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How to Shift Your Focus To Reclaim Positivity

“I’ve been discussing how to recognize signals that are less-than-glorious so you can shift from them and keep your energy and your vibe high. After becoming aware of the signals SO you can shift, the next thing you do IS shift! Once you notice these negative feelings, you have the power to redirect your focus. Here’s how: Name the negative feeling and redirect. First, acknowledge the feeling. Then take a deep breath.

Consciously choose to shift focus. Ask, ‘What do I want instead?’ For example, if you feel anxious about an upcoming deadline, shift your focus to the result you desire: a well-executed project that you’re proud of. Ramp up the positive emotion through intensity. In moments of intense frustration, sometimes pushing that feeling to its peak can lead to a breakthrough. Often, reaching a point of ‘I’ve had enough of this!’ signals a turning point.

Use this intensity as motivation to commit to focusing on solutions and positive outcomes instead. Celebrate small shifts. Every time you notice switching from a negative thought to a positive one, celebrate it! Give yourself credit for making the shift. This reinforces the habit of focusing on the positive and makes it easier to repeat. Visualize positive outcomes regularly Take a few minutes daily to imagine your ideal day, week, or life.

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Picture yourself experiencing the things you want, engaging with people positively, and achieving your goals. This practice aligns your thoughts with what you want and attracts similar experiences to you. Here’s some practices to sharpen and strengthen your positive focus. Practice gratitude. Sit quietly and take slow, deep breaths. Visualize things you’re grateful for, family, health, opportunities. This shifts your focus to the positive.

Doing this and these practices help you create a baseline or foundation of optimism. Reflect on your daily wins! Before bed, write down three positive things that happened during the day. No matter how small. Focus on what went right. Focusing on these ‘wins’ reinforces your positive outlook. Audit your self-talk to keep it positive. Start by spending one day paying close attention to your self-talk. Commit to this practice for that day.

Whenever you notice yourself thinking negatively, reframe it. Find something positive instead. Shift into something constructive. For example, change ‘I’m not good at this’ to ‘yet’ or ‘I’m learning, and I can improve.’ Practice and celebrate the shift you’ve just made. As you understand how your emotions guide your focus, start using them as a tool. Each time you notice a negative feeling, remind yourself to shift towards what you want.

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By practicing this regularly, you’ll discover yourself naturally begin to think more positively, which research links to increased resilience, creativity, and improved mental health. Isn’t that worth it? Remember: your feelings are your guideposts. Pay attention to them! Shift your focus as needed. Celebrate each small victory along the way. Over time, you’ll find it easier and more natural to focus on what you want, creating a life full of optimism and fulfillment. I think that’s worth it. If you agree, do it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How to Tune Your Energy and Attract What You Truly Want in Life

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You and I, all of us live in a vibrational universe. There is no universe ‘out there.’ You and I are the universe. We are all one. AND you are not just a physical being in a physical universe. You are so much more than that! You’re an energetic, vibrational being. You are consciousness expressed as you. Plus, you’re both sending and receiving energy all the time. Whether you know it or not. You’re always putting out signals, vibrations.

Those vibrations determine what you attract or repel in your life. Napoleon Hill among others pointed out that we are all broadcasting and receiving stations. One of the greatest challenges we face is learning how to navigate this vibrational universe. Our vibrational world. Most people think they’re living as physical beings and believe the story they see in front of them. They think, ‘I’m my body, and live in the real world.’

But what we overlook is how much our energy, our vibration, is shaping this world, moment by moment. The question is what are you attracting or manifesting? You are always attracting and manifesting something. That’s just the way it is. People think they have trouble manifesting. That’s inaccurate. They manifest perfectly, they attract perfectly many things they just don’t want. Crap magnets are what I call them. And I’ve been one.

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So, lots of people think they attract what they want, or what they think about, or what they feel. And yes, those are important, but they’re more like side effects. They’re secondary. What you’re really attracting into your life is based on what you’re signaling, what energy you’re putting out into the universe. That energy is WHO you are. Who you are is what you vibrate. Yes, based on your thinking and feeling. Who you are IS your vibrations.

You’re a radio tower, constantly transmitting a signal. Whatever that signal is, it’s a magnetic force pulling things in. You don’t attract what you want, you attract what you are. If you are positive and optimistic you get some good stuff back. If you are pessimistic and negative, worrisome or fearful you attract some of that same stuff back. If you throw a boomerang out you get a boomerang back. Not a teacup. Get it? You attract who you are.

Ever notice when you’re in a bad mood, everything seems to go wrong? You get stuck in traffic, someone snaps at you, your coffee spills. It’s like the whole world is against you. That’s not a coincidence! That’s because your vibration, your energy, was attracting more things that matched that negative vibe. On the other hand, if you’re feeling good, confident, and grateful, it seems like everything flows smoothly. You get good parking spots.

