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Stop Giving Away Your Power: Start Owning It Now

“Take stock of your life for just a moment. How many decisions have you made today? Not just the big ones but the little ones too. Did you choose coffee or tea? Hot or iced? Did you decide to check your phone first thing, or did you wait? Did you choose to smile, or did you let a frown slip by unnoticed? Each and every choice you make, no matter how small, adds up to the life you’re living right now. Most people never stop to notice.

They drift, they react, they operate on autopilot and then wonder why nothing changes. They miss this important truth. Every single decision matters. Every single choice is a point of power! When you overlook them, you overlook your ability to create. BUT when you start paying attention, when you begin to notice and record them, tally them, really see how often you’re choosing, you wake up to a powerful reality.

You are not at the mercy of the world. You are steering your own ship, moment by moment, with your choices. You are creating your own life. You always have been but unconsciously, without awareness. With awareness and choice everything changes for the better. Try it. For a few days, track your choices. Write them down. Notice every time you pick one thing over another. You’ll be amazed.

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You’ll realize that your life is not happening because of fate or accident. It’s built on choice stacked upon choice. AND when you realize this, you can stop pretending you are powerless. You can stop blaming the weather, your boss, your past, or anyone else for how you feel and where you’re heading. You can claim your power back. This IS the shift most never make. They keep giving their power away. They say yes when they want to say no.

They say no when they want to say yes. They give up control to circumstances, to old conditioning and to fear. But you don’t have to. You can right now decide that you are the chooser. You can live as someone who owns their power, someone who no longer waits for things to get better but deliberately makes them better. That is what it means to live as a victor, as a champion. Life is not about being at the mercy of others.

It’s about realizing that your decisions determine your destiny. AND once you see that, you can no longer go back to living small. You no longer beg for scraps of happiness. You create joy on demand. You no longer hope for transformation. You step into it with clarity, confidence, and conviction. AND this is why I mentor. Because most people don’t know how to break free from old patterns on their own.

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They need someone who has done it, who knows the way, who can guide them past the illusions and into real power. That’s why I invite you to join me in my online Mind Design™ NLP program. If you are ready to claim your power, to master your mindset, and to create the life you want, this is your path. Thousands upon thousands have studied with me and transformed their lives.

They’ve gone from feeling stuck and powerless to creating success, happiness, and freedom they never thought possible. You won’t just learn concepts and fill in the blank workbooks. You learn how to live them positively and powerfully. You practice, you apply, and you get results. Results unlike anything else because this isn’t shallow motivation. This is deep, lasting transformation. So decide. Choose now. Choose to stop drifting.

Choose to stop giving away your power. Choose to study with me so you can discover the incredible strength that has always been inside you. You’ll learn how to harness it, shape it, and use it to create the life you deserve. The choice is yours. It always has been. Now is the time to make the choice that changes everything. So, if you’re ready to take the wheel and steer your life where you truly want it to go, enroll in my onlineUltimate NLP Home Study Course™ today and begin to take hold of your life, master your mind, and transform your world. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How to Create and Receive What You Desire

“When you create an invitation and send it out, you don’t chase the guests. You don’t tug at the clock, willing them to arrive sooner. You put out the word, set the stage, and then the waiting begins. How you wait makes all the difference. You can wait with joy, immersed in the moment, or you can wait with fear, doubt, and restlessness. The guests will arrive when they arrive either way.

The only real control you have is over your state of mind while you anticipate. You send the invitation and trust the arrival. So many people make life far more difficult than it needs to be. They send out their intention, then they hover anxiously, trying to force results, as though success could be pushed along like a stubborn rope. They micromanage their desires. They question whether they did enough. You can’t push a rope. Right?

They obsess over what else might be required. It becomes a cycle of grasping, worrying, and forcing. And yet all that effort does not bring the result closer. It’s no different than fishing. You choose the right bait, cast your line, and then, wait. You can’t yank the fish onto the hook, no matter how impatient you are. You can only prepare well, trust the process, and allow it to unfold. While the line is in the water, you have a choice.

