative patterns of thought and action. Successful people avoid getting caught up in negativity. They focus on solutions, not problems.

They know that what you focus on expands, and that means intentionally thinking about what you want, not what you fear or doubt. You have the power to condition your mind for success. Focus on what you want to create, what you want to be, do, and have. Stop dwelling on the negative. The more you focus on positive thoughts and outcomes, the more they will manifest in your life. Practice positive, intentional thinking!

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Fill your mind, heart, and spirit with things that uplift you, positive friends, inspiring content, and good habits. The more time you spend in this nourishing environment, the more you’ll thrive. Celebrate every moment and be grateful for what you have and where you’re headed. Surround yourself with positive, upbeat, optimistic people who walk their talk, and walk their walk with integrity. You become most like those you hang around most.

Act now and transform your life! Your life is a result of your habits, thoughts, and actions. If you want to live an extraordinary life, you must take control of what you feed your mind and body every single day. Begin by choosing positivity, gratitude, and inspiration. Smile often, express joy, and surround yourself with uplifting people and practices. Don’t wait. Start today! Your transformation begins the moment you decide to fuel yourself with the right thoughts, actions, and people. You have the power to make your life incredible, begin now! Become thrilled with today. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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