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People smile at you, and opportunities seem to fall in your lap. So, the key IS to realize that you naturally attract what’s in sync with your energetic state or who you are. If your vibration is aligned with wealth and abundance, you’ll start to see more of that in your life. But if you’re putting out anger, frustration, or scarcity, then guess what? That’s what’s going to show up for you too. You attract what you’re in harmony with!

Imagine two people. One is financially successful and seems to have it all, wealth, health, happiness. The other is struggling, always complaining about money, and feels stuck. It’s not just about their bank accounts. It’s about the energy they’re putting out there. The successful person has a vibration of abundance, confidence, and possibility. That’s what they’re signaling. The struggling person is sending out different signals.

Signals of lack, fear, and frustration, and the universe is just responding in kind. What things to change. Change your signal. I share this with people all the time in my programs, workshops and training. A lot of my high-end clients didn’t start out that way. They were broadcasting problems until they learned how to change all that and attract love, health, wealth and happiness. The good news is you can too! You can change your signal.

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If you want to experience something different in life, whether it’s more success, love, happiness, or health—you’ve got to change what you’re transmitting. It’s like tuning into a different radio station. You’ve been broadcasting the “struggle station,” and if you want to change your life, you need to dial into the “abundance station.” But how do you do that? It’s about shifting your inner state, your thoughts, feelings.

AND most importantly, your beliefs. If you’re someone who constantly says, ‘I never have enough money,’ You’re sending out a vibration of lack, and that’s what keeps showing up. But if you start practicing gratitude and saying, ‘I’m thankful for all the abundance I already have,’ even if you don’t feel it fully yet, you’re slowly adjusting your vibration. As you do that, you’ll notice things start to shift. Change your signal.

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Remember, life isn’t happening to you, it’s happening through you. You’ re the creator, the signaler, the one who decides what kind of energy you’re putting out. And when you shift that energy, you shift what you attract. You have more power than you realize. So, if you want something new, don’t just focus on what you want, or how bad things seem right now. Start shifting your inner world, your vibration, and the outer world will catch up. Now go ahead and transmit the kind of energy that’ll bring diamonds, not dog crap, into your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Expert Shares: These Mistakes You Make Determine Your Results

“Have you ever tried to make a change, only to find yourself slipping back into old habits? Maybe things worked for a while, but before long, you were back where you started, even after promising yourself, “This time will be different.” If this sounds familiar, it might be time to take a closer look at your self-image. How you view yourself is important. What you think you can and can’t do governs you. Who you believe yourself to be matters. Attend to what you say.

We all make statements like: ‘That’s just not me.’ ‘ could never do that.’ ‘I can’t stop eating.’ ‘I just have too much nervous energy.’ ‘I’m so stupid.’ ‘I never get anything right.’ ‘I am unlucky.’ ‘Things never work out for me.’ ‘I’m shy.’ I can’t talk in front of people.’ ‘I never have enough money.’ ‘I have a cold.’ Have you said anything like this? These are not positive affirmations, but they are still affirmations of your self-image.

Believe it or not, they are just as powerful as the positive ones we are encouraged to use for success. Perhaps, you are just realizing you are already using affirmations. Be careful then, what they are. The truth is, we’re all using affirmations, whether we realize it or not. The negative or limiting beliefs you repeat daily are working the same way as positive affirmations, but they reinforce what you can’t do rather than what we can.

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These thoughts and phrases keep you consistent with your self-image. Your self-image shapes what you believe is possible. If you constantly say, ‘I’m not good at this’ or ‘I’ll never succeed,’ you’re affirming and reinforcing those beliefs. Your self-image sets boundaries for what you believe you can and can’t do, It works very effectively to keep you inside those limits. Your self-image determines your results. If your self-image is limiting, your results will be, too.

We all have an internal image of ourselves that governs our actions, thoughts, and results. This self-image tells us who we are and what we deserve in life. If your self-image is limiting, you won’t produce results that are inconsistent with who you think you are. If you see yourself as unsuccessful or unlucky, it’s unlikely you’ll take the actions necessary to achieve success. Your mind is constantly working to keep you in alignment with your self-image. That’s its job!

If you want to understand your self-image, start by paying attention to your thoughts and statements. Throughout the day, notice how you talk about yourself, especially when times are tough. This can give you clues about the internal boundaries you’ve set. Pay attention. Notice your ‘I’ statements. This can lead to some important breakthroughs. Awareness initiates change. You notice what is holding you back so you can release it and move forward.

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If you often say things like, ‘I’m just not good at this,’ or ‘I always mess things up,’ these are reflections of your self-image at work. You’re reinforcing the person you believe yourself to be. But guess what. There is good news. Great news in fact. You have the power to change your self-image. If you don’t think so, start affirming that you do and that you can, right now. Take charge instead of remaining a victim of negative affirmations. Change it now. You can.

For centuries, practitioners of self-improvement have known the key to happiness and success lies in transforming your self-image. People like Maxwell Maltz, a plastic surgeon turned self-image pioneer, made groundbreaking discoveries in this field. Maltz observed that even after physical changes, many patients remained unhappy. He realized that no matter how they looked on the outside, it was their internal self-image that ran the show.