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You can sit there frustrated, restless, and doubtful, or you can enjoy the breeze, the sunshine, and the gentle rhythm of the water. Which way you wait is always up to you. Creation follows the same laws. First comes intent. You clarify what you want. You define it. You see it clearly, and you feel the thrill of already having it. Then you send the invitation, you project it into the world with passion, gratitude, and certainty.

And then you wait. You cannot force results into your life. You can only prepare yourself to receive them by becoming the person who welcomes them with open arms. This is why so many people get tripped up. They think the goal is to claw their way toward what they want. But the real art lies in aligning your mind and emotions so fully with your desire that the waiting becomes part of the joy.

You live as though it is already on its way. You walk in gratitude, you celebrate in advance, and you relax into the process. When you do this, the waiting ceases to be waiting at all. It becomes living, creating, becoming. This is the kind of shift that changes everything. And it is something you can master. It’s what I teach in my programs: how to release the struggle and step into alignment.

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You learn and develop the skills to enjoy the process while bringing your dreams into reality. Whether you join me you’ll learn to hold your vision with confidence, send your invitation, and trust that what you want is arriving—even as you delight in the moments between. The key is not to fight the now but to embrace it fully. That is where transformation takes root.

Enroll today in my Ultimate NLP Home Study Course™. Plus, to assist you immediately I’ve a fabulous tool you can get and use minutes from now that can help you think, feel and act better today! Get the Attitude Activator™** If you do nothing, nothing changes. Change your mind, and you will change your life. It always begins with this small step. I just gave you an invitation to join me. When you create, send out your invitation, celebrate in advance, and allow life to surprise you with its perfect timing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How One Small Shift Can Change Your Life

You’ve been there before. You’ve felt that slow boil turbulence inside. The pressure builds behind your eyes, heat in your chest, the voice rising in your mind saying, ‘Don’t lose it,’ while every cell in your body feels like it’s two seconds from erupting. ‘Don’t go there,’ you think. Whether it’s a difficult conversation, a stressful moment at work, or that one person who just knows how to push your buttons…

… YOU feel it. And in that moment, it feels like you’ve got no control. But you do! The difference between those who thrive and those who merely survive isn’t that you never feel anger, frustration, or stress. It’s that you know how to respond when those feelings rise. You know how to catch the moment before it owns you. You don’t suppress it. You redirect it. Like in Aikido, you don’t fight force with force.

You blend, you steer, and suddenly, what feels like an incoming wave becomes energy you can guide toward something better. Is that how you respond, or are you more like the person who doesn’t? I ask because most people try to force change in the heat of the moment. They grit their teeth, white-knuckle it, and try to muscle through. That rarely works. The momentum of emotion is too strong.

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But what if you didn’t have to fight it head-on? What if you could just shift? Just like driving, you don’t slam a car from reverse into drive. You pass through neutral. That neutral state, that moment of pause, is your access point to real transformation. It’s the difference between reacting out of habit and responding from power. And the gateway to neutral is simple: your breath. It’s an important part of the Attitude Activator™

It’s not just poetic. It’s physiological. A study in Frontiers in Psychology (Jerath et al., 2015) showed that slow, deep breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, your body’s natural calm-down button. That breath, especially when paired with a soft sigh, tells your brain and body: ‘We’re safe,’ or ‘You’ve got this.’ It’s not woo-woo. It’s wiring. The problem is most people never practice it until the storm hits.

That’s like waiting until the house is on fire before learning how to use the extinguisher. The key to mastery is mental rehearsal. You train your brain to respond wisely before the chaos hits. Just like athletes don’t only train during the game, you rehearse in advance, so when life throws you the curve, you swing with grace. You need to learn to breathe like a champion. I’ve coached countless thousands.

