“The one thing you absolutely can take control of IS your thinking. It is sadly funny that some people won’t think they can. For me, this demonstrates, what you think is what you get. If you do not think you are able, it is apparent you won’t. You’re the determining factor.
Continued from Part 1
Others may think it is possible. They may think that they can take charge of their thinking. As a result, their results will differ from one who thinks it’s not possible. You do get this, right? If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are correct either way. Get it?
A useful way to think about it is ‘I may not be able to control my thinking, yet. I may not be able to take charge of my thoughts, yet, but what if I could? How might my life be different, better and enjoyable if I were to start thinking differently?’ Hmmmmmm
Change Your Thoughts And You Transform Your Life
‘If I were to think more positively each and every day, each and every moment, how quickly could I begin to experience my life getting better? What if instead of ‘I can’t’, I began to imagine that ‘I can’ think in a powerful new way?
What if I began to think about all the ‘things I can do, that I have learned to do in my life? ‘How many different abilities might I discover from my past that I could really begin to appreciate?’ What if you stopped and truly considered these questions. What if?
‘I wonder how much more incredible my life could become if, for at least 3 months I made it a point to think positive and find things to be grateful for?’ Sometimes, we need to grease the wheel. ‘I can’t’ in English actually means I can – not. I am able to not do something.
Change Your Thoughts And You Transform Your Life
I am able to not do – whatever follows the word can’t. I am able to not think positively. Another way to think about this is that what this person is stating is in fact, ‘I am fully capable to not engage in the activity of thinking positive thoughts.’
It’s sadly interesting that anyone would limit oneself in such ways. It doesn’t mean what we want to do is impossible. only that we are able or successful in not attempting to do it. We are able to prevent ourselves from making something happen or doing something.
To be capable of something means you have control over it or aspects of it. If you are capable of feeding yourself or dressing yourself, or driving your car it means you have learned it, got good enough to do it, and now you decide whether to do it or not.
Change Your Thoughts And You Transform Your Life
Continued next time. Think of all the things you are capable of. Yes, you are capable of limiting yourself. We all are. We stop ourselves from a whole lot of good and a whole lot of loving. You are also capable of so many good things. Useful things. Mundane things.
Necessary things, Silly things. Wonderful things. Consider all you have learned. Consider all the good you have done for yourself and for others. For the simplest to the most complex. From the easiest to the most difficult. Remember, you have accomplished these. Think of all you learned you can do. Remember, now. Celebrate these. Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes
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