It was their mental programming that was dictating their happiness. Just like a computer’s software controls its output, our self-image controls our results. I write about this a lot in my book Life On Your Terms: Create The Life You Want if you’d like to read more and find more ways to positively transform yourself and your life. To truly change your life, you must change the internal program—your self-image. More next time. We’ll continue this discussion.

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Meanwhile, why don’t you put into action some take away from today. Use it to make your life more enjoyable and to your liking. If you do nothing, nothing changes. Introduce one small positive change and the potential exists for everything to transform. Step by step you get there. Enjoy the process. Spend more time in positivity and delight. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“Rex’s profound expertise in personal development and his deep understanding of human dynamics make him a standout in both public and corporate settings. Rex is not only a dedicated professional but also a compassionate mentor and a very kind friend.” —Laura Ibarra, LDG, MBA CEO 3 Wins, Torreon, Mexico

“His deep and nuanced understanding of how the mind processes information and how real transformation is accomplished is beyond words. I was privileged to invest 10 hours a day for three weeks with him over 25 years ago. That information has infused the next few decades of decision-making and career success. He is a total gem in the world of teachers and trainers. My internal dialogue, my ability to manage my states, and my ability to train and coach students were forever improved. – Bart Baggett, Speaker, Author, Forensic Document Examiner, L.A. CA

“Rex is an incredible coach, author, speaker, and world-renowned. I use his book weekly and highly recommend it. If you are looking for a master coach and NLP top-notch instructor, Rex is your guy.” —Kamal el-Rassi, MBA, CEO El-Rassi Enterprise, Cincinnati, OH

“Rex possesses a remarkable ability to engage and captivate an audience, drawing on his deep well of knowledge and expertise to deliver transformative experiences. His brilliance lies in his unique capacity to extract core issues from complex situations and address them in ways that are understandable and actionable. Rex’s sessions are a masterclass in empowerment; he guides his audience through their challenges with empathy and insight, helping them achieve the breakthroughs they’ve long sought.” —Carlos Siqueira, CEO Disruptors LLC, San Francisco

“What truly sets Rex apart is his unrivaled knowledge on personal development. He possesses a wealth of insights and strategies that will blow you away. Rex’s teaching style is powerful, effective, and unique. He has a remarkable ability to simplify complex concepts, making them easy to understand and, most importantly, actionable. Spending time with Rex is an investment well worth making. Not only will you gain invaluable wisdom and guidance, but you’ll also witness the profound impact it has on your life. Rex’s teachings have the potential to transform your mindset, unlock your potential, and propel you towards unparalleled success.” Rita Montalto, CEO 4 Pillars of Wealth, AU

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Master Your Mind, Master Your Life: Harness This Power For Transformation

“You must learn to harness the power of repetition for transformation. Repetition is the mother of skill. The more you practice, the better you get. It’s that simple and it’s profoundly powerful. Each small, purposeful change you make builds upon the last, creating a ripple effect that can transform your life. The more you consciously choose to focus on what serves you, the more confidence and competence you develop. Its becomes a positive cycle.

The more confidence and competence, the more your life expands and improves in every way. Consider what it takes to learn to play an instrument or master a new sport. At first, it may seem difficult, and you make some mistakes. But with each repetition, you get a little better. You adjust and make corrections. Your fingers move more fluidly on the keys, your body responds with more coordination and grace.

Life works the same way. The more you train yourself to think positively and move in the direction of your goals, the more natural it becomes. You develop mental and emotional muscle memory. Soon, it requires less effort, and the results compound. Promote what you want. Release what you don’t! Life is full of distractions, negative influences, and unexpected challenges.

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But here’s the truth: What you focus on expands. If you promote what you want to grow, you’ll experience more joy and success. If you dwell on pain and suffering, you’ll find more of that too. The good news is it can be more of what you hope and want it to be. Awareness is the key. If you catch yourself when you veer off course and gently guide yourself back to the path of positivity everything begins to change.

AND it starts by noticing when you are off track and GENTLY steering back on. Notice. Interrupt the pattern by pausing. The shift into what you want instead. That way, instead of beating yourself up when things don’t go as planned, you celebrate your ability to realign. Every single one of us will fall off course sometimes. It’s part of the journey. What matters is how quickly and gracefully you can get back on track.

Think of successful entrepreneurs. Many of them have experienced failures, setbacks, and difficulties. Yet, instead of wallowing in those moments, they learn from them and return stronger. They don’t let one failed business venture define them. Instead, they celebrate the lessons learned and use them as fuel for future success. You can do the same in your life. If I can do it, so can you.

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I often focus on my children and how blessed I am to have them. I count my blessings, my family, mu girl dogs, my friends, the opportunities I’ve had, and even the challenges I’ve faced. All of these experiences have made my life richer. When I focus on what’s good, I feel better. It’s that simple, but it’s powerful. Gratitude is the fastest way to shift your mindset and energy. Start with one thing you’re grateful for, and more will follow.