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Some learned to breathe through the moment and took charge of their lives. Others dismissed it as too simple, too silly. But the truth is, transformation often IS simple, it’s just not always easy without guidance. One man I worked with was at the edge, years of built-up frustration, biting back at everyone in his life. He thought he needed complicated therapy or to escape his job and his family.

What he really needed was a pause, a new lens, and a few minutes a day to recalibrate his emotional habits. He didn’t believe me at first. But he practiced. He rehearsed. And he changed. Today, he leads a team, has deeper relationships, and shows up grounded and strong. He didn’t change the world—he changed how he met the world. This is why the Einstein Course formula exists.

You don’t need another life hack. You need a system, a method, a mentor who’s walked the path and can help you retrain how you think, feel, and act, so success becomes your default setting, not your occasional outcome. There are those who keep pushing forward, tense and tight, hoping life will someday ease up. They wait. But time doesn’t reward waiters. It rewards deciders.

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There are also those who decide to learn the skills, embody the mindset, and apply the formula. They don’t ask if it works, they make it work. And life responds in kind. So, here’s your breath. Take it. Pause. And now ask yourself: What kind of person do I want to be? Because your answer doesn’t just shape today. It shapes everything. Join me today. See the link below. Learn. Rehearse. Change. This is the way of the winner. This is how you become the one who others look to and say, ‘They always keep their cool. They always rise.’ More next time. Celebrate it all. Even this moment. Especially this moment. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The 4th Great Law: Growth

“It’s said Leaders are readers. Why? Because leaders invest time, energy, effort and money into making themselves better. How do they do that? They learn that they learn that they can learn to do most anything they put their mind to. They are curious and seek transformational information and experiences. Information doesn’t change anyone. You change by correctly applying the information, through experimenting and failing. Get it?

It’s a process. No one can teach you, but you can learn. People can present information and provide exercises, but they can do your learning for you. You must learn it to do it. Practice it enough to make it a habit and develop mastery. You can control yourself but not others. Therefore, others can’t control your learning. They can only make the information and experience available to you. It’s like offering you water. YOU drink it. Not them.

Real change begins with you. From within to without. ‘Craft (1984) noted that there are two different Latin roots of the English word ‘education.’ They are educare, which means to train or to mold, and educere, meaning to lead out. While the two meanings are quite different, they are both represented in our word ‘education.” While teachers attempt to train or mold the learning occurs by leading or drawing out understanding and ability.

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Personal growth starts within us. Gandhi said, ‘be the change you want to see in the world.’ To positively influence or change the world it first begins with you. That’s why one of Rex’s Rules is GO FIRST. Transformation begins with what you can control and the only thing you truly can control is your own thoughts, feelings, words and actions. Stop trying to control others and control yourself. The universe is expanding and so should you.

Consciousness is expanding. You can expand your awareness, your appreciation, your talents and abilities and the ability to see opportunities, possibilities and resources within you and around you. AS you grow or evolve or change external reality grows or evolves. Why or how? Consciousness is consciousness. Energy is energy. You are the universe, and the universe is you. If you understand this, you already appreciate it. It’s always expanding.

You’re born to be a human. That means you’re born to make decisions. The decisions you make influences your life experiences. Change yourself and your world changes. Because you are the world. You are responsible for yourself in the world. What you think and do, what you choose matters. The universe is increasing. Your choice is to increase too. How you use this control, these choices, matter and it shapes the universe.

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Being human is a precious experience that far too many don’t appreciate. Growing or personal improvement doesn’t necessarily mean adding things to you as you are already all there is. Rather, it is about letting go and releasing all that is not authentically you. It’s learning to drop your beliefs that you have limiting beliefs. Drop the limitations you grew to accept. Drop the conditioning that you think keeps you stuck. Release and become free.

