“The first step to building a life you love is to master the mind, to decide with unwavering clarity on the reality you want to create. You don’t need to settle for what seems possible. Aim for what you desire most. Wallace Wattles put it powerfully: ‘think what you want to think regardless of appearances.’ This isn’t just wishful thinking; it’s deliberate, intentional focus. Decide and declare YOUR desired reality. Be clear and precise. Be the cause!

Be intentional about what you truly want. Don’t limit yourself to just what feels achievable. Ask yourself, ‘What do I truly desire in life?’ What do I love most?’ ‘What would bring me fulfillment, purpose, joy?’ Then, decide it’s yours. Don’t wait for permission or confirmation. Act as if you already possess it. If your dream is to become a millionaire, then think, feel, and behave as a millionaire would. How does a millionaire respond to setbacks?

They don’t waste time with doubts, they push forward, they focus, they see opportunity everywhere. They don’t worry about where the money will come from. They know they will have it when they need it. When you constantly think this way, your brain will begin to believe it, creating new neural pathways that align your thoughts, actions, and outcomes with this new identity. To behave in a new reality you must first conceive of it.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Pioneers, Edwin C. Barnes, the Wright brothers, Steve Jobs, Edison and Oprah Winfrey, embodied the strength to see past limitations, doubt, and outside perceptions, creating a lasting impact because they believed in their dreams beyond what circumstances suggested. They refused to let ‘reality’ as it was define their potential. They practiced and maintained what some call a “reality distortion field,” allowing them to persist toward their vision.

Life isn’t about reacting to every setback, every “fact,” or circumstance that pops up. Instead, start seeing these things as feedback. Reject limiting ‘facts’ as facts. They are just data points, showing you where to refocus, to adjust, and ultimately, to strengthen your inner power. Every challenge is a chance to pivot, to recalibrate your course back toward your goals. Reframe your reality because reality is what you make it. It’s the story you tell.

Think of Thomas Edison. He faced thousands of setbacks, yet each failure didn’t deter him but fueled him. Each so-called failure was simply feedback guiding him closer to success. When you see ‘failures’ as temporary redirects, you tap into an unstoppable mindset. He said he learned 10,000 ways not to make a light bulb and that was success. The story he told himself was one that kept him going when others may have quit. It’s important.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

When Edwin C. Barnes set out to work with Thomas Edison, he had no resources, no influence, and no credentials that would make him a viable business partner. He arrived at Edison’s lab with nothing but determination, willing to start as a janitor just to gain a foothold. Barnes wasn’t deterred by the mundane, starting as a lower-level worker rather than a partner. Working as a janitor he kept his purpose and mission alive.

His commitment to his vision, paired with the unwavering belief that he would one day work as Edison’s equal, kept him going. In time, Edison noticed Barnes’ dedication and gave him the chance to sell an invention, the Edison Dictating Machine, where Barnes excelled and eventually earned the partnership he had envisioned. He didn’t look at what wasn’t right, he kept looking at his vision, his purpose and remained passionate about it.

Orville and Wilbur Wright, the pioneers of modern aviation, faced constant criticism and were ridiculed for their ambition to create a flying machine. Many people of their time, including respected scientists, thought powered flight was impossible. However, the Wright brothers didn’t see limitations; they saw possibilities. Through repeated trials, errors, and learning from each failure, they refined their designs. No failure. Only feedback.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Despite setbacks and crashes, they stayed focused on their vision. They believed in their capacity to succeed even when others didn’t, ultimately making the first successful flight in 1903, transforming transportation as we know it. They experimented and continued to experiment when all they got in return was failure and criticism. They didn’t let circumstances, events, ‘failures’ or others prevent them from continuing on to success. Get this!

Your mind is your most powerful tool, and affirmations are the keys to programming it. Repeat your goals daily. Condition your subconscious with the truth you want to live. Visualization is equally powerful; see yourself living out your dreams, feel the emotions of achieving them, and train your subconscious to align with this vision. Use the Attitude Activator™ to positively and powerfully move forward. Keep a daily journal to reinforce this reality.