You’ll find more reasons to celebrate, and soon, positivity becomes your natural state. Just like a snowball rolling downhill, it gains momentum. Think about people who have used this mindset to change their lives. Oprah for instance, has spoken about how focusing on gratitude helped her build an empire. She didn’t come from privilege or wealth. She faced adversity but chose to focus on what was good in her life.

As a result, her world expanded in incredible ways. You have the same potential within you. Simply make gratitude and positivity a habit. You don’t need a major event to feel better. That’s what most people think. Something changes. STOP! It’s the small, consistent actions that make the biggest difference. Take time each day to focus on what’s good in your life. When you feel gratitude deeply, more things to be grateful for will appear.

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Make it a habit. Repetition is everything. Just like learning to ride a bike or drive a car, training your mind to focus on the positive is a skill that develops over time. It might feel unnatural at first, but with consistent practice, it becomes second nature. Obstacles are just opportunities in disguise. The bumps in the road are not there to defeat you; they’re there to teach you.

Every challenge you face is an opportunity to grow stronger and more resilient. Every detour is a new chance to see and experience something you otherwise would not. Those obstacles are what make the journey meaningful. Embrace them, learn from them, and celebrate your progress. Look at Thomas Edison. He said ‘I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.’

His persistence and ability to stay positive through countless setbacks allowed him to become one of the greatest inventors of all time. He didn’t focus on failure; he focused on learning and moving forward. You can do the same in your life. Start today! Don’t wait for the perfect moment, because the perfect moment is NOW. Begin by taking small steps. Drop by drop, tub fills. Take small steps toward mastering your thoughts and emotions.

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Choose gratitude. Choose positivity. Choose to direct your thoughts instead of letting them control you. Your mind is a powerful tool. When you harness it, there’s no limit to what you can achieve. But the first step is deciding to take control. SO, no more excuses. No more letting outside influences dictate how you feel or how you think. You are the master of your destiny.

If you commit to this path, I promise you, life will become a more beautiful, joyful, and abundant experience. Don’t just think about it. Start doing it. Because the only way to truly master your life is to first master your mind. The question is, will you step up and take control? Will you be the one who seizes the opportunity? The choice is yours. Remember to celebrate every bit of progress you make. Celebrate the process. Celebrate all of the journey.

Whether it’s a small shift in your thinking or a major breakthrough, celebrate it all. Life IS a journey, not a destination. Every step forward is worth celebrating. If you’re willing to consistently move in the direction of your dreams, there’s nothing you can’t achieve. The world is yours. It’s your oyster. It’s for the taking. Master your mind, and you’ll master your life. Make your life better and help make it better for others too. Are you ready? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What People Are Saying:

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What People Are Saying:

“Rex, you speak the truth. So few will, but you speak the truth.” —Satish Verma, CEO Think and Grow Rich Institute, Toronto

“You run the best book clubs, Rex! So wonderfully insightful! Total truth!” —Joy Cooper Willet, NLP Trainer, Vancouver

“Beyond grateful for you, Rex Sikes, and the transformational teachings and reminders I’ve received.” —Ava Manuel, Las Vegas

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This Helps You Avoid Difficult Times

“What helps get you through difficult times? What are you to do when things don’t go the way you hope? What do you do when it downright sucks and circumstances turn for the worse? Is there anything that can make it better or easier? Yes, there is something that can help you through any difficulty at any time but whether you rely on it, do it or can access it makes the difference. Attitude makes and is the difference.

Attitude makes a major difference. Attitude sets the framework for how we encounter and navigate difficult times. It is easy to say, of course, and I do not mean to be flippant about this for people who experience difficult times, loss of loved ones, or any problem or issue that is of concern. Attitude is the ability to paint with a broad brush all things as potentially good or potentially not so good. So, what is attitude?

A colleague said, ‘Disappointment requires adequate planning.’ To be disappointed means you don’t like or accept the outcomes you get. When results differ from what you hoped you’d get many people get upset, frustrated or worse. When things don’t work out take it as much needed feedback. Something you were thinking or doing needed to be changed to get the results you intended. It’s a moment for learning if you are teachable.

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If you understand this then many wonderful things are possible. Instead of getting upset, realize you have a wonderful opportunity. Things will unfold differently. It’s an adventure. There are other opportunities ahead and it can be marvelous. If you say, wait, I can’t do that. Or BS that is the difficulty. If you can’t imagine celebrating when things don’t work out or go wrong, the limitation is in you. You’ll continue to suffer each time in the future.

If you understand you’ve an opportunity to transform yourself and circumstances by developing a better, more resilient, optimistic attitude then everything can change for the better. It’s a matter of what you believe and what you accept as possible or true for yourself. It has everything to do with your focus and what you tell yourself. Change your beliefs and what you say to yourself, and you change. When you do, everything can.