That means exploration. You don’t become a different person, you become your true self. It means stop trying to make others and circumstances different and focus on yourself. Your choice is to choose to work on yourself and let others choose to work on themselves. Don’t force them or resent them if they don’t. That’s not up to you. It’s up to each of us to focus on our own development. Don’t resist others or circumstances, instead, be the change.

The Law of Growth asks us to look at the things we cannot control. Look at how you deal with accepting this. The focus should be on you. The focus should not be on controlling others or things around you. Let others come to their own conclusions about what they need to change. The Law of Growth states you only have control over yourself. YOU can choose how you respond. Napoleon Hill said it too. The only thing you can control is your own thinking. Learn to manage your thoughts. Learn to love yourself. Learn to accept yourself and others. Learn to appreciate yourself, others, events and circumstances. Everything changes when you learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You’ll Never Be The Best If You Do This

“Remember, you can never be and feel your best thinking about your worst! Don’t waste your time. Stop thinking about what’s wrong and focus solely on what’s right. Focus on that which makes you feel delighted. AND feel delighted. Feel thrilled. Feel talented and use your talents. Develop them.

Appreciate your abilities. Think and feel great about yourself. Think on the things you are able to do! These are areas of great potential for you. Validate yourself and your abilities. After all, you learned them all. You learned everything, even how to think and feel about yourself. You learned everything!

If your focus in off and if you’re creating more dog crap than diamonds and good in your life YOU can LEARN to change this. You CAN shift your focus. Your focus, your thoughts are what you have control over, even if you don’t believe it or never exercised that control. This is the choice you have. Use it.

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Enhance you’re thinking. Feel good about yourself. Appreciate yourself AND others. ALL others and ALL circumstances and events. Use your imagination to develop these talents and abilities. Time is well spent when you put your energy and focus on the best of you. Concentrate and keep it there. Smile.

Delight in everything. Enjoy your strengths. Linger with them. Emphasize the good. Diminish the not-so-good. Allow yourself to feel really good. Give yourself permission to feel your best. Allow it. Bask in it. Savor the positive, wonderful feelings. Accentuate the positive. Eliminate the negative. Get this! Do this every day! You are worth it. You deserve it. Celebrate YOU. Celebrate OTHERS. Celebrate EVERYTHING!” Rex Sikes

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“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” William James

“I’ll be blunt: I’m very disappointed that these secrets are available. I think buying this material should be treated like buying hand guns: You should have to fill out forms and get checked out first to see if you’ll use this wisdom for good or evil. I’ve NEVER seen such powerful techniques or insights. The average psychologist, cold reader, magician, or mentalist doesn’t know these “beyond secret” methods. You could start a cult with this! Far too powerful to be released publicly. Please take your Ultimate NLP Home Study Program package off the market—especially now that I own it.” –Joe Vitale – Author, 2000

“I am smiling and my heart is beating a little bit faster now, Rex. We go all the way back to the last century and me finding my way in many ways at that point. You helped me during that point because I learned NLP, and some of the communication material came from you. I was sitting at your feet and learning how to apply it in my life and career.

Freedom can be yours BUT if you do nothing, nothing changes!

You sent me cassettes Rex way back in the 1990s, and these were cassettes on communication and NLP. And we had exchanged some things and we had talked and you were very kind to me and very generous with me. I religiously listened to everything I am always studying, always growing, always working on myself and maybe even more intensely back then. Thank you Rex!Joe Vitale -Author, appeared in ‘The Secret’, 2022

Freedom can be yours BUT if you do nothing, nothing changes!

