“What helps get you through difficult times? What are you to do when things don’t go the way you hope? What do you do when it downright sucks and circumstances turn for the worse? Is there anything that can make it better or easier? Yes, there is something that can help you through any difficulty at any time but whether you rely on it, do it or can access it makes the difference. Attitude makes and is the difference.

Attitude makes a major difference. Attitude sets the framework for how we encounter and navigate difficult times. It is easy to say, of course, and I do not mean to be flippant about this for people who experience difficult times, loss of loved ones, or any problem or issue that is of concern. Attitude is the ability to paint with a broad brush all things as potentially good or potentially not so good. So, what is attitude?

A colleague said, ‘Disappointment requires adequate planning.’ To be disappointed means you don’t like or accept the outcomes you get. When results differ from what you hoped you’d get many people get upset, frustrated or worse. When things don’t work out take it as much needed feedback. Something you were thinking or doing needed to be changed to get the results you intended. It’s a moment for learning if you are teachable.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

If you understand this then many wonderful things are possible. Instead of getting upset, realize you have a wonderful opportunity. Things will unfold differently. It’s an adventure. There are other opportunities ahead and it can be marvelous. If you say, wait, I can’t do that. Or BS that is the difficulty. If you can’t imagine celebrating when things don’t work out or go wrong, the limitation is in you. You’ll continue to suffer each time in the future.

If you understand you’ve an opportunity to transform yourself and circumstances by developing a better, more resilient, optimistic attitude then everything can change for the better. It’s a matter of what you believe and what you accept as possible or true for yourself. It has everything to do with your focus and what you tell yourself. Change your beliefs and what you say to yourself, and you change. When you do, everything can.

For longer than this blog has been around, for many years, I have been stating and sharing on the power of focus. I’ve dedicated myself to make this work for me and countless others I’ve worked with or trained through the years. I’ve managed to install in me an ability that works much better now than it had at times in the past by dedicating myself to make it a habit. I speak from my experience and from decades of working with others.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

The principle is you become and get what you focus on. This has had such a great impact on me and others, before me and since that I’ve felt compelled to share and discuss it for around 50 years. If your attitude sucks, most everything sucks. If your attitude is marvelous, most everything is marvelous. When it isn’t, you navigate it better than you do with a lousy attitude. Everything changes when you change. You ought to understand this.

If you don’t it is because you believe you are dominated by others, events and circumstances instead of having the power to choose how to respond. If you can only react as you always have, you don’t have any choice. That means you are an automaton. A robot. You can only do what you have always only done. Some people live like that. I prefer to exercise choice and help others to discover the immense power we have within us. We truly do.

However, you and I must claim it. You must find it. To find it you must seek it AND you must be willing to change.  Most people want change but fear it. They fear change but want it. Unless you are willing to make the changes, nothing changes. To be different you must think differently. You must, ‘transform yourself by the renewing of the mind.’ Yes, I say this and write about this again and again. Why? Because one day the right person gets it.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

I share an easier, quicker way to make these changes than most others do. You don’t have to suffer to transform yourself. You can and you might, but there are easier and less painful ways. I show you what to avoid and what not to do because that’s as important as what to do. Self-improvement is really a wrong term. Instead of thinking we add things in. We remove things, we release and let go of the things that hold us back. That frees us.

However, you don’t want to focus on the things that hold you back from doing that. You don’t need to. There are more beneficial, rewarding and fruitful ways. If you can’t celebrate when things change and the apple cart gets upset that is one of the first things to learn to do. If you consider something a problem, it all be a problem. If you consider something a blessing it will be a blessing. It’s all in how you think about it. That’s why I keep telling you to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“The most powerful mindset and attitude tool I’ve ever experienced. Words can’t describe how unique and how life-changing this program is. It rewires your brain to focus on the attitude that can best serve you. In the first year of owning it, I think I listened to it over 100 times. I’m recommending it to anyone who wants an unstoppable attitude of success.” –Joe Soto,Marketing Consultant, Entrepreneur, Waterford, VA

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