For longer than this blog has been around, for many years, I have been stating and sharing on the power of focus. I’ve dedicated myself to make this work for me and countless others I’ve worked with or trained through the years. I’ve managed to install in me an ability that works much better now than it had at times in the past by dedicating myself to make it a habit. I speak from my experience and from decades of working with others.

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The principle is you become and get what you focus on. This has had such a great impact on me and others, before me and since that I’ve felt compelled to share and discuss it for around 50 years. If your attitude sucks, most everything sucks. If your attitude is marvelous, most everything is marvelous. When it isn’t, you navigate it better than you do with a lousy attitude. Everything changes when you change. You ought to understand this.

If you don’t it is because you believe you are dominated by others, events and circumstances instead of having the power to choose how to respond. If you can only react as you always have, you don’t have any choice. That means you are an automaton. A robot. You can only do what you have always only done. Some people live like that. I prefer to exercise choice and help others to discover the immense power we have within us. We truly do.

However, you and I must claim it. You must find it. To find it you must seek it AND you must be willing to change. Most people want change but fear it. They fear change but want it. Unless you are willing to make the changes, nothing changes. To be different you must think differently. You must, ‘transform yourself by the renewing of the mind.’ Yes, I say this and write about this again and again. Why? Because one day the right person gets it.

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I share an easier, quicker way to make these changes than most others do. You don’t have to suffer to transform yourself. You can and you might, but there are easier and less painful ways. I show you what to avoid and what not to do because that’s as important as what to do. Self-improvement is really a wrong term. Instead of thinking we add things in. We remove things, we release and let go of the things that hold us back. That frees us.

However, you don’t want to focus on the things that hold you back from doing that. You don’t need to. There are more beneficial, rewarding and fruitful ways. If you can’t celebrate when things change and the apple cart gets upset that is one of the first things to learn to do. If you consider something a problem, it all be a problem. If you consider something a blessing it will be a blessing. It’s all in how you think about it. That’s why I keep telling you to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The 12th Great Law: Significance And Inspiration

“You are a unique contribution to all just by being here and you have unique gifts to share with everyone. The world can be and is a better place with you in it when you realize every contribution you make influences the Universe. Regardless of how small or large your positive actions matter! Your positive actions will always bring more positivity to you and all the rest. The world benefits from your compassion and care as you do.

However, karma isn’t about doing good or bad. It means you get back what you put out. You’ve a choice of what you want to return. If you want good put good forth first. If you always think and act with inspiration and love what comes back will be more inspiration and love. What you put your attention and energy on affects everyone. You are a significant aspect or part of the All. Everything is energy. You are the energy.

You and everyone and all else are the same. Energy can’t be created or destroyed, only changed. Karma means your thoughts, feelings, words and actions have an impact. What you think, feel, say and do matter! You matter. Your dreams matter. You contributed to a greater whole and the greater whole responds to you. Be authentic. Contribute. Follow your dreams. You have them for a reason. Live. Learn. Love. Laugh.

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You’ve the opportunity to create positive ripples. You can contribute to the greatest and highest good. You can lift yourself, be uplifted and uplift others. When you share your positive energy with the world you will discover it returned to you in ways you can’t even begin to imagine. You are a significant part of the whole. You matter. The whole is not the same without you in it and that’s why you are here. Love yourself.

Love others. Fill yourself and life with love and laughter. Delight and celebrate being here. Live with purpose and intention. Direct your attention, intention, energy and power into accomplishing your goals while contributing to the greater good for all. The opportunities and possibilities are endless. Enjoy the process. Your attitude matters. Find the best in yourself and accentuate it. Appreciate it in others too.

Remember, a pebble or a boulder tossed into a pond creates ripples. You and your actions are ALWAYS significant. There are always results and outcomes. It is why Gandhi said, ‘Be the change you want to see in the world.’ Become it and everything else can fall into place. Without you the world would be altered dramatically and fundamentally. Keep in mind you always have a valuable role to play.

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Use your gifts. Enjoy your gifts. Create and attract better for all. In the ultimate reality there is no division and no separation. It only appears as such. All fifty-seven facets on a brilliant cut diamond are the diamond reflecting light from different positions. Realize the same is true about and for everyone around you past and present. Everyone is part of ALL and plays an important role in the Universe as we experience it. We are ONE. Everything is energy. Everything matters. Know this. Become even more grateful and aware. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The 10th Great Law: The Law Of Change

“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results. Because, if you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got. The Law of Change states history will keep repeating itself unless and until you learn your lessons and change your life. It is about trust. Realize and trust the Universe gives you what you need. If there are changes occurring it means you are growing. Get this.

Changes means any or all changes. It doesn’t mean just the changes we want, hope for or expect. Good and those we consider not-so-good, our problems and hardships, obstacles and difficulties create a new path for you so you can create a new and better future. How? By creating a better you. You become your authentic self. The law means doing and undoing so you discover who you really are.

Therefore, history will repeat itself until you learn from the experiences and do something different to end the repetition. You end the cycle and discover freedom. You discover who you are. When YOU are different, you think, speak and act differently so you get different results. The law of change is about the opportunity to become the best version of yourself. We are creatures of habit and patterns. We have routines.