“I give this course a massive thumbs up! And to put it into perspective I was already an NLP trainer when I came across this course some years back and I was blown away by the content in it and the way it is taught. Rex really knows his stuff and the content is amazing. But it! I mean every word.” Barry Neale – NLP trainer 2021

“My personal development journey took a turn for the better back in 1996 when I was fortunate enough to be trained and mentored by Rex Steven Sikes. It’s been my ongoing wish that Rex would put his personal and professional development insights, his unique accelerated learning techniques, and basic to advanced mindset strategies (what he’s rightfully termed Mind Design™) into a book. He’s finally done it and he’s held nothing back. Rex equips you with everything you need to live a more empowered life… He was the first person to really challenge me with the idea that to change my life, I had to change myself first. His concept of 100% Self-responsibility has served me so much in my life, it’s now the cornerstone of all my training and coaching as well. He states, “When you accept full responsibility for everything going on, you begin to access your inner strengths and power. When you accept responsibility your mind begins to look for solutions because you are responsible.” Bottom line: I’m a better coach, trainer, entrepreneur, husband, and parent because of Rex.”Joe Soto – International Marketing Coach

“I am beyond happy to call Rex Sikes my mentor and friend. (Yesterday he was was kind enough to be my Valentine’s too lol) seriously though. I’m so happy to have invested into his NLP home study course. Which he has taught many successful people in the past 40 years. Here’s a testimony from Joe Vitale from the movie the secret. If anyone is interested in joining the course. Please feel free to reach out to me.” Lynn Serrano – TV host, 2022

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Time Management: Mind Design™ Mini-Workshop: Pt 7

“Time Management Is Really Life And Personal Management: It’s a skill you can learn and develop. It enables you to control events in sequence, so you can gain more free time to enjoy all life offers you. It requires self-discipline, control and mastery.

You create new positive habits by correctly repeating your positive practices, consistently for long enough. Commit and Persist! Correct repetition develops skill. You learn control because you discover your power to choose. As you stick with it mastery can develop.

Everything important in your life, your income, and personal happiness you decide by your use of your time. It’s beneficial to learn to manage your hours so you can put more life back into them. Self-discipline frees you up to have more time to enjoy the good.

Life Is Short – Time Is Fast – No Rewind – No Replay – Enjoy It All

Get Focused. What you focus on expands. Learn to become completely present. When in the office, be in the office. When playing tennis, be totally on the tennis court. When in the office, work. When with your family, be with your family 100%. Get it?

“The worst use of time is to do very well what need not be done at all.” B. Tregoe. I’ll share more on the 3 top goals for a balanced life in a later post and a few questions you should ask to gain greater clarity, to direct your attention productively, and help get your goals.

3 Top Goal Areas For A Balanced Life:
Personal/Family
Financial/ Career or Professional
Personal Self Improvement

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Reflect on what you want in each of these areas. Apply what you’re learning in this Mind Design™ Mini-Workshop to each. Use a positive mindset to focus on what’s truly important to you. Use the time-management skills to save yourself quality time. LIVE FULLY!

Remember, all work and no play makes one a dull person. Enjoy life! Live life well. That’s what you’re meant to do. Delight yourself. Gain control over those things you can control. Learn to prioritize! Rank tasks you have to do in order. Then compete them one by one.

Clear your plate so you can spend more time having fun and enjoying the people who are important to you. Change what you can change. Let go of the rest. Know the difference between the two and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“So am grateful to have found you on my journey Rex Sikes you are doing amazing things for this world.” – Brian Alexander Cross Fit Owner Entrepreneur Chicago IL

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Know What You Control And What You Don’t!

“The serenity prayer is an exquisite example of how we can live and manage our lives. ‘God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. The courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.’ Reflect on this for a few moments.

There are things you can change and things you can’t. While that seems obvious, it often isn’t. That’s why the wisdom part is added. So often we attempt to control or change others; our children, parents, partners, siblings, friends, associates, even strangers.

We’re likely to be frustrated much of the time attempting to control others. You want to feel in control of your own life, don’t you? Others do too. When we attempt to bend them to our way it’s only natural they’d resist. I mean, wouldn’t you? Most of us would.

Stop Trying To Change Others – You Can Only Change Yourself

Stop trying to dominate others. That’s what it amounts to. You, or I, attempting to assert our will over someone else. It may be for a good reason. They’re wrong, or sick, or addicted, or causing trouble, or they don’t know what to do. So, we try to make them different.

