“I’m just making my way through this world like anyone else. Just as you are. After years of difficulty and disappointment, I made the decision I was going to act as if I were totally in charge of everything that happens to me. Whether that actually is or was the case.
I decided to act as if I were totally in charge of everything! I would take FULL responsibility and be in control of me. That means I alone am accountable and responsible for everything good and bad. That means no whining, blaming, accusing, complaining or excusing.
It means I am the creator. I am the attractor. I manage my thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Everything I have or don’t have is because of me. (Whether or not this is actually true. I decided I was going to adopt this frame of mind and live as IF IT IS the case). Get it?
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Everything changed when I began to live this way. It became as if I actually am in charge. I create everything. Good, bad I create it. Whether it’s true or not doesn’t matter to me. Let’s pretend I am pretending to be in charge. I hope you understand this.
When I put myself in charge and assumed to be responsible for what I did, and whether I got or didn’t get something, EVERYTHING CHANGED. Yes, sometimes I slipped up and started to blame or whine but when I realized what I was doing, I stopped. It changed.
By pretending to be in charge I started making more positive choices for myself every moment. Why was this a result? Probably the best answer is because I became the person in charge. I couldn’t pass the buck when things went wrong. I accepted responsibility for it.
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When things went right I accept responsibility. I was accountable either way. Since I determined the outcome I had to make better choices. I had to exercise my power. I had to exercise my choices. I had to exercise my wisdom and be smarter about things.
I’m the creator. I’m the one I answer to so I needed to decide what I want. I needed to decide how I want to think and feel. I decided what I want to be, who I am and what I do and what I have. It is all up to me since I AM IN CHARGE. And since, I chose the very best.
Get it? When things happen, I choose how to respond. I determine what I will pay attention to, focus on and feel. AND do you know what? I’m a work in process. Sometimes, I’ve done better than at other times but, I adjust for it and gently steer back.
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I am not perfect by any means but now I have choice. I am in charge of responding instead of reacting. I take the feedback and adjust instead of expecting the world or circumstances to change. What is this like? It is absolutely freeing. It is magical and magnificent. It has made everything different and the journey and how I journey is up to me. Get it? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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