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Patterns and habits repeat until you do something different to change them. History repeating is a huge sign that you are going down the same path. It’s an opportunity to awaken and choose differently. To get a different outcome you must be responsible for changing the outcome. You have choices. To change the pattern, you must first recognize the pattern and then change it.

The same experiences or lessons come up again and again until you notice and do something about it. Keep in mind, insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting a different result. Change something. Change your mindset, your feelings, what you say to yourself. Change your habits and behaviors. Change your environment, where you go. Change relationships. Change your reactions. ‘If it is to be, it is up to me!’

You have the power and the responsibility to choose. You’ve that same power and responsibility to shape your present and future reality. Let go of the past. Stop worrying about the future. Be responsible for your reality. Hold yourself accountable. It is the opportunity to change for the better. It’s the opportunity to initiate the change and be the victor rather than the victim. Be in charge of changes instead of changes being in charge of you.

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History repeats until you learn the lesson and do something about it. It is cause and effect. If you’re continually seeing the same themes, patterns and cycles play out in your life again and again, if they repeat themselves, stop, step back, take a pause, get into neutral and ask, ‘what lesson do I need to learn?’ Is there anything I’m attached to, beliefs I could change, old stories I should change or update or connections I could let go of?

Ask yourself. Because if you are feeling it somewhere within you already know the answer. That’s why you feel that way. That’s why the lessons repeat. It’s the opportunity to let go, release, forgive and forget, learn the lesson and move on so you can start a new path. Change is scary for most people, but you can get through it and experience a wonderful new you filled with and experiencing joy and fulfillment. Be grateful for this opportunity.

Recognize it and embrace it. It is here to help you be better. Most people resist the hardship and problem lessons and stay stuck in the revolving patterning. Recognize, realize and release. The way out is through. Change can be scary sometimes, but when you embrace change and start on a new path, you open yourself to experiencing genuine joy, fulfillment, and growth. When troubles come, realize they’re a doorway to a better future.

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There is something you must know, learn and do to open the door. Until you identify what you must do differently, it will repeat again. Think, feel, speak and do it differently and you create a different opportunity. If you’re stuck in a seemingly endless loop THAT IS THE SIGN! If things start changing or falling apart IT IS THE SIGN! All of it is a good sign that you can and may already have taken some positive and significant steps.

For the new to become reality the old must go. The closet must be emptied to make room for the new stuff. You are going through a house cleaning. Things break down to free you from the old habits and past. New stories ahead. Change doesn’t change you. You change yourself by what you learn going through changes. What conclusions you draw, what labels you use, what stories you tell matter. For you to change, you must change.

Wishing, wanting, hoping, worrying about the future or regretting the past won’t change you. For you to change you MUST shift what you are thinking, feeling, saying and doing. Different actions create different results. Positive change will happen. I repeat, positive change will happen but only when you have actually changed. Learn from your mistakes, learn from the lessons and apply what you have learned. Otherwise, the lesson will come back.

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If you don’t change it you are allowing history to repeat itself. A change will only happen if you have changed it to learn from your past mistake and work effectively on it. If you don’t learn the lesson, you are allowing your history to repeat. When you get it, the cycle can end. If you seem to be in an endless cycle, stop and reflect. Get into neutral and discover what you might be missing. Don’t blame, change. Forgive, release and let go.

Make new decisions. Think new thoughts. from new positive beliefs and habits. Suffering can end. ‘Transform yourself by the renewing of the mind.’ Discover the peace that passes all understanding. remember the saying, ‘this is the day the lord has made, rejoice and be glad in it.’ That means all of it. Not some of it. The good and not-so-good because all of it is for your benefit. BUT you must discover this truth for yourself. Get it? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Student Is Ready, The Teacher Appears And Then What?

“When the student, or disciple, is ready, the teacher, master or lesson, appears. What makes a student ready? What makes a student? In the old days there were disciples and apprenticeships. That is not so much the way of the modern world of hacks and quick fixes. Historically, a hack was a disparaging term until recently when it’s used synonymously for a short cut. A short cut may not be a good thing.

A hack was a worn-out horse for hire or a person hired to perform unpleasant or distasteful tasks for some form of reward or money. A student is one who takes interest in a particular subject, studies and learns hopefully to master the skills. Then the student disciple or apprentice applies what one learns as a fellowcraft. It’s a process of gaining expertise through feedback on the road to mastery.

Not everything one learns will take one that far. There are important principles and practices and skills we master and make habits that govern our everyday lives. We have thought, feeling, speech and behavior habits that serve us or don’t. When we want to be healthier, happier, wealthier or more successful there are crucial talents and skills and principles necessary to acquire and master. Some do.

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When I was a teenager, more than anything, I wanted someone who would show me the ropes in the movie business. I desperately wanted a mentor. By chance one day I met a man who was successful in the movie business who had many successful proteges. He saw something in me and said so. He was willing to guide me for free. He didn’t want anything in return. I thought this too good to be true.