If your goal is health, love, or financial success, write it down, feel it, see it in your mind. Say, ‘I am healthy, I am loved, I am wealthy.’ Make this a ritual. Daily repetition builds resilience and aligns your actions with your desired outcome, turning fleeting thoughts into long-lasting beliefs that propel you forward. Better yet, learn to use my Directed Questions™ which makes it easier and more enjoyable. Most importantly, stick with it. Keep the faith.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Condition your mind for success and refuse to let disappointment or others stop you.  Steve Jobs, co-founder of Apple Inc., famously wielded what people called a “reality distortion field”, a unique ability to make the impossible feel achievable. He saw possibilities where others saw obstacles and inspired his team to reach for goals they initially thought unattainable. This mindset fueled groundbreaking inventions like the iPhone and Mac.

Those were often developed against significant technological and market odds. Jobs did not allow skepticism or initial failures to dissuade him from pushing boundaries. He continually redefined what was possible by staying true to his unique vision for Apple, changing the technology landscape. Notice a pattern among people who make things happen. They refuse to accept the ‘outer reality’ as the reality. They know it is an illusion. It’s a story.

The story you live by and tell yourself matters. The people I mentioned refused to let circumstance dictate their lives. Instead of being at the effect of ‘reality’ or the world, they chose to be the cause of their reality. From within to without they moved. You can too. Most let the outer world affect their inner thoughts and feelings and because of this they remain victims. Don’t be at the effect of the world. Be the cause of your happiness and success!

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Big results come from small, consistent actions. Start where you are and keep moving forward, even if it’s a single step at a time. Don’t wait for the perfect conditions or approval, create the momentum by acting in alignment with your goals. The world reflects what you believe and put your energy into. As your inner world changes, your outer reality will mirror that transformation. Affirm, visualize and take consistent action toward your vision.

Oprah Winfrey’s journey from hardship to global influence is a powerful example of transforming adversity into strength. Growing up, she faced poverty, abuse, and numerous other personal challenges. When she began her career, she encountered criticism and limitations set by societal expectations. However, Oprah refused to let these circumstances define her. She didn’t allow others to define her, she defined herself. She wrote her story. Get it.

Instead, she channeled her inner resilience and belief in her own worth, creating a highly successful career as a talk show host, media mogul, and philanthropist. Oprah famously referenced the idea of being the ‘captain of her soul,’ empowering herself to rise above limitations. Her commitment to personal growth and self-belief has made her one of the most influential people in media. Realize, please, it is from within to without and not the other way.

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

If you’re building a business and no one else sees the vision yet, don’t let that stop you. Keep taking action, showing up each day, focusing on growth, and believing in your mission. Every step builds momentum, and as you persist, people, opportunities, and resources that align with your vision will appear. That’s what each of the examples I shared did. They clarified what they wanted. They developed the certainty to get it. And they did.

These individuals exemplify the ability to redefine reality on their terms, disregarding the obstacles others accepted as facts. Barnes refused to settle, envisioning his success alongside Edison. The Wright brothers dismissed disbelief to soar above the earth. Jobs altered how we think of technology, while Oprah transformed her life story into a message of empowerment. Here’s the cool part. They are just like you and me. Get this!

They’re humans just like us. Still, each refused to let the circumstances of their world control their potential and instead embraced a resilient belief in their capacity to shape their destinies. If they can do this, so can you. You can unleash your inner power and create the life you want.  Are you ready to break free from old limits and claim the life you were born to live? Decide, right now, that you will create a life of purpose, joy, and abundance!

DEVELOP THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE, MINDSET AND BELIEFS TO TRANSFORM YOURSELF

Science teaches us for every cause creates an effect and for every effect there is a cause. The choice is yours. You can be the cause or you can be at the effect of the cause. If you let the outer world dictate your inner world. you will always affected by the cause. OR you can be the cause and create the effects you want. You can create the love, the life, the happiness, the health, wealth and success you want WHEN you are the cause. Get this!

Embrace the powerful tools of intentional thinking, proactive action, and the unwavering belief in yourself. Take inspiration from their stories. Make the decision to believe in yourself beyond your current circumstances. Define the future you want, visualize it daily, and take action to create it. Refuse to let the present dictate your potential. Don’t let some rain spoil a parade. Attitude is everything. Mindset matters. Learn to manage it and WOW yourself.

Dive into my programs designed to guide you through reprogramming your mind, tapping into your inner strength, and building a life that fulfills you deeply. Don’t wait for conditions to change; you are the change. Together, let’s start the journey of intention, courage, and joy. It’s time to be the master of your mind and creator of your dreams. Let’s make today the first day of your best life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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