We try to make them better. Let go of attempting to manipulate them to do what’s ‘right’. Realize we can’t change them. They must change themselves when they’re ready. Then, we feel better, are freer, and stop spinning our wheels, expending our energy.

Love them. Instead of trying to change them, accept them. Pray, hope, expect they’ll change when they’re ready. Obviously, if someone is in imminent danger of harming oneself, or others, take appropriate action. Otherwise, learn to let go. Seek wisdom.

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Allow them to be who they are. Allow them to live the life they want. Be there for them when they reach out. Wisdom means knowing we can’t change the person any more than we can change the weather, or the night into day. We accept it. We allow it. We use wisdom.

We can change is ourselves! Self-change takes courage. Change our knee jerk reactions to responses of love, kindness, understanding, and compassion. Take care of our needs. Assist the other without trying to force them to be different. Seek serenity. Be wise.

Act from love, not from need or desperation. Take care of your own house. Stop throwing bricks at the glass. Get it? Everyone has to make their own decisions. Recognize whose problem a problem is. Recognize what you can control and what you can’t. Seek peace.

You Can’t Control Others But You Can Change Your Reactions

Reflect on the serenity prayer. Use it to guide you. Become a better person for yourself, and others. Take the prayer to heart. Seek courage, serenity and wisdom. Seek love and light. Seek courage to transform yourself and do it. Seek serenity to accept. Be giving.

Give, not to get a return. Stop plying others. Stop begging, whining, pleading or nagging. If, and when, the person reaches out to you, then, be there for the person. Don’t burn a bridge with someone you care for. Put your energy only into what you can change.

Change yourself. Transform yourself! Manage your mindset, your feelings and energy, your speech and behaviors. Manage your own life. Learn to let go, and let god. Develop faith or trust. Seek a source, or higher power. Release! You can’t control the drivers on the roads.

Seek Courage – Seek Serenity – Seek Wisdom – Let Go – Let God

Stop trying! You can’t change the flow of traffic. Learn what you can and can’t do. Accept it. Everything is a lesson when you understand that everything is a lesson! Everything is a blessing in the very same way. You’ll enjoy more of what life offers when you let go of needing to control or change others and find the blessing of accepting them as they are. Find the blessing in all. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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If Your Attention Is Anywhere Else You're Likely Fail!

“Most people make attributions outside themselves. They give their power away! The put their power on others, on events and circumstances. The blame the economy. the weather, the government, their parents, kids and spouses. Get it? They do this.

Do you? That is victim mentality. You need to realize who truly is running the show. Are you ready for this? It is YOU! You run the show. I’m not saying you are making it rain or not, but you are determining the results you get. You influence you! Get it?

You have great power within you to become anything you can imagine and believe you can become. Don’t get wacky on this idea, I am not speaking of super powers. I am saying that as a human you can accomplish anything any other human has accomplished.

If You Can Conceive It And Believe It You Can Achieve It

You can be happy, rich, famous, successful, a loving partner, parent, child or caregiver. You can choose where you want to live and what you want to drive. It is all up to whether you believe this is possible for you or not. If you want it you can make it happen. Will it?

No one can say but YOU! You u can evolve. You can change and transform yourself and your life. Never settle for just OKAY. A life without problems isn’t much of a life. Make your life the best it can be by becoming the best person you can be! Get it! Create your life!

Instead of settling, make a difference. If you don’t get as far as you hoped, but you get further than you are, isn’t that better? You decide. You determine what will or won’t be. Create your best life by managing your thinking. and by feeling your best most often.

As Long As You Say What You Have You Will Have What You Say

You can do this by any of the ways I have been sharing in these blog pages. You can do it easily by getting really, really grateful and expressing deep appreciation for all that life is. Feel glad to be who you are, what you have and for everyone and every moment of your life. Your transformation will be amazing when you celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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