I was suspicious, at times fearful and certain he wanted something more. But truly, he wanted nothing other than the satisfaction of seeing me make something of myself in the business I wanted to succeed in. That terrified me too. I was always second guessing his motives, but I told him I was willing to do anything professionally it took to make it. I said that again and again. So, he told me what to do.

He gave me the first step. ‘Oh, you don’t understand’, I’d exclaim, ‘I can’t do that.’ I would proceed to tell him why. He’d nod understandingly and explain that I could do that or do this other thing. ‘Oh no,’ I’d say, ‘I am willing to do anything but not that.’ I didn’t want those lessons or could not see the value of pursuing a particular area. I didn’t have the money, the time, the skill or just thought I knew better.

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Time after time he’d make suggestions. Most I would negate. Some I would try. Usually, I’d abandon whatever it was he had me doing. He never complained. He completely accepted me. He accepted me resisting him. He never threw up his hands or told me he wouldn’t continue. He had the patience of a saint. He had the awareness of a mystic. That’s what truly he was. He was good and kind to all.

He knew he was fantastic at what he did, but ego wasn’t part of his persona. He had nothing to prove. He embodied his talent, his awareness, his generosity and compassion without any form of bragging. He was secure in who he was. Our relationship lasted several years. I’d run away for days or weeks or months at times and come back dragging my tail and he welcomed me joyously. Never a criticism.

I left him eventually to find someone who could help me make it in showbiz. However, we remained friends until he passed many years later. He was an incredible guide who helped so many. He helped me but I didn’t know it or appreciate it. Had I listened and followed his suggestions things may have been far easier and better for my career. BUT I wasn’t really ready. The student thinks so, but isn’t.

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What is a student? When is the student ready? A student becomes ready when the student is teachable. I was not teachable. I knew what I needed and was willing to do some of it but certainly not all of it. If there was any conflict with my ego, fears and worries, I’d resist, make excuses and blame but not do it. Or I might try it and decide it was too hard, beneath me or made me look foolish.

I’d say, ‘yes, but’ and ‘no, you don’t understand’ and then provide reasons why I couldn’t or wouldn’t. It is more accurate to say I would not than I could not. I could have but did not. And reasons for doing or not doing are meaningless are really nothing but excuses. Pay attention here because this is important. Reasons are only reasons. Excuses ARE excuses and nothing else!! They don’t matter.

You can use them to prevent yourself and attempt to get away with it, but they don’t add or change anything. They protect the ego as do blames and resentment of others. The questions one must ask oneself is ‘am I willing to learn?’ ‘Am I willing to be taught? ‘How teachable am I?’ Many people answer, ‘I am willing to learn anything’, but when the rubber hits the road, they aren’t. Are you?

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I wasn’t. How teachable are you? How willing are you to change? How willing are you to change what you think and what you are doing to think and do something new? Instead of being open and flexible in mind to take in NEW information and practices many people merely defend the old. That’s what I did. Instead of moving forward I defended what I already knew attempting to preserve ‘something.’

I had all the reasons and defenses why I could not or would not do or try something. If I didn’t think it would work or see the value in it, I wouldn’t allow it in. I discarded it before understanding it by experiencing it. Excuses prevent new opportunities from occurring. You only lose out if you are not willing to accept something new to try on. Like a new article of clothing, try it on to see if it fits.

Give it a good try and if it doesn’t add value to you then do something else. BUT be open and receptive to trying something unlike what you would normally do. It’s the only way to begin to get out of your comfort zone. That’s why for some positive growth experiences we say, ‘if you can’t, you must.’ Don’t let a thought or fear or worry or your past prevent you from doing good for yourself and others.

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Be open and available. Otherwise, you may have found the teacher and the master but if you don’t listen and do, hear and obey, try things on and experience the difference and get the feedback, you waste the teachers time. I learned later what an incredible opportunity I had and vowed never to abuse that time or the person willing to help me in that way again. I was closed but I opened.

You can too. Be willing to learn. be willing to change. Be willing to be teachable. Be willing to listen and absorb and follow the rules. Once you are good at the rules then experiment. Gain experience. BUT first know, in choosing a master or teacher or trainer it’s important that your interests are in the heart of the guide. Don’t go to someone whose interests are only your compliance. It must be heart.

It’s heart-centered care and compassion. It is not insisting you change for them. The person should be the kind of guide who helps you change for yourself and guides you to be the best YOU, you can be without wanting personal gain or to have power over you. You’re not their lackey. A true master is rare. As I discovered they can be terrifying to be around. Not because of them but because of me.

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I wasn’t ready to give up and adopt new ways of thinking and being. Being honest with oneself can save time. One might even call it a hack today. Eventually, I learned the lesson. I found others who would assist me and inspire and edify and uplift me. That doesn’t mean everything was easy or pleasant. Personal transformation as well as professional transformation comes at a cost. But later I was ready to pay for it and I am so glad I did. I learned opportunity is always there, but we might not notice or be ready for it. The best way is to practice flexibility and openness. More in my next blog. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Use It Or Lose It: My Money Manifesto # 19

“Use it or lose it” is a popular, perhaps overheard phrase. However, it is the truth. If you stop eating, you die. If you stop exercising your muscles atrophy. If the plant is not growing it is withering. The concept of Neuroplasticity is that your brain continues to grow, make new neural connections, and benefit you provided you use it properly. You must take care of yourself to continue to benefit.

The more you do, the more you become capable of doing. The more you learn about a subject the more knowledge you acquire. The more you practice a skill the better you get. Doing more of a good thing requires no sacrifice. All you end up doing is eliminating your limitations. Give up your excuses, reasons, complaints, whining and blames. Eliminate the negative and accentuate the positive.

Here’s a great quote from Charles Hannel that helps you better understand this concept and why you must daily do what you can to make all your moments magical, memorable, miraculous and magnificent. Live passionately, enthusiastically, optimistically and positively. The more you properly use it, the more you become who you want to be and do what’s necessary to have your desires.

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“This power is from within, but we cannot receive it unless we give it. Use is the condition upon which we hold this inheritance. We are each of us but the channel through which the Omnipotent power is being differentiated into form; unless we give, the channel is obstructed, and we can receive no more. This is true on every plane of existence and in every field of endeavor and all walks of life.

The more we give, the more we get. The athlete who wishes to get strong must make use of the strength he has, and the more he gives the more he will get. The financier who wishes to make money must make use of the money he has, for only by using it can he get more. The merchant who does not keep his goods going out will soon have none coming in; …

the corporation which fails to give efficient service will soon lack customers; the attorney who fails to get results will soon lack clients, and so it goes everywhere; power is contingent upon a proper use of the power already in our possession; what is true in every field of endeavor, every experience in life, is true of the power from which every other power known among men is begotten — spiritual power. Take away the spirit and what is left? Nothing.” Charles Haanel

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Practice. Rehearse. Utilize. Promote your skills, talents and abilities. The more you do the more you can do. Yes, use it or lose it. The more you use it the better you get. Perfect practice makes it permanent. Be consistent. Correct practice using spaced repetition, done consistently for long enough wires in the new thoughts, feelings, skills and behaviors. Want to improve? Take action to improve.

Want to wither? Do nothing. Get it. Use it. Do it. Get more. You become what you think about and focus on. Direct your attention and energy to creating the you, you want to be, to do what you want to do so you can have the things you desire. Use my book ‘Life On Your Terms’ as a guide. Use the Attitude Activator™ to get you going and keep you going. Make the most of your moments. Practice celebrating and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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If you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got AND doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result IS the definition of insanity. Stop the insanity!

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If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. The first and most important update is changing your attitude! Your attitude is comprised of your beliefs and expectations. It’s those thoughts you repeatedly think that keep you the same OR that move you forward to greater and more wonderful results.

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ATTITUDE IS THE NUMBER ONE PREDICTOR OF SUCCESS IN ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE!

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How To Supercharge Your Manifesting # 8

“Join with positive people and positive role models. Seek their company. Keep the company of those who are being and doing what you want. Seek those who’ve had a journey like yours. They started where you did. Why? Because they can be a better role model or mentor to you than someone whose background and start is vastly different from yours. Learn the ropes from them.

Seek good people. Seek positive, loving, kind, generous, compassionate, peaceful, helpful people of integrity not just rich, powerful or famous. Seek those whose lives are filled with love, joy and harmony. Seek those who serve and help uplift others, those who contribute to the world around them. Hang with those who walk their talk and are compassionate, generous, integrity filled people.

Those who don’t know and aren’t doing often have lots of advice. Love them but don’t allow yourself to be pulled down by negativity. Don’t resist it or them. Just let it go. Listen to the kind of people I’ve been describing. Listen to those who make money honestly and ethically but for whom money is not the most important thing in life. They enjoy it but they have higher principles.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Allow yourself to be inspired by the very best. Learn from the best. Model the best. Follow the examples of the best, the truest, the kindest, the most positive. Fill your time with high-quality, high-vibe people who uplift and edify you and others. Seek those who love, respect, honor all others. Emulate their love, peace and positivity. Practice what they preach. Give and assist others. Contribute. Enjoy the community and fellowship. Find those who can help gently stretch you beyond where you’d normally go. Lift up others and let others lift you up. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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“Rex’s background as change agent, actor, magician, mentalist, communicator, performer, and survivor, makes him well practiced in the art of knowing the inner landscape of the human mind. In this book, he hands you the keys to unlock the magical kingdom within you. Not only do you receive the keys, codes, and passwords, you also get the full behind-the-scenes tour to know how to use them. You can now take charge of your own thinking and enjoy the abundant riches you are uniquely qualified to produce as you live life on your own terms.” – Paul R. Scheele, Ph.D

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